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crabussy

a gentle reminder

the-scungles-of-crungles

Idk

this is my favourite addition to this post by far everyone go home. this freak won the post

mousidy

Sick of the TME view of gender as a radical performance of nonconformity rather than the existence of nonconformity and gender being radical through external force declaring it such. Wanting to be taboo vs the natural state of existence being seen as taboo.

yes!!!! too many of them act like it's this game of fucking with the status quo and playing with taboo that trans women have some kind of advantage in, because to be hated more is to Win, and they are Losing because their expressions of gender are seen as more acceptable

mousidy

if the thing you want out of gender is to be perceived as transgressive, then it's in your interests to continue to construct shock and awe around transgressive expressions of gender

rocky horror and much of mainstream drag serve this function. they cultivate and reproduce a sense of shock around gender nonconformity, gamifying the transgression of the boundaries of gender performance. but in order for that game to be played at all, those boundaries need to remain so they can be continually transgressed. trans women who are harmed by these boundaries and who want to truly do away with them, then, represent a threat to the game

mousidy

I don't want to revel in the perpetual Challenging of the boundaries of gender performance

if I challenge the boundaries on purpose it's because I want them to go away... but more often than not I am challenging them incidentally, just by being myself. and in real life, which isn't a game or a stage performance, this has incredibly horrible consequences for myself and my sisters

if the boundaries are challenged enough that they go away, and thus no more games or performances can be constructed around Challenging them, then... fucking good!!!!!!!!

banquo-and-macbeth

new evidence just dropped, add it to the list...

crowlines

I'm on my way

charl0ttan

im so so good at charming people as a girl. like its so so stupidddddddd how easy i can win people overrrrr

cottoncandylesbo

the sad thing with chemical depression is that you can register intellectually that the world is beautiful, exciting, full of wonder and delight and mystery. but you want nothing of it. you want a dark box to shut yourself inside.

sanguine-squid

look at my biology headcanons boy

sanguine-squid

sick-ada

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gojinka

Happy Easter!

sajdd

they're inventing new ways to install ptsd in your brain

stillhereandstillqueer

Nonbinary people are so cool I wish our rights were taken seriously haha

stillhereandstillqueer

Genuinely though it is so frustrating that nonbinary rights and exorsexism are not treated seriously at all, even from within the queer community. It sucks that there's not even an option for an X gender marker in so many countries, including in more progressive queer-friendly ones. It sucks that if enben want to get gender affirming care that we're advised to lie about our gender (or lack thereof) in favour of a more binary trans identity lest we jump through a million extra hoops on top of the million already in place for binary trans people to prove we're serious in order to get the care we want/need. It sucks that in most cases we're still forced into some kind of binary and I wish that the issues we deal with were acknowledged more.

nyancrimew

(kojima voice) With Femtanyl and bestie Core Tenant

( @sajjji )

#wowg #femtanyl

ur-fav-in-the-saw-2-needle-pit

culd u pretty plz put token femtanyl in the needle pit!!!! tyank u:3 (art by me)

TOKEN FEMTANYL (done by silly-lil-scribbles) is in the saw 2 needle pit

somacruz

i keep seeing this cut off but the preceding “yessiree” is vital to it imo

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i had to transcribe it

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stillhereandstillqueer

Nonbinary people are so cool I wish our rights were taken seriously haha

stillhereandstillqueer

Genuinely though it is so frustrating that nonbinary rights and exorsexism are not treated seriously at all, even from within the queer community. It sucks that there's not even an option for an X gender marker in so many countries, including in more progressive queer-friendly ones. It sucks that if enben want to get gender affirming care that we're advised to lie about our gender (or lack thereof) in favour of a more binary trans identity lest we jump through a million extra hoops on top of the million already in place for binary trans people to prove we're serious in order to get the care we want/need. It sucks that in most cases we're still forced into some kind of binary and I wish that the issues we deal with were acknowledged more.

posthumousprincessparts

cuz it got wiped from the internet: transfems it's so cute to want to be cute. do what you think makes you cute, it's ok if you feel awkward that's cute too. you can be yourself, even if you don't think that's very cute, you will still be the worlds cutest girl. i love you

esthermika

one of the best parts of transitioning was been the freedom to be a little silly and cute. before, if i tried to act that way, i'd get hit with a wave of disgust and self-hatred so strong i'd get a pain attack. today, i was chatting with a coworker and made a pouty face without even thinking about it, and it was so natural. i feel like a human now, i don't have to remember what emotions i am feeling to express them, they just happen.

it's wonderful. it makes me smile, and thinking about it makes me giggle.