WholeWorldGirl

Trans Woman, 19, attempts to be a little smart.

[rabbitkinglune777]

gonna be real asf and morbid here: currently in the USA from my perspective as a black American, in the south they are creating worse voting protection for black voters in Louisiana iirc (jim crow shit essentially) black girls (in the UK too) keep going missing, there is a black femicide. black teens and folks are being murdered and essentially lynched. and their deaths in vain and lost to time because our skin and features don't match the white American. things are scary here.

[rabbitkinglune777]

they wanna teach you that lynching is non-existent after it was outlawed but that's not true, black folks are still being murdered, our fatalities feeding the greedy American soil that has countless blood on it around the world. I'm scared.

[daughter-of-sapph0]

"actually men are just as oppressed by woman. we're treated exactly as equals. all men are oppressed by [made up word] which is a parallel to misogyny. every time theres a woman who fears for her life because she was raped, there is an equally oppressed man who feels a little bit bad because a woman was afraid of him.

and if you dont accept this delusion i believe in, i refuse to respect you as a person."

[thediscossessed]

Everyone say thank you black women

[noireservoir]

THANK YOU BLACK WOMEN

[3000s]

i am number one obesity fan

[3000s]

fatness will win

[3000s]

dont ever let this sick world try to steal your cute fatness from you

[theeththe]

I like the nonbinaries

[theeththe]

Trans men want to play with my toys, and they will cry when I say they aren’t their’s.

[ptsilencedhill]

This website harboring people into incest and rape and pedophilia etc etc etc is simply a fact of most websites and an unfortunate fact of life and it was something u had to adjust to especially as someone who really enjoyed dark fiction and horror and joined a lot of fanfic communities where i was thrust into the “anti-anti” discourse and all of that nonsense. I spent waaaaaaay too much time on here fighting and calling out people in my communities who were into that stuff and triggering myself to hell and back and I had to learn that literally there is not a single thing I, as an individual, can do about other people’s lives and I can’t “save” everyone because I wished someone would’ve saved me. You learn to live with it and focus on healing yourself instead of vengeance blah blah blah.

The shit that has been really pissing me off isn’t the existence of blogs dedicated to sister rape hentai, it’s the fact that they’re not viewed as fetish blogs but instead radical freedom of expression and absolute revolutionary praxis and daring to take issue or feel discomfort around someone who is incessantly posting about their rape kink is Fascist activity. It’s such a fucking brain dead stupid take to the point where it’s like almost insulting it’s literally a fucking cia psyop or something because it’s just such a stupid fucking “movement” like everyone all agreed for a while that the daddy dom epidemic on here and the “little space” blogs crying about their right to feminist self expression by posting about being dominated by an older man was corny and yet here we are. Like remember when Vaush (the obnoxious king of idiots who say some anti-capitalist “leftist” talking points into a camera and gain a huge following of people who feel “enlightened” by watching them) got himself into a discourse firestorm on YouTube because he kept defending jerking it to loli hentai as a leftist thing and the average rational human being took offense as being called a nazi for being uncomfortable with someone conflating porn to revolutionary Marxism … corny world we live in.

[theeththe]

You can’t say you’ve gotten over the existence of these blogs and then cry about it and how you wish you could focus on vengeance and how “unfortunate” it is that this exists. You clearly still harbor a significant amount of salt about it.

No shit they’re fetish blogs, but some people see being open about your fetish as pretty damn revolutionary and I don’t blame them when this is the type of argument made in response. Because all of your arguments rely on this appeal to “normality” which is a fucking farce. NO ONE IS NORMAL. Everyone has skeletons and weird shit in their closet. The sooner we get the fuck over it, the sooner we’ll stop having to deal with other people who can’t get over us.

People all have a different definitions of too far. Some people think rape kink is too far, some people think “sub/dom” is too far, some people think acknowledging any sexuality or even romance is too far. You can’t control the internet based on what makes you uncomfortable because I’m sure to plenty of people you make them uncomfortable.

