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"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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Sade Olutola
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@trenchcoatangel
*screams into the void*
Maybe we all just use each other in the end. Am I no fucking good if you don't need something? I EXIST OUTSIDE OF YOU. I AM A FUCKING HUMAN AND I HURT TOO. I'm not a goddamn robot you can just put away when you're tired of me. Everyone. Always. Nobody fucking cares anyway. I'm out.
So the only thing that can stop your penetration is lead or concrete?
The only thing that can stop my penetration is lack of consent, actually
I'd like you to know that I'm worth it, my friend. I love you. Take a chance on me and I promise nobody will ever love you better. I know I'm not your typical type, but we're good together, you and I. Everything's easy and good. You're cracked and I get that but that's ok, I don't need that part of you. Really friend, I just want to be allowed to hold your hand when you need it.
Chuck: Um, I don't play favourites after the whole thing with Lucifer
Chuck: Time to give Castiel a power upgrade!
Chuck: Aw look. He thinks he's the new God and is talking trash about me. He's adorable
Chuck: Whoops. Dead again. Better bring him back to life! My sweet murderous little sun
Amara: What about the other dead ang-
Chuck: I said. My. Sweet. Murderous. Little. sUN!
That’s the exact spot where I realized that she played the mom on suite life of zack and cody
thats the exact moment i realised sam had no idea what a ‘mom voice’ was
who gave you the right
Sam didn’t have a mom? Excuse me,
Let’s not ferget the parenting skills he displayed with a baby, we can only assume he honed those from when he took care of Sam:
Dean Winchester: Brother, Mother, Father, Hunter.
Hello! I'm a curious anon who wants to be not ignorant on asexuality cause i gotta be a good ally, so i was wondering if you could explain it? sometimes i get confused like, they say asexual people also have sex but i thought that would negate asexuality? also how do you know you're asexual, how do you know the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction? sorry if i'm asking a lot of questions i just wanna be Educated™
hey there, sunshine!!! OK, let me explain EVERYTHING.
hmmm.
so, asexuality is when a person does not feel sexual attraction to other people. sexual attraction is - this is kind of hard for me, as I’m ace myself, to explain it without it sounding a bit weird, maybe?! - but it’s the feeling of looking at someone and being turned on by them, I guess? the feeling of looking at them and wanting to have sex with them, and feeling aroused by the idea of having sex with them. this is something that asexual people do not feel.
this is separate from feelings of romantic attraction, which is not to do with sex and all to do with intimacy of heart - and how you express that romantic intimacy varies from person to person. for a lot of people, it involves stuff like kissing and holding hands and going on dates and flowers and stuff. pretty much, if it’s your heart going !!!!!! then it’s romantic, and if it’s your down-there lair going !!!!!!!!, then that’s sexual.
asexuality, like many sexualities, is not an absolute: it’s a spectrum! the spectrum of asexuality includes - but is not limited to - demisexuality (being attracted to someone only after a strong emotional bond has been formed with them), grey-asexuality (feeling sexual attraction to other people very rarely, or very weakly, or a combination of both), and asexuality itself, which is simply never feeling sexual attraction.
as for the question about sex negating asexuality, there are many reasons an asexual person might have sex:
to experience physical intimacy with someone they care about a lot, even if they are not sexually attracted to them
because they know their partner enjoys it, and they get enjoyment out of pleasing their partner
because not feeling sexual attraction doesn’t mean not feeling sexual arousal. you can be asexual but still want to have sex, it’s just that you’re not able to find someone you particularly want to have sex with. I’ve seen an analogy that goes like this: you know that feeling where you’re hungry, and you open the cupboard, and everything you see you’re like… nah… but you’re still hungry? yeah, that. eventually you might end up eating something that you don’t feel especially drawn to, just because you’re hungry.
because sex can be really fun! even if you’re not attracted to your partner, sex can be enjoyable (and I am speaking from experience here)
to have kids! some asexual people want to raise a family.
on a less positive note, society kind of demands sex of people. it’s seen as a young person’s rite of passage, as the cementing of romantic feelings, as a given in any long-term relationship. it’s something that friends bond over, their sex stories; it’s part of drinking games, it’s often part of TV and books and movies, it’s a whole world that demands to be understood or else you risk feeling like - and being treated like - a child. asexual people may feel pressured to have sex, even when not wanting to, just to fit in. this is a not-cool reason.
