This-Is-Paramisic

A place for paraphiles of all kinds to report the paramisia they see,hear,and experience. I work on asks by answering them and slotting them into queue,so if an ask isn’t answered immediately it’s in there I promise!!

[this-is-paramisic]

✷ Welcome,freaks! ✷

Below the cut you will find our submission rules, boundaries, some terms and what they mean, and our blog-specific tags.

You can call me Rotfill. We are an endo system and currently the only mod here. I use It/they/he pronouns,It preferred,and identify wholly,on every level, as a coyote. I am also (surprise surprise) a paraphile. A proud necro,zoo,and fictomap among many others.

Submission rules

[Asks may be answered very slowly!! I also “hold” asks for extended periods if I need time to research a topic,or if I feel I need to give a more in-depth answer to something. It is not being ignored,we promise!! Also,in the last few weeks the site and app have been getting very glitchy for us. Sometimes asks and comments appear and delete at random,sometimes we get no notifications,and sometimes our posts just disappear from drafts. We’re sorry :( ]

We have no specific required way to send in an ask. You can start with “paramisia is” or something along those lines,or not,if you don’t want to!!

If your ask includes triggering content like self harm/suicide, disordered eating, abuse, etc, it is still fine to send in!! Please just list trigger warnings at the beginning of the submission so I can more easily tag it.

Feel free to send in anything,as long as it’s mostly on topic. You can rant, vent, ramble, callout, talk, whatever! Callouts on specific users must be paraphillia related and tasteful. (Ex, “user @______ said [insert paramisic take]” is okay!! Heavy insults, calling folk slurs, baseless accusations, slapfighing, and unrelated drama will be deleted. We are here to inform, not harass.)

We have no DNI besides pro-contacts and abuse advocates. Radqueers, Fleur, TransID, and proshippers are all welcome here,but please check our stances if you intend to interact with our personal blogs!! :3 We also have no age DNI and will not mark posts as mature to ensure posts are visible to every account. Suggestive content will be under the tag “NSFT”.

Taken anons: 🌂, 🩶

Boundaries

We believe gimmick blogs or blogs used for a specific purpose like this one should be as inclusive as possible.

We are pro/accepting of:

Radqueer, TransID, MUDs, proship, selfship/yumeship, Consang relationships, pre-death consent, nonsexual animal relationships, Alterhumanity of all kinds, demonized disorders of all kinds, Endogenic systems, Tuplas, all that jazz.

We are generally uncomfortable with,won’t knowingly interact with, or don’t support;

Pro-contact for contact that would harm unconsenting people, Zeta, Xenosatanists, N.I.N or TransNazis, TERFs and TRFs, MAGA, ICE supporters, and genAI users.

Terms

A paraphillia is an an intense, persistent sexual or romantic interest in unusual objects, situations, or individuals.

A paraphilic disorder is when a paraphillia is causing distress or harm to oneself or others. Not everyone with a paraphillia is disordered.

A “Big three” or B3 paraphillia refers to zoophillia, pedophillia (or minor attracted people/MAPS),and necrophillia.

Tags

#This is paramisic

#Not paramisic

#Bad faith ask

#NSFT -(means “not safe for tumblr” and may have triggering,sexual,or otherwise explicit themes)

#Rotfill barks -(Just me.)

#Starru -(The tag for the blog mascot and my fursona, Starru.)

All animated dividers in this post were made by the lovely @cafekitsune. Please check out her blog,she has plenty more!!

[this-is-paramisic]

The thing that really convinced me to be pro-para is how divorced attraction is from sexual abuse. people who actually abuse children/animals/etc usually feel no attraction - the same is true for all sexual assault. It’s more about power and the ability to get away with it. people who are actually attracted usually just hate themselves for what they can’t control.

essentially:

pedophiles: I’m a horrible person for feeling attraction I cannot control actual child sexual abusers: I feel no attraction to children I just do it for the thrill

THIS THIS THIS!! 100%‼️

[this-is-paramisic]

Thanks for making me feel better about sometimes being attracted to fictional teenage characters. I was worried that made me a bad person, so I'm glad that it doesn't.

- 🦈

Ofc!!! We’re glad you feel better abt it now <33 /p

[this-is-paramisic]

This is paramisic!!

I tirrrred of normies complaining that paraphiles “aren’t queer”. Even if they don’t agree that paras are inherently queer they’ve got to acknowledge the existence of paras with other queer IDs??