We’ve all ACTUALLY agreed that it’s much easier to just move on with your day and remove this content from your dashboard through tags and account blocks than trying to “save” and purge these people from the internet.

Your discomfort is not inherently fair, get over yourself. (Also fuck Vaush.)

[ptsilencedhill]

why don’t you read posts slowly and actually understand what’s being said

[theeththe]

Oh I did hun. In fact I read the whole post instead of your little excerpt, are you proud?

[ptsilencedhill]

Okay you’re 19 so I don’t really want to be having this fight right now. We are going to fundamentally disagree on some things and I don’t really think this is worth either of our time. I took issue with your wording implying that I’m still “seeking vengeance” and trying to mass report and purge kink blogs when I wrote that I explicitly stopped doing that and that it’s useless. I also now realize that my wording of “saving” people could be read opposite of what I meant - I absolutely do not mean “saving” people from their vices like a Christian, my wording is just awful bc this was a stream-of-consciousness rant while I was laying in bed. I meant that I had this twisted belief that I could “save” future victims if I just removed and harassed and brought attention to every jojo artist who drew underage ships because I had wished that someone would’ve protected me from the groomers I encountered.

I fully agree with you that you can curate your own experience - I have a mile long filtered tags and words list for this reason! This post was primarily about the conflation of fetish blogs with leftist praxis but this discussion has been exhausting and I truly didn’t want my personal post reflecting on my experiences as a tumblr user since 2014 as well as my gripes about Posts I Don’t Like!! getting this much attention.

[theeththe]

You remind me of the worst people in my life.

[ptsilencedhill]

This website harboring people into incest and rape and pedophilia etc etc etc is simply a fact of most websites and an unfortunate fact of life and it was something u had to adjust to especially as someone who really enjoyed dark fiction and horror and joined a lot of fanfic communities where i was thrust into the “anti-anti” discourse and all of that nonsense. I spent waaaaaaay too much time on here fighting and calling out people in my communities who were into that stuff and triggering myself to hell and back and I had to learn that literally there is not a single thing I, as an individual, can do about other people’s lives and I can’t “save” everyone because I wished someone would’ve saved me. You learn to live with it and focus on healing yourself instead of vengeance blah blah blah.

The shit that has been really pissing me off isn’t the existence of blogs dedicated to sister rape hentai, it’s the fact that they’re not viewed as fetish blogs but instead radical freedom of expression and absolute revolutionary praxis and daring to take issue or feel discomfort around someone who is incessantly posting about their rape kink is Fascist activity. It’s such a fucking brain dead stupid take to the point where it’s like almost insulting it’s literally a fucking cia psyop or something because it’s just such a stupid fucking “movement” like everyone all agreed for a while that the daddy dom epidemic on here and the “little space” blogs crying about their right to feminist self expression by posting about being dominated by an older man was corny and yet here we are. Like remember when Vaush (the obnoxious king of idiots who say some anti-capitalist “leftist” talking points into a camera and gain a huge following of people who feel “enlightened” by watching them) got himself into a discourse firestorm on YouTube because he kept defending jerking it to loli hentai as a leftist thing and the average rational human being took offense as being called a nazi for being uncomfortable with someone conflating porn to revolutionary Marxism … corny world we live in.

[theeththe]

You can’t say you’ve gotten over the existence of these blogs and then cry about it and how you wish you could focus on vengeance and how “unfortunate” it is that this exists. You clearly still harbor a significant amount of salt about it.

No shit they’re fetish blogs, but some people see being open about your fetish as pretty damn revolutionary and I don’t blame them when this is the type of argument made in response. Because all of your arguments rely on this appeal to “normality” which is a fucking farce. NO ONE IS NORMAL. Everyone has skeletons and weird shit in their closet. The sooner we get the fuck over it, the sooner we’ll stop having to deal with other people who can’t get over us.

People all have a different definitions of too far. Some people think rape kink is too far, some people think “sub/dom” is too far, some people think acknowledging any sexuality or even romance is too far. You can’t control the internet based on what makes you uncomfortable because I’m sure to plenty of people you make them uncomfortable.

