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saying batman created his rogues because they are obsessed with and pursue him is the same logic used to blame women for leading on or attracting a stalker. it is straight up victim blaming and I refuse to touch it
Hey Steph!Trying to find a story I read a while ago, with only vague details. It opens with John & Sherlock having coffee together. Sherlock very wary because of their past. But John has been in therapy and is working hard on doing better. The rest of their story is their reconnection, with John trying to repair and change what was broken. Sorry for the vague details. I just remember vividly the beginning with Sherlock deducing John at the café, and not quite believing he has changed.
Hi Nonny!
Ooooo don't know this one exactly but it sounds super interesting!!
Anyone know which one this is??
yoursjustasitwas said: is this chryse’s ‘the ground beneath your feet’ ? https://archiveofourown.org/works/5824753/chapters/13423681
helloliriels said: Is this "nothing gold can stay" by raina-at? https://archiveofourown.org/works/51677050
calaisreno said: "This Time" by Berty? https://archiveofourown.org/works/34621897
calaisreno said: Just reread This Time - fantastic story, by the way - and I'm almost certain this is the one Nonny is looking for!
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This Time by Berty (T, 12,090 w., 1 Ch. || Post TSo3, Past John/Mary, Miscarriage / No Rosie, Hurt Sherlock, Confessions, POV Sherlock, Angst with Happy Ending) – After five months of silence, John asks Sherlock to meet him for a coffee. Five months of learning to live completely without John has been harder than he could have imagined but the lure of seeing his friend once more is too much to pass up.
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Here's the fic Calais thinks it is, and here are the others that are similar enough so they may also be interesting to you too!
The Ground Beneath Your Feet by Chryse (E, 68,803 w., 15 Ch. || PTSD, Hurt/Comfort, Protective John, Angst with Happy Ending) – Think only of the past as its remembrance gives you pleasure.
Nothing Gold Can Stay by Raina_at (E, 10,989 w., 1 Ch. || TSo3 Fix It, Friends to Lovers, Grief, Mentions of PTSD, Introspection, Communication) – The thing you wanted to say. Say it now. What do you do when you can't go back? Do you hold on? Or do you let go?
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Thanks everyone!!!
Anonymous asked: I'm the nonny that asked about the café fic recently. it WAS "This Time" by Berty. Thank you so much to calaisreno and to you for helping me refind such a touching story
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YAY!!! I'm so happy it was found Nonny!!
Great job team!!! This is the best community evar!! :D
Sherlock doesn’t know that John loves him as a man. His brain shuts down when John calls him his best friend, and Sherlock believes that John is motivated solely by his danger boner. The entire Watson domestic depends on it. Sherlock convinces John to stay with Mary by comparing John’s relationship to Mary with his relationship with Sherlock: you don’t stay because you love her/me, you stay because you love the excitement she/I provides. Even in TEH, Sherlock tries to entice John to return by offering him cases. When that fails, he offers his expert wedding planning skills. When that fails, he tries cases again. He’s … not very good at this.
The worst part is that it doesn’t change his love. Sherlock loves John Watson in every conceivable way. Sherlock will do anything for John and take any scrap he can get back. His actions and choices won’t change whether or not he thinks John loves him. He’ll still respect whatever he thinks John wants. John’s safety will always be top priority. His feelings don’t matter.
It matters so much to John. It’s the crucial bit of information that John desperately needs. If he knew it, if he was secure in it, if he still didn’t have to ask dumbass questions like “who would Sherlock bother protecting,” than he would cast everything aside to get to Sherlock. He wouldn’t hesitate with the glass of whiskey in his hand.
If Sherlock clarifies, then John will act.
But isn’t John under equal obligation to clarify? More so, really, because Sherlock has so little experience in these matters? I’m just curious why it has to be Sherlock who makes the first move, and not John.
John’s clarification will give Sherlock comfort and stability. For the ultimate health of their relationship, John’s got to say it. It’s why I love angsty early relationship fics: John acting without clarifying equals emotionally tumultuous relationship. They’ll be together, but not stable. To be the blissfully happy assholes they could be, John’s got to talk. But that won’t be the catalyst for the start of the relationship.
At this point, Sherlock’s there. He gets it. He’s stupidly in love with John Watson. But he won’t do anything about it. Because he thinks John deserves better. Even if he knew that John loved him, it still wouldn’t matter before the mutual revelation. Because he thinks that everyone (Mike Stamford, Greg Lestrade, Mary Morstan, fucking everyone) is better for John than he is.
John’s there. John loves Sherlock Holmes so much he’ll get cirrhosis before he says a damn word. He can’t say it. He desperately needs his own arc, but, unless Sherlock says something, we’re going to be back at TRF with John quietly accepting his fate. He’ll jump it the second he gets consent.
Ultimately they both need to goddamned talk to each other. But Sherlock’s got to open the door. John’s been standing there too scared to knock for five years.
Sherlocks been basically knocking the door down with explosives since years just with his (many) sacrifices for John, but John just looking into the other direction as if he doesn’t see a thing and saying “huh why would Sherlock do such a thing?”
