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my one tumblr got taken down. im pro recovery but not in recovery. TW FOR EATING DISORDER AND DEPRESSION. i would love to make new friends so if you wanna chat or vent or rant, im here

[letmegetmysmokeon]

[blackcoffeeana-deactivated20211]

[ashberrrry]

It's always 'wyd' and never come watch the moon with me

[thinxaesthetic]

Oml my principal just went up to me and asked me why I wasn’t eating lunch and I said I don’t like the school lunch and that I usually eat at home and he said “okay just don’t do the anorexia” and I was literally looking at thinspo while talking to him

I don’t know you shouldnt “do the anorexia.”

Like people choose to “do the anorexia.”

Guys don’t do the anorexia

“Don’t do the anorexia.”

What type of bullshit is this??

Remember guys “don’t do the anorexia”

LMFAO 😂

D O N T

D O

T H E

A N O R E X I A

Yeah don’t do the anorexia guyyysss

D⃠o⃠n⃠t⃠

D⃟o⃟

tհε

🅰🅽🅾🆁🅴🆇🅸🅰

i absolutely do not recommend doing the anorexia. 0/10.

[size-thinn]

0/10 would not do again

[where-are-the-anas]

If I hear any of u did the anorexia, I stg I’ll kill u

Guys, this is serious.

Please guys, don’t EVER do the anorexia

You can do whatever you want to do just never do the anorexia

[fxckin-fxtigue]

[xxthintentionsxx]

Yeah, come on, guys. Don’t dO THE ANOREXIA

[kitkattxox]

[endingthebeginningx]

just a psa, you should nEVER do the anorexia!!

[codo-en]

This made me laugh so much

[2ry1g-b07]

you should never do the anorexia!!!! but you can have anorexia 😊

[pinkpeachjams]

Lmao im dying 😭 bc of this post (and also I did the anorexia…)

[emptycal0ries]

LEKVMLWRNIWRONWRM

[caffeinatedopossum]

Person: what would Jesus do

Me: yea you got a point actually *dies for 3 days*

[caffeinatedopossum]

Alternatively

*ghosts you for two thousand years*

[thegoldenissue]

perazna

[waningmoonsworld]

Can I be this but literally no one is allowed to touch me?

[goth-oatmilk-latte]

PSA your fucking trauma doesnt give u a pass to be absolutely shit to your partner.

everything should not be a battle.

if someone hurt you in the past, be upfront, sure, but dont absolutely grasp at that for everything ur partner does u dont particularly like. that shit is manipulative, vindictive, and emotional abuse. ur making ur partner walk on eggshells bc YOU have unresolved trauma YOURE not fully addressing.

[waningmoonsworld]

[funnytwittertweets]

[sunsetpan0rama]

Sir that's my emotional support tumblr mutual who I've never actually talked to

[crabs-and-bison]

A like and a reblog is an entire conversation.

[4norexicstr4wberry]

A comment is a 30-chapter love story.

[waningmoonsworld]

Good because these are the only things I have energy for

[thoughtfulchaos]

@dying2beth1n @m0nsterkyle lol ommmgg you guys 

[miradademujer-deactivated202402]

by Comicname

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[crazymammoth]

Covid year 2

[cuuno-moved]

sonic the lesbian is a hedgehog

[cuuno-moved]

wait i fucked it up.

[cuuno-moved]

guys stop reblogging this.

[llesbianfarmer]

straight people will never understand how therapeutic it is to hear the words “her girlfriend” or “his boyfriend” or how I ascend to heaven when I hear “her wife” and “his husband”

[queerbookdragon]

Female customer: “I don’t have a rewards card but my partner might.”

Me, ears perking up: “Great! Can I have their name?”

Customer: “It’s Stephanie ____”

Me: stupidly wide smile and faint twinkle in eyes because holy crap I’m not alone

[kendrysaneela]

These two women came up to my register with their twins and they called each other honey and their kids called them both Mom and my soul ascended to the heavens i was so happy

[overlyactivepingpongball]

When I worked as a contractor I knocked on a heavily pregnant woman’s door and she said she’d “have to talk to the missus” in a heeeeavy outback accent and I actually forgot how to speak for a second and had to explain that I’m not homophobic I’m just super gay and hearing her say that launched my souls directly to nirvana

[oculianthracina]

My soul when I see Queer people visibly and openly living their best Queer lives:

[laughconfetti]

LGBT visibility is so important for this reason and more.

