Personals on Transgender Forum, 1995-1998

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Three Goblin Art
taylor price
Misplaced Lens Cap
Show & Tell
One Nice Bug Per Day
I'd rather be in outer space đ¸
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blake kathryn
hello vonnie
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Personals on Transgender Forum, 1995-1998
Many jokes about packers flopping out and bouncing away and such but I still wasn't prepared for how genuinely disconcerting it is for a second when your brain has accepted this as Part Of Your Body & your thang fell off. My pebis
Every time I pull my pants down to go to the bathroom and watch My Penis go with them I have to like. Recalibrate
(via @lunnefisk)
So does anyone else look back at Reg Shoe's silly characterisation in Reaper Man and look at it through the lens of him suffering from survivor's guilt as the only lilac revolutionary to rise up after death and then cry, or is it just me?
doing research into my penis options and this is such a funny stock image to use here
i always find it fascinating when a character gets headcanoned as both transmasc and transfem by different members of the fandom because it like. highlights how being closeted and stealth can look similar from the outside but are internally very different experiences. does your blorbo have a Thing (tm) about gender because they're trying to beat down the part of them that desperately wants to transition? or did they start transitioning a decade ago and view it as private information that theyre not gonna talk about casually. choose wisely because your answer may have implications.
I really love her and the whole dwarfs storyline in the Discworld
An all-transmasc Ironman trio just won 3rd place in a major men's triathlon, beating over 200 other men's teams. đââď¸đâđ´ââď¸ Trans men win men's competitions all the time, but nobody pays attention because it doesn't fit the mainstream narrative. I think we should celebrate their victories, too! đ
The thing about being trans is that once you come to terms with it itâs really just whatever but The Cis People insist upon being weird about it
Once youâve been out of the closet for a while and are surrounded by people who are at the very least neutral and respectful about the trans thing it just becomes a whatever part of your life and all these people claiming that youâre ruining society and passing laws against you kinda feels like a swat team storming into your house while youâre just eating spaghetti.
Bro why are you banning me from using the bathroom Iâm literally just eating spaghetti
my fellow trans people: all of the answers are in the river. you just need to go to the river and everything will make sense. a lake or ocean are fine substitutions. find the water and go to it. bring your friends. go alone. have a beer.
this really spoke to me, as a trans hippie shut-in.
find the water and go to it. đ
your twenties are not "late" to start hrt. that is a normal time to start hrt. your thirties are also a normal time to start hrt. your seventies are pretty late to start hrt, but not too late. like, statistically, that's at the end of the curve. but if you are not dead, it is not too late for hrt.
This is a very different post to my usual content, so please bare with me for a moment, but a few blogs (and one extremely irritating Instagram video by a cis woman) have crossed my dash recently that have pissed me off and I need to quickly get this off my chest:
If youâre pretending to care about misogyny then you do actually need to learn about both the differences and the overlap of misogyny targeted towards cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people and intersex people (including the added intersections of race, disability etc.) in order to combat all of it, because Iâll regularly see posts on this website that are outspoken against misogyny but which quickly dissolve into radical feminist territories before you can even ask OP if they have anyone other than cis women in mind when theyâre making the post.
And no, throwing in a âthis includes trans womenâ does not mean you care about trans women, it just means youâre covering up the fact that your views have more in common with JK Rowling than with anyone writing feminist or transfeminist theory who are worth their salt. If your feminism includes trans women, do you truly care about the issues that trans women face that cis women donât? Or do you only care about trans women when they pass enough as cis women for you to feel comfortable about your allyship?
In a similar vein, do you care about misogyny when it affects trans men? Or are you more comfortable subscribing to the idea that trans men âchoseâ to be men and therefore should expect to be treated like the He-Man Woman-Hating Traitors they are? (But, yâknow, in a âprogressiveâ way).
Do you care about how misogyny affects non-binary people, and how it intersects with exorsexism, or are you more comfortable with pretending they donât exist so that your worldview doesnât need to change as much?
Do you care about the medical abuse and trauma that intersex people are legally forced to face or are you unwilling to truly let go of the sex binary and realise that its categorisation is just as useless as the gender binary?
And most importantly, do you understand how being white makes all of this inherently easier?
Lastly, I do think this website also needs to be reminded that the word âradicalâ in radical feminism refers to its etymology from the word ârootâ, in that radical feminism believes that misogyny is the root of all oppression, and does not leave room for any intersections of other systems of oppression. This is why the majority of outspoken TERFs are white, middle class cis women; they refuse to acknowledge any position of power they may have over someone else, because in their mind, they are affected by the only system of oppression that matters.