that is absolutely not an exhaustive list but hopefully it gives you some idea of some reasons why ace people might have sex! still very much asexual before, during, and after.
lastly, you ask how people know they’re asexual… this one is kind of hard to answer. personally, I figured it out pretty late. I’d always assumed that everyone was kind of deciding to be attracted to people, like I was, and it was only after some revealing conversations with friends that I realised - no, most people don’t have to try to force attraction with decisions, it just happens naturally.
often, the Realisation Process begins with doing a little bit of reading and recognising yourself in the things you’re learning! if you want to know more, I seriously recommend AVEN - click here! - a website which has a crap ton of info!! thank you for your question, I appreciate you wanting to learn and be a good ally - it makes all the difference to have educated, accepting allies out there in the big wide world. you’re wonderful, and hope I helped! <3
Misha singing at Phxcon 2017 ❤
I FOUND IT GUYS I SPENT HALF AN HOUR LOOKING FOR THIS VIDEO AND ITS HERE
Always reblog peent.
*before clicking play*: IS THIS WHAT i THINK IT IS???
*clicks play*: IT ISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
omg!! omg
Forever reblog.
fucked up how a goblet is a cup and not a tiny goblin :/
wow another misinformed person who thinks that straight aces and aros are lgbt. why am i not surprised. not every one belongs everywhere. you can accept straight aces and aros, but do not tell them that they are lgbt because they 100% are not. lgbt spaces are for lgbt people case closed. maybe you should brush up on lgbt issues before you invite straight people to be a part of our community.
Please take a step back and listen to how you just conducted that sentence. I’m not quite sure where you’re coming from in life, but it sounds like you’ve been through quite a bit with your identity. So have I. And when I found myself a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I finally found a huge group of people who accepted me and supported me. I hope the same happened for you. And if not, I hope it happens soon, because everyone deserves that.
Consider people who observe no sexual or romantic attraction, which are legitimate identities, who feel wrong for one way or another. They’re asexual and/or aromantic, regardless of gay or straight, and that still falls under the A in the acronym, but I keep hearing that one half’s not different enough. Not oppressed enough. I would first say, none of us know everyone’s story, and there’s no way we will, so we don’t know what everyone has gone through with their identity. And second, since when did this community become about how oppressed we are? If we, as a group, achieve what I hope we can achieve idealistically and not be oppressed, are we still not a group to be proud of? Why wouldn’t we want this group to be an absolute celebration of all legitimate varieties? A celebration of all our unique experiences and struggles? They’re all different and valid.
Is this demographic of people with a legitimate sexual and/or romantic identity to make their own little group? To be made to feel like outcasts in the real world as well as in this group? I feel that this just furthers the negative, unfriendly attitude that already greatly exists in this world and I don’t wanna promote that. I just would think something like excluding would be for those who make us feel unsafe and that would only be on a case-by-case basis, not for a whole demographic who feel out of place and just want to belong, right? I don’t wanna be that way to people the way the world was to me. They’re not lgbt, they’re A, and that’s part of the LGBTQIA+ community. I can’t change what you believe. And you’re right, I can accept them! I shall, because acceptance in this community is what inspired me and helped me when I felt lost, and I want to be that for others.
Thomas defending asexuals and aromantics. WHERE WILL I PUT ALL THIS EXTRA LOVE I’M FEELING FOR HIM I WAS ALREADY FILLED TO THE BRIM!
I am asexual. Well, I'm demisexual. But mostly ace. My sexuality is HARD. A lack is not straight. Telling the person you like that you'd absolutely like to date them and hold them and have deep meaningful conversations with them but hey "I hope you don't like getting laid because I... don't really do that?" Is scary and it's HARD.
People know what it is to be gay. Not like, personally, but they get what it means But when I say I'm a 33 year old virgin - there's something *wrong* with me. I should see a doctor. It's probably my hormones or my thyroid. Most don't understand on even a basic level. They don't try. There's not enough representation. They think I'm broken and somehow fixable.
"How do you know if you've never tried it?" "Did daddy touch you when you were a little girl?" "You just haven't met the right person." "You'll change your mind when you fall in love."
Maybe if they try hard enough or push hard enough or ask or fucking make fun of me for it enough, maybe then I'll try it. Because, you know, if you just try it just once, you'll like it. It'll fix you. You just haven't been with the right person. Everyone likes sex. Freak.