W to the people at their church ig tho :3

[grove-of-finches]

Demiparaphilia

Demiparaphilia

Demiparaphilia: when one experiences thoughts/fantasies pertaining to, derives pleasure from, and/or does not mind or likes the idea of a paraphilic attraction, but it is not prominent/present enough for one to consider it a “full” attraction.

EX: A demifictophile may have occasional thoughts about fictional characters in a sexual manner, but it is not consistent, so they consider it a demiparaphilia.

Flag explanation

Inspired the paraphilia flag

Colors/sections have the same meaning as the inspiration flag

The semicircle represents partialness

The addition of grey represents nuance and varying levels of attraction

Symbol

The ∂ symbol is meant to represent partialness

It can be combined with the symbols for paraphilic attraction

Denotes that an attraction is a demiparaphilia when combined with the symbol for the paraphilia (EX: ∂ϑ would mean one is a deminecrophile)

Notice

As with all terms I create, this term and flag is anti-contact for non-consenting beings (anti-abuse/pro-consent) and not explicitly pro- or anti-radqueer.

If you would like me to make specific demiparaphilia flags/coinings, feel free to ask if my requests are open.

If you would like to make specific demiparaphilia flags/coinings yourself, all I ask is that you include a version with the ∂ symbol on it.

Coined by @grove-of-finches

Flags made by @grove-of-finches

Not requested

[sa1ntg0re]

so i am being harassed by this person here. I am also not a guy but i don't think they meant to misgender me purposely.

please block and report them

they are also targeting @this-is-poly-phobia, i really wonder why... (spoiler: it's because they don't think polyamorous people are normal)

Apparently the fact I have a severe trauma disorder (multiple, actually) is a bad thing too. And the "disclaimer that i will get offended" is the fact I have NPD, which is just.. ableist as fuck..?

I also have never said I was a paraphile so I'm guessing they consider being polyamorous a paraphilia? or being anti censorship?

tags for reach: @thisis--ableism @thisisexorsexism @this-is-transandrophobia @this-is-queerphobia

(I do not care for the term radnormal. I'm reporting harassment)

[sa1ntg0re]

correction for this post, the tags are about themselves, not about me.

The confusion started because they talked about being a paraphile, and I am pro para, but they are not. So I assumed a paraphile wouldn't be pro para, because it's like being black and hating black people, you know?

They have made another post, still making fun of me, and they have said a lot of stuff about me saying they're transphobic, which I have never done. They have also made a response over the fact I said they're ableist towards me for being a narcissist, but they haven't really said anything relevant to it and just insulted me, again.

Anyway. "acting a little mean" when talking about continuously harassing people is an understatement, and also having a disclaimer that you take things personally doesn't fucking justify it??? I have also taken this personally because when you are making fun of me, and harassing me, and ect, it is. I still haven't insulted them publically, I have simply shown proof of harassment and explained the situation.

they are still harassing @this-is-polyphobia , too, as they have reported.

this account is not their main, and blocking sadly doesn't help, but if their alt gets banned, the main will too! So once again I ask everyone to report the harassment and to try and steer away from this person. Also, if you know their main, maybe please tell me what it is because I am very tired

(don't worry, I can go on all day <3)

I'm sorry for this long ass post (i don't know if people who were tagged beforehand will get tagged again, but I wanted to tag @this-is-paramisic too and @this-is-para-positivity so they could also warn others about this user. In case I apologize)

[this-is-para-positivity]

shoutout to other paraphiles with all of the big 3!!

for those who are open about it!

for those who aren't!

for those who want to be open about it!

for those who don't!

for those who's youth/animal/dead attractions overlap with each other!

for those who's youth/animal/dead attractions are separate!

for those with other paraphilias besides the big 3!

for those who's only paraphilias are the big 3!

for those who's other paraphilias overlap with their youth/animal/dead attractions, or are otherwise circumstantial! (sadists, fictos, autos, etc!)

for those who's attractions are sexual!

for those who's attractions are romantic!

for those who's attractions are tertiary!

for those who's attractions don't fit into the prior categories, or are a combination of them!

and for anypara else that i didn't list here! you're all amazing, and i'm happy you're here with us <3

this is para positivity !!