[transgender-er]

Also when you hear “their partner”

[tiktoks-repost]

[original-honeychiles]

Read this and save a life - YOUR OWN

From a surgical nurse and certified CPR teacher:

Please pause for 2 minutes and read this:

1. Let’s say it’s 7.25pm and you’re going home (alone of course) after an unusually hard day on the job.

2. You’re really tired, upset and frustrated.

3 Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to drag out into your arm and up in to your jaw. You are only about five km from the hospital nearest your home.

4. Unfortunately you don’t know if you’ll be able to make it that far.

5. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy who taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.

6. HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE? Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness.

7. However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest. A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again.

8. Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital.

9. Tell as many other people as possible about this. It could save their lives!!

10. A cardiologist says If everyone who gets this mail kindly sends it to 10 people, you can bet that we’ll save at least one life.

11. Rather than sending jokes, please... contribute by forwarding this mail which can save a person’s life.

12. If this message comes around you... more than once… please don’t get irritated... You should instead, be happy that you have many friends who care about you & keeps reminding you how to deal with a Heart attack.

please take the time and boost this post by reposting it and sending it to those you love because we all need to understand how to quickly deal with heart attacks

[palenoface]

as someone who has been having signs of a heart attack recently, i’m really glad i found this post

[animefucker-69]

I feel like the people who follow me need this

[wannabegone]

ill reblog this whenever appears in my dash

[felicitatem]

love for the girls of midnight, the ones with alluring gazes and heart-shaped lips. The girls who are painted pretty in dark lipstick and bold brows, weaving their fingers between your’s while watching the moon dance.

love for the girls of dawn, the ones with wake you with gentle and loving whispers. The girls who sketch their existence in the corners of notebooks and your mind, hiding curious smiles behind the back of her ink-stained hands.

love for the girls of noon, the ones napping stilly besides open windows and tabby cats. The girls who plant lazy kisses across your jaw and make a pillow out of your shoulder, eternally content with the intimacy of comfort.  

love for the girls of dusk, the ones with beautiful voices that lead you home to their embrace. The girls perfumed with oregano and rosemary, studying old recipe books beside the stove and laughing freely at simple miracles.

[missmentelle]

What abusers believe.

If you’ve ever had to deal with an abusive person in your life - like an abusive parent or partner - you’ve probably wondered what made them treat you that way. If you understand why abuse is happening, the thinking goes, you might be able to figure out how to make it stop. 

So why do abusers do what they do? Do they have anger issues? Drinking problems? Past trauma? Personality disorders? Do they just need to get in touch with their feelings and learn how to communicate better?

Nope. 

Abusive behaviours come from abusive beliefs. Abusers - whether consciously or unconsciously - hold specific beliefs about relationships that drive their behaviour and allow them to justify the horrible things they do. Even if your abuser has never put their beliefs into words, you’ll probably recognize a lot of these abusive beliefs:

You are responsible for my emotions. It is never my responsibility to reflect on my emotional reactions or learn better coping skills - it’s your responsibility to stop doing things that make me angry or upset.

I must act on my emotions. If I am angry, I am going to lash out. You have no right to criticize me for that, and it’s not my responsibility to learn to manage my  emotions - you have to stop making me lash out at you. Asking me not to act on my emotions is controlling and wrong.

You will always be responsible for my emotions. Even if the relationship ends, you will continue to be responsible for my emotions, and I will expect you to continue to prioritize my feelings.

If I have feelings about something, it’s my business. If something you do or think causes an emotional reaction in me, then I have a right to get involved or tell you what to do. My feelings must be the priority. You don’t have the right to tell me that it’s none of my business. 

You must judge me on my intentions, not my actions. If I didn’t mean to hurt you or scare you, then you don’t have the right to be hurt or scared. No one has the right to try to hold me accountable unless I meant to hurt someone.

I get to decide what your intentions were. If you hurt me, you meant to hurt me. If you make me jealous, you meant to make me jealous. Nothing you do is ever accidental or unintended - everything you do is intentional and malicious, even if it was a response to something I did.

