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all other braincells: you know what, now itâs zero
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one rational braincell: there can be more than one task done during the day
all other braincells: you know what, now itâs zero
Why is it so hard to let him go?
yall look at this shit ad*be is tryna pull now on ppl who have outdated software:
(note for context: iâm all for piracy, but in this case my copy of CS6 was downloaded years ago when they were giving it away to students. i got it totally legally.)
so here is what NOT to do if youâre a loyal fan of adobe who has the cash to shell out for a newer and shittier version of the product you already paid for.
1) DONâT use your search bar to find and open the Run app
2) DONâT type in services.msc
3) DONâT find Adobe Genuine Software Integrity Services and right-click to get a dropdown menu, and donât select âpropertiesâ
4) if you happen to click properties, DONâT use the startup type dropdown to locate the option to disable the program. be sure you DONâT click apply to finalize that change.Â
5) DO NOT do the same thing in order to also disable Adobe Genuine Software MonitorÂ
if you do all of these things, this WILL disable adobeâs ability to monitor the software, and you will be forced to continue using the same older software that you already paid for instead of having to sign up for a newer, shittier version and pay more for it. so if you have lots of cash to spare and are cool with putting it the pockets of racketeering capitalists, definitely donât do any of these things.Â
however, you SHOULD reblog this to spread the word, as we certainly want to make sure lots of people know what NOT to do :)
IâM SORRY MA'AM. I KNOW YOUâRE UPSET.
Pretend to be upset.
OP how could you
I hope none of my friends who use Adobe programs find this, follow your detailed instructions, and spread the word. That would be devastating!
Whoops đ
Dodged a bullet
I thought I could start interacting with him again. I was WRONG. Iâm glad I didnât text him.
Iâm falling down a depressive hole no matter how hard I try to avoid/ deny it.
I have so much emotion bottled up and I just want it out.
I had a fleeting thought of some form of self harm. I made no moves to do anything not would I.
A good cry would help.
Okay this loneliness is just fucking dumb.
âI wonât say it wasnât meant to be, because it was. We were. Only for a short while, maybe. But we were.â
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Please reblog if youâre a BDSM/kink blog that does NOT support or allow minors.
Everyone who reblogs will be added to the Safe Space Support List! :)
Deleted more of his pictures.
I donât know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet thereâs some. I just wanna tell yâall to be careful.
Abusive girls exist and what theyâre doing is seen as like âbadass tough donât take no shitâ but your girl should not hit you. Ever.
She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.
She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.
She shouldnât make you distance yourself from your friends or family.
She shouldnât scratch you or twist your arms.
She should not call you names.
She shouldnât tell you âsheâll kill herself if you break upâ
These are just a few examples of abuse and itâs just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows Iâve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldnât have to.
Never worry about not being in a relationship. If theyâre worth it, they wonât hurt you.
No one has the right to hurt you.
I wish someone had told me that these things are actually abuse. I would have been able to escape my ex so much sooner. Reblogging to help other people in similar situations
100% have had this ex. Abuse takes many forms.
Strong words to use on a Resume
If you have ever had to write a resume for work or for an application, then you know the hardest part is figuring out what type of words to use that sound professional and and intelligent.
Example: If an application asks you if you have any relevant experience for a job at a day care center and you have experience, like you have babysat children. You would look at the words in the columns to see what words you should use that will help your resume stand out. You might put down âHave supervised and attended to children on a regular basis.â
I hope this is helpful to you.
Now this is a great resume list of action words. Â I love that itâs broken down by types of jobs. Â Saving for future use.
BOOST.
Man... fuck him.
9.13.19 10:46p
Syntax matters.
âWould you get me a beer?â
is a world away from
âGet me a beer, please.â
The first is a request to which she might easily (and logically) reply, âno.â The second is a polite direction. The speaker assumes his request will be granted. It is easier for her to comply than to construct an argument or a valid reason for refusal.
Whatâs more, the first version causes her to doubt you. The man who says âWould you get me a beer?â isnât certain. Sheâll sense this, even if only on a subconscious level, and it will turn her off ever so slightly. Whereas âGet me a beer, please,â might rub her the wrong way at firstâhow presumptious of him!âit will also activate her internal drive to please, or at least her inner compulsion to avoid conflict. In the end, if you use the second way, you eliminate the need for her ever-spinning female brain to process your uncertainty. You make it easy for her to comply. You remove part of the decision-making process. In the long term, she will appreciate it. And youâll get your beer.
Yes to this, but also how you ask your man a question is just as important. âDo you want a beer?â is a simple question one could ask anyone, it shows little thought other than a basic need to hydrate, and is easily dismissed as common courtesy, whereas, âMay I get you one of your Reddâs Apple Ale?â for example shows that you are anticipating his personal needs and want to be of service.
@unrelenting-formalist is spot on. The âmay Iâ makes all the difference; it says, in effect, âmay I have permission to serve?â Good observation. đ
I will not feel bad any longer.
D/s Hierarchy
Weâve all seen some version of this. But hereâs how I write it, with the most important at the top:
submissive needs Dominant needs Dominant wants Dominant whims submissive wants
Submissives First In my mind, this is the only way it works. The submissiveâs needs have to be managed first. Without those met, the submissive cannot let go and submit. When submissives have to devote energy to managing their needs and their Dominantsâ needs and wants, itâs too much. Submissives have a tendency to put their Dominants first (and often, everyone else). So in the end, they suffer. They cannot do it all. And when they try, they wilt. Dominants must understand and work to fulfill their submissivesâ needs. Or the whole hierarchy falls apart.Â
But submissives have responsibilities here, too. First, they need to know what they need. Not want, but need. Second, they need to communicate about their needsâto help their Dominants check the gauges and rebalance when necessary. If you donât truly know what you need, you canât expect your partner to know.Â
âŠBut Dominants First, Too The other thing is that I donât think submissives should see their needs as coming first. In an ideal relationship, submissives put faith in their Dominants to care for their needs, and they focus on their Dominantsâ needs. If you canât let go of putting your needs first, then you arenât really giving up power. Communicate. Share your needs, and have meta discussions about them. Then let go. Trust. Lean in with your submission by putting your Dominantâs needs first. Focus on what they need. Let that guide you at all times. With submissive and Dominant both putting one anotherâs needs first, the dynamic flourishes. It deepens, and it takes you places you never knew existed.Â
Why Whims Why do Dominantsâ whims come before submissivesâ wants? Why are they on there at all? At least for me, explicitly putting my Dominantâs whims above my wants is a reminder of what it means to be owned. And I need to feel it sometimes. I need to know that my Dominant has no need to justify decisions. I plug my ass in the middle of the workday when told. I drop what Iâm doing to complete a task. I deny my orgasms at the last minute. That is what it means to be owned. No other reason required. I need to know that my needs come first, but I also need to know that my desires come last. Very, very last. This is what my slave heart needsânot just in theory, but I need to see it. Â
For me, this is the fundamental structure of a D/s relationship. Different relationships may structure it differently. M/s will likely be different from DDlg, and the hierarchy may shift as two people build their dynamic. But the hierarchy makes a big impact on the dynamic. Itâs not just the stated hierarchy; itâs the hierarchy reflected in your actions. How do your actions reflect your priorities? And does that create a dynamic where both partners can thrive?
Love/attraction is 100% the most fucking complicated emotion.
Why canât what we want always line up with our needs, and boundaries.