yögūrt

you need dysphoria to be trans stop forcing the queer label onto every lgbt person, not everyone wants to reclaim it // formerly twuescum, but i do not support that label any longer.

[simplysaphique]

if you’re a bi girl with a boyfriend……. you’re valid and i love you 💖💫

[radarthenerd]

If you’re a bi boy with a girlfriend, you are also valid and I love you 💖💫

[dukeofdelirium]

I love when tucutes say shit like “keep licking cis boots!” like what the fuck are you talkin about bro? I and literally every other transsexual person depend on cis people? We depend on the acceptance and research and solidarity that cis people bring us when we state that being transsexual is a medical condition and that we must have access to medical transition? Like... the fuck yall think this “movement” is about? We aren’t trying to do anything to cis people, and we aren’t trying to destroy “gender” or destroy scientific reality. Y’all are. We don’t think we are better than cis people. Y’all do.

[soul-optics]

If we’re working towards acceptance “licking cis boots” is a better approach then screaming and yelling at people who dare not to be knowledgeable enough on trans topics. Most people don’t hate trans people, they genuinely don’t know much about us and belive stereotypes. If we are kind, open and reasonable society will be more accepting of us.

[dukeofdelirium]

These ppl be screaming “down with cis” in a non joking way and shit as if cis ppl aint been dedicating their entire careers to caring for trans people and researching this lmfao. When did trans rights turn into demonizing being cis? This is why so many ppl pretend or are convinced they’re trans cuz they think it makes them better somehow. Like if it weren’t for all the cis people in my life and all the cis people that are a part of my medical team who spend their careers making sure I’m healthy and able to continue transition, Id be dead straight up.

[lifeofcynch]

feel free to use this one fellas

[deactivated284nx8sn48fnskapfje9]

Every time a transmed insists brainsex is real i get flashbacks to catholic youth group where they told us god "gave you your sexed body to indicate what role your soul is best suited to: Provider or Mother". The internalized transphobia is rampant

[transmeds]

how r these even remotely similar like. "your brain inherently knows what you body should be and you are born as like" and "you body tells us what your soul is plus some sexism" like. these r nothing alike. at all. what the FUCK do you even mean??

[sheepsbian]

your use of "queer" stops being radical when you coercively assign it to all lgbt people

your use of "queer" stops being radical when you harass and shame traumatized lgbt people who refuse to identify with it

your use of "queer" stops being radical when you deny its meaning, history, and existence as a slur

your use of "queer" stops being radical when you mock people who ask you to trigger tag it's use

your use of "queer" cannot and never will be radical when you disregard the trauma of your own community

[shaftking]

I’m gonna be real for a sec bc I am so tired of enbies talking down to trans people and acting like they are the fucking paragon of the “””trans experience””” when like 90% of the time they are obviously just confused-ass GNC cis people who don’t have a damn clue what being trans is or what it’s like to live as a trans person.

[swordartondialup]

wow this is exactly how I feel, they act like they are what being trans IS but have nothing in common with me

[chillmeds]

They will never relate to stealth trans people because their entire identity hinges on how "not cis" they are. It's infuriating that I'm just supposed to roll over and let people who have no idea what they're talking about redefine what being trans is.

[fandom]

2019 is coming to a close, and you know what that means—time to review the year! This is our seventh stint, and we’re doing things a little differently this time around. The biggest change is in how we collect data: this year’s lists account for a full 365 days, from October 21st, 2018 through October 20th, 2019, meaning this is the first time we’re taking data from December into account. Welcome to Year in Review, December!

This year, you’ll be treated to 36 lists and five editorial posts that dive a little deeper into certain communities. We’ve expanded a few lists (hello, 100 K-pop stars!) and added some new ones (Movies, Anime, and TV characters!) for your viewing pleasure.

It’s all here, all December, all for you. Here’s to another year. For now, here is a master guide to this year’s posts:

Best of 2019

Top 100 Ships

Actresses

Actors

Movies

Movie Characters

Live-Action TV

Animated TV

TV Show Characters

A History of Good Omens 

Spoilers

Edits

Incorrect Quotes

Reality TV

TV Personalities

Pro Wrestlers

Athletes

K-Pop

K-Pop Stars

Music Groups

Solo Artists

Musicals

Books

Authors & Poets

Video Games

The Mineblr Renaissance 

Mobile Games

Video Game Characters

Pokémon

Anime & Manga

Anime & Manga Characters

Web Celebrities

Web Series

Memes

The Best of Answer Time 2019

Tumblr Communities

Art Styles

Beauty + Fashion Brands

Astrology Signs

Tumblr and Social Impact in 2019

LGBTQIA+ on Tumblr in 2019

[twansmeds]

you ruined everything tumblr, and you killed off almost all of your users, who have now evacuated to better sites than yours. this site is now a miserable and empty hole and i can’t stop getting messages from bots lol.

[niacinamides-deactivated2020010]

yall are gonna lose your minds over this but.... you dont need to say LGBTQIAP2SQA whatever the fuck like . just say Ell Gee Bee Tee thats all there is to it, saying LGBT is sufficient youre not leaving anyone out.

[niacinamides-deactivated2020010]

in fact!!!! lemme make a bolder statement. u are accomplishing nothing by insisting that people add “+” or “Q” to the end of LGBT

[violent-creep]

Okay yeah no offense I would rather be friends with people who do problematic fiction but are nice, kind people, then be friends with people who make morally conscious ‘pure’ fiction but are absolute shitheads who send death threats and start witch-hunts.

