#transgynophobia

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Both Transandrophobia And Transmisogyny Exist

also to add

Also Exorsexism And Intersexism Too

[radiyostatic]

as much as i just reblogged posts about transandrophobia i am BEGGING everyone who engages with this discourse to make more irl trans friends. pls go make friends with trans women and trans men and enbies and agenders and bigenders etc etc PLEASE. make friends who identify differently than you. make friends who identify the same as you but are from a different economic class. a lot of you are very chronically online and are hurting and dont know how to express it and i GET THAT I UNDERSTAND. but i promise you the easiest way to be normal about this stuff and also expand and improve your understanding of gender theory intersectionality etc etc is to make friends with trans people irl. you will find kinship and camaraderie and a shoulder to cry on and someone who understands you and you won't be less angry at how society treats you but you will be less angry at your trans siblings who are feeling the same way as you. ok? please go talk to other trans people. i love you.

[unboyfriendable]

any other fellow trans people(!!specifically!!) have a weird little moment sometimes when seeing someone's before and after transition photos like.... they looked more trans in the "before" photo?? it's so hard to explain. pretty sure it's mostly internalized transphobia causing this but the person just looks so much more like themself in the "after" that it's this weird dissonance. like the only reason i feel that way is because i've been conditioned to think that trans people look wrong or wonky in some way, and the leftovers of that harmful mindset make it so that i have to remind myself that people really are happier and more confident after transition.

i will be happier, too.

[terminated-baeddel9]

why cant i follow the transmisogyny tag?