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arden or James | 25 | they/them

[narcissistcookbook]

hey boy what that mountain dew

[coffeefocusrat]

you're just mad because you're hungry and tired and your legs hurt and you head hurts and you're too hot and you have depression

[heyvamin]

because who am i if i don‘t give my entire heart everytime?

[deaddogbrain]

imo the way you feel about groups it's fully socially acceptable to hate (like children or polyamorous people, among others) is the canary in the coal mine for underlying bigoted beliefs. if you're only supportive of marginalized groups when it's cool to do so, probably you don't actually care about marginalized groups, you care about other people thinking you care

[deaddogbrain]

there are 1 trillion people in the notes of this post saying "yeah! i mean i hate kids but they should have rights!" you hate kids? you mean you hate all members of an oppressed group solely for their membership in this group? right. why do you hate them? because they can't take care of themselves and need help? because they don't understand social norms and can be "annoying" and disrespect boundaries as a result? because they can be messy? because they don't understand things in the same way as you do? that's awesome. how do you feel about disabled people btw

[princncess]

porn is bad because [christian talking point] and [alt-right study] and [misunderstood neurochemistry] and of course [feature of capitalism]

[princncess]

thank you SO MUCH for reminding me about [feature of patriarchy] and [problem caused by lack of kids' sex ed] random tumblr user in the notes! louder for those in the back!

[fantaboy91]

The adult content warning on this post is really just the icing on the cake

[7evenam]

Unfortunately I’m gonna be out of town when deltarune chapter 5 releases, so in order to avoid spoilers I’m most likely gonna be inactive the 23rd through the 27th 😔

GOOD NEWS TGOUGH THE REASON IM GONNA BE GONE IS CAUSE IM GOING TO A BUG HUNTER NARCISSIST COOKBOOK CONCERTTTTTTTTTTT WOOOOOO

My collection grows…. (Very funny that my deltarune posters are on the wall next to them)

[narcissistcookbook]

my set will be entirely screamed deltarune spoilers over 190bpm powerchords

[bughuntermusic]

WHY DID YOU PUT THEM IN THAT ORDER

[tmntallthewaydw]

breaking news! spreadsheet man can't stand posters being out of chronological order

[narcissistcookbook]

If you have seated tickets at a concert. Don't. Stand. Up. 🫵

seated tickets at concerts are not:

- tickets for people who didn't get standing tickets in time

- standing tickets with the option of having a little rest when you're tired of standing

seated tickets at concerts are:

- for people who aren't physically able to stand for a whole show

- for families who don't want to get separated

- for fucking sitting

if you wanted to standing and got sitting, grow up and sit down

swear to god the next person who stands up in front of me in the seated area is getting a tick on the back of their neck

[narcissistcookbook]

not enjoying this thing the apps are starting to do where when i try to take a screenshot they flash up the share this post interface - sometimes so fast it effectively prevents screenshotting

something something user retention, i know, but jesus christ fuck off

[forgetful-nerd]

The newly mutated 2003 turtles look so embarrassed to be caught covered in ooze.

They just gained human intelligence and the first emotions they’re feeling is humiliation and confusion. I love them.

[forgetful-nerd]

P.O.V: you’re 2012 Hamato Yoshi and you’re looking for a new pet to start your new life in NYC:

[dilutedfrenchsauce]

Controversial take perhaps but i don't think anyone has ever looked more in love than dan howell in the WAD afterparty livestream as Phil goes absolute full supportive goofball partner and dan tries to keep a straight face but ends up looking. Well.

Like that the whole time.

[quietwingsinthesky]

like the betrayal’s always going to be worse if they cared about you and it didn’t matter. someone discards you because they didn’t give a shit, then you can be angry about that, you can feel vindicated in that, you can get over it. but if they can look you in the eyes and say “I love you. I would make the same choice again.” You will never sleep peacefully again, is all.

[quietwingsinthesky]

“I thought they cared about me, but they were lying this whole time.” <- tired. boring. removes all the nuance of this relationship to make it easier to move on from.

“I thought they cared about me, and I was right, and every minute they were there for me, every time they said they were proud, every laugh we shared leaning against each other bruised and breathless, all of it was real. and they still left me behind. They could put their love aside. I couldn’t.” <- insane. will never leave you alone. reminds you that even the worst people are still people and can still care about even the ones they hurt the most and that undoes neither the harm nor the love.

[scribeherself]

I think one of the gentlest things in the world is when a friend just gets your weird little brain. like you say half a sentence and they finish it. you reference something incredibly niche from seven years ago and they’re already nodding. they understand your strange vocabulary for emotions that don’t have real words yet. it’s being seen and known and still loved. maybe especially because you’re known. god. what a gift.

[wingkink]

btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here

[cowboydeanwinchester]

is he … you know … open to interpretation?

[cowboydeanwinchester]

nobody on this webbed site can read

[wormcoded]

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

you really can't play up to being pathetic and cute online without people assuming you are biologically incapable of being or even wanting to be dominant

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

and don't even get me started on when you tell someone that yea im not actually that subby it's just kinda fun to play up to it and they are like "oh i dont believe you, prove it" ????

like fuck off we are having a regular ass conversation and you want me to suddenly be sexually dominant? i don't know you and we haven't discussed this at all what do you even want from me? to throw out generic phrases and hope you are into it? idk why this behaviour is so normalised

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

maybe im the weird one for this but i feel like how i like to act during sex or related activities has no real bearing on my personality outside of that. sex is play, im playing and i can play in a lot of different ways, doesn't mean im just like that all the time.

[erokitta]

I've talked about this recently with a few people: the way I am in sex and kink and flirting is a game I'm playing. I'm playing a game in my head and sometimes I invite others to play too. This post sums that vibe well.

I also think that this post in particular shows how readily people turn tops into kink dispensers. Showing the slightest hint of switchiness or toppy behavior incites a demand for it, an expectation to perform that role for anyone. If that expectation were placed on submissives, we'd hear plenty of "no one is entitled to your submission" or how it's so "Tumblr dom" to assume a dynamic, but when submissives demand dominance from a top (or a switch!), somehow that's fine.

[flurgehbla]

This is a lot of why i really dont like how people treat dom/sub/switch as like, immutable personality traits. Besides being really presumptuous about what someone enjoys or is capable of its also not conducive to good communication and negotiation. and like, there are some people who i know enjoy being dominant but that i personally cant find them believable in a dominant role, and in those cases i simply dont play with them in that way. it would be such a dick move to make fun of them for it or make them prove it to you that they can do it, when its like as much my "fault" as it is theirs.

[dollyb3an]

Want to go to the river and I’ll find you pretty rocks? (Flirting)