how i manifested my dream life with extremely hard circumstances + how you can too ♡
!DISCLAIMER!: i don't own this success story and not this post, it's not mine it's blushydior's post that everyone been searching for, so i thought why not making it as a post since it might help everyone manifest their dream lives.
♡ table of contents:
1. the importance of making this post
2.my take on manifestation + the 3D
3. HOW I DID IT - my journey in 4 phases i went through that include my mindset changes up to the moment i got my desires
4. your new rules & routine from this moment on
5. a note from me!
6. frequently asked questions: separated into topics regarding the 3D, self concept + miscellaneous questions to have you leaving this post stress free.
now let’s get into it. read every bit of this post “ ~ ୨୧ ♡ ·
I. THE IMPORTANCE OF MAKING THIS POST
i’ve been through it all. you can read my experiences from old life in the “my life before” section of my success story + here, here, here and here. this is my success story on how the law of assumption has changed my life. as you can see from the “how” section of the post, i had purposely left it short, sweet and simple to avoid people complicating the simplicity of the law of assumption. but as time went on, anons and other blogs made me realize that since people do tend to over-complicate the law, the need i felt to make an in-depth post on how i personally manifested through my hard circumstances grew strong.
my blog often highlights topics that pertain to mental health, so i want to make sure those who find themselves in the same situations as i once were feel seen, heard and loved. you are all so powerful, amazing and hold so much potential more than you know. with this post, i hope i am able to help you realize that fact to the best of my abilities.
𝐈𝐈. MY TAKE ON MANIFESTATION + THE 3D
something that you’ll see me say all the time is: “life is a blank canvas.” that’s because it truly is.
remember that you are working with the law of assumption. what you assume to be true, is true. nothing is set in stone unless you say it is. things have meaning only if you assign it one.
you are the sole creator of your life. you are the artist that controls the brush/pen, you control what goes on and off of this very malleable canvas we call life. you don’t have to do anything. therefore,
you don’t have to: affirm 24/7, be specific, word your affirmations correctly, listen to subliminals, ignore the 3D, be positive all the time, meditate, have high vibrations, script, visualize, do sats or lullaby, go into the void, affirm in the present tense, avoid the mirror, etc.
you can literally say a random word like “bonk” and if saying it means you have all your desires or money is constantly filling your bank account, then that’s what will happen!
“but what if my subconscious doesn’t know what it means?” your subconscious mind is literally you. it’s not some stranger separate from you. if you want a scene to play out a certain way on a specific date or a romantic partner with all the most perfect qualities even if you can’t name it all at the top of your head, your subconscious has your back with the details! you have your own back. don’t worry.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO IGNORE THE 3D.
read that again and again and again and again and-if your circumstances are quite literally in your face, how can you turn the other way and ignore it? you could if you wanted but you’ll only be doing more harm and we don’t want that, right?
“so then what do i do?” you KNOW it’s going to change. it’s challenging when you don’t fully believe the law to know it’s going to change, so for a start, tell yourself that this is not the end. why? because the moment you had a desire and claimed it as yours, it has already been set stone in the 4D so the 3D has no choice but to reflect it. this is your movie, you KNOW this is not the end. you are director and star of this movie! you control how it’s going to play out.
𝐈𝐈𝐈. HOW I DID IT - The 4 Phases (more so, 3)
PHASE 1:
i found out about manifestation from tiktok. from there i have tried scripting, law of attraction and had taken a liking into the craft. i tried it all until i found out about the law of assumption, sammy ingram and finally, tumblr.
PHASE 2:
upon finding out about loassumption tumblr, i had learned more and more about the law but as time went on, i had realized i had never really fully tried to apply the law. the idea just didn’t come about to apply it. as many others, i had overconsumed information, always wondering if i was doing it right, questioning the 3D,
so i took a break. upon discharge, i realized many things and decided to spend an extended amount of time alone, away from social media. i’m someone who values alone time as long as if it’s spent wisely.
during this time away from tumblr and sns platforms in general, constantly surrounded by other people’s takes, information, and opinions, i had learned so much about the law of assumption on my own! i went into the law of assumption with a fresh mind, actually applying the knowledge and overtime of affirming and persisting, i ACTUALLY understood the meaning behind “creation is finished. it is done.”
i’m advising you to step away from social media (that on it’s own has negative impacts) and be alone with your thoughts. i know your thoughts haven’t had it’s time to be alone because you’re most likely constantly seeking information to help you. and i don’t blame you. it’s just that, you are always bombarded by thoughts that aren’t your own, you barely give some time to yourself to think for yourself!
and if you can’t help but be on tumblr for other reasons than loassumption, unfollow blogs for the time being, scroll past informational posts to avoid second guessing your application. tell yourself that
YOU ARE DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT!
