I Like Depressed Traumatized Men What Can I Say

Current Pronouns/Names. Ask me about my ocs ‼️ (you can also just ask if I have ocs in general if you don’t know me)

[the-name-is-loser]

Current Profile picture by  @/sangled and @/sangledhere on Picrew!

Feel free to follow me on Wattpad, @/Nonexistantloser. I attempt to write and I’m trying to get enough traffic to post my original work(s). You’re welcome to ask about any of my works or AU’s!

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Oh and also proshippers can fuck off. We don’t sexualize and romanticize pedophilia and incest around these parts. <3

Additional Accounts: @loser-writes (writing blog), Aikothewitch (ao3), @/TheNameIs_Loser (Twitter)

(Also Also: My switch friend code is SW-6225-8474-6511!)

[lesvegas]

you can only reblog this if you're not racist

[towerologia-sideblog]

huge coming from the site who is so against black art that 'tumblr users are afraid of rap' has been a meme for the best part of a decade. You know that yall are 4channers with pronouns right?

[lesvegas]

addendum: you can only reblog this if you're not racist part 2

[orchardsys]

We drew out some switches before, so I wanted to animate some! I haven’t animated in like over a year…

[isuggestforcemasc]

Trans boy of colour dont look at those European men for transition inspo trans boy of colour. Trans boy of colour please look at people of your ethnicity you need to Lock In and realize that the standards you’re setting yourself up for are rooted in white supremacy. Trans boy of colour a white European man is NOT the peak of masculinity

[comintoyoulive]

white ppl love saying they receive death threats when they are slightly criticized

[comintoyoulive]

and i absolutely hate how the conversation shifts when they say this like first off they are lying and second “no one deserves death threats” okay. lets focus on what YOU did

[anglaised]

they dont make album cover photo shoot art like this no more weve lost the ancient text

[sailor-crusader-deactivated2025]

If you're white and dating a racialized person you really gotta study up on racism and not make it their problem.

[jursapphic-park]

If you're white and have racialized friends you should do this too;.

[leftoverspacedust]

actually yeah representation IS that deep because i was just handing out stickers to kids and a little black girl who couldn't have been older than seven took a sticker of a girl with an afro and got really excited because "she looks just like me!!!"

[blackcharacterpolls]

White queers are very interesting to me, they cant engage with media made by people of color a lot of the time without some kind of tomfoolery. With Sinners there is 0 attachment to any of the other characters and the white villain is so hot and cool and must be queer, so they ship him with a young black man he's directly manipulating but solely because its him, not because they really truly like the ship they just want the white man. They look at characters and ship them because they're two white guys but you know for a fact they wouldn't be shipped if they were two men of color (especially Black) (oh oh unless their Asian because to white queers love to treat Asian people in a fetishizing way or the token poc or "your close enough to white imo so your fine")

White queer fandom will go out of their way to ship white and\or light skin characters with anyone else but their partner of color, they ignore and avoid ships of color or ships that include characters of color of all sexualities but claim they don't like "x ship" because its het when they treat queer characters of color in relationship just as bad and in my opinion, worse than het ships of color which are already hated and ignored by fandom. Men of color, women of color, queer people of color in ships?? Not on their watch! These can't be cute, they've got too much melanin!

They claim they cant relate to characters of color and ignore feminist and queer stories and experiences of people of color. They say black women in ships are "too good" for the men their with so they take the man and ship him with everyone else because shes "strong and independent on her own and he cant handle all that!" Black character has chemistry with white character? No they dont! Your just reading into it too much! They're boring together according to white fandom!

They must insert their view of white queerness into anything they don't feel they can connect with, thing is about culture? Being mixed? Generational trauma among families of color? Must be about white queerness in some way!

Its not even just white queers, straight white women in fandom do it just as much.

[blackcharacterpolls]

Another thing i want to mention is i only really see people outwardly shipping black or darker skinned characters with white characters when said character of color has sort of become centered around the white character, i.e Gewn x Miles, Ekko x Jinx, etc. I don't mind timebomb but Ekko's arc absolutely became all about her with no actual resolution to their conflict. Don't let this fool you though because even with this its rarely genuine and typically is only as popular because theres a white character is involved and the character of color in the relationship is still often treated like garbage (see "miles isnt spiderman", slurs being thrown at Ekko and his Va, people infantilzing Jinx and removing her agency in order to make Ekko seem like an aggressive scary black man, "miles would shoplift" "headcanons" and so on)

I also mentioned it above in the original post but don't even get me started on how white queer fandom treats black women. The amount of vitriol and hatred Mel received is some of the worst misogynoir ive ever seen in fandom and it was so bad her VOICE ACTRESS was genuinely shocked at how people were misinterpreting and reacting to her. Black women in fandom are usually always put into specific boxes

"He cant handle all that" - Seeks to say her character deserves better but is mainly used as a shield to appear supportive as usually she is never paid attention to again by most fandom and is thrown to the side while her partner or love interest is focused on, may often be seen as "getting in the way" of another ship, usually between two men, often both white. There is also a common pattern of invalidating her already established relationship or chemistry with another character who genuinely likes her but white fans can't stand it so pick at reasons as to why "this doesn't work" or some ridiculous reason as to why its a bad or gross ship, because a nonblack person could never love or be attracted to a black woman 😒

"Dehumanization centeral" - Deemed the worst person, usually subject to extreme mischaracterization, verbal brutalization, emotions are painted as annoying, unreasonable and too much, at times (yes this is a genuine pattern) is subject to comments of genuine torture or cannibaliaztion. Often can be seen as oversexual or subject masculinization. Viewed as "less pure" than white fem characters.

