Why do so many of my friends say “sorry for yapping” as if that’s a bad thing and not exactly what I want them to do?!!
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Why do so many of my friends say “sorry for yapping” as if that’s a bad thing and not exactly what I want them to do?!!
'why do ur lesbian ocs need condoms?'
bsky replies: its not uncommon for some tops to put condoms on the strap because its still possible to transmit std's. also it could just be a joke and shes just doing it cuz shes bisexual or something and has them lying around maybe and its funny cuz they dont need them?
tumblr replies: 'because bia has a massive cock'
when i was a little kid (age 8 and on) i had 3 veryyy intense special interests i constantly infodumped about to anyone who gave me the time of day. these were:
The Bubonic Plague
Vampire Folklore
Tree frogs.
So as you can imagine my mom spent many years prepping me for social outings by doing a call-and-response litany with me that went "let's focus on tree frogs tonight. let's tell people about tree frogs."
pov you are an unsuspecting adult at a social function who made the mistake of talking to me like i'm a person for 37 seconds and now you're going to learn everything about vlad the impaler from an enraptured third grader
there's like a slightly specific version of the fridged woman trope that spiderverse pulls, which i like to call the "dead daughter at the end of a narrative" trope. fridging can kinda happen to any character's designated Character Motivation Girl, but this type of fridged woman is specifically framed as a twist for the villains motivations. fridged women are often used to justify any amount of violence a male character can do in her honor and this type of woman is no different, it's just that here she's even further turned into a token symbol of innocence. the fact that kingpin is doing all this crazy destruction for the sake of his dead wife and child is meant to be humanizing for him, and it's framed as a twist in his character, something that nuances him at the expense of two women. women are used as tokens to humanize monstrous characters. Another example of this is in the dragon prince, where a man who waged god knows how many years of wars and suffering is given a dead autistic daughter that's meant to humanize his actions, in this instance also framing him as a victim of a cruel world.
because these are framed as the character motivations of our villainous antagonists, you end up with an entire narrative that's written off the back of a fridged woman. hence, at the end of the narrative, setting everything in motion, there's a dead daughter.
because this type of fridged woman exists to make a villain sympathetic, she's framed as a *twist*, and is therefore given even less interiority besides being a token of innocence. her function is to die and make a man sad and vengeful and for the audience to go "oh shit maybe he's like morally gray..."
anyways i just saw a video that called kingpin a morally nuanced character and i started giggling
reminder that “ban evasion” is not a thing or infraction on here because the terminations being carried out are not bans + even if it was ban evasion it wouldnt fucking matter because it’s bullshit to be terminated the way girls are. let girls find their friends without basically victim blaming them for being terminated on the girl terminating website
“your mutual recovery posts are getting you terminated!!! stop talking about the fact that ur doing ban evasion!!!” um i think the neonazi stalkers are what’s getting girls terminated
on the rare occasion that someone does get an email for a terminated account, the word “ban” is nowhere to be found. ask me how i know.
actually that’s fine. i didn’t want the verification code anyway
well now that you mention it i may have wanted it a little bit. Thank you for sending it fifteen separate times
reminder that “ban evasion” is not a thing or infraction on here because the terminations being carried out are not bans + even if it was ban evasion it wouldnt fucking matter because it’s bullshit to be terminated the way girls are. let girls find their friends without basically victim blaming them for being terminated on the girl terminating website
bush haters always have that soulless look in their eyes
We’re forgiving all his war crimes now?
happy pride and summer!
transmisogynoir is DEEPLY engrained in the trans community. stop pretending otherwise. holy fuck
This is transfeminism!
just like. for the crowd.
here's the sexual content guidelines saying nudity is ok
here's the bit from the termination email telling you you can make a new account as long as it doesn't break the same rule
here's the guidelines for what counts as explicit (not mature, aka grounds for content deletion)
here's the section telling us that you will always be able to respond to content getting flagged as explicit (lie)
here's the section where it says you will be notified when your accunt gets terminated, and that the appeals are reviewed by humans (both lies)
and by the way, posting a single thing against ToS isn't supposed to be grounds for deletion,
the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death
I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.
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hello friendly reminder that you do not need a special occasion to use nice things! if you wait long enough your nice bath bomb won't be as fizzy! your favourite fruits will go out of season! candles are meant to be burned, not looked at! you're not enjoying your special tea if it's just sitting in your cupboard! you're allowed to have nice and special things on completely ordinary days! heck, it might just make that day special!!
happy fucking pride month we should never have ceded to let drag queens speak for trans women