PHASE 3:
when it was time to apply the law, i simplified it. you choose what you desire, you affirm from your desire and persist. okay! got it. so that’s what i did. i affirmed whenever i thought about my desire, i kept saying that it is done! so in phase 2, i mentioned how i realized how creation was ACTUALLY done, right? before deciding to apply the law, i kept seeing posts saying that but i didn’t really fully understand it until the realization hit me during my time away from social media. (see? i love alone time. solitude is my bff) — here’s my breakdown for you:
once you decide a desire is yours to claim, THE SECOND you affirm that, in your head, imagination, your 4D, it is ALREADY yours. therefore, it has no choice to become physical reality. (this is why your subconscious only needs to hear things once in order for it to conform!)
it will always be yours for as long as you sustain that assumption (persist), it is yours! no matter what.
this is the meaning of “it is done.” it’s like telling a chef what dish you want, once they know what you want, they’ve got you covered. except that this chef is you. you know the details of your desire, you declare it’s going to conform instantly so why are you worrying? there is no need to worry.
informational post on the 4D + 3D here:
❝ If you judge after appearances, you will continue to be enslaved by the evidence of your senses. To break this hypnotic spell of the senses you are told, "Go within and shut the door,” The door of the senses must be tightly shut before your new claim can be honored .Instead of fighting against the evidence of the senses you claim yourself to be that which you desire to be. As your attention is placed on this claim, the doors of the senses automatically close against your former master (that which you were conscious of being). As you become lost in the feeling of being (that which you are now claiming to be true of yourself) the doors of the senses once more open, revealing your world to be the perfect expression of that which you are conscious of being. ❞
i kept time away from social media and being persistent really helped me be aware of my thoughts.
persistence has helped me:
be aware of thoughts that i wouldn’t have been able to catch before. for example, i was declaring that i have all of my desires and creation was done, but i found myself affirming “okay but where is it?” — this made me realize i was questioning my desires in my 3D even though i knew it was done in the 4D. (you don’t have to do this, you can imply your 3D conforms fast with whatever affs)
flip and interrupt my intrusive thoughts faster and faster the more i persisted. i hated my intrusive thoughts so much. like it was so annoying and hurtful. it was filled with replaying past scenarios that happened to me, things i wished had played out differently, just people who absolutely did not deserve the right to be occupying my mind and space! so i was grateful to learn that with persistence, i started to have less and less of those.
(see!! mental diet, persistence!! <3 this is how habits form and strengthen duhh. remember not to abandon common sense for the law)
AND THEN, PHASE 4:
i had entered sabbath, the state of the wish fulfilled, calm and relaxation that my desire has already manifested and there wasn’t nothing left for me to do other than persist. after so much persisting and saturating my mind with my affirmations, i reached being peace with my desires. i’m really glad i persisted. see how after persistence of assumptions, though false, will harden into fact? see how even your affirmations would feel “fake” at first but will soon feel natural to you? this means that i wasn’t questioning where it was, how long it was taking, etc. but this doesn’t mean i was ignoring my 3D. i saw it all but i knew it was going to change BECAUSE i felt peace in my inevitable desires.
then, i received my desires.
❝ I couldn’t possibly be worried about anything if I really believe that imagining creates reality. ❞
❝ When I speak of feeling I do not mean emotion, but acceptance of the fact that the desire is fulfilled. Feeling grateful, fulfilled, or thankful, it is easy to say, “Thank You,” “Isn’t it wonderful!” or “It is finished.” When you get into the state of thankfulness, you can either awaken knowing it is done, or fall asleep in the feeling of the wish fulfilled. ❞
𝐈𝐕. YOUR NEW RULES & ROUTINE
☆┆YOUR 3 NEW RULES ARE:
1, you have all your desires:
i have all of my desires.
creation is finished. it is done.
2. you manifest quickly and easily:
manifesting is always so easy and instant for me.
i always manifest within 2 days or less, the 3D conforms instantly.
the 3D instantly reflect my 4D.
the physical reality instantly reflects my 4D/imaginative reality.
3. you are okay because nothing can stop you from getting the inevitable:
everything is going to be okay because creation is done.
i am always aware of my thoughts. nothing can stop/get in the way of my desires.
no amount of intrusive thoughts, events and opinions of others have the power to stop my manifestations.
✉️: choose one affirmation from each list or make one of your own that makes you feel comfortable.
☆┆ROUTINE:
affirm on loop as an act of saturating your mind whenever you think of your desire until you feel satisfied,
in the morning, after you wake up: saturate your mind with affs.
read the manifesting vaunt below everyday (whenever you feel like it) — read it over and over again until you feel confident then go about your day!!
at night, before you sleep, affirm this:
“i kept all my thoughts in check today. i didn’t waver once. my mind is completely saturated with the new story.”
optional tip: if you want to saturate your mind even more as a start, you can set reminders with sticky notes around your space, have affs on your phone lock screen or wear a bracelet.