"The Black Friend" - Only there to provide as support, advice or be the token black woman of the group. Fans never expand on her character more than just being there for a white character. She is there too look cool in fanart standing next to her white peer, nothing else.

The Disposable Black Girlfriend - Yall know this one and it needs to burn in hell. Fits a lot with the he can't handle all that trope

There is probably more but this is all i could remember at the moment because its a longggg list of how white fandom treats characters of color and fans of color.

[coollasticdabetach]

I haven’t really seen anyone mention this on Tumblr but bro the whole thing with Cole ( colehairlesscat on TikTok/ a.k.a Nirami’s friend ) is something else

You got a Black man who says nigga once and all the white folks are like “😱😱😱😱 I thought you were wholesome!” but at the same time white folks love making jokes about saying n word and always try saying the n word, make it make sense

[coollasticdabetach]

I bet you this be the same people immediately forgiving white creators for being antiblack but then when Black people are just being themselves, all of a sudden it’s “😱😱😱😱😱😱 you can’t say that!” I’m not your fucking pet, don’t ever address me like that

[coollasticdabetach]

For more context on what happened, here’s his vid talking about it

[tangerinelabyrinth]

No one reps harder for platonic relationships in media than those who don't want to see people of color, especially black women, in happy relationships.

Specifically talking about interracial relationships in media, y'all don't care about platonic relationships until a person of color enters the show and has a chance to be with the white main character; then all of a sudden y'all become spokespeople for platonic relationships.

They do this within shows too, like with the disposable black love interest trope and the trope where they usually have a white man fall in love, flirt and sleep with a ton of women, but the second a black woman enters the picture as a new character, it is made very clear they will never have anything romantic happen between them.

I love platonic relationships, but some of you use them as an excuse because you don't want people of color to be with your favorite white character, and it shows.

[unthrifty--loveliness-deactivat]

Just so we’re clear, if I point out that you did something racist, that’s not the same as me thinking you’re irremediably terrible. You did a racist thing.

[unthrifty--loveliness-deactivat]

You think you don’t do racist things, homophobic things, etc? You do. I caught myself in fat phobic and homophobic lines of thinking/speech just this morning. I’m fucking gay married. Nothing disqualifies you from acting in a way that reflects the society you exist in. We are obliged to fight it. Why not fight it in honesty and with camaraderie?

[choke-on-glitter]

[blackcharacterpolls]

Question for my black peers only

How do you feel about Alastor from the dreaded Hazbin Hotel as a black character?

[evilkaito]

i dont think whites understand how being white makes literally everything easier.

it effects everything.

being trans is easier when youre white.

being gay is easier when youre white.

being disabled is easier when youre white.

being a woman is easier when youre white.

being autistic is easier when youre white.

oppression is eased when you are white, as you get extra privileges, and your whiteness is seen as a positive characteristic that in some ways counter-balances your other forms of being a minority. whiteness controls everything.

you are automatically way more innocent in your own oppression as a gay, trans, disabled person because of your whiteness.

never forget this.

[raccoon-piss]

three things:

1. it’s true

2. white people get pissed when i bring this up/wear this shirt

3. the comments to this thread melted my fucking eyeballs seriously why the fuck are y’all like this

[lady-hibiscus]

white people you don’t need to say you’re white when you reblog this btw. you don’t even need to mention it btw

[blackcharacterpolls]

Just like

A reminder due to that recent anon

If you see something concerning or whatever that i repost or interact with, please just give me a heads up instead of leading with rude or immediate accusatory behavior, i promise you if you think something is genuinely harmful that i interact with i probably either didn't see it or have no idea about it, if someone is racist, homophobic, misogynistic, creepy, etc, just tell me, don't be vague, dont lead with immediate accusation, dont "do you support-" like no, tell me normally and politely

This is not an invitation to complain about people you don't like just beacuse you personally dont like them, by the way, or any sort of accusation made in bad faith or thats fabricated, this is for people who are actually harmful or worth staying away from (i.e, isff and her circle, etc.) beacuse this site is full of them, however that does not mean i always am aware of that. And don't come on my anons like that i don't like that kind of stuff.

[i-draws-dinosaurs]

The beautiful and endangered Dumb Gulper Shark

[i-draws-dinosaurs]