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About/BYF under the cut!
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Hi! I'm Tato! I'm an artist!
I'm 22, and I'm a transxenmasc, kegrexenine, gendersatyret and fluidflux boygirl! I'm a xenogender bigender trans man for short :3 I'm a non-SAM pan gaybian, a turigirl, a sapphboy/lesboy, a sapphillean, and I'm ambiamorous, nebularomantic and aegosexual (possibly demi). Just queer is fine too 👍 Extersex, might have PMOS but I haven't been diagnosed so mark me down as questioning. I identify as all of my labels with an additional ✦, ⚔, 🜲 and ☆ suffix! You can use any terms for me so long as you mix it up a bit, I'm whatever gender is funnier for the bit. I'm technically the host/core of a quoigenic, possibly traumaendo, maybe protogenic, diversian proxy system, collectively we're the Amethyst Pavilion and we use either plural they/them or my own pronouns. It's ok if you refer to me in the singular though because I'm the only one who can front in here.
You can find the rest of my pronouns here on my pronoun page
Boybutch knight for my futch princess :)
mutuals can ask for my discord ✌️
I'm otherkin, my primary kintypes are alienkin, spacekin, dragonkin and fairykin! Friendly to all kins, linkers and the like <3 (even choicekin and other people who kin for fun, i'm an adult i do not care for KFF discourse. so long as you're nice to all kins too i don't care) I'm auDHD and physically disabled :^ I'm a radical inclusionist and non-traumagenic/endo friendly :] Chaos magic wizard also I support intersex, transneutral, multitransitional, afab transfem, amab transmasc, AGABpunk, ASABpunk, gender non-conforming (of any gender whatsoever), cistrans, and all other gender/sex variant people that don't fit into a box. I'm a sex and gender anarchist, I believe any form of assignment at birth is inherently harmful and sex and gender as constructs should both be opt-in and considered spectrums. I'm a transandrobro, your overwatch diversity tool ass understanding of gendered oppression bores me.
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My hyperfixations switch around a lot! Right now I'm reading the Silmarillion so I'm autisming about that :) Fëanor enjoyer but not a Fëanor apologist. your honor he did do all that. he did. something wrong with him.
I post about MCYT, as well as the Tolkien legendarium, and sometimes Star Wars!
I don't make sideblogs for any of my interests, if you follow me you're getting the undiluted stream of all my reblogs. Hope you like me babygirlifying fictional adult men you might not know because that's what you're gonna get :3
Hey! Send me blinkies and userboxes you think I might like!
this shouldn't have to be said but i consume media critically. i'm not. i'm not just fucking chowing down on things and adding all of it to my actual worldview. be sensible
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I have a linktree where you can find all of my socials! go follow me there too i post bangers :]
if you've got questions or if you just feel like saying hi or sending me pictures of cool bugs, my inbox is open! anon is even on if you're shy! hate will be ignored and blocked unless it's funny as shit or deeply perplexing
Check "#art" on my blog to see my drawings, and "#tato speaks" for my occasional rambles about topics and themes and things. i also have "#mutuals my beloveds" specifically for interacting with mutuals
I might forget to tag triggers so if you need me to tag something for you, don't be afraid to send an ask!
occasional sex jokes or suggestive art will be tagged #suggestive, nothing outright nsfw but if you don't wanna see those, block that tag!
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BYF:
If you don't understand something on my DNI it most likely doesn't apply to you <3 If you interact anyways because you "don't care about DNIs" or "DNIs don't work" I will just block you. I don't care. I'm busy playing with my touys. Argue with the wall.