✉️ NOTE: soon enough, your mind will be saturated and you won’t need to do this anymore. this is just a start for those who battle intrusive thoughts!
let yourself feel any emotions that may come up because of your hard circumstances then once it’s out of your system, affirm your rules, especially rule #3!
do not consume any loassumption information if you know it will only cause you to second guess your ability. if you have the urge to ask a blog a question, try to make sense of what they will say and answer it yourself.
in times of doubt, remember that life is a blank canvas. your desire is set in stone, so your only task is to persist.
REASSURANCE VAUNT
creation is ACTUALLY finished. it is done. the second i claimed my desires as mine, it has already manifested itself in the 4D so it has no choice to present itself in the 3D! all i have to do is affirm and persist. i always have unwavering faith in my manifesting abilities and the law. i never fail. i am successful at every single thing i do. manifesting is so effortless. no amount of doubt, worry, fear, anxiety, intrusive thoughts or events can ever, and i mean EVER stop my manifestations. why? because i said so. this is MY life. i make the rules. so if i say i manifest easily, the 3D conforms instantly and that i have all of my desires, then it is a FACT. i’m literally unstoppable. everything i want is inevitable. my only task is to persist, sit back and relax as the 3D reflects my 4D. it all happens so fast, but what else do you expect from a master manifester like me?
SOMETHING TO NOTE:
most of the time, people think affirming on loop is saying it like a robot but what you don’t realize is that you’re affirming as if you’re reading a book. it’s not filled with enthusiasm but it’s not exactly monotone either. stop overthinking it. it’s like the voice you’re reading this post with. correct?
again, soon enough, your affirmations will feel natural and you won’t feel the need to affirm constantly. the routine above was given for those who battle intrusive thoughts, making your affirmations dominate to the point where you don’t waver.
QUOTES on STATES:
❝ I paid thirty dollars for my first suit. Today a suit will cost me $200.00, but regardless of the cost, when the suit is new I am aware of it. But let me wear it long enough for it to feel natural and I will no longer be conscious of it. The same is true for a state. You may desire the state of fame. If you will think you are famous and remain conscious of the state long enough to make it natural, as the thoughts flow from you they become a natural part of your body of beliefs, and the world will proclaim your fame. ❞
❝ I urge you to use your own wonderful creative power and deliberately move into the state of your choice. Make it now by occupying the state long enough so that it feels natural. Haven’t you had a suit of clothes that felt so new you were conscious of them every moment? I know when I bought my first suit I walked down Fifth Avenue thinking everyone I passed knew my suit was new. People passing paid no attention to me, but I was so aware, so conscious of my new suit. That’s exactly that happens when you move into a new state. If the state of affluence is new, you think everyone knows it, but no one knows or cares whether you are rich or poor, so walk in the state until it becomes natural. The moment the feeling is natural, wealth is yours! ❞
𝐕. ENDING NOTE
i love you. read that again. you can do it. read that again. i am so so so so proud of you. read that again! you are so strong, you have SOO much potential and power. it’s time for you to tap into it, angel. stop making excuses. stop telling yourself you can’t do it. stop the nonsense! you’ve dealt with your hard circumstances long enough, it’s time for you to turn to the person who can make that change (you) and make it happen. i’m really sorry you have to go through what you did. you certainly do not deserve the unkind treatment. give yourself a hug and tell yourself that this. is. it. you’re going to make the change. you know it and i do too. it’s possible. nothing is impossible for the person who believes! keep the faith in yourself. nothing can stop you.
it’s like those movies where the mc finds out they hold so much power. they doubt it because of the life they’ve had so far but once they give it a shot, they become the most powerful hero ever. you are that hero!!!
i love you and i am, again, giving you the biggestttt hug ever.
now, with that being said, @blushydior will no longer be taking asks regarding this topic. i’ve cleared most of the questions that could ever arise. you don’t need my guidance anymore after this post! im seeing you off now. i love you. stay safe. know that you’re loved and hold the power to change your life.
— kisses from bambi ٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و ♡
ps. make sure you clicked the words that have links! <3 (the links are missing)
𝐕𝐈. FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Something you wish you could’ve told yourself before you manifested it all to make things easier for anyone struggling:
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
you guys are beating yourself up for something so simple. take a step back and realize that. you’re already dealing with such hard circumstances, so why are you literally degrading yourself for something so within your power and reach? tell yourself everything is going to be okay. you’re always doing your best. you deserve the WORLD.