We’ve all ACTUALLY agreed that it’s much easier to just move on with your day and remove this content from your dashboard through tags and account blocks than trying to “save” and purge these people from the internet.

Your discomfort is not inherently fair, get over yourself. (Also fuck Vaush.)

[ptsilencedhill]

why don’t you read posts slowly and actually understand what’s being said

[theeththe]

Oh I did hun. In fact I read the whole post instead of your little excerpt, are you proud?

[everybody-loves-to-eat]

[ptsilencedhill]

This website harboring people into incest and rape and pedophilia etc etc etc is simply a fact of most websites and an unfortunate fact of life and it was something u had to adjust to especially as someone who really enjoyed dark fiction and horror and joined a lot of fanfic communities where i was thrust into the “anti-anti” discourse and all of that nonsense. I spent waaaaaaay too much time on here fighting and calling out people in my communities who were into that stuff and triggering myself to hell and back and I had to learn that literally there is not a single thing I, as an individual, can do about other people’s lives and I can’t “save” everyone because I wished someone would’ve saved me. You learn to live with it and focus on healing yourself instead of vengeance blah blah blah.

The shit that has been really pissing me off isn’t the existence of blogs dedicated to sister rape hentai, it’s the fact that they’re not viewed as fetish blogs but instead radical freedom of expression and absolute revolutionary praxis and daring to take issue or feel discomfort around someone who is incessantly posting about their rape kink is Fascist activity. It’s such a fucking brain dead stupid take to the point where it’s like almost insulting it’s literally a fucking cia psyop or something because it’s just such a stupid fucking “movement” like everyone all agreed for a while that the daddy dom epidemic on here and the “little space” blogs crying about their right to feminist self expression by posting about being dominated by an older man was corny and yet here we are. Like remember when Vaush (the obnoxious king of idiots who say some anti-capitalist “leftist” talking points into a camera and gain a huge following of people who feel “enlightened” by watching them) got himself into a discourse firestorm on YouTube because he kept defending jerking it to loli hentai as a leftist thing and the average rational human being took offense as being called a nazi for being uncomfortable with someone conflating porn to revolutionary Marxism … corny world we live in.

[theeththe]

You can’t say you’ve gotten over the existence of these blogs and then cry about it and how you wish you could focus on vengeance and how “unfortunate” it is that this exists. You clearly still harbor a significant amount of salt about it.

No shit they’re fetish blogs, but some people see being open about your fetish as pretty damn revolutionary and I don’t blame them when this is the type of argument made in response. Because all of your arguments rely on this appeal to “normality” which is a fucking farce. NO ONE IS NORMAL. Everyone has skeletons and weird shit in their closet. The sooner we get the fuck over it, the sooner we’ll stop having to deal with other people who can’t get over us.

People all have a different definitions of too far. Some people think rape kink is too far, some people think “sub/dom” is too far, some people think acknowledging any sexuality or even romance is too far. You can’t control the internet based on what makes you uncomfortable because I’m sure to plenty of people you make them uncomfortable.

We’ve all ACTUALLY agreed that it’s much easier to just move on with your day and remove this content from your dashboard through tags and account blocks than trying to “save” and purge these people from the internet.

Your discomfort is not inherently fair, get over yourself. (Also fuck Vaush.)

[plus-size-aesthetics]

[omegaversereloaded]

harassment of black cosplayers has always been bad, literally every black cosplayer has received a racist comment or two online and irl but how is it getting fucking worse. Racists need to be curbstomped

[omegaversereloaded]

And i dont just mean the white ones

[nyokoko]

When we as Black people discuss fandom racism it's not "fandom drama" because this shit is fucking serious.

