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[meburgers]

just wanted to doodle Grace and Adrian being cute together (Rocky is also there)

[rimonoroni2]

what people don’t understand about how adhd is disabling is that it’s not just getting temporarily distracted from, like, school work or hobbies. it’s getting distracted/being unable to motivate yourself to go to the doctor, eat regularly, do hygiene tasks, etc. it’s not knowing when or how long it will take you to do something, ANYTHING, and in many cases that thing is taking a shower or keeping your house from turning into a biohazard. it’s about being fundamentally incapable of controlling your attention and focus on anything, even and especially things you need to do to survive.

[kennikole]

Omega Simon pls

Did someone say omega Simon 👀👀👀

[scientia-rex]

Sometimes when people on the Internet are like "ADULTS CAN NEVER INTERACT WITH MINORS IT'S CREEPY" I remember how, at 12, back in 1997, I was on the Witchvox forums with people ranging from me to people in at least their 50s, and no one there was ever a creep to me, no one ever made me feel uncomfortable or asked for my personal info, and when I finally broke down after a particularly brutal day of bullying at school and posted about it they were the first adults I'd ever met in my entire life who told me the bullies were the problem and it was okay to be angry about it.

Kids need to interact with adults who will listen to them.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

I was practically raised by sixty year old scientists I'd never met on random science forums. I'd show up and talk about evolution with them for hours. When I got accepted into university, they helped me go through how to find a place to live and the basics of living alone (my family didn't want me to go to uni so didn't help with any of this, figuring that if I couldn't find accommodation I'd have to stay home). You're supposed to have friends outside your age group; I'd argue that it's psychologically unhealthy not to. And no, your parents and grandparents don't count.

[amurderofkittens]

It takes a village to raise a child. Not a village of other 6 year olds.

[the-real-seebs]

Yeah. In particular, note that the goal here is not to have one person you trust intensely and you have no way of sanity-checking them; the goal is to have a handful of people, who are independent of each other, so that if one of them is making you uncomfortable you can tell someone else "hey this person I know is doing a thing which sorta creeps me out" and get feedback.

In an ideal world, you could rely on your parents to perform that function. We're not in an ideal world.

[princecharmingtobe]

I always bring up a discord server I was in, with a wide age range. One day one of the younger members messaged a mod to ask if they were overreacting to something. Specifically, another adult in the server had been messaging them and being very inappropriate with them. To which they responded "They did WHAT?!" Told them to immediately block that person, booted them from the server and sent out a warning to the server and outside of it.

Because this kid had other adults to go to, not only did they get help and protection, but said adults were also able to send out a warning to everyone else of what this person was doing.

[dykepuffs]

Always, always, having appropriate and good friendships with adults is what lets teenagers spot when one is dangerous.

[iamlordly]

I'm... a little bit addicted to bloodymary

[skiimble]

posting doodles at 1:43 am

[aleyapay]

Saving the stars !! ⋆⭒˚｡⋆

[Drew over a polaroid of myself and a friend!!]

[htkavampire]

shlumped over a rock

[to-proudly-go]

Fastest way to get to your soulmate

[noxexistant]

some post-crash henrys. happy disabled pride month <3

bonus henry sketch/lines because i like them (and you can better appreciate his scars and anisocoria)

[cinewhore-deactivated20211003]

[teathattast]

[kordyceps]

I've been back on this hellsite (affectionate) for nearly two weeks now and realized I have not seen a single piece of fanart featuring Grace in his obscene adorable lil EVA undersuit and so ofc had to rectify this injustice immediately.

[kiwi]

as a former escape room host i highly recommend doing an escape room as a first date. its a great way to learn how ppl react under pressure and how well they collaborate with you right off the bat. also more than once ive seen people enter an escape room as a couple and exit broken up LOL its a fantastic litmus test

[kiwi]

sorry to broadcast ur tags but this is also a valuable part of the litmus test! it seems like you learned a lot about how this person makes you feel in their social group. they didn't go out of their way to include you, and neither did their friends. therefore you can come to a pretty good conclusion about how you might feel being part of their life outside of an escape room; someone who doesnt include you or your feelings in a game is likely going to do the same in other situations

[softness-and-shattering]

An experiment with a clear negative outcome is still a successful experiment.

[neytui]

They said let's take a picture and not tell Simon about our inside joke

[caffeinatedopossum]

"I'm still kicking" is such a funny way to say "I'm still alive". Like lol. I'm still thrashing. Flailing. Writhing even. The violence remains.

[cherryvnytsia]

"The Boop"

Adults deserve star stickers too