General DNI: - Racists, antisemites, zionists, against the land back movement or generally anti-native, anti immigration, pro-assimilation, pro-borders, imperialists, ecofascists, redpill, blackpill, doomers - Queerphobes of any kind, exclusionists, separatists, TERFs and SWERFS, transandrophobes and transmisogynists, transmeds, against AGABpunk and multitransitional labels, intersexists, bioessentialists, TME-TMA language users, if you're the kind of person to push AGAB language onto others and/or appropriate and misuse other similar terms from intersex people. - Radqueers, transrace/transage/transdisabled whatever other transIDs of that nature, pro, neutral or complex-contact for zoos, necros, pedos, anti-recovery/anti-therapy for those paraphilias. This doesn't include harmless transIDs. If you identify as a cat or a plushie or something without being radqueer, that's perfectly fine. - Ableists, people who believe in "narcissistic abuse" or any other "cluster B abuse", physically abled people who try to reclaim "cripple", anyone who tries to reclaim the r-slur, fakeclaimers, anti-endo/non-traumagenic, against properly researched self-diagnosis, people who use the terms "neurospicy" or "empath" unironically, anyone who believes "empathy is what makes us human" or a necessary trait/skill to be a good person, autistics who call themselves "aspies" or differentiate themselves as having "asperger's". Asperger was a nazi, why would you give a nazi a place in your identity. - Anti-kin including anti-kin for fun/choicekin (im 22 i do not care about this), anti-ficto, against certain kintypes/theriotypes/etc, aggressive towards doubles and/or people who have the same f/o as you. People who are just non-sharing and/or uncomfortable with doubles are fine, it's okay to want to keep to yourself if you don't harass people. - Religious fundamentalists, proselytizers, anti-theists, anti-spiritualists. Atheists are fine, not people who feel self-righteous or superior about being hardline materialists. Religiousness and spirituality or lack therof are morally neutral, being a dick is not. - Pro ED/pro ANA, pro self-harm, anti-abortion, fatphobes - Centrists, right-wingers of any flavor, tankies. yes tankies. you are an elitist crossed with a history revisionist and i want nothing to do with you. - Incels and MRAs, self-described femcels, coquettes. being mean on the and therapy-averse on the internet is not a personality. - Cryptobros, NFTbros and AIbros - Proshippers/darkshippers/lolicons/shotacons/lolishos whatever else you want to call yourself, actually pro-harassment or pro-censorship (not the proship definition of censorship, i do mean Actual censorship), anti-depiction altogether. If my stance on shipping discourse (found below) pisses you off you should probably not interact. - Harry Potter fans, including marauders fans, even if you don't give her money directly. "Death of the author" doesn't mean what you think it means. Read another book.
For MCYT fans: I do not support cc!Dream, cc!George, cc!Sapnap, cc!Forever, cc!Wilbur or cc!Quackity - Stans and apologists DNI
For SW fans: Any flavor of Padawan x Master and clonecest shippers DNI
For LOTR, the Hobbit and Silmarillion fans: People who get mad about, or even just weirdly aggressive against queer readings and headcanons DNI. you don't even have to think that blorbo from your book is queer, you just need to be normal about the idea that they could be. it's free and easy!
I'm not super strict with this one but I would prefer people under 15 to tread lightly; you can interact and follow, but treat me like you'd treat any adult stranger. i've also had issues before with teen followers/mutuals idolizing me. uhm. dont do that??? that's weird. we don't know each other. don't be like that with strangers on the internet. i shouldn't have to be the one telling you this. No upper age limit though I don't care about that, love and light. The generational divide is a scam anyways.
I MIGHT REBLOG SFW FORCEMASC SOMETIMES. it's comforting to me but i know it could be distressing to some people so. ask your doctor if tato's forcemascposting is right for you i guess
I reclaim words like transandrobro, femboy, fag, dyke, tranny, and cripple, and I will not tag them. If you don't want to see those words, don't follow me. i don't like theyfab for myself but much love to people who reclaim it. we are siblings in arms 🤝 if you call me a "trans identified female", "tme" or a "theyfab" i'm projecting my period cramps on you I do Not care anymore there will also be NO syscourse on this blog. we are at least some flavor of traumaendo, pro-endo across the board in-system, and friends with plurals with all kinds of origins. who giv a shit. we dont.
My stance on shipping discourse: - Romanticizing/glorifying incest, pedophilia, and the sexualization of children is disgusting. - Depiction =/= romanticization. This goes for both being against depiction altogether and treating depictions as jerk-off material. - Fiction affects reality. - Tactful depiction is fine. RPF is also fine. Age gap relationships between adults (both real and fictional) are also fine. I don't care. - "Puriteen" is a deeply unserious word. Children and teenagers are allowed not to want porn of characters their age be normalized by grown ass adults. The ones in proshipping circles are at a risk of being groomed. - Harassment and censorship are both bigger issues than shipping discourse. Everything is a bigger issue than shipping discourse. - I don't care what xyz fans in xyz country on xyz website call my point of view. They're as shitty as the ones here. - Slashfic is not activism. Fandom is not activism. Sending death threats is not activism. - Proshipping is what you get when you hand a story to people who lack the media literacy needed to give a shit about them outside of the lens of shipping. It's very unserious. - If you're pushing 30 or older and still have a shipcourse blog maybe it's time to reevaluate. TL;DR:
In general I block liberally. You could pass my DNI but still fail the vibe check. Something something curating your online experience <3
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