I could write a whole novel, combine all the posts on tumblr teaching the law of assumption, and every helpful ask out there but at the end of the day, YOU are the only person who could change your life. YOU make the call. turn every doubtful question to a positive one, when in doubt, turn inwards toward the 4D and know that it is real. it is done the second you affirmed it so.
SPEND TIME ALONE.
i can NOT stress this enough. i didn’t include the details of my time alone in phase 2 for nothing. you’ll see that you can answer your own questions. you’ll catch the thoughts you missed because you have always been so adamant on getting answers to questions you already knew. take a deep breathe and stay firm.
SEE WHAT’LL HAPPEN IF YOU DON’T GIVE UP.
What did you affirm to get your dream life?
basically my affirmations i gave above and these. all i used were blanket affirmations.
What does persisting mean to you? What does persisting really feel like? Is it just like a mental diet? or what?
“persisting is sticking to what you want / the end no matter what you’re shown, told, and what you experience + picking yourself up after letting any negative emotions & thoughts pass by.” — blushydior from this ask here (sadly the link is missing:()
+ keeping your thoughts in line of the same category. to word this in a different way, i can affirm so many affirmations just as long as they mean the same thing to me!
“it also is a mental diet. we’re always persisting in something. it’s just a matter of what you’re persisting in. you either persist in your desire or negative/non-beneficial thought 24/7.”
“in your post about how you changed your life, you said you just affirmed and persisted. but from your other posts it seems like you read neville goddard books. so did you just affirm or did you do imaginal acts too? i get confused when people say “just affirm and persist” cause neville never said that.” (original ask here) (note from Eli: the link is missing).
“yes, i read his books and sometimes i would do imaginal acts but i would only do that bc it helped me get by my circumstances, yk? like if i was overwhelmed i would just daydream lol. its like how i read books to escape to another world. but i would say, affirming and persisting was what i focused more on.
i just used what worked for me and used his quotes as a reminder of the power of man. i didn’t want to bound myself to one’s teaching constantly worrying if im doing it “right” or not so instead, i went back to his quotes that consisted of telling me to persist, look inwards, finding confirmation in my imagination, etc whenever i needed a pick me up.
but correct me if i’m wrong, i’m pretty sure many of the success stories he shared consisted of people simply decreeing their desires and feeling the wish fulfilled simply by repetition and acceptance of their assumption.”
What is saturating your mind?
read about it here (the link is missing, but Basically it is repeating an affirmation every minute or hour until you feel fulfilled)
Do we have to believe our affirmations? Did you ever doubt the law in the process?
no, i did not believe my affirmations and YES of course i doubted the law but i kept persisting either way because what could i lose? and here i am.
Did you just affirm, persist, maintain a mental diet and that’s it? No SATS, going to the void, lullaby, repeating affirmations? Did you just got it sleep?
just affirming and persisting. sure, the occasional lullaby, i usually affirmed for 10 seconds max before i gave up. i couldn’t sleep without imagining some romantic scenario LOL #bambiexposed
How to deal with manipulation and narcissism?
remind yourself that you’re in advantage because you know about the law of assumption. life is a dream, you can literally have whatever you want just by affirming. if you know that, why allow yourself succumb to other people’s thoughts and beliefs? i couldn’t allow other people’s thoughts ruin my chance of living my dream life. the thought of it alone gave me the worst feeling.
How did you tackle the feelings of having no hope? + After being in the victim state for so long what did you do to get yourself out and actually stay out?
i persisted on loop whenever i doubted the law. i reminded myself that it doesn’t hurt to just be quiet, affirm and persist to live my dream life. just do it. you gain nothing from turning back to your old habits. see what’ll happen if you don’t give up. ❝ Do you always turn to your imagination and, no matter what happens, do you remain faithful to the state imagined? If you do, you have passed the test. But if every little rumor, doubt, or fear can move you around like a pawn on a chessboard, then you are not keeping the faith! ❞ ❝ Objects seem so independent of our perception of them that we incline to forget that they owe their origin to imagination.❞
What was the timeframe of when you got your desires?
about a week after deciding to be strict with self discipline, mind you, i was dealing with hard circumstances and intrusive thoughts for years. within this time span, i had entered sabbath so i immediately got my desires.
How did you kept a positive mindset when it looked like there was no movement?
refer back to phase 3
What was your affirming routine?
AT FIRST, when i started to get sick of overconsumption and not getting my desires, i knew my mind wasn’t saturated/my desires were not my dominant thoughts. so, i decided to be strict with myself. i reminded myself with pieces of paper in my room that said: ❝ PERSIST. new story only!❞ ❝ AFFIRM!❞
❝ 1.) the 3D conforms instantly.
