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very cool and awesome [read: sickening and fucked up] that so many disabled people are afraid to dress certain ways, go to certain places, or even share photos of themselves because us existing at all is so often approached the same way public indecent exposure and sex tapes/nudes are

#howling #the least you can do is never talk about your fucking [insert disability here] fetish where anyone in the entire world can see it.#and then go fall through ice! thanks. leave us all the fuck alone man. our bodies are not your fetish applies to disabled bodies too.#and the more you normalise/discuss it the more you enable and contribute to our abuse neglect rape AND the public perceptions that oh it #doesn't happen or oh we're too disabled to understand so it doesn't hurt us anyway or oh it's OUR fault. delete your dev/otee blog!#then jump on a landmine! don't reblog disabled peoples' personal photos i'm going to maim you

flowercrowncrip

“People won’t suggest you go without your wheelchair if you’re a full time wheelchair user”. Sometimes they don’t suggest, sometimes they’ll just take it.

I need people who think that I’m better off because nobody questions if I meet the eligibility criteria for a wheelchair to understand, and I mean really understand, how horrifying and traumatic it is to have your only source of mobility taken away by someone who wants to hurt you.

Once my ex took my wheelchair she took full control over my body. Where I went, what (if anything) I was allowed to wear, when I was allowed to go to the bathroom, when I was allowed to eat. It meant when she wanted to use my body for sexual gratification she could just do it. If she was angry and wanted to scare or hurt me, then I was a sitting duck.

Most of that time I was forced to wear nothing except a bra and boxers (she took my clothes and binders and I couldn’t get to them). I was trapped on a mattress on the floor because she took away the bed. Being raped became normal. Severe physical violence became normal. And because I had no one in my life to ask what was really normal, just my ex playing the worst mind games you can imagine while lying about my prescriptions and purposefully overmedicating me so I couldn’t trust my judgement about what was happening.

I’m not the only one who has experienced this.

#relevant to my previous post. people need to reframe their fucking psychology not only in their conversations but in their mind.#we exist. we lead lives. we are not a concept. we are not a theoretical ''gotcha'' nor a fun fantasy.#echo you are a wonderful person thank you for always being so open. i hope the information you share saves other disabled people and combats #false beliefs about all of us. people don't realise saying shit like what you quoted enables abusers.

wishing every disability fetishist a very Die

#howling #saw yet Another devo/tee blog in wheel/chair related tags. not a bot.#i firmly believe these people don't think whatsoever. they belief they're sexualising ampu/tees but all they care about is control and #humiliation. sorry you can't fetishise amp/utations and lim/b differences AND see disabled people as people. you see them as pornography.#you are ableist. i don't care about these people correcting their behaviour i just hope your hearts stop so fellow disabled people can be #safer. can be humanised. fetishists never even fucking care about what life is like Being disabled. they don't care about confronting the #thoughts and feelings of the people they're sexualising. they aren't even attracted to disabled people they're attracted to their own self #importance. their own dominance. they like an invented nonexistant version of disability and disabling circumstances that only resides in #their pathetic minds. no you do not have an amp/utee kink you're just a manipulative repulsive sex obsessed bad person who can't engage with #NORMAL FUCKING PEOPLE WHO EXIST normally. you think lim/b loss and differences are like ripping the legs off a barbie doll. you don't care #for the clinical procedures the follow up the aftercare the lifestyles the complications the psychological effects. you don't care about #pain and mobility issues and inaccessibility and lack of access. you don't care about falls. you don't care about ableism. you do not care #about disabled people. go fetishise actual dolls made for actual intercourse. everything one of those could give you is as deep as your #stupid ugly fetish goes. you don't want a person at all. and if you have access to disabled people i hope your brain lethally bleeds.#fuck off. delete your blog. close your porn tabs. engage critically with yourself. conceptualise amp/utees and people with lim/b differences #as people not sexual objects. maybe even talk to a disabled person one day after you receive intensive psychiatric deprogramming! go be #shocked someone with a feature you think you're uncontrollably aroused by has an interior world! and then throw yourself into traffic bye #whatever man.#still mad actually these people are always ohh they're so defenseless. they can never be normal. and that's ALL they CAN say because THEY #DON'T KNOW ENOUGH ABOUT DISABILITY TO FETISHISE IT. they aren't talking about self catheterisation they aren't talking about spasms or #nerve pain or assistive devices beyond ohh poor little cripple bound to these devices (only ever thinks about shitty hospital grade #equipment and never DME made for long term daily living that meets peoples' needs enough to not fucking kill them) never thinks about limb #sleeves and how often the remaining limb changes size significantly for many people or the basic fact there are numerous different kinds of #amp/utation procedures and muscle groups and other tissues and BONES deeply affected. never thinking about adaptive footware or AFOs or #correction for posture or sufficient support sleeping including items and aides used to assist the person in moving while sleeping to avoid #pressure sores that fucking kill them. shower chairs including extremely supportive roll in chairs that have more in common with high #support custom power chairs (and essentially ARE those without the battery often) than a bath stool. they never ever fetishise the actual #acts of caregiving and patient advocacy and waking hours. it's always aww my poor wittle dollie can't even run away. brother you aren't even #fetishising the actual disabilities can you fucking leave disabled people alone. you need a doctor. and a brick to the skull. if being #attracted to the REAL aspects of amp/utation doesn't appeal to you consider: YOU AREN'T ACTUALLY AROUSED BY IT. YOU WANT SOMETHING ELSE.

