我已然活成了我心目中，你的模样。

mar 🦋 she/they pronouns. multifandom. [hiatus] gifs | writing | 2hanet ao3 |

[xzstudios]

Ihhiw I bring a good news for everyone here!! *drum roll* I've a good cookies and lucky leaves to be part of the translation team for this year. All of you who want to read 2HA manhua in english can go directly to the 2hamanhuatranslation. These ones below are kind of an example for the panel on our website there.

happy reading erhaist! have a nice ride with us ʕ≧ᴥ≦(•́⌄•́ ๑)

[yuziyou]

RANWAN | 燃晚

2ha | A Chinese Ghost Story ED Song

[tashaneva]

shl/tyk sketches from twitter. guess who my favourite character is lol

[latter-ace-saint]

How to talk to children

This is based on decades of experience as an uncle and as an older brother.

Never forget that children are just as much people as adults are.

Kids 10 years or younger (and sometimes older than that) don’t get sarcasm or irony, so don’t use them.

If a child has difficulty pronouncing a word, don’t copy their misprounciation when speaking to them. They can hear the word just fine. It could sound to them like you’re making fun of them.

(Yes, this means no babytalk)

Don’t be dismissive.

Listen to what they’re saying.

To get on the same eye-level, don’t bend over or squat: it seems condescending. Kneeling or sitting are better.

It should go without saying that you should respect children’s body autonomy. Don’t force affection on them.

Respect children’s emotional autonomy as well. Let them be angry. Let them be sad. Don’t force them to be happy.

Let children like things. Don’t run down the things they like just because you find them cringy.

Don’t think that you know better.

To children, adults are giants. Be a big friendly giant.

Don’t stifle children’s curiosity.

Don’t stifle children’s enthusiasm.

To quote Sondheim, “Be careful the words you say, children will listen.”

Don’t look down on children.

[jadedaceofspades-deactivated202]

When I worked at the before and after school program, I had all elementary school ages and this list is perfectly defined how to talk to kids.

One thing I want to add is: let kids just play. Let them use their imagination. If they’re running too fast but they think they’re sonic the hedgehog, just tell them “be a slower sonic so you don’t fall down.”

[brasildaily]

LEGENDS! 13 year old Brazil's Rayssa Leal (silver) and 13 year old Japan's Momiji Nishiya (gold) winners of the skateboarding women's street final of the Tokyo 2020 Olympic Games at Ariake Sports Park in Tokyo on July 26, 2021.

[pasdecoeur]

so.

i guess fanfiction wasn’t a phase….

[pasdecoeur]

anyway tag how old you were when you got into fanfiction, and your first fandom, and how long you’ve been stuck in the trenches with all the rest of us

[lanwangjihouse]

tag of the week:

#that gap between his innermost layer and his collarbone  ⋯ why does that feel so scandalous  ⋯  I feel like a victorian glimpsing an ankle   ❋

[zhouszishu]

word of honor 山河令: episode 35

[xinyuehui]

Master, look! He didn’t get any money and is still happy!

He is enjoying the sunshine.

What is there to enjoy in the sun?

[memewhore]

[official-mugi]

This is probably the most inclusive post ever made on Tumblr

[glimmergf]

[villainsimpathizer]

Whoever runs the Youku English youtube channel deserves a raise for their video captions 🤣😭

[tanrak]

this one is for people obsessed with wen kexing (like me)

[tanrak]

now they’re dropping the word wenzhou very casually

[ziseviolet]

Hey~ can you tell us about the straw hats with veils coming down to cover the wearer's face we see mostly in wuxia? I have seen some very pretty ones with added accessories like pearls and flowers too. What are they called?

Hi, thanks for the question!

The traditional Chinese veiled hats that we mostly see in Wuxia are called Weimao/帷帽. I wrote about the history of Weimao in this post. Please also see this post by fate-magical-girls for further information on the history/evolution of Chinese veiled hats.

As you’ve noticed, it’s recently become trendy among Hanfu wearers to decorate Weimao with various kinds of accessories such as pearls and flowers. The effect is really pretty!

Weimao can be worn by men as well:

For more references, please check out my Weimao tag! 

Hope this helps!

Images: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5  

[chuxuns]

hell is too cold

[pranpat]

Zhou Zishu + smile evolution when he’s around Wen Kexing 

[wohdaily]

[warmday]

heaven official’s blessing 天官赐福 (2020—)

[id: four gifs from the the thirteenth episode of ‘heaven official’s blessing’. the first shows xie lian grabbing hua cheng’s face and pulling him in closer to him. the second shows xie lian inspecting his face intensely. the third is a close up of hua cheng’s face between xie lian’s hands — his eyes are wide and shaking lightly and he blinks. the forth is a close up of his eye as it returns from wide to a relaxed state.

the caption reads:

heaven official’s blessing 天官赐福 (2020—)

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