Theo

Artist cosplayer Host: theo and Fang He/They

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One of my favorite things at work (I work in a school like setting, normally with elementary or prek aged kids) is when we are doing crafts and a kid yells "thIs GlUe iS EmPtY!" And I get to, without even looking over say, "no, you just need to open it."

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Hi, long time no see, but we're back baby! Hoping to post more cosplay, drag, small business, system, and life updates!

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Story time

So I’m a practicing wiccan. And when I started my craft I was very strongly connected to Artemis. I constantly wore jewelry that reminded me of her and she sent me signs nightly. I’d always include her in my work and talk to her often.

Well. Back in January of 2019, I pissed her off.

I was rather frazzled that night for my sister pet had passed and my parents wanted me to tell her. (I lived in a different town) so after work (10pm) I was going to drive to her house and spend the night with her.

This night happened to be a full moon. The wolf moon. So as normal Artemis found it fitting to communicate with me.

I smashed her sign with my car. I hit the doe. Not a huge buck, not a fawn. A beautiful, perfect sized doe. And as I pulled over the deer was gone. Not in the ditch and no where in sight.

And I haven’t heard from Artemis since.

I’ve tried to communicate with her, doing spells she likes, offerings, wearing the jewelry.

Me: “Are you still mad??”

Her: “ what do you think!?”

She really holds a grudge 😅

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Hello!!!

So great news!! I got accepted to a convention artist alley!!

Soooo what kind of art would you guys want to see????

Original art?

Original comics/zines?

Fan art?

Stickers/buttons/charms?

What are you guys interested in?

Also if anyone has ever been an artist in an artist alley please please please message me! I have questions on materials, business supplies, travel and sooo much more!

Thanks

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Why is there no spell work with people with alters!?

I think I have a new alter or two awake. There’s notes on meditating to help with this process but not much. I have dreams about my alters.

Therefore I’m going to try and mix spells for memory retaining, clarity, grounding, and dreams. If I have success would people be interested in my notes???

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Help Please!!

My roommate and I are very behind on bills and we are working really hard to get everything caught up, but we just got a three-day eviction notice today (12/4/19) and were able to talk to them to get it extended to 12/13/19 because we dont get paid until 12/10/19 and 12/12/19, but even then we’ll be $250(USD) short. I never wanted to bring it to tumblr but we’re desperate. I’ve asked my family if they can help, but I doubt they’ll be able to so I thought I would try here as well.

If you can, please send us a few dollars, if you can’t that’s alright, but please share! I like living on my own with my best friend and her child, and I would prefer not to go back to my moms. Thank you either way, blessed be.

Roommates Paypal

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Also: Anyone who donates will get a small drabble of whatever they’d like except smut, noncon/dubcon, incest in any form, and possibly some other things. Just message me if you do donate, thank you so much!

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Please donate to help out my roommate and I! For a $15 donation (or more) I’ll draw you one character (bust up/full color) and send it to you digitally! Just message me when you donate and we’ll discuss the details!

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is there any hormone options specifically for non binary people?

Lee says:

There’s taking hormones in a low dose, or only taking them for a short period of time, but your options are the same: testosterone if you’re AFAB and estrogen if you’re AMAB. Other than that, you can mix and match surgeries like getting facial feminization surgery without E, or top surgery without T, but yeah, there isn’t a third hormone for non-binary people.

AMAB non-binary transition:

Low-dose estrogen

Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ

On taking just Anti-Androgens

What E can and cannot do

Effects of E

The types of surgery available

Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people

Facial Feminization Options

Breast Augmentation

Genital surgery

Transfeminine resources

AFAB non-binary transition:

On Partial Transition *

Non-binary transitioning on T

Low-dose testosterone

Testosterone FAQ

What is a breast reduction?

Breast reductions vs top surgery

Top surgery before testosterone

Your chest won’t come back if you get top surgery and don’t go on T

Is it better to get top surgery after T?

Having no nipples after top surgery

Bottom surgery without T

General nb medical transition info:

Example language to use in letter

Genital nullification

5 myths about non-binary transition

Transitioning While Nonbinary

Lower surgery options: Getting a penis and vagina or getting genital nullification (Read third mod answer)

Can I get a penis but keep my vagina?

Here’s a post about low-dose HRT and passing as non-binary

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Perks of alters

Being able to sing all the parts of Queen’s “bohemian rhapsody”

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Disassociation

For the normal reaction I get when I tell someone I’m disassociating is

“You mean like spacing out?”

And to that I say “yes and no”

“Well what do you mean?”

When a normal person ‘disassociates’ they space out for 5 to 10-ish minutes at a time.

When I disasociate I :

Space out for 10-30mins at a time, with partial to complete loss of time

My head gets glitchy (?), like fuzzy and throbs and blurs

My eye sight gets fuzzy

My body gets tingly and numb

I loose control of my muscles

I’m overstimulated and gone entirely.

Normally I get to a point where I can’t stand, listen, make eye contact, or any thing of the sort. That’s normally a cue to take my meds if I’ve missed a day, hydrate, eat a snack and have some quiet time.

Does anyone else with a disassociative disorder (or not) relate?

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Help?

Hey so I’m non-binary and I’m looking to start “micro dosing” hormones.

But I’m not sure where to look for info about this, I’m not sure how to approach a doctor, I’m just completely in the dark here.

Any advice? Help? Resources? Anything!

-dysphoric and confused

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Help!

Other systems!!!

Two questions!

How’d you come up with your system name? Where’d it come from? What does it mean to you?

And

When you’re on auto pilot do you loose your sense of identity? If so do you feel like shit about yourself when that happens? And tips on how to fix it/feel better!

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Happy pride!!

In our system we have members that are trans, cis, gay, bi, nb, intersex, ace, etc!!

It is important to us for us all to love and respect one another!

Our two host: 💕

Fang: androgynous male, he/him, bisexual, demiromantic

Leila: nb/Demiboy, they/them, pansexual

HAPPY PRIDE! BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE, you are beautiful!!! 💕💕💕💕

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Let’s help each other out

So as we all know the earth is going to shit and it’s mostly at fault of large corporations but us as humans can still do our part to help put.

Can we all share some eco-friendly ways at making our earth a better place???

My tip: rise out old jars and reuse them instead of Tupperware!

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things that made me stop wanting to die that require no effort whatsoever

change the color used to highlight text on your laptop

move the pictures on your wall

stack whatever clutter is in your room into piles even if you don’t have time to clean it all

slightly vary your commute, even just by one street

change where you sit and scroll aimlessly on your phone even if it’s only to the chair in your room instead of your bed

drink water or juice out of a wine glass in the morning because nothing is real

shower with the lights off, without music

buy $3 flowers at trader joe’s—they look bad next to the more expensive ones but they look so good in your room

start typing things you don’t post into your notes. your thoughts can be worth documenting even if you don’t deem them worth sharing

wake up super early just once. you don’t have to make it a habit it’s just extra satisfying to go to bed that night

listen to the entirety of your favorite album from 2015

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Almost all of these are about variety. Humans need stimulation! We need enrichment! We literally cannot do the same thing every day!

The other day I was feeling miserable, so I hopped on a bus and rode it all the way back to where I’d started, and my brain, which had finally had some proper stimulation via new environments, was suddenly ready to go again!

This is why taking walks/drives and trying new hobbies are good for you! Don’t turn yourself into a sad zoo animal! You need some pumpkins to roll around in your enclosure!

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Discovering I was part of a system was like living in a huge house seemingly alone. Then thinking maybe the house was haunted. But actually I had roommates all along. Like what when did you get here?

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Oh hey where’d this fucking SNIPER ROUND COME FROM