Its Free Real Estate

[inanotherunivrse]

In another universe I am 14 again and I get to be a regular high school girl, same as everyone else. I get to graduate with my classmates.

[borderlinereminders]

I think this might rub some people wrong, but I think it's important to say.

If you fucked up in the past in a relationship (platonic or romantic), it's not fair for that mistake to be held over your head.

It's important that we apologize and take accountability and try and do better in the future. And even doing those things, it doesn't mean someone needs to forgive you and keep you in their lives. But if they decide to keep you in their lives and try and move on with you, then it's not fair for past mistakes to be thrown in your face. Whether it's because you're fighting, or another reason.

Their feelings are valid about your mistake. And maybe sometimes they want to talk about it, and that's okay. But it's not okay for them to hold your mistakes over your head. There's a big difference between saying "hey, I'm having feelings about this thing again. Can I get some reassurance?" and them attacking you about it. You don't need to allow yourself to be attacked because you messed up in the past.

You don't deserve your mistakes to be held over you forever. You deserve to be able to grow, and move on from them.

[borderlinereminders]

I got a rude ask about this.

I’m going to clarify - I’m not saying that if you hurt someone you deserve a free pass. That person has every right to take space, cut you out or otherwise set boundaries and do what they need.

I’m just saying though that if they make a decision to continue forward with you, that is a decision they are making and that means they should be choosing to move forward with you. This doesn’t mean you don’t work on rebuilding trust or otherwise repairing the relationship. But it does mean your mistakes shouldn’t be thrown at you every time you disagree.

It’s valid if the trust is broken and that may take time to repair, but being attacked anytime they feel insecure isn’t okay.

It’s valid if that person realizes they can’t move past it but in this case, they should be telling you that and parting ways with you.

You don’t deserve your mistakes to be held over you. You deserve to be able to grow and do better.

[tear-dropp-deactivated20241031]

“can u stop bouncing ur Ieg”

no

[justangrymacaroni]

god i am always the FIRST to rally against the failures of just fighting for tolerance from straight cis ppl, but also we haven't even fucking reached tolerance yet.

we still need "We're Queer We're Here Get Used To It", because i don't know about you guys, but from what I'm seeing, they aren't fucking used to it.

we need that old school "we're your hairdressers, your teachers, your neighbors, your siblings, your friends" energy back ASAP. quietly queer isn't cutting it for me anymore. in your face dykes fag queer trans forever until i'm fucking dead.

[unfiltered-trauma-thoughts]

Boom. Another on bites the dust.

[unfiltered-trauma-thoughts]

Sometimes you get what you deserve. Fuck your apology years down the line. Stop doing the same shit and I might just believe you actually are sorry. Otherwise fuck off and die mad.

[vanguard]

"don't post that, what if an employer sees?" personally i think employers need to stay the fuck off their employees' social media lmao

[vanguard]

stop normalizing employers invading employees' privacy ❤️❤️❤️

[cardi-c]

c: @creeplet

[only-knives]

do you have "treatment resistant depression" or are you just fundamentally living a life that would make anyone depressed?

are you just dealing with abuse, poverty, and oppression? are you just dealing with a lifetime of trauma? do we just live in a society where peoples basic needs are neglected, and the completely understanble response to that is pathologized? on purpose? so that it's just an individual problem and people arent Trying Enough... so nothing about the system has to change?

...do you have "treatment resistant depression," or do you just need real community, support, resources, and protection?

[comfortfrogblog]

sometimes you’re in a lot of pain but it’s important to know that there will be times in the future where it will finally feel okay and you will feel alive. those times aren’t just hopeful wishes, those times are in your future and you will feel alive again.

[bigtiddygothdogboy]

i love you autistics that are picky eaters. i love you autistics that dont eat vegetables. i love you autistics that dont eat foods because of the color or texture. i love you autistics who have to take vitamins because their safe/same foods dont provide enough nutrients. i love you autistics who have to look at the menu ahead of time before they go somewhere to make sure there is safe/same foods.

[traumatizeddfox]

I WASN’T A BAD DOG

I WAS A SCARED DOG

[incendavery]

friend break up

[traumatizeddfox]

rage

verb: feel or express violent uncontrollable anger.

noun: violent, uncontrollable anger.

[wilczak]

[angryuserboxes]

[userbox id: an entirely black userbox and red text that reads “this user doesn't give a fuck if you hate them or not.” on the left is an image of a 1% battery symbol. end id]

[feral-ballad]

Yrsa Daley-Ward, all the wrong colours

[Text ID: “What else can my hands / do with the blood? Pray?”]