2.) AFFIRM THE DESIRED
3.) BE LOT.❞
and taped them on the wall infront of my bed & one on my door so i can see it before i head out.
i didn’t need them anymore after a few days. (phase 3 & 4)
What did you do on all the days you woke up and things were still the same?
stop affirming that you don’t see results. i flipped the thought of “nothing’s changed.” to “i am in my desired reality, it is done.” and so on. be stern and remind yourself that you are in control. don’t fall prey to the 3D. turn inwards, find confirmation in the 4D. read quotes above.
How did you not react to the 3D?
i allowed myself to be angry. if i wanted to cry, i did. if i wanted to vent, i did. i ranted my feelings out in my head, aloud or in a journal then proceeded to go back to the new story after i cooled down.
But isn’t ranting “not letting the old story die out?”
you and i could rant until our minds are cleared, just as long as you flip my thoughts, you are on the right track. i ranted for 2% of my 24 hour days. the other 98% i was persisting in the fact that creation was done. as “time” went on, it began to feel more natural and i felt more at ease. i held onto that feeling because i knew this was when i would get my desires and i did. letting out and actually feeling your feelings is important. you’re not a robot.
Did you script how your life would be?
no.
(.𖥔 ݁ note from Eli: here's her post about her life before and After she changed it with LOA, anyway i wanted to make it in a post since the Google document can't let you make a copie of it and plus you can't take screenshots which René didn't allow)
🤍 Have you ever noticed how some people earn a certain kind of respect without saying much?
People trust them, take their words seriously, and even feel drawn to them. Not because they're mysterious or better than everyone else, but because they know what to share with others and what to keep to themselves.
Not everything needs to be said, explained, or made public. Some things become more valuable, more peaceful, and more powerful when they're kept private.
Let's talk about a few things that are better kept private... 👇🏻✨
🔐 KEEP IT PRIVATE
💫 1) Other People's Secrets
Other people's stories aren't yours to tell. If your friends or family trusted you with something personal, honor that trust. Don't become the storyteller of someone else's life.
💯 2) Family Problems
Not everyone needs to know what's happening inside your family. Some matters are private, and not everyone who listens is there to help—some are simply there for the story. Share these things only with people you genuinely trust or those who can offer guidance and support. Protecting your family's privacy is a sign of maturity and respect.
🤍 3) Your Deepest Insecurities
There's nothing wrong with being vulnerable, but not everyone deserves access to every part of you. Before opening up about your fears, insecurities, or weaknesses, ask yourself: Is this person truly trustworthy? If things changed between us tomorrow, would I still feel comfortable sharing this with them?
🌙 4) The Standards You've Lowered
You don't need to explain to everyone what you've tolerated, how many times you've settled for less than you deserved, or which boundaries you've allowed people to cross. Some people don't learn from your experiences—they use them as permission to treat you the same way.
Learn more @Spotlight_Journey
🛎 Question of the day:
Do you think privacy is a skill or a personality trait? 🤍
Not everything that feels like failure is actually failure.
Sometimes it's growth. Sometimes it's healing. And sometimes life is simply teaching you a lesson you'll need for the next chapter of your journey.
Want to know what they are? Let's dive in. ✨
🔄 1) Starting Over
Starting over can feel like failure because it seems like you've wasted time, energy, or effort. But choosing a new path isn't failure—it's courage. Sometimes growth begins the moment you're brave enough to start again.
🦋 2) Taking a Break
Resting doesn't mean you're lazy. You're not a machine that's supposed to run nonstop. Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause, recharge, and keep going with a clearer mind.
💎 3) Moving Slowly
In a world that glorifies speed, slow progress can feel like failure. But progress is still progress, no matter how small. What matters is that you keep moving forward.
💙 4) Choosing Yourself
Not going everywhere, not saying yes to everything, not following every trend, and not doing what everyone else is doing isn't failure.
It's called having healthy boundaries. Protecting your energy allows you to focus on what truly matters and what aligns with the life you want to build.
Babes. Pls. If you need encouragement. In 2024 my life fell apart. In 2025 I pulled myself out of it using Law of Assumption. I was literally broke, living in my families home, isolated, STRUGGLING. In April 2025 I decided NO MORE and locked in with my affirmations/mental diet/visualization for TWO DAYS, and randomly received a large inheritance. I was invited to a TikTok event so I just moved to LA I didn’t care. I escaped my abusive family. I brought my pet with me. I am now thriving, spoiling myself on Valentines day, living in a lovely 2 bedroom apartment in Hollywood with my pet. (SP is something I have still not fully ever manifested so I will have to do it and update you all about that.)
But babes I’m telling you. I was broke, angry, living in a horrible, abusive environment. LAW OF ASSUMPTION IS THE REASON I AM LIVING IN HOLLYWOOD WITH MY PET. AND SPOILING MYSELF WITH ENDLESS TREATS FOR VALENTINES DAY.
