Your tags are perfect, bya
I dislike the idea of her as a gentle and kind good mom, or a badass lioness, or a young woman trying her hardest to protect and raise her son
She's a awful mom and not even trying, but she IS the most complex person of KHR
She is obssessed with Sawada Iemitsu to the point of self-harming
She denies reality and lives in fantasy
She lost 16 years of her life with a criminal man that abandoned her with a baby alone in a big house in a small town without family or friends
She is barely sane and nearly to the point of a psycotic break
With goals totally different than Iemitsu and Vongola, but still awful.
Sawada Nana is not on Vongola's side, they don't care about her and hurt her and her son, but she's on Iemitsu's side and has her own goals and won’t defend Tsuna
She's annoying and fake-maternal and acts like a childish teen girl
She has abandonment issues and depression, she's frail mentally and physically and faints in the manga and is powerless
Yet I think Tsuna should abandon her
She wants Tsuna to stay forever with her in the Household/Namimori so they can wait for Iemitsu to come home and play happy family.
Sawada Nana is part of the cage and clingly to him and refuse to let him leave for a better life.
Nobody cares if she suffers because of Iemitsu or if she loses her son...
I don't want her to suffer because of Iemitsu, but I don't her to be happily in her fantasy while Tsuna suffers.
She should suffer by begin called out and forced to face reality and lose her son? Maybe
Any 'healing' for her involves suffering and begin forced to confront reality with medical help and having her child taken from her. Not keeping her in the dark and playing house.
"Nana deserves better" but she doesn’t WANTS better, she wants her darling Iemitsu-kun home
Sawada Nana is such a underrated grey character