[darkacademiamlm]

trans men are men and their sexuality doesnt change how much of a man they are

[bisexualdavidrose]

I hate when i say queer is a slur and immediately ppl jump down my throat saying "but its my identity!!!! Its so awful youd call my identity a slur!!!!" then it becomes so painfully obvious that they 1. Dont know the first thing about lgbt history and 2. Care more about their Woke Points than actually protecting people harmed by the slur

[30-minute-memes]

Myth: Trans rights are not human rights

Status: BUSTED

[30-minute-memes]

This is a real tweet btw

[strawbebbifortransmeds]

Pan is the transphobia, homophobia and biphobia pride flag

If you argue or clown on this post you will be told the truth and its that your transphobic, homophobic and biphobic

[strawbebbifortransmeds]

@nachosforfree

Why. Do you have any answer?

You watch pansexuals/panromantics who say “its more COMFORTABLE” to identify as, it “includes trans people AND non binary genders” while ignoring the fact they just said trans people aren’t men and women, and that the purple stripe exists for a reason.

Its homophobic and biphobic by telling gays and bis that “oh well I don’t SEE gender I don’t SEE genitals! Hearts not parts!!” And telling people who have preferences that they’re disgusting.

Please inform me you transphobic, homophobic and biphobic clown. How is my post wrong.

[brooklyn-isnt-my-real-name]

(agreeing with OP here)

i’m gonna just debunk any arguments i’ve seen pannies use so lets go

1. hearts not parts

so.. what, does every other sexuality only focus on the parts? is every other sexuality just a fetish? hm.

2. bi means two

wrong, bi means two or more, according to the bisexual manifesto. or, if you wanna take it literally, it’s two sexes which doesn’t mention gender at all. only two sexes exist. intersex doesn’t always mean two sets of genitals- and even if someone does, then that’s still male and female genitalia.

3. i prefer pan

why? do tell. is it because bisexuals are all whores. is it because bisexuals are more likely to cheat. is it because bi feels dirty. cause if it is then i think it’s actually because of the biphobic stereotypes in your head.

4. it includes trans/nb people!

oh, so you admit you see trans people as a whole different gender? how very transphobic of you. and with nb, see above. another thing for nb is that you don’t know someone is nb until they tell you. there’s no “look” for being nb so,,

5. i’m gender blind

no you aren’t. no human is. we automatically assign genders to people in our heads, it’s human nature. you can say you are all you’d like but you’re still assigning genders to strangers.

6. pan means all!

you’re right! it does! it means all. it was coined to mean everything and everyone. that’s right! everything! cars, trees, animals, dead bodies, children. everything and everyone.

7. i like the person not the gender identity!

i shouldn’t even have to explain why this is wrong but apparently i do. i’m not attracted to guys BECAUSE they’re guys. i’m attracted to guys cause i just am. i fall in love with a guy for his personality, his humour, his music taste, not his genatalia.

8. why can’t you just let people live how they want to

i refuse to let things be bygones if they are inherently transphobic and biphobic. i refuse if it’s erasing a whole sexuality. i refuse to let that go.

9. you aren’t bisexual OR pansexual, you don’t get a say!

oh, i know. but my multiple bisexual friends, who gave me the points for this post, sure do. i’m just the messenger.

10. gender is a factor in bisexuality, but not in pansexuality!

that is so incredibly wrong. sure a lot of bi people have a preference, so do “pan” people by the way, but some bisexuals don’t care about the gender either.

so there y’all have it. the top 10 pannie arguments debunked. before you debate with me, read the bisexual manifesto. and also the whole post.

[idmwmfaaigwtpaap-41921]

I’m trans and bisexual and op is right! :) just because you’re in a group does not mean you speak for the whole group, pal!

[spill-the-gender-tea]

no one person is a voice for the whole group. if you believe that you are idiotic. By that logic caitlyn jenner speaks for all trans people. *shutters*

[internettwink]

Ok so I think a lot of people (not all, just a lot) aren’t actually asexual....they just got body issues and past trauma and are afraid to open up to someone like that

But idk if y’all are ready to have that conversation

[transgender-official]

S/O to Trans Men.

S/O to trans men who hate the soft boy sterotype.

S/O to trans men who hate those positivity posts constantly reminding you of your genitals.

S/O to trans men with really bad dysphoria.

S/O to trans men who hate being called transboys.

Tumblr is a pretty shit place for trans men who don't fit the hyperfeminine soft boy sterotype. We deserve recognition too.

(this post is about trans men. don't derail or clown or i'll eat your liver)

[ultrasopp]

if you compliment your cis male friends by calling them handsome and strong but you compliment your trans male friends by calling them pretty and cute and soft you need to take a moment and think about why you do that and how you really look at your trans friends

[ultrasopp]

you may also take a moment to think if you call your cis male friends “man” but you call your trans male friends “boy” when they are the same fucking age :)))

[brooklyn-isnt-my-real-name]

i won’t follow your dni on a stim blog. i follow from my main which has no discourse, but even so. i refuse fo follow your dni on a stim blog as a transmed.

stop trying to deny people stims. discourse doesn’t belong in neurodivergent coping mechanisms.