HERE IS MY ADVICE (what I did): Watch Sammy Ingram videos, listen to subliminals, look at success stories, affirm, mental diet, and visualize.
What did I do before that inheritance came in? I had Notes Desires by iwiigi playing from my laptop in my room 24/7, I started affirming my list manifested (bc I had a list), I was outside visualizing closing my eyes pretending I’m in my new apartment in a new city thriving, halfway through I decided to just manifest money so I could leave that environment faster, and within 2 days my mom texted me about an inheritance worth $20k+.
A big focus of mine was an apartment. I needed an apartment. And that’s what I have. It’s always working.
I should have kept affirming and manifesting more (which I do, but I mean manifesting the FULL list & dream life) but I keep settling which is something I’m working on, bc I deserve to have it ALL. I will prob have to make a new subliminal about “I deserve all of my desires and to be completely happy” and listen to it every night and revise my subliminal playlist for every night to target those specific things like discipline, self worth, feeling like I deserve it bc that is the root of if you will successfully manifest or not imo ONLY bc if u think u don’t deserve something u prob wont rly affirm for it as much.
My channel for anyone who needs trusted subliminals: (the only other one I use is iwiigi)
These are my subliminals that I upload for fun ☀️
My subliminals are all safe I’m a cancer moon so dw! ✨
I make my own subliminals bc I want
Jan 31, 2026 - law of assumption success. See more ideas about success stories, manifestation, affirmations.
🌱 The first step of a real glow-up is changing your mindset. When you learn to trust yourself, keep the promises you make to yourself, and recognize your own worth, everything slowly starts to change—from your habits and confidence to your entire lifestyle.
A real glow-up isn't just about looking better; it's about becoming the version of yourself you've always wanted to be. 🧚🏼♀️ ♡
The first step is learning to trust yourself again. As your relationship with yourself grows stronger, your confidence begins to grow from within. ✨
If you want to rebuild self-trust, follow these steps 👇🏻
🎀 1) Finish something you've been putting off
Complete a task, goal, or plan you've abandoned or kept postponing—even if it's something small. Every time you prove to yourself that you can follow through, your self-trust grows.
🌷 2) Speak up when you disagree
If you don't agree with something, you don't have to say "yes" just to keep others happy. Honoring your true feelings strengthens your confidence.
Remember, your opinion matters. Be on your own side!
💎 3) Keep one promise to yourself every day
Start small. Self-trust is built when your actions match your words.
💫 4) Stop seeking constant validation for your decisions
Trust your own judgment and intuition instead of always waiting for other people's approval. Remember to follow your heart, not the crowd.
🫵🏽 5) Don't ignore your needs just to please others
Your feelings, boundaries, and needs matter too. When you respect them, you remind yourself that you're someone you can rely on.
🦋 6) Celebrate your small wins
Notice every step forward and give yourself credit for it.
You deserve to be seen. 🦋
💭 Question of the day:
Which one do you struggle with the most?
1. Keeping promises to yourself
2. Saying no and expressing disagreement
3. Making decisions without other people's approval
You need to stop waiting for your desires to “appear”, they are already here!!!
The neurotic mind loves linear time, it tells you that your desire will come in the future, but there’s not a future, there’s not even a past, you only have the NOW, everything that is real happens in the eternal now. Don't assume something will happen tomorrow, experience your desire right now in your imagination. If you imagined it, it already happened.
Remember that the physical world is not an independent entity that goes against you, it is 100% a malleable mirror adapted to your mind. There’s no need to look for proof or signs when you already have what you want.
You are already who you want to be, remember that you only have the now. who are you being now? the person who has everything they want or the person who is still waiting and trying?
You need to stop waiting for your desires to “appear”, they are already here!!!
The neurotic mind loves linear time, it tells you that your desire will come in the future, but there’s not a future, there’s not even a past, you only have the NOW, everything that is real happens in the eternal now. Don't assume something will happen tomorrow, experience your desire right now in your imagination. If you imagined it, it already happened.
Remember that the physical world is not an independent entity that goes against you, it is 100% a malleable mirror adapted to your mind. There’s no need to look for proof or signs when you already have what you want.
You are already who you want to be, remember that you only have the now. who are you being now? the person who has everything they want or the person who is still waiting and trying?
Last month, I started using these subliminals and yesterday, my friend -who kept telling me that my eyes were brown and that I was "in denial"- told me that my eyes were greener and asked how my eyes could be green when everybody in my family has brown eyes ! I dont even listen to these subs often. I just play my subliminal playlist and tell myself my eyes are green when I am in front of my mirror, and that all the things I dont want are illusion and not reality; reality is what I choose.
