We're thinking sunshine.

What the fuck Richard? My Instagram.

[wingkink]

btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here

[ansitru]

And for the lady, perhaps a fucking break? 💆‍♀️

[oated]

blue-haired liberal sounds like the name of a delicate endangered species of bird

[tazrin]

Honestly, im too tired for this

Its been a draining several months and im asking myself some questions

[haleyusesherwords]

On a scale of “designed an entire newspaper reporter NPC as our nemesis” to “never mentioned I wanted a horse”, how much did you talk to your DM about your character before starting the campaign?

Dead center of the scale is, of course, building a character that can only eat nobility in a campaign set in a rural Oregon town of 18,000 people

[tazrin]

It was a big thing for me to go out and socialise at the house of someone ive only met once around folks ive met at best a couple times

I was proud of myself for it despite the nerves and I think I did okay. Everyone seemed lovely

I just desperately wish it hadn't turned on the way back though. I know it was just a misunderstanding of where I was at but "I shouldn't have invited you" is absolutely crushing to say to someone who really struggles with getting themselves out and meeting new folks, and it wont stop spinning in my brain 😞

[necrotranscjk]

An important tweet

[sighinastorm]

This is such a "common sense" way of putting it. Everybody memorize this for spitting it back out whenever needed.

[skin-slave]

Never thought I'd have the opportunity to say this again: Reducing women and girls to their vaginas and then forcing them to show those vaginas to strangers is not a feminist ideal.

[wizard-loving-wizard]

every purpee citizen that meets darkness man:

[tazrin]

Glad the more I talk to other people about this, the less insane I feel

Seeing people's faces before I even ask if its valid to feel this way has been reassuring

[tazrin]

Not for nothing, but like if someone I loved had the worst mental health ive ever seen them have, I would like ask them how they were doing the day after? That just me or??

[sandersstudies]

Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.

[sandersstudies]

Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.

Humanizing: Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.

[queer-asinfuckyou]

Because I just saw a post bitching about this one, I want to add: this post is saying that you need to take accountability for the way you hurt other people, even if it happens because of a symptom of your disability/illness. It's also saying that using terms (especially acronyms) that aren't common knowledge isn't a helpful way to explain yourself. It is NOT saying that you need to let people walk all over you because "your disability isn't an excuse."

If you're diabetic, you don't have to eat the honey glazed ham that will send you into a coma (their example). But you also can't yell at the person offering it and accuse them of trying to kill you. You can just say "thanks, but my body can't handle that kind of sugar intake, so I'll pass"

[ayin-me-yesh]

If you run over someone's foot with your wheelchair you still apologise

[the-quasar-hero]

It’s extremely fucked up that some ppl try to make you feel stupid and immature for hoping for a better world. You say you want world peace and mfs think you need a pacifier; dawg, I just don’t want ppl dying from violence. This idea that ppl simply must die as casualties of war is misanthropic to say the least.

[tazrin]

"They should send a letter saying its coming up" ....I mean I agree but you can't say there are signs everywhere outside and all over social media?

"I dont go out and I dont use social media though 😠 "

Didn't they litterally come to your front door to tell you about it in person and ask you to vote?

"Well yeah but they never made it clear when and how to! 😠"

Did you try goggling it? Did you try asking someone? Or reading the material they brought to your house? Looking at news? anything?

No? Then honestly that kinda feels like that letter would end up being another thing you didnt read?

One time at work we were litterally giving out money because of an identified issue and all you had to do was follow a really simple process. We emailed them, we called them , we sent letters and held a mandatory webinar. Then I got an angry email from a lady who missed all the explained deadlines with the excuse "well i didnt know id be expected to pay attention and listen to the information"....

And they just feel very similar there vibes there

[boycritter]

"unbecoming" is such a great word. bro that shit was so rude you no longer Are

[yellow-cat]

abandon shame. theres more interesting emotions to be felt

[yellow-cat]

unless its getting you off. in that case keep going

[tazrin]

Folks said being an adult feels like cosplaying as a grown up sometimes

Here I am, nodding at a multiple grand quote for my house and nodding and smiling while talking financing options with a designer

Internally it feels illegal, like im getting away with something they dont know im not old enough for. I feel like a teenager lying hitting "yes im 18"

Im 31

[notgreatbob]

''i wasted those years'' who cares. you lived the only life you could've lived in those moments

[callmezeemonic]

You did the best you could with all you had and knew. That was then. Here is now

[castaras]

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