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am I the only one who constantly lives with a "I want to go home" feeling, especially when I'm actually at home
"Why are so many young women disabled/chronically ill these days? It must be a social contagion that they're all faking!"
Gee gosh I don't know about you but I sure do remember reading literature and accounts contemporary to the 19th century and/or earlier in which there'd be plenty of female characters who prone to fainting spells, nervous trouble, and aches and pains. The only difference was that these symptoms were attributed to inherent qualities of womanhood and proof of female inferiority, and not actual medical conditions worthy of genuine concern. And there were also plenty of male characters with the same set of symptoms, who were dismissed as being lazy and work-shy and often were relegated to prisons or died. And this continues to be true for chronically ill men, who are less likely to see a doctor about their symptoms and instead feel compelled to push through them until they drop dead or more acutely ill of exhaustion and/or injury.
It's almost as if chronic illnesses always existed, but labeling them for what they are and not treating them as markers of some inherent moral qualities is the thing that's new.
I donβt want to hear any writing advice from Stephen king not because I think there would be no value in it but because whatever works for Stephen king is between him and god and that demon he made a pact with that lets him write 3000 words in one sitting daily.
HE HAS BEEN SOBER AND STILL WRITING FOR 30 FUCKING YEARS!!!
Yeah, as a person who often does 3k words in a sitting, frequently for days or weeks in a row, and has never done cocaine.... it's not the cocaine, and it's not a god-given physical trait like being the "hottest friend".
It's practice. Not just practicing writing in general, but intentionally practicing for speed. I have taught writing in formal settings, and the thing that seems to most frequently slow people down is the amount of time they spend tinkering with, worrying about, and sweating over every individual sentence as they write it -- and then they've written 800 words and they're fucking exhausted, because all of that worrying takes a LOT of cognitive energy. Turn your brain off. Practice not caring if it's a perfect sentence because you can fix it later. Just slap some bullshit on the page. Keep your fingers moving.
If you can type 60wpm, and you type without stopping, you'll have 3k in under an hour. Now, realistically, I'm a fast writer, and I do still pause to do a LITTLE tinkering now and then, so I compose at a rate of around 25wpm, even though my top typing speed is around 80wpm. At 25wpm, 3k would take me roughly an hour and a half. Let's round it up to two and a half hours for a couple thinking breaks.
The point is, this is doable. 25wpm for two and a half hours, including some thinking breaks. It's not particularly superhuman, any more than being able to run a mile is superhuman. It just takes intentional training towards a specific goal and prioritizing what you're spending your day on.
When you first start practicing for speed, then yeah, a lot of what you produce is going to be garbage, and step one is to let that be perfectly fucking fine. Your mantra is "It doesn't have to be good, it just has to be done" -- it's a lot easier to edit a pile of raw material than to try to get it perfect on the first go. As you practice, you'll get more adept at the writing craft part of it too, so the product will not be garbage stream-of-consciousness anymore. The sentences will start to snap together one after the other like lego bricks.
But you don't get there if you say, "Well, it was just the cocaine" or "This isn't applicable to me because Stephen King is doing a completely different activity." Neither of those things are true. He's a regular human being, and I'm a regular human being, and so are you. Writing fast is a learnable skill, just like being able to run a mile or any equivalent feat of physical exertion. If you don't WANT to learn that sort of skill, you definitely don't have to. But there's a difference between deciding that you don't WANT to learn the skill and reflexively deciding that the skill must be impossible, and when I see people saying "That seems impossible, so there's no point to me even trying," it makes me sad.
Because there's no such thing as impossible. Some things are just Very Tedious.
I wonder how much time he spends editing.
I love my local library so much π₯²
Some more highlights- and this is just the adult programming, the kid and teen stuff is even more fun:
The adult take and make craft kit for the first September program is cryptid pony bead keychains.
Speaking of beads, there's a local Potawatomi artist collective coming in to do an art history lesson on traditional beading tonight.
Stuffed pierogi (as in plush) for Polish Heritage Month.
Two upcoming months of Yiddish events including a screening of Fiddler on the Roof in discussion with the Tevye the Milkman stories and the role those played in modern Yiddish literature AND Yiddish zine kits- I'm not even Jewish and I'm so excited this is happening.
Library facilitated board game swap- and tons of drop in board game AND ttrpg nights.
Brand new parenting library where people have free access to this huge assortment of parenting articles and videos... that have all been vetted by parenting professionals (pediatricians, child psychologists, etc.). With misinformation so readily available online, this is a genuinely safe space to find info... and it's been translated into a lot of languages. Will I use this? No. Am I glad my taxpayer dollars went towards it? Absolutely.
That's the stuff I could remember offhand from this month's magazine. I love my library so much.