[omegaversereloaded]

Black people are constantly being bullied and harassed out of hobbies and social spaces for no reason other than being black and it's so frequently dismissed because people don't take racism seriously for some reason. I guess it's just expected for black people to be treated like bottom of the barrel subhuman scum

[playwolves]

this is my wholesome and spiritually pure art of a fat person. dont interact with it if youre like sexually attracted to fat people or something thats fucking gross this isnt fetish art this is wholesome and spiritually pure and youre corrupting it by thinking shes hot because shes fat

[playwolves]

not that you cant think shes hot because shes fat, that would be fatphobic to say and problematic, you just cant think shes hot in specific gross ways that fat fetishists think fat women are hot, like, finding her body attractive or something

[orangeskiss]

they should invent an online ftm space that doesnt have this weird childish victim complex rivalry with transgender women

[orangeskiss]

this post has gotten a lot of attention and, unsurprisingly, its bringing in guys who are misinterpreting what i've said. i'm going to try and explain in a bit more specific detail. i'm not a political scientist nor am i particularly well spoken, so cut me some slack.

"why are you barging into trans men's spaces to bully them?"

i'm a trans man. i'm not anywhere i'm not already welcome.

"why are trans women allowed to have their own specific term for their oppression, but trans men aren't?"

in greater society, men are viewed as the default while women are viewed as the other. women are subjugated under a patriarchal society. this is the foundational concept of feminism, that women deserve equal treatment as men. society also views cis as the default and trans as the other.

trans women's experience differs from trans men in that they experience intersecting oppression, both as trans people and as women. the term "transmisogyny" was coined to describe exactly this.

trans men experience gender based oppression on the basis of being trans. the term to describe the oppression of trans men is transphobia. "transphobia toward trans men," if you want to really be specific. there is no way to create a word for that without directly implying cis men also face gender based oppression.

"i can't believe you'd say trans men aren't oppressed."

this is not what i said.

like i said, i'm a trans man. i grew up ostracized as a teenager for expressing gender in a way that wasn't "normal." i've had family members tell me, to my face, that they'd be happy if republican politicians stripped away my right to hormones and surgery. i've been denied jobs after telling hiring managers i am trans. i understand this intimately, i've dealt with it my entire life.

this is a semantics issue. guys are ascribing trans men's oppression to the term "transmisandry." and then, when people say transmisandry doesn't exist, that gets interpreted as "trans men do not face oppression" rather than the actual, intended point of "misandry does not exist because men are not oppressed on the basis of being men. therefore, trans men's oppression is based on being TRANS, not as men."

"trans men experience misogyny since they're afab. shouldn't they be allowed to use the term transmisogyny to describe that?"

trans men should be included in things like abortion rights and discussions of menstruation. we agree on that.

i'll try to draw a parallel. a common form of gay male homophobia is to say things like "anal sex is unnatural. men aren't supposed to have sex with each other because they both have penises." but some trans women have penises and have anal sex. should straight trans women be use the term homophobia to describe disdain towards the type of sex they have? the answer to that is: sort of.

misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, intersexism, and so on all exist in this big, ugly, interconnected ball. they all stem from the same idea: there is an ideal standard that all men and women should adhere to. any deviation from this norm should be met with social stigma and violence.

this is why the mainstream terf movement is closely tied pro-lifers and right wing pundits. when you define womanhood with a set of strict, natal rules, you also attract the type of asshole who is against women's liberation, against queer liberation, against intersex visibility.

anyways. another semantics issue. transmisogyny does not just means "transphobia + misogyny." it is specific to trans womanhood, which is why trans men should avoid using the term to describe their experiences.

"but cis men do experience gender based oppression! what about gender non-conforming men?"

see my above point regarding misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, and intersexism all being connected. if a man is experiencing oppression, its likely tied to one of these.

"you sound like a terf, op."

i am saying trans women experience misogyny because they are in the social class of women. this is the opposite of what terfs believe.

"we should kill op with hammers because he uses reddit."

yeah this ones fair actually

[ninthscircle]

[wolfertinger666]

redraw

(he/him)

[wolfertinger666]

he's a lil tubby now (smiles)

[wolfertinger666]

I'm glad this simple doodle highlights how much I improved with drawing grounded body types and I strive to get even better

[flanneldragon]

its crazy this all started because trans women came up with shorthand for the question "are you affected by transmisogyny" and the fact that your answer might be "no" drove people into a fucking frenzy

[theeththe]

🐌(only two other people get it)