Vulpes vulpes

Hiya Boyo.

[splattergut]

[45teen]

[understands]

[skeezd]

[justlyrics]

[thedarklordoftheshire]

Have you ever woken up from a dream and felt like you'd lived a dozen lifetimes?

[burningmine-deactivated20230217]

Baker Lake Trail, November 2019

[ailin-star-wind]

[mybuckymybuddy-deactivated20200]

Sebastian Stan in ‘Captain America: The First Avenger’, (2011). Dir. Joe Johnston. Edit.

[thedarklordoftheshire]

Beautifulest man

[stability]

[cosmicbrowniebit]

[thisisradioactive]

When you make a reference and someone actually gets it

[wilwheaton]

“Always remember that to argue, and win, is to break down the reality of the person you are arguing against. It is painful to lose your reality, so be kind, even if you are right.”

— Haruki Murakami 

[ace-thinks]

If someone is coming out to you/telling you about their sexuality, match their energy.

If they’re not making it a big deal, you shouldn’t either.

If they’re really nervous or emotional, respond with compassion.

If they’re excited, be excited with them.

I’ve seen a lot of things that seem to imply that it’s always best to be really super amped about someone coming out, but that kind of energy can be embarrassing or uncomfortable if the person doesn’t feel the same way.

On the flip side, if you respond with indifference, you might think you’re being s good friend by not caring whether they’re gay or straight or whatevs, but that can be extremely invalidating if this is a monumental or exciting moment for the person.

Read the room, match the energy.

[kayas-wife]

Best supportive coming out advice I've ever read

[grendelmenz-deactivated20200929]

I have a really complex relationship with religion, but here’s something positive

[thedarklordoftheshire]

Beautiful.

[ahotpeaceofshit]

[catchymemes]

[thedarklordoftheshire]

Unf