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Al (with an L) || They/Them/Theirs || Chicano || Bi Lesbian Ace & Nonbinary || 20+ || Ask/Anon open|| Anti-Harassment || ao3: Ultraviolet_Ink || bsky: Ultraviolet Ink || Ryuususa Day ||

[ultraviolet-ink]

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The absolute bottom line of "male socialisation" and the idea that trans women uniquely have to unlearn & atone for some innate connection to "AMAB" upbringing is, ultimately, the idea that being an oppressor is a facet of your identity and not the result of choices you consistently make. The end result of this thinking is, consciously or implicitly, believing that you do not have the same capacity to hurt and exploit others.

Men aren't misogynistic because they're men, they aren't misogynistic because they're uninformed or confused; like any privileged class, men are consistently offered means of leveraging oppression to their own benefit and they're rewarded for this more than anybody else. These aren't privileges given to """AMABs""", these are opportunities given to people who use them to uphold patriarchy & cisheteronormativity.

A trans woman, notably, is not going to be let into the Boy's Club because she has an M on her birth certificate.

If you believe that the average transfem needs to "unlearn male socialisation" or that she as a trans woman is probably more likely to be misogynistic, then the logical end result of that line of logic is that you consider yourself innately "safer" than others, less capable of wielding bigotry against someone.

Your oppressors are not marginalised woman who you frame as contaminated by the words of a doctor; they're people who are actively treating trans women like any other vulnerable class of women. When you decide that a group constantly targeted with vitriol and violence has to be kept at arms' length because of your own fear... That's you.

[spicyvampire]

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[soranatus]

How Did "Us Against the World" Become "Me Against You"? Vanessa Kapatelis | Jason Todd

[tothechaos]

of course i know hockey......... yeah im in "the crease"............. the crease of my mans thighs!!!!

[beggars-opera]

Everyone in this family is hilarious no notes

[ruffboi-mags]

#OH. JOE HILL IS A REAL DUDE. #I did think Mr. nashville tenesee was doing a funny lol

I am cracking up so hard bc it lowkey implies Mr. Joe Hills (coming at you like he always does from Nashville, Tennessee) might not be a real dude.

[william-s-churros]

i think i saw a movie like this once

[maidslime]

Ok I needed to know the story and

Guy makes a really stupid decision and gets in a car accident -> no real damage from accident but insurance goes up -> starts beating himself up over his stupid decision -> gets depressed -> starts to realize he's single and had crash been worse he'd die alone -> realizes he's never had a relationship or even a crush and starts wondering what he'd want out of a relationship -> starts to realize he doesn't really like girls so he thinks he must be gay -> realizes he likes girls and boys about the same amount, so he must be bi -> later realizes that "same amount" is none at all -> he's ace

[baba-fett]

Reblog to bonk your mutuals on the head every time they start thinking negatively about themselves

[paranormal-taters]

specifically this kind of bonk.

[swampthingy]

[actuallyapathy]

[the-lumpfish-queen]

I love environmental storytelling

[belphegor1982]

[hotlegsharker]

[berlynn-wohl]

[harleyklawz]

Its fucking hieroglyphs with you people

[necronomipod]

Can't just leave this in the comments

[official-michigan-posts]

i'm definitely not qualified to answer this chat what do you think

[official-michigan-posts]

YOU HEARD IT HERE FIRST!!!!

THE WRECK OF THE EDMUND FITZGERALD IS!!

YURI!!!!!!!

[tasernim]

did you know that i really like maya fey

try to spot every ace attorney reference there are so many and this took me 11 hours, which means you legally(haha) have to be nice to me.

speedpaint under cut but i forgor to record the whole thing.

[mynqzo]

finished my first semester oufh god finally blorbo time

[bedupolker]

[special-lucky-chosen-one]

I like when someone invents a new and disturbing way to Decorate Wrong

[imsobadatnicknames2]

I have always been partial to the idea that the vast majority of open world games fail to justify their size and would benefit from being smaller. But last night I booted up GTA Vice City (which for most intents and purposes is *exactly* the kind of small-ish open world that I think developers should be making more of) for the first time in years and ngl. The fact that the radio in that game is so awesome but no two places in the map are ever far enough away that you get to listen to an entire song on your way to wherever you're going did make me be a little like "damn I kinda *do* wish this game was wasting a little more of my time with a pointlessly padded worldmap"

[imsobadatnicknames2]

Like if the game had no radio I'd consider it a perfect example of an open world that's just exactly as big as I need go be. But as it stands it's so awkward every time I get in a car to drive somewhere and get there just as the song on the radio is getting to the best part and I'm just like... do I just park the car to listen to the rest of it? Do I just drive around the block a couple times while it ends?