Unfortunately, a lot of people on tumblr have taken this ideology and decided to turn it into a âtrans-inclusiveâ version, without realising that the whole ideology is rotten to the core. There is nothing radical about radical feminism. It depends on strict definitions and a complete lack of understanding on how intersection works, and trying to make it trans-inclusive ultimately fails when you attempt to place a group of people whoâ by definitionâ do not fit into patriarchyâs rigid boxes into an ideology that was built directly inside these boxes and largely tries to uphold them.
You are not âfixingâ radical feminism. You are falling for the oldest tricks in the book.
Note: Iâve been analysing how radical feminist indoctrination works ever since it started to become more widely recognised in the late 2010s, so while I donât pretend to be an expert by any means, I have come across the same type of tactics over and over again for years now, so Iâm quick to notice the red flags when I see them.
Iâm starting to see a LOT of red flags from blogs that claim to be trans-inclusive, and I need people on here to know how to recognise when that is a lie.
Part of the reason why I'm so passionate about being against the whole 'kill all men' mindset is because it does affect me directly as a trans woman.
If you're the type of person who automatically assumes men are bad people, then I have news for you. That assumption isn't going to wait until I tell you I'm trans. You're going toâwhether subconsciously or consciouslyâassume I am just a man, and even after I tell you I am a trans woman your perception of me will still be permanently altered.
Discriminatatory beliefs aren't going to wait for me to tell you my pronouns.
I grew up in Florida, where at the age of twelve I was a victim of terror campaigns telling adults that I was going to sexually assault their children in the bathrooms, specifically because of the reason that 'men are all evil.'
I went through way too much at the hands of those people to see practically every ""leftist"" online continuing to push that ideology. Unlearn it. Please. It directly affects us trans women, too.
I still, to this day, have internalized this ideology, and I cannot look at myself in the fucking mirror because I think to myself people see me as a threat, no one feels safe around me. As a direct result of 'all men are evil.'
It doesn't matter whether or not transfemmes are your intended target. You are hurting us just as much as you're hurting everyone else.
We can't just hide this statement in the tags.
most of the fearmongering about starting T from transphobes is always like...
common side effects that pass within few months as body adjusts (like soreness of throat and bottom growth related aching), but somehow its actually permanent suffering for rest of the life for everyone who ever uses T even a little
common side effects that can be treated quite easily, and for many are going to be so mild that it goes unnoticed (like vaginal atrophy and dryness) but somehow its actually a certainty that everyone automatically gets the absolute worst case of it, and there is no treatment
descriptions of what going through puberty normally does for everyone, but described as if it was something abnormal and horrifying
the horror of certain health risks increasing... to levels of cis men
the horrors of getting what we want testosterone to do. like literally just descriptions of masculinizing effects of testosterone, but its now scary mutations or whatever.
claims entirely based on what excessive & unsafe testosterone use does (usually in context of bodybuilders)
wild claims based on totally true anecdotes, and source is "trust me bro", opinion pieces of definitely unbiased writers, research papers that have since been pulled for being unscientific bullshit, or detrans grifters
lists of potential side effects that literally everyone starting T is informed about
claims something along lines of "testosterone is actually TOXIC to the female body and even single molecule will make you explode!!!!!!!! and if you ever stop taking testosterone, you will explode second time!!!!!!!!!!!"
reminder that trans men also fought for your rights and refusal to acknowledge this is tantamount to denying historical fact
Some sources for those who may not know:
The legendary trans activist's personal writing is a radical gift.
Lou Sullivan was arguably one of the first publicly gay trans men, known for campaigning for gay trans men to access transition healthcare.
Other US (+ CA) trans men you should know about:
Steve Dain, whose public transition led to him being fired from his job as a teacher. Trans men in the Bay Area would go on a pilgrimage to meet when when they started their transition.
Jamison Green, who took over FTM International and it's newsletter after Lou's death
Reed Erickson, who used his inherited wealth to bankroll early LGBT movements (and also did other wild rich people shit). His foundation "helped to support, both through direct financial contributions and through contributions of human and material resources, almost every aspect of work being done in the 1960s and 1970s in the field of transsexualism in the US and, to a lesser degree, in other countries."
Alexander John Goodrum, who founded TGNet Arizona and helped pass Tuscon's nondiscrimination ordinance. In 2001 he wrote "Gender, Identity Politics, and Eating Our Own," an essay on infighting in the trans community.
Rupert Raj, who started some of Canada's earliest trans advocacy organizations
Kylar Broadus, the first openly trans person to testify before the Senate
Pauli Murray also deserves more recognition; he was a Black feminist legal scholar who did invaluable work for the Civil Rights Movement. He never transitioned, having lived much of his life before trans (and especially FTM) treatment was standardized and accessible. He was labeled schizophrenic by doctors for seeking testosterone and testing to see if he was intersex, to explain his gender identity.
Additionally, while they identified as women, both Leslie Feinberg and StormĂŠ DeLarverie were masculine people who considered themselves under the umbrella of "transgender" and did invaluable work for our community.
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