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20s but mid | horny dyke!! lover of loving!! drop dead silly!! gorgeous & insane! hehehe

[thedykelestat]

21+ minors dni etc etc if you suck or are an infant go away

formerly lovergirl-dyke!

pinned post permanently under construction but BEWARE: horny, gay, empty headed. Watch ouT!

[sizhens-deactivated20250415]

transfem t4t happens for any number of reasons not the least of which is that it's beautiful and wonderful and connecting, but the reality is that it also happens because quite frankly almost every transfem i know has had a horrific experience of a relationship with a tme transgender person who was viciously abusive and transmisogynist to them and happily and readily wielded transmisogyny as a weapon.

[sizhens-deactivated20250415]

I've already gotten so many responses to this post from transfems sharing their own experiences with this kind of violence. it breaks my heart. i wish this world could deserve us. i wish that none of us had to be hurt like this ever again. it breaks my heart and it fills me with anger. you all deserved so much better than you got. you deserved to be treated with love and dignity. by god, we must repair this world.

[sizhens-deactivated20250415]

I've already had one jackass comment about "not participating in tme/tma discourse" and basically calling me a bigot on this post, so let me just say: the reality is that this happens. i'm sorry if that fucking offends your sensibilities or makes your pick-me anxieties buzz or whatever the fuck but the reality is that this happens. and that there are real human costs to these kinds of power structures being allowed to infiltrate into interpersonal violence. and that transgender women are gender oppressed among gender oppressed and that we are frequently and casually subjected to gendered violence. including by loved ones, who choose to wield the gendered power they have over us as a weapon. and i'm sorry if that upsets you, Woman With A Trans Man Husband. but the reality is that even if you are so lucky as to have never been subjected to gendered violence by your husband, not all of us have had such luck in our own lives. And frankly I think if we were cisgender you would understand immediately the severity of the fucking gall to say "Fuck you for saying that Husbands Hurt Their Wives, I Have A Husband and he's never hurt me!" Like do you fucking hear yourself. People use gendered violence against us because it's easy, because they can get away with it; because it's powerful, and it affords material benefits to their lives; and because they do not view us as equals to them.

That we might all be so lucky as to have never had this experience but I think the evidence from the myriad of comments on this post alone speaks to the prevalence of this phenomenon.

My heart breaks for my sisters who are sequestered in prisons of one-bedroom apartments, trapped in abusive relationships with TME people who will knowingly and gleefully exploit their vulnerability and precarity for their personal benefit. they treat us like toys and use us in every way that matters and then when we have the audacity to request we be treated as humans they attempt social murder upon us, frequently to their success. So many of my sisters live silent lives where their sobs are never heard behind closed doors they will never leave from. And frankly I think if you have such a callous heart about their plight I think you have some fucking soul searching to do.

[wolfertinger666]

I used to roll my eyes at it but now, I kinda realized and understand why young gen z and gen alpha are getting into aesthetics from the early internet or y2k period. I totally get it now.

everything nowadays just looks so... minimalistic and corporate in the worst way possible, and these kids only caught a glimpse of what the world and trends were like back then. it was loud, out there, trashy, edgy and overall the purest form of self expression and creativity.

I understand why they love the stuff I grew up with.

[wolfertinger666]

seeing younger artists mimic late 2000s speed paints or teens and even young adults dress and evolve the hot topic esq style is honestly nice and understandable. it's like preserving an ancient language.

but on the other hand, I kinda see it as a rebellion against the world now, as everything genuinely feels like it panders to be advertiser friendly.

[wolfertinger666]

I hope these kids and young adults continue to do this. it was really cute watching them discover fruitger aero and similar aesthetics,,,

some things I do say about the early net and pop culture almost 20 years ago is surrounded by heavy rose tinted glasses, but I really wish I didn't take from granted how things nowadays feel so fucking manufactured and lab grown in a bad way.

I hope people continue to be inspired by art from their childhood or older peers. it's very heartwarming and a gem in this burning world.

[paraily]

”Stop romanticizing abuse!” Okay, first of all, I’m FETISHIZING it. Get it right.

