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maya rhys | they/she | anarchist

[sailermoon]

having unwashed hair will have you believing shit like i can’t be saved

[redstonedust]

welcome to my epic fantasy world. we have many developed fantasy kingdoms with 2000 years of rich lore and history. and to the south you can see the evil sand people and to the east theres japanchina.

[decompose1]

neovaginas can get wet naturally

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

YOU HAVE OPTIONS! demystify bottom surgery

[deerbrain]

you can also have nothing, if you want!! nullification is starting to become available alongside vaginoplasty and phalloplasty

you can have nothing and retain sexual function, even! it's called nerve-preserving nullification. similarly to other bottom surgeries, they use the most sensitive tissue (glans/clit) to create a subdermal pseudoclitoris

yes you can pee like normal. urethral reroute leaves a small hole at the perineum (taint)

all the advice about scars from OP applies here too!! take care of yourself well and it can heal well

(also, for people interested in the "mixed look" OP mentioned: the magic words are "penile-preserving vaginoplasty"/"phalloplasty without vaginectomy"!!)

[her-aurora-doll]

As someone who has had nullification done, my inbox is always open.

[catchymemes]

[asthedeathoflight]

My favorite quirk of American English is that since we're constantly exaggerating, sometimes it's more intense to say something slightly less intense. Because like, it means you actually thought about it.

"you look great!" - normal. Anyone could say this. Could be true or could just be lying to be nice. Very normal expected thing to say to someone

"you look good." - gay as hell thing to say to someone.

[closet-keys]

every day the ''nonbinary positivity'' of liberals gets more antagonistic

if you have a job it's funny and relatable and cool to stay in the closet, and maybe kind of cringe to come out. don't come out at work.

you don't have to medically transition and it's kind of cool and edgy and more radical anyway if you don't. don't take hormones, don't pursue surgery, don't pursue electrolysis, don't assert bodily autonomy

you don't have to socially transition, you don't owe anyone a performance. don't change your behavior, don't act different, keep doing what's expected, be normal

you don't have to use new pronouns or a new name or even tell anyone. if you're in the closet, stay in the closet.

you are not trans. you are not trans. you are not trans.

[transmaenadism]

It flabbers my ghasts that people are still doing like "nonbinary people/[some other subset of trans people] aren't Really Trans™️ and are just identifying as such for funsies" while the enemies of trans people are like actively building the camps. If someone was faking don't you think they'd stop upon seeing the active construction of the Trans Person Toment Nexus 5000

[transmaenadism]

On one hand, certain transmedicalist ideas presented as “maturity” or “realism” have definitely permeated some spaces. But there really isn’t a meaningful amount of people who fully subscribe to that ideology anymore. Seeing like a “true transmed” who still holds the entire worldview would feel like finding one of those Imperial Japanese holdouts decades after the war ended.

[partywithponies]

Strange racists and homophobes on the internet seem to have access to an alternate way cooler version of TV than me. "every white character on TV is in an interracial relationship" "every show has a gay couple in it" "main characters keep having to secretly be bisexual and nonbinary" "every show has gratuitous full frontal nudity" like damn promise?? What channel???

[were--ralph]

What do I have to do to get my own Big Boy

[were--ralph]

Im not going outside or talking to people though so not that

[were--ralph]

Come to me Fat Men. Let me lay mine tired head on thy belly and rest but for a moment

[riverlarking]

ancient peoples loooved a flood narrative it was kinda like their beatles

[transmaenadism]

It flabbers my ghasts that people are still doing like "nonbinary people/[some other subset of trans people] aren't Really Trans™️ and are just identifying as such for funsies" while the enemies of trans people are like actively building the camps. If someone was faking don't you think they'd stop upon seeing the active construction of the Trans Person Toment Nexus 5000

[transmaenadism]

If you think about it in terms of the allegory, the idea of a serum that makes mutants humans/functiongly human in the Marvel universe is so fucking funny. Me when I invent the serum that forcibly transitions you into a WASP

[ashes2caches]

we’re destroying the united states and replacing it with ten thousand tiny fiefdoms ruled by semi-tyrannical trans women in princess dresses.

[tpwrtrmnky]

Hi it's me, nightmare DM from the worst pits of ttrpg forums. So I'm running D&D 5E and I banned rolling a d20, because it seemed overpowered. I'm running an original campaign set in my own world, where the elemental firmament oscillates in a way determined by the motion of the outer planets, and my question is this: how do I prevent my fiancée from hitting on the other players in real life, purely through in-game methods?

[sailatina3]

I found this image depicting every single tumblr user at once.

[tlirsgender]

I'm not immune to nostalgia for 2010s liberalism a la "this used to be the sjw website" but honestly ...... as much as the overton window has shifted into hell. What with the fascism. It did always kinda suck though didn't it

[tlirsgender]

We Are having such an insane wave of antifeminism in otherwise lefty queer progressive type spaces but it's easy to forget what we used to have was, like. Pussy hats

[tlirsgender]

That being said we did have Black people here before tumblr exploded their blogs. Women, even. And we had sex workers, too. Tumblr's political climate getting Worse can be pretty clearly traced to nuking all the Black women (2016) and sex workers (2018) and trans women (Right Now)

[frostops]

It’s transandrophobia that trans men arent murdered as much as trans women.