My Reblogs

[santostrife]

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[wizardarchetypes]

the thing about cutting your bangs at home is that scissors are natural born performers. not many people know this but the soul of a scissors was imbued b y the god of divas. scissors love to cause drama. they revel in it. this is why you must never record yourself while cutting your bangs. it must be you and the mirror alone. the scissors will believe this is just a dress rehearsal and they will behave because they need to save their shocking ad-lib for opening night. you will cut your bangs, the scissors will wait, and your hair will look perfect.

but if you set up a camera, the scissors know this is the main act. and they will betray you for their moment of shock and awe. trust me about this. i have been working with scissors in my bathroom for years across the world and we have an understanding.

[tedthetalk]

I actually do think it’s better for abusers and abusive characters to realize the harm their past actions caused and seek to do better than be literally or metaphorically executed for their crimes

[tedthetalk]

I think it’s better for abusers and abusive characters to realize the harm their past actions caused and seek to do better than be literally or metaphorically executed for their crimes.

[tedthetalk]

I think it’s better for abusers and abusive characters to realize the harm their past actions caused and seek to do better than be literally or metaphorically executed for their crimes.

[dogletantte]

Reading comprehension test:

1. Does OP mention an obligation on victims to forgive abusers who have learned from their past actions?

2. Does OP mention any work on the part of victims to educate their abusers?

3. Is there any mention of “redemption” or “forgiveness” at all in this post?

[fandomsandfeminism]

Something about how society cares more about punishing the wicked than about making the world a better place, and how many people really struggle to shake that.

[natalieironside]

Shout out to trans women who aren’t computer scientists or musicians or avant-garde artists or whatever.

Shout-out to tgirls who work at Taco Bell. Thank u queen, society would collapse without you

[snkrfnd]

Over twenty years ago my big brother got me a job at a Taco Bell in the St. Louis suburbs-West County. He warned me that it was the “gay Taco Bell”, but since I was coming from the “gay Howard Johnson’s” I wasn’t shocked. It turns out it was the black trans women Taco Bell complete with black trans women in management. And they’d worked out an arrangement with the local teen Narcotics Anonymous group so that twice a week we would shut down the drive thru and the dining room and exclusively serve 60+ teens in various stages of recovery. And many of the women I worked with were in various stages of being out or transitioning and they were from all generations from teens to over 50. One woman I worked with had a regular corporate job presenting as a man 9-5 Mon-Fri and then came to Taco Bell and worked 6pm -2am Friday and Saturday night so she could be herself surrounded by other black transwomen in those stolen weekends. And we had customers come from all over the metro area because they knew they could be themselves in the dining room. I only worked there from 1999-2001 but for young me, this was a vital, formative experience. Some of the girls came from north city all the way out to the “gay Taco Bell” on Manchester in west county because they heard it was safe to work there. Like- I know times have changed but they haven’t changed much in 20 years. I’m still convinced that for lgbt youth, finding a job at your city’s version of the “gay Taco Bell” is key to survival.

[natalieironside]

Thank u for sharing this with us

[catsharkie-old]

EVERYONE QUICK describe your oc story in the worst way possible

[mevil]

[agonius]

it finally happened. Dropped one of my earbuds down a bottomless pit. Gone forever

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

Why were you hanging out next to bottomless pits? Sorry for your loss btw

[agonius]

i sort packages at work. Some of them we have to put in a really big hole so their gone forever im pretty sure this has happened to everyone’s mail at some point

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

interesting… what kind of crimes does a package have to do to make it go in a big pit and gone forever?

[agonius]

it’s a today’s lucky winners situation

[molombo]

What does it take to make African mythology real? Everything we had. Over 70% of our Kickstarter Backers came from Tumblr. Thank you. Now it's yours.

ZAIROO is out now.

[professional-egg-layer]

They should make it easier for trans women

[y2kvictim]

the most infuriating thing about personal growth is that even if someone else did have the answer you needed and conveyed it to you in a precise and effective matter, it won't make sense until you're ready for it. you could hear it every day of your life and it wouldn't matter a fucking bit until it finally clicks. there's very little you can do to influence when that happens, either

[anton--rayne]

a bra and a hijab are the same thing in many ways

[anton--rayne]