Stop talking shit about yourself! You are the best, you are the price. You are literally the creator of your reality. I won't accept you saying that you “can't manifest, that you can't because the circumstances..bla bla” shut upppp omg it's literally impossible you cant not manifest/live your dream life because I repeat YOU ARE THE CREATOR. Stop searching for more posts, stop waiting for signs. They are no needed, methods are not needed. YOU are the answer for every doubt you have.
💬: 𝓗ere in this post I will explain a full guide of how loa works without silly methods or limiting beliefs. It's your choice to decide whether u like it or not.
𝓨ou don't have to follow what content creator says, specially in loablr where it depends in YOUR ASSUMPTIONS. YOUR assumptions are the LAW.
✶ 𝓦hat are the steps?
① What do you want? A car, a sp, a situation. Decided? Done. Pick whatever you want, being specific or not. the only condition is DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS. If for example you are manifesting marrying your sp; do not just settle with just dating them, okay?
② Decide you have it. How do I decide it? Just know it, it's that easy. This is something you cannot question, once you put the awareness (knowing) in something, that is happening. Nothing exists without your awareness.
✶ “oh 𝓑ut what about the 3d, doubts and circumstances?”
3d, doubts and circumstances are all imagination and are unreal. They are forms of YOU (consciousness) and of course they dont exist because the only real thing is your awareness, therefore doubts are JUST THOUGHTS, you are aware of them but you have the POWER of setting your awareness on then. Like shopping! You don't have to buy everything you see.
Wavering: this in loasscommunity means changing your assumption for what you want and what you don't want to manifest. This often happens to people who are insecure and they go "I have this.. Oh wait *checks the 3d* I don't" which is NONSENSE! The "3d" IS UNREAL because it only changes when YOU DO!
"forms of consciousness can exist but can never be real bc they are temporary ; your true nature: consciousness, is the only real thing bc it can never leave & bc consciousness is the source" - @/msperfect777
💬: I already have a post of my favorite posts about this so you can look at them if you want.
✶ 𝓜ethods only work if you assume they will
Scripting, robotic affirmations, subliminals they all work only if you have the ASSUMPTION they will. You have the free will of doing WHATEVER YOU WANT. You can create your own method, follow a challenge, etc, it's all up to you!
✶ 𝓗ow do I know this is real?
Your whole life is made through your assumption— it is how it is. AND..thats why there's a full Tumblr about it...also YOU DON'T NEED PROOF but there's still a bunch of successful stories of famous people, models, etc etc. IT IS A FACT IT IS REAL!
Make Your Mind & Body Move In Sync With Your Desires‼️
Most people think the fastest way to get what they want is by controlling thoughts. So they sit there correcting every sentence in their head, watching every mental reaction, trying to stay “positive” all the time. What they don’t notice is that while they’re busy fixing thoughts, their body is still tense, rushed, exhausted, or braced for impact. That mismatch is where delay happens. Not because they’re doing something wrong mentally, but because the body hasn’t caught up yet.
Fast results don’t come from mental intensity. They come from internal steadiness. When the body feels stable, the mind stops chasing control. That’s when things start lining up naturally without constant effort. You’re no longer fighting yourself from the inside, so there’s nothing slowing things down.
The mind is very easy to trick. You can tell yourself stories all day, repeat nice words, pretend you’re fine, pretend you’re confident, pretend you’re calm. The mind will go along with it for a while. It loves stories. It loves explanations. It loves running narratives. But the nervous system is not impressed by stories. It reacts to what’s actually happening inside your body. That’s why you can say “I’m okay” a hundred times and still feel tight in your chest, restless, exhausted, or on edge. The mind might be convinced. The body is not.
What most people don’t realize is that mental talk is cheap for the brain. You can repeat the same sentence without anything changing underneath. The mind treats words like noise after a point. But the body doesn’t respond to repetition. It responds to consistency. If your internal state keeps switching between calm talk and internal tension, the body trusts the tension every time. That’s why forcing thoughts never creates lasting shifts. You’re speaking one language with your mind and a completely different one with your body.
This gap between what you think and what your body feels is why people feel stuck even when they “know better.” Knowledge doesn’t calm the body. Explanation doesn’t calm the body. The body only relaxes when it senses stability over time. Once that happens, thoughts stop needing supervision.
This is where most people mess up manifestation without realizing it. They focus only on thoughts and ignore physical responses. They try to override everything with mental talk, while their body is still stuck in tension, alertness, or shutdown. The nervous system doesn’t care what you’re telling yourself mentally. It only responds to safety, consistency, and regulation. If your body is constantly stressed, hyper-alert, or overwhelmed, it doesn’t matter how many times you repeat a desire in your head. Your body is still operating from survival mode, not creation mode.
This is why some people manifest things quickly without even trying, while others struggle despite doing “everything right.” The difference isn’t discipline or effort. It’s internal state. When the body isn’t on guard, life flows faster.