[this-is-para-positivity]

introduction

this blog is dedicated to spreadin positivity and joy in the paraphile community, along with celebrating paras and para pride !!

this blog is also strictly anti harmful contact and anti abuse. please do not submit a positivity post about harmin beings who cannot consent, or acting on paras at the expense of others !!!

more info under the cut ♡

what's posted on this blog ?

any and all positivity, joy, and pride surroundin paras can be submitted ! wether it's discoverin a new para, buyin or creatin merch for your para, self-acceptance, solidarity, or just a kind message to other paras !! positivity is the rule here :3

submissions that will not be posted:

any hatred or harassment.

paramisia.

antiship rhetoric.

admissions of abuse / harm.

condoning abuse / harm.

encouraging abuse / harm.

pro / neu contacts.

call-outs.

though these will not be posted, they may be discussed on my main blog. keep things positive and joyous here !!

about the kitty in charge

hai, i'm kiyo !! my main blog is @kiyos-den and i'm a NO-ACT, nonhuman paraphile & an introject in a dissociative system. my pronouns are kitty/kittyself !!

i'm a zoophile / fictozoophile / faunaphile, autopedophile, fictomap / shotacon, incestophile, teratophile, bejerophile, plushophile / plushozoo, and an autobiastophile. i'm also in a consang relationship with my in-sys twin brother !!

although i'm anti-radqueer, radqueers can interact on this blog, as long as they're anti harmful contact / anti abuse, and as long as they don't bring up harmful transids.

other blogs like this ?

this blog was actually inspired by @thisis-paraphilicsocialostracism, @this-is-paramisic, @para-education, @paramisic-blocklist, @parapride, and @this-is-paraphilic-joy !!

blog tags

🌸 kiyo talkin ( original posts )

🐾 paw-sitivity ( submissions )

tws will also be tagged !!

flags in our pfp & banner made by @/daeitys

[maplethecatwrites]

Animals cannot give informed consent to sexual interactions.

"but they come closer to be so they're comfortable with it!!"

That was probably caused by conditioning.

The keyword of the statement above is "informed"

Explain the risks of infection and other wounds on their genitals or other places as well as the risk of disease that can be transmitted sexually between human and animal in a way that the animal can then look at the options and decide if they still want to take that risk to engage with you.

I'll wait.

...Yeah Theriform animals can't consent.

[phantasiafr]

THISSS

animals are unaware of the harm it could cause them/you to have a sexual relationship, most animals who are “consenting” to human contact were abused/conditioned into it!

[maplethecatwrites]

REAL. Every single talking point of animals "consenting" could be applied to your average groomed 5 year old.

Ickyyy.

[shifterswolverine0]

This is why I am anti-abuse and anti-contact, you have no reason to sexually assault non human animals and children, that is not love, that is abuse.

[this-is-paramisic]

I have a question.

Context: I am physically 24, but mentally/emotionally closer to 15. Either because of age regression or being age stunted, I don't know for sure. Basically, I feel more like I'm 15 than 24.

Is it bad that I occasionally feel attracted towards fictional teen characters? I don't feel attracted to real teens, just fictional teens. I am physically an adult, so I'm worried that what I feel is wrong.

🦈

Not at all!!

Being attracted to characters,even ones portrayed as children or teens,is very normal ^^ not just in relation to age regression or being a different age mentality but also just in general. Engaging in fiction in whatever ways you like is not in itself harmful. In other words,nobody’s getting hurt if you like -18 characters,have fun!! :3

[armyflag]

1. Approved/Certified Necrophile Stamp 2. Approved/Certified Zoophile Stamp 3. Approved/Certified MAP Stamp

All made my Me Me Me this is my contribution to pride so happy pride

[thisis-paraphilicsocialostracism]

tw for harassment

hey, you absolutely don’t have to answer this, just thought id explain — i’m @anti-para-blocklist, and im deactivating/will have deactivated by the time this ask is answered

i’ve tried to help the community, but the harassment’s just getting too much. it was fine at first, but it’s gotten so severe after crippled peeper was added to the blocklist. i get asks with death threats, rape threats, doxxing threats, asks saying that they hope my family finds out im a paraphile and “beats/rapes it out of me”, one ask even described how anon would like to torture me. i get these asks almost every day. im deactivating now because someone sent me actual gore, and i just can’t handle it anymore

sorry, everyone. keep living proudly

This is paraphilic social ostracism, rape/death threats, and doxxing.

