Uff-Tasye

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Let's scream, “ Go to hell negativity, cause I am embracing positivity. ”

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"I hope Jimin finds his own Jimin too"

- It has become a common term nowadays. But, all of us know and have at least one Jimin in our daily life. There are so many more Jimins in this world that go unnoticed in everyday life. Instead of saying that, why not try to be a little kind to the Jimin of our daily life that makes love seem so easy.

Cherish the Jimin of your life.

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Does it happen to others also like you're feeling really down, but also suddenly creative ideas just start popping up but you're not energetic enough to put it into work and you think, you'll do it tomorrow when feeling good but it's gone when you feel better the next day

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Hometown Cha Cha Cha

My all time fav, "Hometown Cha Cha Cha", this show taught me life. I have always been against romance , I just couldn't understand the point of romance, it is basically just a reproduction trap created by society and by the primitive instincts of humans until one day, my friends recommended this show to me. It didn't change me or anything, it somehow felt close to home (It became my home later). There's just too much I want to talk about this series, and if I start, I won't stop. But , rn, I just wanted to say one thing that I realised through this series and what it did for me.

Romantic relationship was redefined and I realised that I just hated the old concept of "Romance" till that day. Because romance isn't life, it's a part of life. It comes with many colours, it's not black or white, it's more like a rainbow just like any other relationship.

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Throwing tantrums isn't a sign of a bad kid, it's a sign of privilege cause some kids have to be mature even before they understand what an immature, fearless and carefree kid is.

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Gonna rant about SCD/Sammy's children day/He Chusan Children Day.

Bruhhhh....

It's so good. The novel is really hitting every corner of my heart, I feel so full by it. Everything about this novel is just too good. Today, I saw a reel where the editor commented, even without knowing how to comfort, Xia Liu Yi tried his best to comfort He Chusan.

Bro the series is good but I feel like it's missing a lot of plots about how their story evolves throughout the years. Their story isn't made in a few months or one-two years of some random events. There are a lot of events that show their story and also them. The depth of the characters is somewhat lacking as compared to the novel.

In short, 9 episodes aren't enough to complete their story. It's not just a story , it's He Chusan and Xia Liu Yi's lives basically

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You are like those old DVDs that gives me peace of being young and carefree, like those tapes of music albums of my sister that I used to admire and adore so much, like those old shows that brought a smile in my face, also those old magazines and story books that I used to hug to sleep. You're like the peace that I lost with my childhood.

When you said, "woah manly!! That's 👎🏻, understand?" , you won . You became a human for me instead of a man. You have always been so important but your perspective impresses me each time.

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Care that stays unexpressed often feels the same as care that doesn’t exist.

Saying,"I care about you" and actually caring is really different. Caring needs effort to be put, while saying that makes no difference than not caring at all.

She says that she cares but her actions never align with her words. So, was it really care ??

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I love people with a curious soul who don't judge others just cause their mental set is different. Most of the readers are like that, especially fanfic readers, they are so open minded that they always try to see the bigger picture instead of making judgments. They might be the hidden ally of every community.

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thank you ao3 for being an archive and not an algorithm. thank you for letting me like things without consequences, thank you for being free with no ads, thank you for having lawyers to defend our freedom of speech. thank you tag wranglers. thank you to all authors and thank you ao3

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"A friend in need is a friend indeed." - ao3 is that friend to many of us.

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Dedicating it to my cutie, sexy, lovely, sweet guy.

Cause it is soooooo easy to fall in love with him. It used to be hard to love but after knowing him, it has become so much easier. I feel so much relief now that I can allow myself to love as much as I want. I finally understood that there's no need to hold back to love. I can love anything or everything that gives me peace, it doesn't need to be validated by others, I am allowed to love everything I want, others acceptance doesn't matter. It's just me and I love many things and it's ok to love those things as long as it makes me happy.

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Do you cry just looking at somebody? Not the painful tears but like a weird feeling where you know that you love that person so much that tears start flowing eventually.

I do have someone whom I've never met yet I love that person so much that even his pictures make me tear up. When he says that he is happy, I feel like there's a reason to be alive. He is the epitome of life energy for me. His smile makes me relax even when my anxiety acts up again. Thinking about him makes me feel so much love and peace.

Sometimes, I'm reminded of his words "Remember, there is a person here in Korea, in the city of Seoul, who understands you" and keep moving on. I just can't help but hope that he's happy wherever he is.

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Bitching is fun with guys until it's a woman you're bitching about. Coz, the moment you pull up a male dog on the table , they become the most decent human being ever who never gossip behind anyone's back, and somehow it turns into how women are always so gossipy. Wow. Such self aware human beings should be awarded with 'tihsgod award'

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What I'm most disappointed about in this matter is how women react to this. Women aren't loyal to each other like these male dogs are to each other. At a critical moment, most women turn their heads before a troubled woman can ask for help, forget about offering help.

Why? Fear?

Fear is created and it was created by whom??

All of us know it so well, who created fear, power dynamics, and even romance to control women and made women believe that our rank is low in hierarchy.

Women in love are blind, are they?? They're taught to be. Think about the patterns of rearing children, the things and behaviours a child experiences, the events happening in front of them, you'll understand that women are taught to be men's bitches and this cycle has been going on for ages now.

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Bitching is fun with guys until it's a woman you're bitching about. Coz, the moment you pull up a male dog on the table , they become the most decent human being ever who never gossip behind anyone's back, and somehow it turns into how women are always so gossipy. Wow. Such self aware human beings should be awarded with 'tihsgod award'

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I just wanted to let you know that you're not just an idol . For me , you are the light that shines so bright that I can see hope even in the darkest night of my life. My life has never been that easy, but when I see you, I feel that last bit of hope to keep moving on. You aren't just an idol for me, you're also an inspiration, my source of light , there're other people who helped me too and I love them as well. You inspire me to be kinder, show me that loving myself and accepting myself isn't wrong, expecting others to love me when I give so much, to be unapologetically me and be proud of it, you taught me so many things. You made me accept myself, I never knew myself until I met you. You're not a hero who saved me, you're the hope I keep choosing to see to get through my life. I'm so selfish to love you like that and I don't regret it.

I love you but I don't feel any possession and I know so many people out there love you like that. That makes it even more interesting.

-From the bottom of a fan's heart to that lovely boy group member

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Why is it always, "Please God, give me someone who would love and adore me like in those fictions or dramas" ?

Why is it not, "Please keep them happy and healthy. Coz, I love them dearly" ?

People want to receive instead of give. Since when did it become so popular and why?? Why aren't we talking about how much love we have to give instead of always focusing on how much we want to receive ??

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Somewhere I saw this quote saying

We love people who have something similar with us. Even when making friends, it's based on sharing something similar maybe our interest or maybe we desire some traits. When selecting a romantic partner, it's the same. We're attracted to traits that are similar to us. This indirect self love is really easy as we don't have to stick to the strict norms of self love in this era.

I found this quite interesting and relatable. Self love appears to be tough but liking others is easy but we don't realise that this love is also a type of self love.