Kayley.

[umpancakes]

I hate feeling nostalgic so much

[umpancakes]

Rule 1 of life: don't make promises you can't keep.

[placelesstraveled]

Visit Original Link

(Day Wave)

[umpancakes]

My 2020 soul song.

[umpancakes]

Surrounding yourself with songs that remind you of so many good and bad situations. Like your own little soundtrack

[umpancakes]

It is extremely important to make yourself a priority. To look after yourself, take some time out and focus on the present. But that absolutely does not mean you abandon your friends completely or continuesly ignore someone who genuinely needs you under the guise of 'self care'

To completely disregard anyone elses 'self care' or anyone elses tough times. Disregard anyone elses feelings.

No one should feel pressured into communication they don't want to participate in at that time. But I don't understand how basic compassion and decencency dont seem to fit into self care these days.

It's somehow okay to go about your daily life whilst ignoring others needs completely. Expecting others to not feel unwanted or wondering where they stand. It somehow doesn't matter what impact that has on someone because its 'self care'

[umpancakes]

Do any of you guys still use Twitter? 🤔 I've made a new one even though I have no social life 😂 I need some good content in my life

[umpancakes]

So, are we gonna talk about the fact that the world is corrupt?

[dundermifflinscranton]

[umpancakes]

Can we skip to the part where fat people stop pretending they’re fat because of a billion other reasons other than they just over eat.

[quecksilvereyes]

That’s it, I’m gonna go scream into a pillow.

GET YOUR POSTS THAT AREN’T FAT ACCEPTING OUT OF THE FUCKING FAT ACCEPTANCE TAG

[umpancakes]

Nope :)

[quecksilvereyes]

What’s so hard about tagging your stuff as what it is? This is not fat accepting.

Also, get your smiley face away from me

[umpancakes]

And what is it exactly? And no, stop being so angry.

[quecksilvereyes]

Fatphobic. Yes, people are fat because they overeat but also because of a lot of other reasons.

The fat acceptance tag is for people who want to feel good in their bodies, posting disrespectful and triggering stuff isn’t helping anyone.

And no, I won’t.

[snarkingonfatlogic]

Nope. Overeating is the only reason. Being fat is caused by eating more calories than you expend, and nothing else. You can scream and howl about muh condishuns and muh medicationz all day long, but none of that can make matter appear from thin air.

If you’re fat, you own it.

[quecksilvereyes]

thank you for letting me know to block you i appreciate it!

@fatphobiabusters

[excalibelle]

@snarkingonfatlogic what about people who are permanently wheelchairbound? Even permanently bedbound? No matter how little they eat they can never exercise enough to burn off the calories.

What about people with chronic pain so severe they cant exercise? My father has serious disk issues in his back and cannot do anything real, anything more intense than walking a few hundred yards to get the mail, and a little bit of physical therapy, which focuses less on weight loss things like cardio and more on things to strengthen up those muscles and reduce back pain.

But he’s gained weight since his problems started and he’s not physically capable of getting rid of them.

I have issues with exercise because of both mental and physical health issues, and because i have a history with anorexia, making attempts to do any kind of diet or count nutrients triggers those tendencies in me again even though i no longer care about my weight, but just simply because it returns my brain to that obsessive mindset. And it’s healthier for me to be 200 pounds then to develop anorexia again.

Science also has proven that significant, permanent weight loss is nearly impossible and that achieving it almost always requires unhealthy diets and extreme exercise. No one will tell you that, because they want to keep selling you slimming clothes and diet plans and gym memberships, but it’s true, and though i don’t have links for you on that I’d bet @fatphobiabusters does. You could also find them yourself rather easily by scrolling their blog and checking their tags.

In short, you’re an ignorant thoughtless asshole and not nearly as intelligent as you think you are, so kindly fuck off now and stop talking out your ass about things you clearly know very little about. If you’ve given this so little thought you genuinely didn’t think about the fact that someone permanently bedbound cant exactly do much cardio, then you clearly didn’t think your statement through at all. Get off your high horse and go educate yourself before spewing more bullshit.

[studying-inwonderland]

I was super skinny (underweight even) until I went on borth control. With hardly any major life style changes I put on 50 pounds.

[umpancakes]

Yeah, of course the point im trying to get across is that someone who is bedbound cannot justify being overweight. If you're intelligent enough to understand my post then you'll know completely that isn't the case.

[c-isnenegro]

[geminiislutt-deactivated2022073]

👑

[dankmemesreasonforliving]

[umpancakes]

People who care about you so little that they can’t even pretend they do anymore. Go fuck yourself.

[umpancakes]

So I just wanted to say that your opinion on fat acceptance is 100% accurate, and people's reactions to things like that are hilarious. If you want to change, get off your ass and make it happen. :3 Well done

Thankyou. I'm all for body positivity. If someone is genuinely happy being overweight, then good for them. But the facts they spread just simply aren't true. Thats what gets me.

[thepersonalquotes]

[umpancakes]

[neopiascentral]

the general public is a truly amazing category of human beings

[theretailconfessionals]

Retail Confession #5

Yes, I hear you clearing your throat to get my attention while my back is turned. I hear it even better the second time you deliberately clear your throat even louder. No, I’m not going to acknowledge you. You’re an adult. Use your words.