I’m so sorry about this. Nobody should have to undergo this just because they’re living as their authentic self and wanting to help others. I truly appreciate the work you’ve done for the community.

You deserve to log off to take care of yourself.

[this-is-paramisic]

This is paramisic! (/nay anon or op)

You’re super cool and did so much good for the community while u were up! We’re sorry paramisics were so shitty to you :( wishing you better days,we all appreciate you. Please take care <33 /gen

[brodincest]

"I like toxic ships but I HATE darkshippers :/"

We arent even two cheeks of the same ass we are the SAME CHEEK.

[estro-boi]

we gotta get back to torrent distribution, i just watched someone eat eight grand in bandwidth charges because they ran a direct-download piracy site with local file hosting through cloudflare. torrents were invented literally for this exact reason

[estro-boi]

torrents work like this

i have a file or folder on my pc that i want to share with other people. let's call it gayshit.mp3

unfortunately gayshit.mp3 is 750mb and im not paying for discord nitro so i need another way to send it

i put it into qbittorrent and it makes a torrent file. this is essentially a very small file that points to gayshit.mp3 so other computers can find it. kinda like a treasure map

i send this tiny file to my friend, who loads it into qbittorrent. their computer takes a moment to find mine over the vast expanse of cyberspace and then (as long as my pc is running and the file is still where it should be), it gets copied from my hard drive to theirs

this is the cool part: if somebody else loads that tiny file, they can download it from both of us. if i'm offline but my friend is on, the third person can still get it. this also means that if two people have separate halves of the file, they can download the other half from each other. as long as some combination of people have the pieces between them, they can all have the whole thing.

crucially this does not require a server!!! you can just upload the file to a few people and as long as they keep it, it's still accessible. as long as somebody, somewhere is still connected, it's available forever. the only way it goes away is if everybody disconnects from it.

please learn to torrent

[macleod]

How to Use Torrents (with Pictures) - wikiHow

An expert guide to get started using torrentsTorrents are one of the most popular forms of file sharing on the internet, accounting for over

always use qbittorrent, do not use bitorrent or utorrent.

[this-is-paramisic]

[Big TW; paramisia, graphic and explicit threats, sanisim, grooming.]

This is paramisic!!

I have? Several points to make here.

1- First things first. Nobody here is advocating for abuse. Please educate yourself on contact stances, particularly anti-contact/anti-harmful contact as that is the stance we follow here.

2- Many paraphiles (including yours truly) have been abused, groomed, assaulted, and/or taken advantage of in some way. For many that’s what caused a part of or all of their paraphillic attractions. Not all,but a notable amount. The people you are attempting to yell at are likely to be beings who have gone through that same type of abuse.

3- Just because you made the choice to replace your urges doesn’t mean everyone else who has a similar experience has to. You don’t want those thoughts? Cool,do what you want,it’s your brain. That doesn’t mean every single person with similar feelings dislikes them.

4- We are Radqueer critical. RQs are welcome here (given they are not pro-contact), but we are not one,never claimed to be one, and this account is not about radqueers whatsoever. Not sure why you felt the need to drag them into this too. Leave them alooone man.

4- I know you just essentially told us we deserve to die but. Genuinely you sound really fucking miserable and I hope you’re doing ok. Ok? 👍

[Anon also sent a screenshot of what I assume to be messages from their abuser. These will not be posted. I know they were submitted willingly,but I don’t want to take the chance that the one who sent them sees this,recognizes them,and tries to get back to anon through it. Slim chance,I know, but I’ve dealt with very persistent stalkers before and didn’t want to risk it. The safety of anon is important,however hateful they may be towards us.]

[anti-para-blocklist]

What steps have you taken (chemical/physical castration, isolation, etc.) to protect children from yourself? What inspired you to make a safe space for pedophiles to congregate comfortably and normalize their largely idiopathic condition to the obvious detriment of society? Do you think you should be allowed in the general population knowing that you're so unwell that no sane parent would ever want you anywhere near their children? Do you think even non-offending or, more realistically, pedophiles who haven't been caught yet should all go on a registry, and if not, why? I'm genuinely curious about how the most evil members of society have managed to convince themselves that they're victims because nobody wants to tolerate the threat they pose.

so many words and not one of them holds any value lmfao 😭

[this-is-paramisic]

THIS is paramisic!!

Anon is a coward who doesn’t have the guts to say anything with its whole chest. Don’t let them get u down :]

[verymanyrats]