I am planting flowers

Gay poly millenial woman in the PNW - I like weird creatures, worldbuilding, game mechanics, goofs, japes, and shipping problematic cartoon lesbians. -About-

[toasthaste]

This Is An About Page

I’m Remi. I’m a grown-ass woman who loves hyperfixating on media (especially animation, frequently cartoons for children), and drawing/writing about it.

I think that treating people with conscious, intentional kindness is important. I think that stuff that harms people is bad; that the reason it’s bad is “because it harms people”; and that visceral disgust-reactions are a very bad indicator of morality.

While I have more than zero qualms with it, I think the issues with the use of AI for the creation of visual art, writing, and more, are wildly overblown in most of the spaces I spend time in.

After all these years I still think theunitofcaring is probably the best blog on the internet.

(If you think that people who make or enjoy fiction that you find viscerally nasty, and/or that would be awful if it happened in real life, are automatically evil and deserve to be punished, I will probably not feel safe around you.)

I softblock followers sometimes; preserving my Nice Time On The Computer is important to me. I'm saying this here because being on the receiving end of a softblock can be ambiguous and feel kind of crazymaking, and I'm hoping that mentioning it can help reduce that if it comes up.

Last updated June 2025

I’m actively interested in making friends on here, so you are very welcome to interact with me, start conversations, etc!

I have a personal discord server! Go here for more on that.

Here’s a very very incomplete and definitely outdated list of tags that I use at least semi-regularly.

Here's my clearinghouse sideblog for posts I make that are incomplete, or that I think are probably dumb, or otherwise feel a particular flavor of squirmy about posting.

Here’s my art blog. (currently inactive due to ongoing wrist problems)

I have a sideblog, also currently inactive, for my periodic cartoon (and, occasionally, anime) hyperfixations. Media posted about over the years includes Voltron, Infinity Train, and Amphibia, with random other stuff in between. Always a lot of shipping, usually a good chunk of art, meta, speculation, etc.

(If you've read this far and feel overall positively about this whole deal and think we might get along, you should smash that mfin like! It's a nice little extra bit of information in the quest to Make Friends On The Internet)

[thoughtesque]

Most lethal heal in all of Pharloom

[kiwithenotbird]

I am just watching this on repeat that is WONDERFUL

[bloodveil2k]

nicole kidman with a nintendo ds (2007)

[segamascott]

what will she discover....

[nohoperadio]

we can send descriptions of our hands on anon though. Mine have four fingers and a thumb with nails on the end and knuckles and that. Usually very bitten, if you imagine someone who bites their fingers a lot that's what mine look like.

keep going. tell me more details about your hands.

[thelambliesdown1974]

everyone on the block hates me because I have to take my pet loose sheet of aluminum siding on a walk every day at 3am

[toasthaste]

I've never had crows be mad at me in my life before, but we're here in the season where they get very vocally upset if I'm walking baru in a place where they really don't want a cat to be (maybe they've got fledglings lurking around, maybe other reasons). they yell at us until we go away and I'll be honest it does hurt my feelings.

[toasthaste]

there is however the benefit that if the very pointed yelling is because we're blundering too close to a fledgling, at least it serves as a heads up so i can pay closer attention and keep baru's leash shorter.

[martindykewood]

i love the term “affair”…. not only are you cheating on your partner but its like A Whole Thing

[toasthaste]

you can tell she's a little baby because if you hand her something she'll pretty much grab it

[toasthaste]

first pic here may be my favorite photo I've ever taken of nona. i feel like it comes closer to capturing her true cuteness than usual

[argumate]

LLM psychosis is simply the democratisation of being surrounded by yes-men and unctuous toadies, an experience previously only accessible to dictators and kings and cult leaders and venture capitalists

[northshorewave]

Indeed. Truly your wisdom kmows no bounds, my liege.

[toasthaste]

you can tell she's a little baby because if you hand her something she'll pretty much grab it

[thelostcanyon]

A fast moving cold front passing to the north, J-Six Ranch, Cochise County, Arizona.

[alexmey-does-an-arts]

I wish I could give the miis internalized homophobja

[alexmey-does-an-arts]

no but like i want them to actually feel it

[alexmey-does-an-arts]

you dont like her?

[rabiesofficial]

Being gnc as a woman is crazy because you’re literally just standing there doing nothing.

[pokkin]

I was able to virtually access Shigeru Miyamoto's computer and this was the only file on his desktop

[toasthaste]

twenty trillion little scales

[toasthaste]

IT FELL OVER IN THE OVEN AND THE FIN BROKE OFF?????

[toasthaste]

this is probably good practice for if i ever try proper ceramics. kiln firing is a risky process your whole shit might just explode to death and now you have to do it over from the start, is my understanding

[toasthaste]

people are being dumb and wrong and bad in my blorbo's VERY OWN TAG

[toasthaste]

twenty trillion little scales

[toasthaste]

IT FELL OVER IN THE OVEN AND THE FIN BROKE OFF?????