#wolandsexual

[artsyaech]

final poll (poll 4)

autiace

dellosexual

placiosexual

hedonesexual

wolandsexual

aceish

apressexual

coeosexual

my identity is not listed (check polls 1, 2 and 3)

my identity is not on any of these polls :(

Voting ended onNov 26, 2023

[aspecpridecalendar]

Happy Pride to all wolandsexuals!

Wolandsexual - an identity where one's varying degree of sexual attration is due to their disability or chronic illness.

Related: wolandromantic, wolandplatonic

[gabbermutt]

ok so,,, i made these flags and since deleted the original post, and noticed that some people still use these flags and no one knows i made them! so here’s the official woland- flags repost

all terms coined by @anarchoenby77 in this post

Wolandsexual: “due to your disability and/or chronic illness, you feel varying degrees of sexual attraction simply due to pain and/or spoons.”

Wolandromantic: "due to your disability and/or chronic illness, you feel varying degrees of romantic attraction simply due to pain and/or spoons."

Wolandplatonic: "due to your disability/chronic illness, you seek out trusted platonic partners who will not be ableist and do not demand sexual and/or romantic commitment (although they may apply given pain and/or spoons).”

[themogaidragon]

Nopotasexual

PT: Nopotasexual /end PT

Nopotasexual/Nopo-Asexual/Nopo-Ace: a micro-label on the asexual spectrum defined as someone who has many allosexual qualities and feelings but a physical or mental incapability to perform sexual activities despite a desire to.

This may present itself in many forms. A nopotasexual person may have a strong desire to have a sexual relationship, have sexual fantasies and interest, have drive and arousal, and some may even have intercourse at one time or another, but they may not be able to experience any pleasure, feel physically repulsed or in pain, or feel that they simply cannot have sex even if they want to. Although this is more specific to incapability, these cons can make a nopotasexual person feel they will not have sex even if they someday can. A nopotasexual person can experience any form of romantic attraction entirely separate from their asexuality and also identify with other asexual labels.

Some examples may include:

A person with vaginismus or a similar dyspareunia who wants to pursue a sexual relationship but is too physically pained to do so.

A person with a mental condition that makes them feel scared of or repulsed by sex though at other times they desire it.

A person who tries to have intercourse or self acts but finds it does not physically please them or bring them any satisfaction.

A person who simply has a perceived incapability to have sex but is still sex-favorable.

This term can be very similar to terms like caedsexual, neuroasexual, and wolandsexual, and people who identify as those may also identify as nopotasexual. The difference, however, is that someone who is nopotasexual may not have a diagnosable or definable reason for their asexuality. They may have, for instance, trauma that hampered their ability to have sex but not know of this trauma. They may have a sex disorder but not a chronic illness. Some may not have a reason at all for not experiencing pleasure.

This term was coined on March 19th, 2021 by FANDOM user R0swell and the flags finished on March 24th, 2021 by the same user.

[genderstalgia]

seashells for @felisdae-n-honey ! 🐚

twotimic, magiboy, wolandsexual

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

is there a gender or sexuality regarding ptsd? or autism? or chronic pain, or physical disability? im dfab and feel masculine but not a man, and not a woman, but sometimes it fluctuates.

Caedogender/Caedgender: A gender which has been “cut away” by a traumatic event. A gender that was once felt but has been damaged or lost due to trauma.

Caed-/Caedo-: a feeling that one was previously able to experience a particular kind of attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma or other negative events.

Corugender/Flashgender: a gender identity that changes during and around flashbacks. For use by people with PTSD or other mental illnesses causing flashbacks only.

Magismetum-/Magis-: becoming more attracted when scared. Exclusive to those with anxiety/ptsd/a pd/any mental illness that causes extreme fear. A neurodivergent orientation.

Minusmetum-/Minus-: becoming less attracted when scared. Exclusive to those with anxiety/ptsd/a pd/any mental illness that causes extreme fear. A neurodivergent orientation.

Autigender: A gender which can only be understood in the context of being autistic.

Fascigender: A gender experience largely related to a special interest; for autistic folk.

Echo-: when you only feel attraction to people that you see as extensions of yourself/that you are an extension of them due to neurodivergence, namely difficulty in expressing empathy, or empathy deficits, such as in NPD/ASPD/Autism and extreme attachment and desire to be engulfed by a depended/favorite person, such as in BPD/DPD.

Algiagender: a gender which changes depending on your pain levels or type of pain being felt. Only for those with chronic pain.

Wolandgender: A gender which is experienced only as a response to chronic pain or disability, or a gender experience which is changed, heightened or suppressed due to the experience of chronic pain or disability (intended primarily for use by chronically ill or disabled candidates, but could of course be used by candidates temporarily finding their gender experience altered due to pain).

Woland-: due to your disability and/or chronic illness, you feel varying degrees of attraction simply due to pain and/or spoons.

As for your last one, perhaps something like Mascfluid or Mascflux?

[mogai-monsters-and-more]

NAME: Beach Ball

PALETTE: Wolandsexual

MONSTER: A friendly guy who likes to hang out at the beach! Invite him to play beach ball with you (though he might end up running off with the ball).

[transmxnfenris]

After reading a lot about self-objectification I am now a lot more certain as to the fact that that explains a LOT and am now certain that I don’t actually feel that much sexual attraction and how to define my sexual attraction - cos minute the self-objectification I feel a combination of: Demi, aego, and placio. (Which simply means I get sexual attraction after close bond is formed, but only the desire to act on them not receive... and also sex in 3rd person and fiction is v v good.) also woland cause I’m 100% asexual when fibro is being fibro

But I think trauma has made me more self objectification without wanting to be so is their a term for sexuality affected by trauma idk. I’m also totally repulsed by my self objectification and me being seen as sexual makes me feel sick.