When the body stays in that survival state, it narrows attention. Everything becomes about protection, scanning, and control. That’s why overthinking kicks in automatically. Overthinking isn’t a personality flaw. It’s the body trying to prevent harm by running endless mental loops. So trying to “stop overthinking” with logic alone never works. You have to calm the physical alarm first, or the mind will keep producing noise no matter what you tell it.
That’s also why distractions don’t work long-term. You can scroll, stay busy, or avoid thinking about things, but the moment you slow down, the noise comes back. The source was never the thoughts. It was the tension underneath.
Think about it this way: you can mentally say “everything is working out,” but if your shoulders are tight, your breath is shallow, your stomach is knotted, and you’re constantly checking for problems, your nervous system is reading danger. And whatever state your body is living in is what gets reinforced. Fast manifestation doesn’t come from convincing the mind alone. It comes from calming the body enough that it stops sending danger signals all day long.
This is why calm often brings results faster than excitement. Excitement can still carry tension. Calm doesn’t.
This is also why people burn out from manifestation techniques. They keep repeating thoughts while ignoring the internal strain. Over time, the body associates desires with pressure instead of ease. Then even thinking about what you want creates tension. That’s when people say manifestation feels exhausting or forced. It’s not the desire that’s the issue. It’s the body being dragged along without reassurance.
Once the body connects desire with ease instead of pressure, things stop feeling heavy. Wanting no longer feels like work.
This is why listening to your body is more important than listening to your thoughts. Thoughts lie. They exaggerate. They dramatize. They loop. The body tells you the truth. If your body feels heavy, frozen, rushed, or wired, that’s information. Not something to fight, not something to suppress, but something to respond to. When you address the body first, the mind naturally quiets down on its own. Not because you forced it, but because the source of the noise settled.
Ignoring physical cues only trains the body to shout louder. That’s why anxiety escalates when it’s dismissed. The body keeps increasing intensity until it gets attention. Once you start responding early-through slowing down, grounding, or rest-the signal doesn’t need to escalate. And when the signal lowers, the mind stops inventing worst-case stories to justify it.
For example, imagine someone trying to manifest a new relationship. Mentally, they keep saying they’re ready, confident, and detached. But every time they think about dating, their chest tightens and their stomach drops. That’s the nervous system saying, “This doesn’t feel safe yet.” Ignoring that and pushing more affirmations only creates inner conflict. But if they slow down, regulate their body, focus on grounding, rest, and stability, something shifts. Once the body feels safer, the desire stops feeling stressful and starts feeling normal. That’s when things move faster.
In that state, they’re no longer chasing reassurance. They’re no longer scanning for rejection. Their reactions soften without effort. And that change is visible to others, even if nothing is being said out loud. The shift didn’t come from better thoughts. It came from internal steadiness.
Another example is money. Someone might repeat abundance-related thoughts all day, but their body reacts with panic every time a bill shows up. The nervous system is stuck in threat mode. Instead of forcing new thoughts, the real shift happens when they work on calming their physical response to money situations. When the body no longer panics, the mind stops spiraling, and choices become clearer. That’s when outcomes start changing without effort.
In that calmer state, they stop making rushed decisions. They stop avoiding numbers. They stop attaching fear to every transaction. Nothing magical happened. The body simply stopped sounding the alarm, and the mind followed.
Another example is exams or interviews. Someone can repeat confidence-related thoughts, but if their body freezes every time they sit down to prepare or speak, the results stay inconsistent. Once they calm the physical response first, preparation becomes smoother and performance improves without forcing confidence.
Health-related desires work the same way. When someone obsesses mentally while their body stays tense, progress slows. When the body relaxes, sleep improves, appetite stabilizes, and things shift naturally without mental pressure.
Even social situations follow this pattern. When the body isn’t braced, conversations flow, presence increases, and connections happen easily without rehearsing lines in the head.
You don’t manifest faster by fighting your nervous system. You manifest faster by cooperating with it. The body needs reassurance through rest, consistency, breathing, boundaries, and safety. Once that’s in place, the mind naturally stops overthinking. Desires stop feeling urgent or heavy. They start feeling obvious, calm, and inevitable.
This is also why forcing motivation never works long-term. Motivation comes after safety, not before it. When the body feels settled, momentum shows up naturally. You don’t have to hype yourself. You don’t have to push. Things start moving because there’s no internal resistance slowing them down.
So yes, the mind can be fooled. You can lie to it, distract it, hype it up, shut it down. But the nervous system can’t be tricked. It tells you exactly where you are. When you learn to listen to it first, everything changes. Manifestation becomes smoother, faster, and way less exhausting. Not because you tried harder, but because your body finally stopped fighting what your mind kept demanding.
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