#tucute safe

[lgbtqiatext]

[xqueerneurosisx]

Full offense, and sorry not sorry, but if a person tells you that they have an experience, and then they give you a name for their experience uh that’s all you fucking need*. Just call it what they named it.

You aren’t saving anyone or anything by trying to pick apart and redefine, or outright deny the existence of the name- you think you know something better about, for not your experience to begin with. In fact, that’s called gaslighting. You are gaslighting a random person based on your own ignorance. And yes, it is ignorant, because you didn’t fucking learn a damn thing about an experience- that again isn’t yours, if you didn’t fucking listen to the person who initially described it. Cut that toxic shit out!!

*Yes, I still do mean within safety/good faith reason.

[xenostims]

꒰ 🌊 ꒱ ↬ ❝ alchemical_gems ❞

[foxfairy06]

For all you tremendous transgenders

Or I could say transcendent transexuals

Either way have a great day💙💓🤍💓💙

[oreocookiezzz]

Bro, Transmeds and Truscum

I just don’t get it, What’s so hard?

If someone wants to be called He/Him just do it!

If someone wants to be called She/Her, just do it!

If someone wants to be called They/Them, just do it!

If someone wants to be called Ze/Zir, Just do it!

It’s not hard! If that’s what makes them feel comfortable and what they identify with, just respect it!

You don’t have to get it, just respect it because it makes them feel comfortable

It’s called not being a dick

The whole point of the trans movement is/should be

“You should respect people’s gender identity, because that’s the kind and polite thing to do, as it makes them feel comfortable”

Part of respecting for some people may involve access to surgery for some, but not everyone.

Just be kind and considerate,

who gives two shits if they’re a “trender” respect people’s gender identities

If people are transphobic, it’s because they’re transphobic assholes,

Stop buying their scapegoating tactics.

Stop believing them when they use Xeogenders and whatnot as scapegoats, aka blame them for their transphobia

You’re helping them by doing that, that’s what they want you to think.

Transphobes have no one to blame but themselves for their transphobia,

And transphobia is ONLY ever TRANSPHOBES’ faults

So don’t be like them, and be respectful and kind

It’s not hard

[mx-t4t0]

just a thought but why is it that lesbians who exclude lesboys are almost always cis lesbians? 👁👄👁

because like it's cute going "oh but why would a man identify as a lesbian anyways" but why not. are you a masc-enby? are you multigender? are you genderfluid? no, you're a cis woman.

why is it always cis people policing trans people's identities? we didn't ask your opinion 😶

[swordbeliever]

i want to make it clear btw i honest to god dont actually care that much about internet discourse. like yeah i definitely agree with certain points more but when i rb those things its mostly in good fun.

idgaf if someone uses weird pronouns and gender labels honestly!! its stupid to me and i dont get it and i’ll rb posts making jokes abt it but if someone irl tells me they use neos im just going to nod and move on, maybe ask if they have alt pronouns bc neos are hard for me to use.

i care far more about actual genuine action and activism and queer theory and i want this blog to primarily be focused on that. identity is complex and confusing and i dont really feel like its in my personal best interest to argue with randos online about whether their definition of an identity is the same as mine. theres more important issues at hand that id like to talk about so yeah.

idk i guess i’d still be considered by definition a transmed but im tired of people villainizing either side of that “debate” as if we’re not all going through the same shit at the hands of legislature and bigots. i shouldnt have to worry about being put in a blocklist because one time i said that trans people have dysphoria and didnt qualify that with every little detail of my viewpoint on what makes someone trans (which, btw, i feel like is a lot more than dysphoria but online discourse thrives on lack of nuance). i also dont think its fair to discount anyones view because they define transness broader than you do! just like. chill? idk.

[di-stri-is-a-tucute]

Reminder: transmedicalism isn't just trabsphobic, it's also racist!