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@unbearable16
Let me give you all a little back story, for those of you who werenât around for all thatâs been going on in the past month.
I worked for mygirlfund for two years. I brought in the most new customers every single month since I started working for them. EVERY. MONTH. I never had many problems. Hell, the site even considered me one of the âlegendsâ and I was working on a page with them and about 16 other models where we could make suggestions to improve the site. Things were really looking up for me, it seemed. However, I had no idea what was really going on.
The past couple months, a lot of the models have been running into more and more scammers. Men that will promise women large amounts of money for photo content, receive the content, and never pay the women. So, we started reporting these men to support. However, âsupportâ (which the whole site is just run by two men) refused to help. They let the men continue to use their site to scam their own workers! So, some of the models took a stand. Started making lists of scammers so that models could be aware of who to stay away from and who to block. A lot of models were having their account suspended because of this. They completely overlooked the fact that DOZENS of men were breaking their rules fifteen different ways. They punished women who were just trying to help out their co-workers, their friends.
Things kept going downhill from there. A woman had started posting on the blog page. She explained that she had started talking to this man, and he had tracked her down. Found her Facebook, her address, her phone number, her work address, and even started harassing her teenage daughter. He literally threatened their lives, from what I was told about it. So, the woman reached out to Support. They wouldnât do anything about it. So she reached out on the blogs page. Every single post was deleted. So other models started standing with her and posting in the blog page. Their posts were deleted, maybe even their whole profiles. Once again, the site would rather protect itâs name and awful customers than protect itâs workers.
We found out some worse things after that. Turns out that although women have to provide several different forms of identification in order to join the site, all men need is their email. So, I decided that I would post some suggestions on how to fix all of these problems on the legends page. It was a very sweet, well thought out paragraph about how making the men provide ID when signing up would keep some scammers out, and if scammers were caught their ID could be put on a no-fly list so they couldnât make another active profile. I further stated that letting these men on the site made me and a lot of other models feel unsafe. So what do they do? They deleted my legends profile. They kicked me out of the legends for having an idea they didnât like.
Not too long after that, a scammer on the site named Azsundevil02 came to my attention. He was a man who seemed to have a fetish for women shaving their heads. This is uncommon, but not unheard of in our industry. A lot of women found this man to be a scammer. He would promise anywhere between $500 and $1000 for these women to shave their head in a video or on cam. Some, he would give half before the show or before the video and promise the other half later, then not give the models the other half. Some, he would sweet talk into getting on cam or doing the video first without pay, and then he would disappear from the site and never send them the money.
The more I heard of him, the more angry I got. A lot of women were reporting him with solid evidence, and the site refused to do anything. So, I made a YouTube video about scammers, and how to avoid scamming. I made sure to mention him specifically in the description.
Nothing happened for a while, but last night Azsundevil02 got ahold of me on MGF, and began threatening to have my profile taken down. I told him that he could tell me his side of the story and if he had a logical explanation on why ten women have all told me that he scammed them, I would take my video down and try to get his side of the story out there. I waited and waited and waited for a reply and got none. A few hours after that, I found that my account was gone. I checked my email, hoping for a clear explanation, but got none. Just an email that said âyour account has been terminated.â Thatâs it.
Now that Iâve got nothing left to lose, Iâm standing against MyGirlFund. They donât deserve the popularity theyâve gained because of me. I made tons of videos and posts about how great they were. I referred model after model after model to their site, and donât even get me started on customers. They donât deserve the money theyâve made because of me and because of my followers.Â
So if you have an account as a customer, delete it. There are tons of wonderful sites out there like MGF that treat their models right, and have a larger array of different content thatâs MUCH easier to navigate. If youâre a model and it wont put you in financial danger to leave, please I beg you to do it. There are dozens of other sites that you can work for that WILL treat you correctly.
Boycott MyGirlFund. They donât deserve your money. They do not deserve your membership. They need to be taught that they cannot treat their models like trash.
- Ryden Anne
I decided this site was worthless trash when I saw that they were allowing girls to have bestiality videos up and letting harassing rape-centered members to post their âtell me about how you were raped so I can jerk off to itâ requests.
Iâm SO glad I never joined it.
Please avoid this site, ladies.
never work for MGF or Flirt4Free
both sites should be fucking deleted
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Never heard of either site. But good advice in general re scammers.
Stay safe, protect your privacy.
Yet another entry in the "We Used to Have A Country" department:
A white woman, with zero background in history, has been put in charge of what will be considered "appropriate" to be displayed at the Museum of African American History. đ Someone please point out to me where in the founding documents of this country it says that the President can dictate the content of museums, libraries, and universities, as he's doing. And if that authority isn't there, WHY THE HECK are our legislators and judges and others letting him get away with becoming more and more like a dictator?
Money. The president is abusing control of spending to coerce institutions into following his expectations. Without government money institutions need private money... which comes from wealthy people like trump or musk or bezos. Which means no money for sesame street.
I love that topless protesting is becoming something of a trans tradition in the UK. If the protesters are arrested, the state must admit they're women. If they aren't, it shows the glaring contradictions of labeling trans women as "male." It helps their cause either way. We don't see this nearly enough of this in the US (photo by Rusty Elias, St. Peter's Square, Manchester, May 31st, 2025)
"Sure, some people will lose some rights and privacy, but at least we're protecting the kids!"
When I was 14, I used to carry a flashdrive with TOR on it to bypass the school's internet safety filters so I could get on Facebook and play flash games. Kids are smarter than you want to think. You aren't protecting shit.
