Onegai Shimasu

Hikikomori.

[yandere-cerebrum]

Wait are you guys ACTUALLY stalking your darlings???? Like following them home and all that stuff??? Are you guys not joking??????

[tangled-sedum]

Oh? Don't the tags mostly say 'irl yandere'? Why are you so surprised...? Are you... Lost? It can depend on the Yan's accessibility to their Darling's location so don't worry. /genuine tone. We are not superhuman after all!

[tangled-sedum]

your theme ohmygoshhh its so cute !!

Your compliment is most appreciated ~ It's nothing much. You have a lovely blog as well!

[tangled-sedum]

HAII TY FOR THE FOLLOW!!:D

Hellooo!! You're most welcome~ Have a good one:)

[theyanoffice-deactivated2025082]

How to find fellow yans irl ?? no borax needed

Finding people in our community in real life is indeed an arduous task at times. We yanderes in nature are prone to mask ourselves to blend in as we all know there's judgement lurking everywhere, here's what we gathered :

The first and easiest way is to simply ask them. This is a blunt and straightforward approach, of course a lot of times someone in real life wouldn't be one and occasionally if it's truly a yandere who you're not close to; they will most likely deny that possibility. Not to mention, there are also yanderes who are in denial as well as those who are unaware of their own tendencies. Only ask those who you highly suspect that might be one and you're also close to said people in order for them to feel safe about coming out as their obsessive selves.

Yanderes are diverse and no one is the same but we have observed many traits that overlapped in the majority of yanderes, take this information as research as not every yandere will line up perfectly with our given information, but they can be major indicators that someone is one.

A lot of the time, what you can do is observe them — especially in their interests, yanderes most of the time tend to cater to more controversial and problematic media in general. As we yanderes are more often than not heavily mentally ill with many twisted views about life, they're more likely to be interested in darker themes and content. One thing you should also look out for is that yanderes are often big-time yandere media consumers as such content is relateable to them and a source of inspiration as well.

And if they do have a crush or a partner then watch how they treat them or even gush about them if available, occasionally talk to them (if it's a possible option) about that person and see how they bring them up, the way they talk about their darling can reveal a lot about their nature.

Most yanderes tend to be introverted as observed. They most likely tend to struggle with cluster B mental disorders but also many unrelated disorders along such as Depression and social anxiety, the yandere community highly include neurodivergent individuals in general.

Even the most unexpected people can turn out to be obsessive lovers as there are still the ones who refuse to face their tendencies or are completely oblivious to their nature, with those — the only way to find out is either they come to terms with that on their own or you have to closely stay by their side to see the mask crack. We hope you'll be able to find our people in the wild with our provided information.

Best of luck to you, dear client.

[yanderewardcentre]

The partner part is really accurate lol... I have people irl who notice my tendencies a little too easily and have labelled me as yandere, however its kind of embarrassing as I already have a cannibal rumor..

[tangled-sedum]

One of the best descriptors I've read so far.

[bloodsoaked-bride]

Here’s a reminder to be kind to yourself! Been awhile since I’ve posted one but know you aren’t alone in any of your pain and I’m always glad to listen if you need! You’re strong and deserve to feel loved and I hope if you’re alone you’ll find a wonderful beloved who cherishes and adores you asap!!!

[tangled-sedum]

This is so beautiful<3

[forsakenspectator]

Ask game questions time!

Symptoms, Acute, Emphysema, Anaesthesia

Symptoms

What signs do you see in yourself that tells you that you’ve grown obsessed over someone?

When I start having fantasies about them, particularly domestic ones where we are either married or engaged and living happily. The earliest signs however, are when I am constantly checking their posts, get paranoid they might block me for some reason, or sit around at the phone waiting for them to text me back.

Acute

Are you quick to fall into an obsession, and does it tend to last long or pass quickly?

Yes. So quickly. I could meet someone once and instantly fall for them. With these obsessions, it is very short-lived and I stop caring once we become closer. In other instances, I may be friends with someone or in the talking stage when I start to notice an attachment to them forming. With these attachments, they don’t usually go away. I still think about my old FPs to this day, because we had been friends first and I’d grown to truly enjoy having them in my life. The obsession itself has mellowed down but never fully went away.