Hijab is not much different from many different hair coverings which used to be extremely common throughout the world. All of those had their own religious connections with them. Hair coverings were often a tool of both religion and "modesty", the loaded gendered concept. Nowadays it's most commonly associated with Islam therefore it strikes out as Abnormal. A bra too serves the same purpose, yet its considered the "acceptable" tool of Modesty with no loaded baggage whatsoever while Hijab is the "backwards" tool of modesty with Evil Baggage. The same concept, when it's Muslim racialized, is Backwards and Violent, yet the violence of the bra, because it is accepted among White people too, is acceptable and invisible

[anton--rayne]

Can you imagine if tomorrow wearing a bra was seen as completely backwards, but nothing else changed socially for women, yet the new policy was to force women to take their bras off in public? What, that sounds like the wrong way to go about it to you because it would be humiliating and misogynistic? Now lets apply that humanity to other people's cultures

[junejasprose-addict]

It used to be feminism 101 that using male terms by default is bad, but then trans women wanted a piece of that pie and suddenly everyone becomes philosophers and etymologists discussing the nuances of language instead of just listening to women

[toytoytoytoy]

one of the ways being trans hurts really deeply is the fact that our existence made everyone jump back on all of their beliefs 20 steps. People are objectively less feminist, more bioessentialist, more racist, more fascistic, more irrational, etc., and a lot of it is just to account for the visceral disgust trans women make them feel.

[achillesinhighheels]

final cadence for joão miranda

[mephistopheles]

i bring a sort of “you should maybe interrogate your so-called ‘preferences’ to make sure they’re not literal textbook examples of severe unconscious bias” vibe that my woke gay friends dont really like

[mephistopheles]

what this post does NOT mean

go out and fuck someone you aren’t attracted to because a stranger on tumblr said to

go out and date someone you aren’t attracted to because a stranger on tumblr said to

You’re Not Allowed To Be Gay Anymore

what this post DOES mean

if you just ‘prefer’ to avoid majority black areas of your city

if you just ‘prefer’ to read, write, think, and talk about men

if you just ‘prefer’ to socialize with people you (perceive as) your assigned birth sex

if you just ‘prefer’ to exclusively watch white-directed movies, read white-written books, listen to white-authored music

if you just unconsciously perceive men as more authoritative/competent and ‘prefer’ to be spoken to by them

this is a post about acknowledging unconscious bias. it is not a post about dating. please stop coming into my inbox and accusing me of rape apologism and telling me to kill myself. thank you

[giragirameganedan]

still thinking about when i saw a girl on here with ~3 partners and one of them was a lesbian with a “MEN DNI” banner and one of them was a tboy with a “‘MEN DNI’ DNI” banner

[raptorofwar]

[claire-the-apocalypse]

How the hell did we end up with a literal reactionary anti-feminist 2016-style men's rights group in the 2026 trans community? Men really aren't learning from their historical mistakes, huh? The incredible anti-intellectualism of Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson, but now by trans men, for trans women!! "Give me a study you man-hating bitch! Wrong study! Not good enough! Give me another! Not good enough! God, see these stupid feminists are so stupid! let me mansplain your experiences for you, and tell you why mine are so much harder! V-Coding? What's that? Probably some stupid made up feminist tranny word." Like, do you want to *openly* start making "wrekt feminist videos" oder are we skipping straight to MGTOW?

[claire-the-apocalypse]

If you are a man and you are using the classic men's debating tactics of talking over women, demanding homework, sealioning, weaponizing trauma in order to center yourself in an inherently unequal power structure, and using bioessentialist rhetoric to defend yourself, you're not some clear-eyed philosopher who's cracked the code of how gendered oppression works. You're just performing the same basic misogyny that we've seen for decades. And if you're still convinced that your case is special, I have a couple ten year old videos, compilations, and podcasts that you might like! We'll start you off a steady drip of Milo Yiannopoulos (After all, a gay man is obviously a marginalized individual, so he can't possibly replicate systemic patriarchal harm!), and you can decide from there if you want to shift toward Ben Shapiro, Stephen Crowder, or Andrew Tate!

[helltiervriska]

HII ive redone my art commissions setup. im very very good at overcomplicating things lol [if not seen by how buckwild i go doing fashion designs and hair...] so this one is much more simple

i have 3/3 complex art commission slots open and 2/4 scratch doodle slots open. this is subject to change

i didnt have space to add this on my notes but i go absolutely batshit insane drawing details for hair, its a genuine problem. if you dont want me to spend a few extra hours drawing each individual strand of hair, please lmk!! i get lost in the sauce lmfao

please DM me if u have any questions! im more than willing to work with ur budget, give discounts, or do payment plans if its needed. i take payments on paypal, venmo, or cashapp. thx!