Your average 9 yr old has enough ingenuity to get past most age filters. It us old farts that can't figure it out.
The UK is targeting 4chan. They dont know the hornets nest they're kicking. đ
Right up to the point the US passes KOSA. Then all will be well.
okay first i'm not nor have i ever been in the uk and second fucking hate this censorship bullshit i'm so sorry y'all are going through this too
I went to a hospital in vegas a few years back; I didn't have my insurance information with me. So the hospital gave me the option to pay in cash and get a 60% discount for not using insurance.
1 ask what the cash discount is when you are given any service.
2 at 40% of list price, the hospital was still in the black. This means 60% of what you pay for medical services goes to the insurance company not to the hospital and staff providing the service.
3 you want to cut medical costs in half, get rid of private medical insurance and make medical insurance mandatory for everyone.
Protect VPNs from governments
You can sign this even if not in the US.
Everyday I wake up and think about FDRâs second bill of rights
Self torture
If you come to Canada you can have everything except #3
I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.
He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.
I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.
He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.
His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.
He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.
He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.
The man who whispered in my ear of how i was âmarriage materialâ moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.
To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.
1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.
All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.
Too important not to reblog
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I am so sorry for what you experienced @ifitpleasuresme. Thank you for sharing this wake-up call.
Signal boost. If you go charging into a scene thinking you can act like they act in those gonzo BDSM porn loops, youâre a fool. Always keep the Safe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual. If you are not absolutely sure of what youâre doing in a scene, donât fucking do it.
Even a wake call for 24/7 dynamics, because itâs too easy to become complacent with your play, and forget to check in with your partner about if anything has changed.
This wasiin my que.. but @hiswifeslut hit the real nail on the head here!
I had a much lighter experience - where after some rough face fucking in an awkward position, I awoke the next morning unable to rotate my neck all the way. The chiropractor said 3 of my cervical vertebrae had been rotated or slipped. I donât even know what I came up with as an excuse for that one lol. He was able to adjust them back into place.
Itâs important to know how to take care of acute injuries- I actually had to wait two days because it was the weekend to see my chiropractor. In the mean time I iced my neck and took ibuprofen. Had the injury been more severe there is a real chance that even just swelling and inflammation could cause irreparable damage to the spinal cord or surrounding structures. Ice and ibuprofen are go-to when you need to treat acute injuries that have caused or could cause dangerous inflammation.
The neck is such a common feature in sex and bdsm play. Itâs so important to be aware of how itâs angled and how itâs handled during sex and scenes. Always put safety first and remember to pull- not yank on anyoneâs hair or head!!
I was very sad to read the OP. I am so glad the OP posted it though because it is such an important message that needs to echo throughout the bdsm and even vanilla communities.
I come back to this post pretty often. I actively and deliberately seek it out.
You want to know why?
Because this is the harsh reality of the potential damage that kink done improperly can cause.
Itâs very easy to get caught up in all the extreme activities and the rough and tumble type of play that we all love, but every so often we need to all be given a reality check that firmly plants our feet back on the ground. Something that forces us to revalue the mantra of âSafe, Sane and Consensual.â
This post for me is my wake-up all. It humbles me and grounds me every single time I read it, and I applaud with all the strength in my hands the woman that was courageous enough to post it.
Safety always comes first and Iâll be damned if I ever forget it.
Reblogging in honour of 5 years post-surgery â€ïž
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I will never ever not reblog this. My acquaintance with life altering neck injuries is real and strong. The number of scary hair pulling gifs I see on here is appalling.
Thatâs probably verbatim to the last time I reblogged this. So be it.
And this is why I allow so few people to pull my hair.
Eye opener đ§ pulling hair harshly was already a hard limit for me because growing it out is such a commitment⊠however this is a far more important reasonâŠ.
This will always always be a reblog!đ
Another example of how rough play requires consent, trust, and cooperation. The sub really has all of the control.
BOOST THIS. WHAT YOU SAW IN THAT CLIP MAY BE DANGEROUS. Explore carefully and with consent. Going to make my own post on this in a sec
Tumblr is great. People start blogs about nature or art and two weeks later, their likes are full of sex, hypnosis, and misogyny. Welcome to your awakening, starring all of the rest of us.
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Okanagan Beach, Penticton
Photo credit: C. Robinson
Secretary (2002)
Just wash My hair. Shut your fucking mouth. I don't want to hear a word out of you...
This movie is totally awesome, it is hilarious as anything you have ever seen.
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I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
Iâm so glad you asked! Let me list off what Iâve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If youâre having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. Theyâll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and arenât into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isnât actually in helping you âmindfuckâ people, itâs in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. Itâs a great answer to the question âhow do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?â
- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isnât a better book on the subject. Itâs written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase âif the Master doesnât want it, it isnât serviceâ will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This oneâs high on my reading list;Â Iâve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I havenât personally read much of her work, but sheâs a well known sex educator and great at what she does. Sheâs known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you donât need that, itâs no good. Just look through this worksheetâs wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the âhow do you want to feel?â section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. Thereâs a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of whatâs written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But thereâs some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldnât have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesnât âenjoy.â
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Donât read this if you donât already know what youâre doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you canât read something and pick out what is and isnât for you, donât bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but theyâre all important parts of my library and Iâve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
reblogging specifically for these last additions bc I don't think I've ever seen resources for kink w/ disability