this blog is dedicated to spreadin positivity and joy in the paraphile community, along with celebrating paras and para pride !!
this blog is also strictly anti harmful contact and anti abuse. please do not submit a positivity post about harmin beings who cannot consent, or acting on paras at the expense of others !!!
more info under the cut ♡
what's posted on this blog ?
any and all positivity, joy, and pride surroundin paras can be submitted ! wether it's discoverin a new para, buyin or creatin merch for your para, self-acceptance, solidarity, or just a kind message to other paras !! positivity is the rule here :3
submissions that will not be posted:
any hatred or harassment.
paramisia.
antiship rhetoric.
admissions of abuse / harm.
condoning abuse / harm.
encouraging abuse / harm.
pro / neu contacts.
call-outs.
though these will not be posted, they may be discussed on my main blog. keep things positive and joyous here !!
about the kitty in charge
hai, i'm kiyo !! my main blog is @kiyos-den and i'm a NO-ACT, nonhuman paraphile & an introject in a dissociative system. my pronouns are kitty/kittyself !!
i'm a zoophile / fictozoophile / faunaphile, autopedophile, fictomap / shotacon, incestophile, teratophile, bejerophile, plushophile / plushozoo, and an autobiastophile. i'm also in a consang relationship with my in-sys twin brother !!
although i'm anti-radqueer, radqueers can interact on this blog, as long as they're anti harmful contact / anti abuse, and as long as they don't bring up harmful transids.
other blogs like this ?
this blog was actually inspired by @thisis-paraphilicsocialostracism, @this-is-paramisic, @para-education, @paramisic-blocklist, @parapride, and @this-is-paraphilic-joy !!
i came out to my therapist as a minor attracted adult because i was having anxiety about if i would ever act on those thoughts, and she took it really well!
she understands that for me, its a trauma response due to being hurt sexually hurt as a child, and she wants to help me find ways to cope with the anxieties i face around the thoughts :)
and she told me if im ever getting into the idea of actually acting on those thoughts, i could tell her and she would help me to find coping mechanisms to prevent harming someone, and that she wouldn't report me unless i actually did something yay :) (i had big anxiety about being reported for thoughts that i havent acted on)
This is paraphilic joy!! I'm glad your therapist is supporting you, from one map to another, you deserve to feel safe and unashamed for your thoughts!!! Always remember that thoughts aren't equal to action, and have pride in yourself!!!
Having your f/o from your little Yume AU (who’s mentally a lot younger than you) pop up in your headspace and be happy to be in a relationship safely is absolute sheer fictoMAP/MAP joy…
(Bonus cus he’s also very creature so my therianthropy + zoo stuff feels all giddy and happy kekeke…)
By @elliotzrealm
[PT: Having your f/o from your little Yume AU (who's mentally a lot younger than you) pop up in your headspace and be happy to be in a relationship safely is absolute sheer fictoMAP/MAP joy... (Bonus cus he's also very creature so my therianthropy + zoo stuff feels all giddy and happy kekeke...) /End PT]
Accepting that I'm fictiomap and not feeling dirty about it anymore. I used to feel disgusted that I was attracted to fictional minor characters (mainly 13-15). But after learning I'm fictiomap, I've slowly started to accept this part of myself and not hate it anymore.
For some context' I'm physically 24, but age stunted to 15 because of autism and trauma.
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(only post if anon is on)
This is paraphilic joy!! You deserve to feel comfortable with yourself and unashamed!!!
i love you paraphiles who are ashamed of their paraphilias. i love you paraphiles who are not ashamed of their paraphilias. i love you paraphiles who aren't sure how to feel about their paraphilias. i love you paraphiles who are struggling with self-love and acceptance. especially pedophiles, zoophiles, necrophiles, biastophiles, somnophiles, and any other paraphiles who are often regarded as "inherently harmful" or "predisposed to harm" or otherwise constantly hounded with questions about contact just on the basis of your paraphilia where others aren't. you are not intrinsically dangerous or predisposed to it. you deserve to be proud of yourself, all of yourself, including your paraphilic attractions. and you should be able to discuss them without shame with people who support you. i love you.
question: what is a __maso paraphilia? is it attraction to being harmed by one's subject of attraction, rather than the subject being harmed? sorry if this is weird to ask; i just haven't heard of it & want to learn more.
yep, that's right, anon !! masochism / maso paras are attracted to experiencin pain or harm from their subject of attraction !
sorry if this isn't relevant but do you know how ppl find and connect with other maps? I feel like all the tags and posts on here are just children wanting attention and I extremely do not want to be in contact. it's hard out here, I just want to find other adults like me with those same desires
i don't, i'm sorry anonny !! hopefully someone who sees this has an answer !
it's so difficult to find other adult maps to befriend without risking ruining your life. like looking thru the tags on tumblr here it's mostly children who want attention and I extremely Do Not Want contact and there are no adults posting about themselves (probably bc they will be hunted down 😭) I wish there was a way for adult maps to get in contact if anyone happens to know of a way lol
I feel like ALL __masos are super under represented: zoomasochist, pedomasochist, ALL of them.
all masochistic attractions (and all sadistic attractions) deserve representation, community, love, and appreciation !! masochistic attractions and sadistic attractions are both important and loved in the para community, and both should be treated as such !! if you have a masochistic attraction, you're loved and valued just as you are !!