It's been five days since I first read it but I haven't stopped thinking about Nnedi Okorafor's post about AI+various social issues and how it's all just humanity fucking hating itself as a concept, just truly hating that we're human and that others are human too, and it's going to be on my mind for a WHILE To effectively fight against so much of this we have to find a way to fall in love with our own humanity. Not saying it'll be easy but if we can't actually LOVE humanity and its mortality and strength and weaknesses... then we can't effectively fight FOR that humanity
some knight posters I've made | available here
I do actually need singlets to understand that joking with a fictive about traumatic events in their canon is something you should ask for permission to do before assuming it will be a Funny fandom joke haha
Let's exercise our imaginations and think about what actually experiencing the events in the show/game/book what have you would be like and then ask ourselves critical questions like "would I appreciate it if someone made a joke about the worst thing that ever happened to me without seeing if I was cool with it first?"
just found out one of my best friends irl is a system ! she's known for over half a decade but she only just found the means to let me know. you know how prevalence of this type of existence is estimated to be roughly as common as redheads, if not more? IT'S TRUE. you could be interacting with systems every day!!!! I know it gets so lonely but there are so many people going about their lives as part of a system. plurality is a normal variation of the human experience and it's all around you. we're all gonna be okay I think
One time I invited someone my old discord server from another discord where they were using PK, and I thought, "oh I should add that bot here too so they can use it!" A few days later a few of my friends came out to me as plural because they saw this and since then I have met soooo many systems lol. Like a light switch they realized I was cool about it and all the sudden I was privy to a massive group I had like, no experience with.
I'm so good at asking only the most sensitive and not at all invasive or offensive questions /j (I'm told this is true but I still feel like it isn't lmao)
this is how it is!!!! a lot of people think systems are almost impossibly rare with "I've never met a system in my life" as a reason but trust me, YOU HAVE. we just aren't giving out that info willy nilly, because we don't know who will be safe to tell. it's incredibly stigmatised!
non-systems, you can make the world a more wonderful place, a safer place for your friends and peers, JUST by having an open mind and making it known that you're someone people like me can trust. really all it takes [:
Lots and lots of dialogue. This is not even all of them. Some of these are clearly meant to be comics but I don't have infinite time
The more we learn about Kender the more it seems like the only bad thing he did was leave such a mess to Lance. Like sure crime bad but that level of frustration for decades makes most things seem very excusable.
Yeah because as with most criminals, he's a reasonable person, don't give him a reason to do crimes and he won't
Oh god did N do the whole βtake on the E4 and Champion for Team Plasmaβ thing like in BW and then get thrust into champion duties after the dust settled?
YEP. THINGS KEEP HAPPENING TO HIM AS A RESULT OF HIS OWN ACTIONS
... is Iris over 18 when she becomes Champion or do you think Unova's laws are different? Its been a long time since I've played Black when shes our canonically 12-13 year old selves friend who immediately starts frothing for violence when she hears Bianca's Munna is stolen, and shes a champion within 2 years pf that occurrence, bur also the canonical 13 year old in question IS referred to as the missing Champion I believe, plus this AU isny focuses much on Unova and im just a huge Unova fan so the mentions are driving me insane
Kgkskgkka sorry for the unova tease
In my setting Iris is still in training, she's just Way more public facing than any of the Kantrio because Alder retired and her mentor/official Unova Champion is N, and you do Not want to put him in front of media. The Unovan E4 is tired, to say the least
why are art museums the only museums with cafeterias? imagine if you just got done walking through a civil war museum and there was a place offering hardtack and soup beans and really bad coffee based on the rations of a union soldier
I think it would be fun for it to serve foods that could have conceivably existed in the time of dinosaurs, like fern fiddlehead based dishes.
despite everything, aroace grace still owns severely
ever been the kind of bastard who keeps everyone at a polite distance only to let down your guard and bond crazystyle with one guy in particular and later on have to contend with a romantic partner (re)entering their life, and while they're still by far the most important person in your life, the romantic nature of their bond necessarily makes you a second priority in theirs, so you just have to sit with the dawning realization that from now on they will always reach for someone else before they reach for you and there's a part of their life that will always forever be off limits because you have no claim to it? not as "just their friend"? cause 29 atmospheres of boiling fucking ammonia is a pretty apt metaphor, let me tell you
out of curiosity, what is the expected path for an ex-champion once a new one takes over? is there still a job for them in the league, or is it usually some form of retirement and/or just going off on their own? id assume that kenders exit method isnt typical lol
Just retirement, and early retirement compared to other jobs. The typical track is
win the Championship as a teen, after a few runs (most kids don't even try the journey for a second time because they'd found something else they like on their first run)
go through the mentorship, however long that takes (not all winners take the mentorship. none of the gen 2 Champions will)
go off and do your own thing to gain experiences and connections (a lot of apprentices stop here. Jacinthe is one of them)
come back and take over for your mentor in your late 20s
run the League and collect your own teenagers to teach. Ideally, in your 30s and having built some semblance of a life outside this job
hope one of them actually go from step 3 to step 4. This usually happens when you're in your 40s-50s
Congrats! You're free! What's next?
Usually Champions are pretty well-connected, so they aren't lacking in job opportunities post-retirement. Their actual salary as Champion depends on how the region sees them, but that is a scale from extravagant to cushy. Champion Leaf is so not looking at the cost of any meal she's having ever again
rereading the old mentor au and im just obsessed with βdont read while hes typing (says guy doing exactly that)β. they are friends and rivalsβ¦β¦..
Exactly how that went in the script btw <33
Do others know Lance is still in contact with Kender? I have to imagine no. Surely they would be pretty upset if they found out?
They do. Agatha and Lorelei were around when they first got "mysterious help" and Lance had to go pay it back with a visit (asian etiquette and fey rules are pretty similar things). Reactions range from exasperation at Lance for never listening when he's told not to do something on top of worry because in her opinion these trips are not physically, mentally, or emotionally good for him (Agatha), spitefuly fight for the League to be independent of Kender's help (Lorelei), quietly bewildered and observing because none of this matches up to the public opinion the Plateau has on Kender but he's not the type to ask for explanations (Bruno)