I have a lot of Thoughts and Feelings about Heated Rivalry. About art made with love and understanding and how it authentically resonates and builds and grows and expands outward and encompasses and envelops. About the courage it takes to love (active verb) and how it's so hard to find that courage if you feel like you're alone. About writing and acting and filmmaking and adaptation, and understanding why people love something and deciding to protect it. And about how OMG IF YOU LOVED THIS COME AND JOIN US OVER IN THE LAND OF INTERNATIONAL QUEER ROMANCE WHERE WE HAVE SO MUCH OF THIS.
@bengiyo @lurkingshan and @twig-tea have all posted recs for some great entry level mostly Asian queer drama and romance when you're ready to dip your toe. When you're ready to go beyond entry level, mosey on over to @the-conversation-pod and peruse our back catalog of show discussions if you're so inclined. If you wanna watch before you listen, here are some of my recent (past 5 years-ish) personal faves that haven't yet been mentioned, linked for your convenience. If any link doesn't work for you, DM for further advice.
Moonlight Chicken (YouTube)
Jim, a restaurant owner, meets Wen, a customer, and they have a one-night-stand that turns into more.
My School President (Viki)
When musician Gun's high school band is about to be disbanded Tinn, who has a longstanding crush on him, becomes school president to help him save it.
180 Degree Longitude Passes Through Us (GagaOOLala)
Wang, the son of famous director Sasiwimol, goes on a location scouting trip with her and 'accidentally' meets Inthawut, who has a complicated history with Wang's late father.
Mon has idolized Sam for years. She gets a job at Sam's company, and realizes that girlcrush is just a big fat crush.
I Feel You Linger In The Air (GagaOOLala)
After a No Good Very Bad day Jom, a modern-day architect restoring an old house, has an accident and crashes into 1927 where he meets Yai, the original owner of the house and the literal man of his dreams.
Fou4mod, a high schooler, starts a situationship with Chian, an older boy at his school, but Chian has his own crush, Bua, and Fou4mod's bestie Baabin is crushing on him. Let the games begin!
Secret Crush On You (Viki)
Do you love cringe comedy and misfits who have each other's backs? Then you'll love Toh, Jao, Daisy, Som and the rest of the gang.
Set in a universe where some people go deaf when it rains, except for hearing the voice of their 'soulmate'. Saengtai hears Patts, but he doesn't believe in love.
Wedding planner Namnuea and groom Sailom fall for each other, but all is not as it seems.
HIStory 3: Make Our Days Count (Viki)
Xiang Hao Ting, a high school jock, falls for quiet, studious Yu Xi Gu, another boy in his class. His best friend Sun Bo Xiang falls for Xi Gu's much older boss Lu Zhi Gang.
I'm out of gifs now, but you'll love these.
Marahuyo Project (YouTube)
King, a college student, gets kicked out of school in Manila and sent to the island of Marahuyo to live with his grandmother. He decides to start an LGBTQIA+ org at his new school, and finds allies along the way.
Gameboys (and Season 2) (Netflix, Prime and Tubi)
Cairo, a gamer, is wooed online by Gavreel, a fan of his livestreams, in this pandemic era romance.
The End Of The World With You (Viki)
With 10 days left until a massive meteor annihilates Earth, Masumi, a depressed office worker runs into his first love Ritsu at the library where he goes to wait for the apocalypse. The two go on a journey and untangle their painful past.
Doku Koi (Love Is A Poison) (Netflix)
Ryoma, a shark lawyer, meets Haruto, a con artist. One of the best and funniest romcoms I've ever watched.
Utsukushii Kare (My Beautiful Man) (and Season 2, and Eternal) (Viki)
Shy awkward high school student Hira falls hard for his beautiful new classmate Kiyoi and they begin a complicated yearslong relationship.
Tsukuritai Onna to Tabetai Onna (She Loves To Cook and She Loves To Eat) (alas, only on the high seas)
Nomoto cooks to de-stress but she can't eat as much as she cooks. She notices her neighbour Kasuga seems like a big eater so invites her to share meals.
Koisenu Futari (Two People Who Can't Fall In Love) (alas, only on the high seas)
Aromantics and asexuals, you are seen! This isn't a romance but it is a love story. Sakuko and Satoru decide to live together as a non-romantic couple. Honestly one of the most beautiful dramas I've ever seen.