[engulfes]

Growing up is actually all about realizing people don’t inherently dislike you and it’s a bit odd to assume they do

[existentialdruid]

This

[jelliebeanbitch]

there are more tweets in this thread

fucking SLAY

[darlington-v]

this isnt even the full thread, there are even MORE tweets to this thread that i think are really necessary to read if you do what op is talking about! it is not enough to know that feeling this way hurts the people you love, we already know that.

this rest of the thread continues after the third tweet from the reblog.

like THE FULL THREAD is genuinely so reassuring.

sometimes, it is not enough to just know, sometimes you might need that reassurance of "do you really think of me when i'm away?" and someone reassuring you that yeah, they do. and evaluate that! trust that! just like op did.

and then learning that ykw, it's NOT any of my business really. and finding comfort in that trust that like. whether they are or aren't thinking of me, they really do love me.

this full thread changed my life and i am ALWAYS going to give the full thread because the parts people cut out aren't enough for the people experiencing these things, speaking as someone who does. it, really it just makes us, made me, feel bad about my own capabilities when i saw the unfinished thread.

[depsidase]

[petermorwood]

More current version:

UK:

It could have been even worse, but this final stage was dropped:

And finally, Ireland.

[itsreallystupid]

@transit-fag

[queer-as-city-folk]

I really don't have much to add, but like cutting an essential service that people rely on to survive has been an incredibly stupid move both environmentally and societally. But of course that is what the Republicans and Tories wanted to happen because it benefits their donors in the oil and automotive lobbies

[illmissyoutiktok]

[upsettingandunfortunateclasshate]

This lad 👏

[steakgirl97]

[mattchew03]

Buttermilk the baby goat is kind of a dick.

[were--ralph]

managers FURIOUS i took off christmas week with PTO im LAUGHINGGGGG

[were--ralph]

"that is so unprofessional, taking off during the busiest time of the year. That is the reason why you are not being considered for a promotion anymore" good i'm CHILLINGGGGGG bitches catch me on the 28th with my ass tiddies and nails all done

[were--ralph]

leaving during the busiest time of the year with no regrets and a fat ass

[voltaspistol]

[emilyscully]

THE MATRIX (1999) dir. The Wachowski Sisters

[tuckrules]

always reblog trans Matrix

[prescription-cactus]

what is your eye color. what is your favorite color. what is the color that appears most frequently in your wardrobe. what color is your favorite blanket. what color is your water bottle.

[apas-95]

if you accept the premises 'men have power over women' and 'trans men are men', then the conclusions of transmisogyny are self-evident -- so transandrophobia-truthers are naturally split into the two camps, based on which premise they deny, of either the self-misgendering softboys or the trans MRAs.

both of these positions are straightforwardly harmful to trans men, but, importantly, they are more harmful to trans women, and develop the relative standing of trans men over trans women, even while degrading their objective standing. in essence, it's the same characteristic identified in patriarchal structure as a whole, of men willingly accepting the negatives of so-called 'toxic masculinity' in exchange for power over women.

[vague-humanoid]

[capricorn-0mnikorn]

Modern psychology has a word that is probably used more than any other word in psychology. It is the word maladjusted. It is the ring and cry of modern child psychology and certainly we all want to avoid the maladjusted life. We all want to live a well-adjusted life in order to avoid the neurotic and schizophrenic personalities. But I must honestly say there are some things in our nation and the world to which I am proud to be maladjusted and wish all men of goodwill would be maladjusted until the good society is realized. I never intend to adjust myself to segregation and discrimination. I never intend to become adjusted to a religious bigotry. I never intend to adjust myself to economic conditions that will take necessities from the many to give luxuries to the few, leaving millions of people smothering in an air-tight cage of poverty in the midst of an affluent society. I never intend to adjust myself to the madness of militarism and the self-defeating effects of physical violence.

Martin Luther King, Jr. -- From a speech at Southern Methodist University. 17 March, 1966

[soup-mother]

Cello is a tgirl coded instrument. I'd treat her right

[soup-mother]

if Cello could have an adams apple she would

[soup-mother]

you're literally feeling up her neck and she's making noises.

[soup-mother]

i really don't know how i can make it any more obvious

[soup-mother]

#tumblr user soup-mother do you want to fuck a cello#bc I kind of understand

yes i thought that was pretty clear

[soup-mother]

not seen as delicate like violins, not seen as big and powerful like a bass. beautiful voice that noone appreciates, instrument equivalent of a girl who's been hanging on to 13 years worth of desperately wishing someone saw her as a daughter.

you literally touch her neck and she makes cute noises. cello is tgirl coded

[junk-thunder]

you can hit it raw, i’ve got an IED

[sparrow-va]

you have a wha