Emphysema

Do you find it hard to speak to your darling?

If it is someone I find on the internet and want to start a conversation with, yes. I rarely send asks, and it is even rarer for me to send DMs. I get far too nervous. If they happen to approach me first, I will be nervous still but I won’t struggle as much.

Anaesthesia

Do you wish to hurt your darling in any way, do you feel joy seeing them in pain either mentally or physically?

Yes and no. I don’t wish to see them in serious agony, such as being severely ill or otherwise, but I do like inflicting pain on them in small amounts. This is usually only mentally. For one, I will do anything to make them stay with me. If I have to threaten them or my own life, I will. If they make me upset and I know it will bother them, I will refuse to speak with them for a certain amount of time. I do also on occasion abandon them occasionally so they can feel how I felt whenever I have been abandoned. I like being yan4yan, because I want them to be obsessed with me and suffer for it. Knowing someone is equally as obsessed as I am, willing to do anything if it meant I’d stay… I would love making them work for it.

[tangled-sedum]

Relatable piece

[red083749937]

how not to fall in love with you?

you hold my heart so tenderly, so closely to yours. i see you, going out of your comfort zone, growing, changing, for me. i see you, applying the art advice i shared with you, trying to mimic how i talk and how i love, being your most honest self when talking to me, because you want to become someone worthy of my love—yet you already know i love you whole and my sole purpose in life is to make you feel loved, to make you feel happy, to make you feel worth it.

i could do the most horrible things a person could do if you were to demand it. i would harass for you, i would kill for you, i would die for you.

but that's not what you want. you don't want to be loved in destruction. you want a friend, a lover, who creates for you. you want someone who is inspired by you, you want someone who starts their day with the will to see another one by your side, you want someone who will comfort you when you cry and who will seek comfort in you when they cry.

that is why, day after day, without ever missing one, i draw for you. you are my muse. my forever source of inspiration. i could never get tired of you, because i am entirely devoted to your person, my Angel.

and when i see the smile on your face when i show you my latest drawing, i fall in love all over again.

- 🍎🥧

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[tangled-sedum]

The most heartfelt I've read so far. Way to go, anon!! ♡´･ᴗ･`♡

[moefur]

its my first day on earth

[tangled-sedum]

Ahoy, new Earth dweller!/j

[needyenbyoverdose]

I hate being obsessive sometimes. I love you, but like I'm trying to study. Get the fuck out of my head for a moment? Pretty pretty please?

[tangled-sedum]

So real. Being a Yandere isn't so cool because you are not a fictional person huhu~ (╯︵╰,)

[obsessedtillidie]

Am I the only one who thinks love is the only genuine reason to live, and the only thing that truly makes us feel alive, that keeps us going, that lets us stay like kids and makes us care about the human soul? I mean, I could do drugs or drink alcohol just to feel alive for a moment, but honestly, being alone with your partner is the best feeling ever. Nothing can match that. It's the absolute peak of life.

[tangled-sedum]

You're not alone. Thanks for sharing your thoughts:)

[amorthany-geargrind]

Will most likely be deleting this blog shortly, as I've decided to leave obsessive posting and the constant melancholic ranting behind.

If you want to know my main and wish to follow me there instead, do leave a message!

Do be aware the following rant is in no way directed towards anyone or anything in particular, but is moreso a personal realization that bothers me when evaluating my own posts here.

I think, after a certain point, I've gotten aware of how unhealthy it is to not only be the way that I am when it comes to the thought of falling in love, but also how online I've been, how much time it's taken away. How I vent my emotions and issues so openly on this platform.

Yearning isn't bad to me, nor is being deeply in love with someone to the point it borders on obsession. But somehow I'm at a point where I feel like, is this all that's worth living for? To love someone? To keep working on being palatable so that one might be adored by people who may be interested one day, and drop you the next? I ask the question of, why should I not live for myself, live to improve the way I am instead of remaining stagnant in the lake of water like a bloated corpse? Am I drowning simply because I — either subconsciously or consciously — choose to remain so focused on love, obsession, the bad things of life that haunt me, that I forget to even think about working towards my own goals? That I sideline things that could potentially help me not focus on my misery and have a chance of making me healthier in order to engage in this, simply because I am not allowed nor afforded psychiatric help or therapy? (Not that I am in full support of certain aspects of the industry, but I have heard of good therapy benefitting others.)

