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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
we're not kids anymore.
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Love Begins
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bitches b like ‘hes my right hand man’ JUST SAY HES YOUR BEST FRIEND . SAY ITTTTTT
op have you considered that maybe right hand man sounds cooler and has more homoerotic subtext?
op has reconsidered . youre right
Finally, an example of productive discourse and growth on the Internet
If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my-
Aries: ability to make last-minute plans when a sudden urge to go out pops up, and my lack of patience for people who can’t decide where to go
Taurus: secret sensitivity under a tough layer of unflappability, and inability to focus on anything else when i’m in a bad mood
Gemini: habit of distracting myself with random things that catch my eye, but demanding your attention nonetheless
Cancer: unexpected lashing out when i’m tired or stress, then 1 hour later, my constant apologies to know if we’re still okay
Leo: need for our relationship to be a whirlwind romance full of sweeping moments, love confessions and emotional rollercoasters
Virgo: need to be alone after minor work failures and also an intense desire for you to distract me from the pressing daily issues that haunt me
Libra: ability to spend a discretionary fund on vanity products and clothing within 30 minutes as a distraction from personal, deep-rooted issues
Scorpio: “you’ll never see me cry” mentality coupled with an expectation that you, too, would kill for our love, like I would
Sagittarius: reluctance to rely on you for anything and extreme discomfort when talking about deeper emotions
Capricorn: carefully planned scheduled and working routine that i will not abandon for an hour of spontaneous romance
Aquarius: extremely friendly approach to romance because of my fear of opening up on a deeper level
Pisces: need to fully experience every human emotion ever and fluctuating emotional states depending on who’s around me
you know when someone who looks normal has all the qualities of a fedora 4channer? the entitlement, the misogyny, the simultaneous feeling theyre superior while also somehow oppressed …. like they dont necessarily wear a fedora or wear anime shirts or shit like that but you can tell. its something about them. you can sense it somehow.
thats their fed-aura
“You don’t meet a girl like that every dynasty…”
JUST LETTING Y'ALL KNOW WHERE THIS BLOG STANDS.
Reblog every time it hits my Dash
Same
straight man: *speaks*
me and the only other gay person in class:
IM AT THE PIZZA HUT IM AT THE PIZZA HUT IM AT THE COMBINATION PIZZA HUT AND PIZZA HUT
I’m avoiding the thing about Trump’s family separation policy as much as possible because it literally makes me want to melt down in a rage the moment I think about it almost at all, and as a Canadian there’s an incredibly limited amount I can do when I have to keep my own precarious mental health functioning
but I just want you to know that a lot of the field of Attachment Theory in psychology began after WWII, when psychologists examined the physical and psychological health of children sent away from their parents for their own “safety”
and what we found about the psychological results of broken child-caregiver attachment has led us to conclude that it is literally MORE HUMANE to leave families intact in refugee camps in warzones, than to separate the children from their parents, even if those children are sent to the best of all possible environments.
Speaking as a fucking psychologist I just want you to know that if you want to fuck someone up FOR FUCKING LIFE, the BEST possible way to do it, is to abruptly separate them from the adults who love and care for them. For maximum fuckery do it before the age of 3, 5 is pretty damn good at fucking them up for life too, but honestly any time before adulthood is pretty effective. You will fuck them up in a way we just DON’T know how to heal yet. You don’t just leave them catastrophically more at risk for mental illness, learning disorders, addictions, abuse, and future trauma, you also put them at much higher risk of things like diabetes, heart attack, and suicide.
and then I thought about what kind of environments those kids ARE being sent into and I need to throw up now
Op do you have any links to papers or anything? Preferably not paywalled?
Honestly the field is so huge and so broad that I have too many sources rather than too few. The harder thing is pointing to a concise, targeted, tailored-to-be-relevant summary. (But if child trauma experts in the US aren’t working on producing one at this very instant, I’ll eat my hat.)
The two places I recommend starting are the Child Trauma Academy Library and the National Child Traumatic Stress Network.
@emotional-karuma :
additionally both of those have twitter accounts which are LIT UP with this issue, and responses to it - CTA has their official one and then their founder and senior fellow Bruce Perry has his own twitter which likewise is heavily dominated by this issue. From their twitter pages you can also find the NCTSN’s twitter and related ones and at that point you can basically drown people in the cites!
I once watched a woman pop off all 10 of her press-on nails into the trash before walking into a lesbian bar
chaotic neutral
Iconic
I pretend to be complex and clever but in reality, nothing has ever made me laugh harder than those bad Chinese subtitles from the bootleg Lord of the Rings DVDs. Tears streaming down my face, core aching, slowly suffocating because I’m laughing too hard.
also (because one can never have too many of these)
and my personal favorite:
I somehow forgot to add my own favorite, which is this one:
I also appreciate the ones that really change the tone and suggest that the characters openly loathe each other…
and this one, which gently encourages self-care:
listen you guys forgot some important ones
ya’ll forgot the best one
“Don’t do me anything…I’m natural…”
PUT THIS ON MY TOMBSTONE
i can’t stop laughing at my name Smeedle why did u do this why was this done
STEP 1) GET THAT $$ STEP 2) SPEND THAT $$ STEP 3) OWN 2 MUCH STUFF STEP 4) PUT IT IN A PILE STEP 5) RELAX
r u a dragon?
STEP 6) DRAGON
hope your pets stay healthy in 2017
I almost didn’t blog this and felt guilty
Not risking it
Stranger Things s3 prediction:
The Monster™: *physically shows up*
Joyce Byers:
my bedroom,
alternately referred to as Ｔｈｅ Ｄｅｐｒｅｓｓｉｏｎ Ｈｕｂ™ ,
welcome to my Sad Pad™
Sometimes I just start singing and my mom joins in
Whoa…
#don’t trust this #they’re probably sirens
These two are singing “O magnum mysterium” by Tomas Luis De Victoria! It’s a very pretty piece from the renaissance that has a lot of different voice parts singing totally different melodies that mesh well together. I sung tenor for a song of his as well. It sounds ethereal in cathedrals and bathrooms alike my opinion. Its the room’s ability to bounce sound and make it resonate, giving it it’s “mermaid siren” like quality. It sounds great. Congratulations, you both! Sounds very pretty and seems like a fun time to clean with things like that.
yes its back on my dash
god lol
I always reblog the bathroom sirens <3