selkeie

i dunno guys i'm personally still not with it on the mpreg jokes. men can get pregnant, it isn't for comedy relief, let's move on

selkeie

like listen. i get that the societal expectation for people perceived as women to carry children is hot garbage and we want to retaliate against that. but could we consider that the answer isn't being violently weird about people who want to carry children, regardless of their gender. maybe even stop talking about pregnancy like it's some kind of punishment you have to protect women from and 'joke' about putting on men. that's an option

darkwood-sleddog

Urg. Trump admin reducing Grand Staircase Escalante and Bears Ears by 90%. We need land back so badly.

#my heart hurts thinking about what rape of our indigenous history this is #(we also need a short rope and a quick drop for certain. people….)#I hate this I hate it so much.#<- NDN endorsed.

krowtesque

some more twin peaks stuff because i’m still thinking about it

prints (1 & 2)

#twin peaks

theantlerjaw

Laura Palmer my beloved

#twin peaks

packpack-killkill

This young coyote was playing around in the dirt, digging and jumping around until he finally found the prize- a tissue or something 😂. It was almost dark, so a little challenging getting the shots. Los Angeles County, June 2026.

Coyote | Shannon Sommer

kaylmao

idk i would personally rather give up access to certain products seasonally or locally than have people enslaved to give me the ability to have any product any place any time. i think i can go without tomatoes in january.

asofteredge

hey everyone, just curious:

what is everyone's criteria for blocking people?

#i will block for anything. it would take too long to list.#insta block no holds barred: if you discuss transgender topics often but mention intersex people less than five times overall when i search #your blog. if you discuss racial injustice and politics and nothing pings when searching native/indigenous/#/aboriginal/NDN/first nations. who the fuck do you think is worth being equal to you if not us.

krabbages

This is the story of Mira, a dying kitten I rescued. I have started a GoFundMe to help pay for her medical bills as I am in a rough place financially. Her full story is posted on the GoFundMe.

Any support is appreciated, either through donations or shares 💖

Thank you for taking the time to read my little comic~ have a lovely day! ✨

Mira is a 14-week-old kitten who was rescued from a life of starvation and ce… Elizabeth DeLong needs your support for Help Mira the Kitten

whereisthelight

Richard Tepe (attributed). Vogels op een nest,1900 - 1930.

luxiomahariel

anyway. amab does not mean that someone has or has ever had a penis and testes.

afab does not mean that someone has or has ever had a vulva and a uterus.

stop using an event that happened at birth where doctors put a letter on a birth certificate as indicative of someones genitalia.

spiderbitesandvampirevenom

settlers are always so enthusiastic about ''foraging'' and then you'll start talking to them about indigenous horticulture & sustainable harvesting practices and they quickly reveal that they're more interested in the aesthetic of being a Crunchy Woodland Creature than like reducing their reliance on exploitative industrial agriculture or rebuilding their local foodshed

hell-on-sticks

the sheer amount of fandom, fanfic, and fictional character content in the d/Deaf and hard of hearing tags is staggering. You have to scroll for ages before you even start getting to the deaf cat, let alone actual d/Deaf and hard of hearing users and issues.

this isn't specific to d/Deaf or HoH spaces either, you can barely poke your head into any tag without hitting a wall of fiction. is it that hard to understand that if you believe the internet is a source of connection and sharing knowledge that it's bad to deliberately obstruct that?

Have some basic decency and keep fictional characters in their own tags. It's hard enough for disabled people to have any opportunity to talk about disability or connect with each other without the streams of information constantly contaminated with your favourite blorbos. Let us communicate and share things, for fuck's sakes, without finding ways to make it about fiction. Without finding ways to make it about what you like instead of what others in that space like and need. Sometimes disabled people... actually exist. And are more important than fiction.

#run into this constantly with wheelchairs and block everyone who bloats the tags.#i do the same with D/deaf and other disabilities as well but i'm in the wheelchair tag most frequently. fuck off.

citizenscreen

On March 27, 1973, Marlon Brando declined the Academy Award for Best Actor for his performance in THE GODFATHER. Native American actress Sacheen Littlefeather attended the ceremony in Brando’s place stating that the actor “very regretfully” could not accept the award, as he was protesting Hollywood’s portrayal of Native Americans in film. #OnThisDay #Oscars

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