1, 2, 3, and 7 for the age gap F/O asks
(Sometimes you gotta bite the bullet and do it yourself (send yourself anonymous asks on tumblr)
1. How big is the age gap between you and your F/O?
Lol okay so my S/I is 30 and I haven't ever bothered to look up Henry's actor's exact age (but I have a basic idea) so Henry's 55. So 25 years. BUT if I'm feeling particularly indulgent I use my real age (19) it's a *checks calculator* 36 year age gap. Hehe
2. Did either of you hesitate getting into a relationship because of the age difference age?
Okay so back to talking about my S/I and their lore. Henry definitely did because while he was MADLY in love with me and we were already close friends he didn't want to take advantage of me even though my S/I is a full grown adult, but eventually he just couldn't stand to waste another moment without me by his side and confessed his love after his murder charges are cleared at the end of season 2 of his show. Anyway, we obviously did get together and got married last September
3. Do you like the age gap, or are you indifferent/unhappy with it?
Henry has become pretty indifferent to it, it no longer bothers him and for the most part he doesn't notice it anymore. Me, on the other hand, I really enjoy it. That's all I'll say.
7. Do you notice any big generational differences between you?
Sometimes, mainly when it comes to my humor, especially if we're talking about me me and not my S/I. I forget he's an old man (affectionate) sometimes and so I'll send him a tik tok or meme and then have to explain the backstory behind it. He doesn't understand it but he tries and that's all that matters. And Henry will sometimes mention events or things that came out when he was growing up or when he was in high school. And I just go. Oh yeah lol my mom did that/saw that/wore that etc and then he just sighs, ruffles my hair and goes, "sometimes I forget that I am old and you are not" and then I stick out my tongue at him and giggle
I threaten to put him in a retirement home sometimes. Especially when he forgets where he set his reading glasses (they're in his breast pocket)
