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ads on other websites: giving me ads for shit i THOUGHT about that i didnt google, say or outloud, or even look at anywhere. also heres tik tok.

tumblr ads: Elders in your area have a gun and they’re going to kill your rooster

1e3no

copperbadge

#2, Brute?

l-heure-du-the

I made the ugliest noise.

lunacyiero

anyone else ever daydream for 6 hours straight and then after ur just like nah let’s scrap that and do it all again but slightly to the left

astudyingreer

my brain: *out of breath* Was that good?!

Me in a beret, taking a long draft from a cigarette and leaning back in my director’s chair: once again, from the top, this time with feeling

Growing up in an abusive household is a fucking trip dude……If you’ve never had someone angrily wash a dish at you or fold a sock in your direction then how are you gonna understand why I get nervous when you quietly do the laundry, or why I ask “are you mad at me?” when you set the bag of groceries down too hard? It’s a totally different way of living and it impacts you long after you’ve left the situation.

sothisistherapy

This is so important.

notsafevorework

Abused kids speak a language you can’t learn

kittyinhighheels

I’ll never forget the people who threw a fit about this post because they didn’t understand the anxiety when someone just seems angry while in your proximity

redleeder

filmaticbby

this has gotta be the cutest shit i’ve ever seen. greta gerwig directing lucas hedges and saoirse ronan in lady bird (2017).

earraigh

the unadulterated joy of making art

youreyesinstarsabove

@mackenziechance

thedarkperidot

Can parents stop acting like providing a child’s basic needs is something to be earned? So many kids grow up traumatised because they were made to feel guilty about the existence they never asked for

valtsv

fanfic titles be like “we have not touched the stars (nor are we forgiven)” and then you look at the tags & the first one is “anal fisting”

melancholymango

I did the being edgy and self-deprecating thing, it gets old. I wanna be soft and lovely and easily impressed. I wanna appreciate all the little things that make me happy the same way I’ve dwelled on every single thing that upsets me.

jelloapocalypse

I have a working theory that I hope ends up being true:

The 2010s were a decade of cynicism, gritty reboots, and the slow cusp of discovering the importance of mental health but not really being able to cope with it yet and just wallowing in it.

My hope is that the 2020s will be a decade where everyone collectively decides they’re sick of all that stuff and in their defiance it becomes decade of bright colors and emotional honesty.

apricitic

a note on people who always say “i don’t mind” whenever you ask where they want to eat/what they want to watch/etc:

usually this is because they’ve been punished in the past for voicing their opinions, not because they’re out to annoy you specifically. depending on how much flack they used to receive, it can be very stressful for them if you try and force them to offer up an idea.

a lot of my friends who do this appreciate me giving out like… three options. pick three different things that you will be happy to do any of and ask which of those three options they’d prefer. it removes the fear of “what if they don’t like my suggestion” without erasing their option to chose and have preferences so, you know, good all around