The Heart's a Mess

"Don't forget how lucky we are to be alive. Take advantage of every day. There might not be a tomorrow." - John O'Callaghan

[latenights]

Marriage is such a goal for me. A healthy & loving marriage, with someone who is my best friend.

[wordsnquotes]

“The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation - or a relationship.”

— Deborah Tannen (via wordsnquotes)

[anxietyproblem]

[thekwikemart]

[turing-tested]

wish my brain was into kinky stuff like producing serotonin and dopamine

[dearsuggestions]

when i think about u, my heart goes “💭💕😚🌤🌿😍💖🌞🌷💞😌🌸💛🐣🎀😘💝💫🍯💓✨😚🍃🌟🌻🌈🌅🌹💌💯‼️‼️”

[odaro]

““Sometimes you meet someone, and it’s so clear that the two of you, on some level belong together. As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. You just work, whether you understand one another or you’re in love or you’re partners in crime. You meet these people throughout your life, out of nowhere, under the strangest circumstances, and they help you feel alive. I don’t know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, or sheer blind luck, but it definitely makes me believe in something.”

— Auliq Ice | @wnq-quotes  | @wnq-quoteoftheday | @wordsnquotes

[vanish]

[myblissfulsuicide]

I’m constantly torn between wanting to recover and wanting to be self-destructive in any way possible.

[numb-inthiskingdom]

Hahahahaha

[ashlee-curry]

[red-summer-dress]

I just want to do cute things w/ u like go to museums and fuck you senseless

[theheartsamess]

I’m so horny that I just want to cry 😩

[amarieeah]

[right]

*jokingly hits on you but means it 100%*

[paragoomba]

[12345qwerti]

interviewer: describe yourself in 4 words me: automatic, supersonic, hypnotic, funky-fresh interviewer: hired

[hundondestiny]

I really hate how “your partner shouldn’t be a psychic” has evolved into “you cannot expect your partner to be intuitive to your needs or wants at all” because that’s… quite frankly ugly and a really good way to make your relationship feel like a chore. 

I pay attention to the things my partners like and Store That™ in my little brainspace until it becomes useful. My bf likes tea. We were cleaning out an office full of stuff yesterday and they had some tea leftover they would’ve thrown out, so I took it home to him. Wow! He didn’t tell me he needed or wanted that, but he appreciated it because it’s something he likes.

Not everything has to be some grand gesture to show your s/o that you’re into them and you’re paying attention to them. I recall someone saying they wrote down things about their S/O and their interests so they could look back and remind themselves since their memory sucked. Things like that matter.

And I think it’s really cruel to tell people, and especially women who this type of shit is always put towards, that they aren’t allowed to want romance or spontaneity because it’s an “unreasonable” expectation. It really isn’t. Healthy communication does not inherently mean constant hand-holding.