i got tired of being unable to reblog from exclus

nonbinary dyke, 22, white, feel free to not interact/block if any of that makes u uncomfortable! (i will not be offended dw). unless i tag a post as discourse, inclus dni. this isnt rlly a discourse blog, sorry. !!!DNI!!! if you are a t*rf, n*zi, truscum, misogynist, lesbophobe/biphobe, racist, etc. i will just block u. i fucking forgot to say that if ur a fucking "m////ap" ("n0m///apps" included bitch) DO NOT INTERACT i will fucking 🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪 /// dont even look at me if u think misandry is real u r so annoying

[cuntarmand]

please, hurry, leave me, I can't breathe

please don't say you love me.

[trans-mouse]

yo whats up im a trans lesbian who’s broke and disabled and panicking about making rent this month while still being able to eat, if anybody can help out let me know, i will love you forever, my venmo is @notsoluckylydia and i love and appreciate everybody who can send even a dollar. I can absolutely do stuff in exchange, just hit me up and we can work something out

[headspace-hotel]

my package of dried mangoes assures me that they are made from “only the juiciest” mangoes, which is an interesting sentiment to me. “You would not BELIEVE how much water these bad boys had in them before we removed almost all of it.”

[cottageaesthetic]

[femmeidiot]

Non-binary lesbians are all so sexy thank you for your service.

[stimman3000]

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[magnumpicactus-deactivated20230]

somebody tell me wtf this is

[aaronbuzz]

@magnumpicactus the sand is on top of really hot coal and is pretty much boiling. The dude is dragging the pot of coffee on it to boil it. Its a traditional turkish way to make turkish coffee and its really good.

[mondengel-deactivated20231111]

i love seeing the amazingly unique, traditional ways different cultures have of achieving the same thing.

[bakwaaas]

rosy cheeks

[tiktoksthataregood-ish]

[guccixcucci]

I AM GETTING KICKED OUT IN 7 DAYS BY MY OWN MOTHER, organized by Krystal Rose

Hi my name is Krystal and honestly I never thought this day would come… Krystal Rose needs your support for I AM GETTING KICKED OUT IN 7 DAY

Share and donate pls

[killrockstar]

i really feel like this

[sorjuanas]

the ability to see other people's tags when they rb your posts in the activity center is the ultimate tumblr update. no more losing my dignity checking every single rb on my posts to see if they tagged it as something now it feels like i am an almighty god who sees everything. bc i am

[sorjuanas]

op mental breakdown moodboard

[divorcedwife]

widely detested female character my beloved

[nekrom0-deactivated20210627]

[kelvintimeline]

I’ve been thinking a lot about the trope of “Group of people become found family through a perilous journey, only to separate at the end” and how much that is born of western concepts of like.. the nuclear family? like it is such a straight concept, at least in its execution i have seen recently

because most often, these friendships are dropped (often completely, in ways they cannot be meaningfully continued) when one or more members of the groups finds a heterosexual romantic relationship and you so, SO often see that exact thing in real life

the heterosexual pairing means making your own (blood, nuclear) family which will always trump any other type of relationship. procreating and isolating the new family unit is more important than friendship or any other type of bonds and that’s such a hetero specific phenomenon?? so like i think beyond the basic disappointment of “these people who i thought were so important to each other bailed without a second though,” there’s also this added level of disappointment at the message being “oh but some bonds DO matter but only straight, romantic/sexual ones.”

a happy ending isn’t through living long with your friends AND having other relationships, it can ONLY be found their a heterosexual, likely procreative relationship.

and this is so much more obvious when the endgame het ship was like… not even a side story. a barely developed hetero relationship will represent happiness more than any potential friendship, even a lifelong one.

shits fucked, dudes

[kelvintimeline]

don’t tag this shit amatonormativity. amatonormativity is not real.

this is heteronormativity and specifically a white, western valuing of the nuclear family unit. the media i am criticizing would not include gay love or romance to even have a gay couple splinter off and fuck off from the friends.

gay love and gay sexuality is not prioritized or normalized over asexual, aromantic narratives or friendship, implying so with the word amatonormativity is straight up homophobic and inappropriate here.

the narratives i’m complaining about at least show friendship, they wouldn’t even dare show gay love.

so, again, this is heteronormativity *at the expense of friendships* and the implicit message of this post was that gay narratives would not do this because the idea of found family is much more important to us as an oppressed group who often feel closer to other LGBT people than our own blood families , even when we find our romantic partners. you making it about dumb ass ace/aro shit is detailing my post and isn’t welcome here.

amatonormativity as a concept is homophobic. knock it off.

[buddwyer]

[frodo-baggins]

i'm not crying i swear there's something in my eye

[toastbutteregg]

youre lying if you claim youve never done this