My feelings are genuine; your feelings are manipulation. If I’m upset, my feelings are real and important. If you are upset, you have an ulterior motive - you’re just trying to be manipulative and get attention or sympathy for yourself.

You have freedoms because I allow you to. Every freedom you have in your life - like wearing what you want - it’s because I generously allow it. I expect you to be grateful to me for that. I have the right to take those freedoms away whenever I want, and I expect you to obey.

If you set boundaries with me, you are mistreating me. If you really loved me, you wouldn’t set boundaries with me. You are doing this to intentionally hurt me, which means I don’t have to respect those boundaries.

You holding me accountable for hurting you is worse than me hurting you. My pain at being called out is worse than your pain at being mistreated. If I feel bad about something I did, I have already been punished enough. You trying to discuss the issue or hold me accountable is just your way of abusing me.

If I apologized for something, you have to forgive me. If the relationship has ended, you have to reconcile with me. You don’t get to ask for more time apart or more discussion of the issue - once I’ve apologized, the matter is closed for good.

The relationship is not over until I say it is over. So long as I want a relationship with you, you must have a relationship with me. Your feelings are irrelevant. Even if we have broken up, you must remain available to me so we can get back together in the future. Not wanting a relationship with me means you are mistreating me or being immature. 

I am the authority in this relationship. I am smarter and more perceptive than you. I know what is best for both of us. My version of events is always the correct one. I have superior judgement, taste and opinions. If you question me or disagree with me after I’ve given you the correct answer, you are disrespecting and mistreating me, or you are simply immature and incapable of knowing what’s good for you.

I have the right to control you. It is my absolute right to decide what you do and who you associate with. You have no right to disobey me. I am owed obedience and control; if you don’t give me those things, you are wronging me and cheating me out of the relationship I deserve. 

If you resist my control, I am allowed to do whatever I think is necessary to get it back. Once you’ve resisted me, I am justified in whatever I do to regain control of you. I am not responsible for my actions when you resist my control; you forced me to do it, and it’s your own fault. 

I should be your main focus. Everything else in your life comes secondary to me. When you make decisions, my feelings should be your first consideration. You are expected to make sacrifices for me and put me at the center of your life; I am not obligated to do the same for you. 

If I spend money on you or do something for you, you are in debt to me. You spending money on me or doing things for me does not erase your debt to me, and I am never in debt to you. You are indebted to me for as long as I decide. I may decide that your belongings and earnings also belong to me, since I allow you to have them. I may also decide at any time that you owe me for gifts I gave you, even if they were meant to be gifts.

I am not abusive, and you are not allowed to tell me otherwise. I know what abuse is, and real abusers are significantly worse than me. If our relationship has ever had any good times or positive moments, it can’t possibly be abusive. If you accuse me of being abusive, you are the one abusing me, or you have been led astray by bad influences. 

Relationships should be effortless (for me). I am owed a relationship that is peaceful and requires no real effort from me. It is your job to make sure we have that kind of relationship. If there is any tension or conflict in the relationship, it is your fault, and you are depriving me of the relationship I deserve to have. 

Abusers and victims alike often buy into the narrative that abuse is rooted in anger issues - after all, abusers are frequently angry, and anger is an issue that can be treated. But this narrative just isn’t true. Abusers aren’t abusive because they are angry. Abusers are angry because they are abusive. 

A non-abusive partner is not someone who has learned how to control their rage whenever you spend time with your friends or get home 15 minutes late from work. A non-abusive partner just doesn’t feel any rage in those situations. An abuser’s rage is firmly rooted in their beliefs about relationships - they feel entitled to a relationship that meets their impossible expectations, and when they inevitably don’t get it, they bubble over with fury. Whether they know it or not, they have firmly entrenched beliefs about how relationships should be, and those beliefs are at the heart of their abuse. 

Can abusers stop believing these things? Maybe. If they can acknowledge that they have these beliefs, accept that these beliefs are dangerous and unreasonable and let go of these beliefs, maybe it’s possible for them to no longer be abusive in the future. Maybe. But it’s not your job to hang around and find out. If you’re in an abusive relationship of any kind, you deserve better. There are many people in this world who don’t hold abusive views of relationships, and you deserve to find happiness with them. 

[waningmoonsworld]

Just reading this pissed me off I swear 😅

But yes, all true