I am your partner, not your mom.
I am your partner, not your live in maid.
I am your partner. Equally.
I am not here to constantly clean up after you, and your child.
Any time i say something, i just get that annoyed 'okaaaay' response. It would be different if it was once in a while, but its every day.
'I know i am messy, it is who i am'... i disagree. Its not who you are, it doesnt make up who you are as a whole being. Its something that can be changed, if the effort was put in. You see how much it effects my mental health. I am like a Sim character whos happy traits all go down when they enter a room thats a disaster..
Acts of service are like acts of love to me.. and you wonder why I'm always so on edge.