Don't... don't tell me I don't belong. The LGBTQ+ community is a safe place for me. We don't fit the "normal" mold, none of us. But TOGETHER, we ARE normal. In this community we are allies and we can be surrounded by others that know what it's fucking like to be shamed for your sexual partner preferences (or lack of desire for one ) . THAT is why the lgbtq+ family is so important to me. Because, while we might not be the same in our differences, we are the same in our hurts (and our fucking PRIDE.)
And it hurts to think it's just one more place that I don't fit in. One more group of people that doesn't get it. Doesn't understand how fucking lonely it is to just want someone but being too terrified to even try. Because everyone likes sex, right? And what good am I if I can't even give you the most basic of things. ...
Yesterday at work this lady was buying a leaf plate and when I told her I thought it was cute she said “Yeah, it’s perfect for my treehouse!”. I was like “oh, do you have kids?” and she said “yeah, I have kids, they just aren’t allowed in my treehouse” and honestly same
Today I cleaned, what I've been not so jokingly be calling, my suicide corner. 10 minutes is all it took after literally avoiding it for way way too long. I've cleaned around it but it's remained the same. Let me explain. I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer almost a year ago now. Stage 4 with only a 13% 5 year survival rate. The months that followed held surgery, chemo, more doctors visits than I'd EVER had in the rest of my life combined. Cue the great return of the depression I've fought off and on my whole life. And cue it up GOOD because I fell so fast I didn't even notice until I was rock bottom. Nobody knew what to say so nobody said anything. People that knew me as a kid were more supportive than the people that know me now. I pushed away a shit ton of important people and I lost some amazing friends that I will likely never get back. And I ate. Everything. Every emotion, ever repression. Everything. Prior to this diagnosis I had lost over 100lbs. I was finally FINALLY treating my body like it deserved. And it turned around and gave me cancer? Fuck, I was angry. I was scared and I was PISSED OFF. Cue the suicide corner. It's basically just a pile of trash. It's gross and weird and nothing but garbage. Chip bags, donut boxes, brownie containers. The occasional Bengay box because chemo involved muscle aches from HELL and I couldn't get one member of my fucking family to give two shits and rub them out for me. Whatever. So as I ate, binging Netflix in my bed, garbage collected on the floor next to me as I tried my hardest to kill myself with food even as I fought for my life. Because really, what was the point of being healthy if I'd never be actually healthy again? I stopped, eventually. But I couldn't find it in me to just... clean it up. I did today. I want my life back. And I'm taking it. Fuck that 13%. Someone has to be part of it, why the fuck not me? So I got angry on the other side of the fence. And I'm taking it back. Challenge, accepted. My last scans were clear. I feel fine. My last doctors appointment went well. Still kicking it in the ass. So now I kick the rest of it in the ass too. I've gained back most of the weight I lost prior. And I'm so pissed at myself. I'm taking that back too. I worked so fucking hard for it, its mine and I WANT IT BACK. So today I cleaned the suicide corner. Because finally, I feel strong. I might not be ok, in the end, but goddamn it I will do my best to be my best while I am.
me talking to my pet, in the same gentle and soft tone you would use talking to an infant: hey assmaster what the fuck is in your mouth
I've absolutely no desire whatsoever to have sexual relations with this man. However, I will get up at the ass crack of dawn to hang out with his kids while he's at work because he's doing it alone and he needs help sometimes too? And his hurt hurts because his kids mom just keeps throwing punches? And I kind of love him? Like, sort of in a non platonic way? But I don't want to see his penis? But cuddles would be ok? This fucking gray area of sexuality is HARD, so don't tell me I don't belong to the LGBTQ+ family. Like, how do you tell someone you love them and would love to be with them but also they might never get laid again because that sort of thing rolls around like once a year and you better be here cuz it's easily repressed and then just fades into the dark? Ughhh.
sometimes cas is this soft peaceful wise creature who cures babies in his free time and tends bees but he also ate an entire tablet and carved a sigil into his chest with a boxcutter so there’s that.
#and that one time he dug a bullet out of his flayed stomach with his fingers and then shoved it into his brother’s eye#orrrr the time he was vomiting blood and cut a guy’s finger entirely off his hand#idk man cas is pretty metal i’m not gonna lie
I love that Cas goes from this sweet, soft man:
To this badass mofo:
Get a man (angel) who can do both
I’m trying
i was about to say how's cas, but then i remembered...
He’s FINE
Love your blog :)
I don't know how I missed this for so long?! Thank you so much, it's just a place of random rambles and an overflow of too many feels but I appreciate you! <3