While emotional outlet is a good thing, and while someone writing silly pieces on a blog might not necessarily mean they would act upon scenarios so intensely in real life, it leads me to wonder if I was a fool for starting this sort of online journal in the first place. Scratch that, I am quite an idiot entirely.

Not thinking about obsessive stuff is quite a help, and though I am usually sequestered in some prison of depression, anger, pain or the urge to jump off a cliff, I don't think everyone needs to know about it.

Maybe someday, I'll be strong enough to fight my battles on my own and process things healthier that I do now.

If you've read this far, thank you for being here. Thank you for being on this space with me, I've genuinely enjoyed the company of everyone I've met. I wish you good day, and hope I'll see you around some other time.

[tangled-sedum]

Have a wonderful journey in life!!

[tangled-sedum]

Mwah!!!

Thank you for always liking my posts….ahhh….

💖💖💖

THANK YOU FOR TUNING IN!! IT IS SUCH AN HONOR! 🥳🥳🥳 Xoxo!/p

[tangled-sedum]

Looking forward to communicating in Morse Code with my Darling because we can just BEEP BEEP BEEEP each other when we go nonverbal or something.

Like relax, boo. I gotcha. The communication continues. I will appear in Lorax costume to entertain you.

I speak for the trees and they say _.__ .._ ....

Also a fun thing like Communication Cards:

"Choose a card, my love. How are we feeling today?"

Or we can just Uno it out too

I'm cringe like this my bad

ORRRRR... Unless they wanna go big with the signs, we can probably do graffiti together somewhereee...

The kindest torture I could give to someone is blasting Toad Covers closely to their ear.

This is not a threat. Your eardrums will explode and that's more problematic than any cuffs could do (Considering the cuffs but eh there are other creative bindings I have in mind)

I mean, the Toad cover blasting to your eardrum would be the most tame punishment I could give. I do have another punishment in mind called 'Tree Tying'. I think it is funny. The procedure goes like this :3

1. Find a tree with rough bark. The tree diameter should be about 6 inches, but what works varies on the size of the person you are tree tying.

2. Place the person's right leg around the tree, ensuring the tree is in the crook of their knee.

3. Place the person's right foot in the crook of their left knee.

4. Ensure the person's left knee tightly holds their right foot by curling their left leg completely, and that their left leg is under their buttocks.

5. Push them to the ground so their buttocks is on top of their left leg

There you got a human koala! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Good angles, good pictures. CHEEESEE!! Say cheese, sweetie.

My usual psychological torture is escape rooms. I just have the urge to test my Darling's survival skills so bad. This is so bad I apologize hehe

I usually think "oh this is pretty tame" so I list down ideas that are probably high stress to normal people. I can decorate the entire setting like a funhouse so my Darling doesn't die during the game.

It is all well-meaning I swear~

I'm yet to experiment the funhouse, I still need to work on traveling more and garnering more skills and experience. That's a long way to go, sis. Lol

This brainstorming moment is so fun~

Super sorry for this brain scattered post!

I can't exactly extinguish(distinguish?) if these are extreme ideas or just really basic. My brain kinda just goes "oh cool! That's a lot of work though!"

[theyanderedrone]

in another reality the obslove tag is just people loving and appreciating open broadcast software

[tangled-sedum]

[luka6x]

today's fit while we were out stalking !!!

[tangled-sedum]

SLAAYYY!!

[imtotallynotobsessedwithyou]

Yall I came back from the doctor I have multiple tumours in my chest and neck,wish me luck I might get cancer ❤️

[tangled-sedum]

Manifesting for your recovery! Please take care!

[cythn]

My jealousy isnt exclusively your friends. I'm jealous of the people you look up to, jealous of the people you look at, jealous of the people you give compliments to, j ealous of your favorite celebrities, everything you fixate on, anything that breathes the same air as you, that walks the same ground as you, that share the same stuff as you. Anything.

[tangled-sedum]

Pretty much~