Sherlock didnt say anything verbally, but he showed his love and devotion to John with his sacrifices and actions, just that John never understood that it was all for him. Just one little conversation about “i did this all for you” would be enough to finally make them realise. Give them finally the talk they deserve 2k22
Hi Steph! First I just want to say: I'm newly "back" to tumblr and fandom after a few years, and I am simply DELIGHTED that you are still here and active! I remember you from before, so it's amazing to "see" you again. While I'm still re-finding my footing, I was hoping you could give me a few shorter fic recs? (up to ~20k ish) I know most Johnlock fics include an element of this, but I like fics that explore their mutual obliviousness and insecurity regarding each other's sexualities -- specifically, things like [John thinking Sherlock isn't interested in anyone], [John thinking Sherlock IS interested in someone], [Sherlock dealing with 'not gay' Watson], and/or [Sherlock finding out that John has indeed had experiences with/feelings for men in the past]. I'm demisexual, so I also have a weakness for [demi-Sherlock], too! Thank you, and I hope you're having a wonderful day when this finds you :)
Hi Nonny!
Ahhh! Welcome back!! I hope you are enjoying your time back in the fandom, and I'm happy to be contributing to your integration back into the fandom!! <3 I love seeing my old Lovelies coming directly here first to see that I'm still around, LOL
Pfffff okay so BECAUSE I need a list for this weekend, I saw the words "demisexual" and latched onto it like a leach, so you're the lucky recipient of being an ask with a list attached, no matter how off topic it is 🙃 So I DO apologize for that. BUT since you want short fics of specific topics, you can check the following lists for them; if you're unaware, I list all my fics in word-count order, so you can just pick the fics up until the word count gets too high for your liking LOL.
So here are some short-fic lists you can check out unrelated to today's list topic:
E-Rated Johnlock for Newcomers Pt 1 (Short Fics under 20K)
G,T, & M-Rated Johnlock for Newcomers Pt. 1 (Under 5K)
G,T, & M-Rated Johnlock for Newcomers Pt. 2 (5K-20K)
Fics Under 2000 w.
Fics Under 2000 w. Pt. 2
Fics Under 2000 w. Pt. 3
Fics Under 2000 w. Pt. 4
Heartwarming Stories Under 10K
Ten Fave Short Johnlock Fics (Easy Reads April 2018)
25 Fave Johnlock One Shots (April 2018)
Anxious / Worried Sherlock Pt 1 (Under 20K w.)
Parentlock Pt. 4A (MFLs 0-25K w.)
Medium Burn Fics (Slow Burn Under 25K) (Oct 2023)
Sherlock AUs Under 25K
Novella Length Fics: 20 to 25K (Oct 2020)
And here's the main Sexuality list! I hope you enjoy these, and as usual, friends, add yours if you have them! <3
DEMISEXUAL SHERLOCK
See also:
Asexual Sherlock (updated Aug 22/22)
Ace Sherlock Pt. 1.5 (MFL)
Queerplatonic / Ace Relationships (Updated Jun 2023)
BOOKMARKS
Achieving the Together-Coloured Instant by teahigh (E, 20,776 w., 1 Ch. || Established Relationship, PTSD, Codependency, Fluff & Angst, Hurt/Comfort, Smut, Demisexual Sherlock, Experiments) – John wonders if this is how it’s going to be: A life speaking in code, because they’re both too stupid to figure out how to say, “I love you.”
Rupert Street by WritingOutLoud (M, 27,262 w., 9 Ch. || Alternate First Meeting || Case Fic, Sexuality, Demisexual Sherlock, Drugging, Smart John, Sherlock Has Internalized Biphobia, Fluff, Angst with Happy Ending, Gay Bar, Flirting, John Manipulates Sherlock to Eat, John Deduces, Arguments, Kidnapping/Torture, Hospitalization, John Whump) – Discharged from the war with nothing but the clothes on his back and a realisation of his bisexuality, John Watson has to learn who he’s become. He can’t afford London on an army pension, but the city is the only friend he has. In an effort to understand his newfound queer identity, he heads to a bar one night, where he stumbles across a mysterious stranger who turns his life upside down. ‘I dug around inside myself, and I'm not quite sure what I found, but it was beautiful and terrifying all at the same time.’
One Little Change by jadztone (E, 58,312 w., 12 Ch. || ASiB Divergence, Fake Relationship, Bed Sharing, Mutual Pining, Friends to Lovers, First Kiss / Time, Anal Sex, Blow Jobs, Bi John / Gay Demisexual Sherlock, Switchlock, Alternating POV, Jealousy, Misunderstandings, Case Fic, Angst with Happy Ending, Emotional Love Making, Butt Plugs, Cuddles) – Our story begins right after John and Sherlock's first meeting with Irene Adler in September. It splits off into an AU that imagines them taking a case where they act as bait to hook a killer targeting closeted gays in secret relationships. In the weeks leading up to Christmas, many things happen that have our boys wondering if maybe they have a chance with each other. Then Irene fakes her death on Christmas Eve, and things get a lot more complicated - especially since they still have a killer to catch.
Swallow the Night by ArwaMachine (E, 87,873 w., 15 Ch. || TSo3/Stag Night Fix It, TAB/S4 Divergence, Toplock, Mutual Pining, PWP, Drunk / Public Sex, Anal Fingering/Sex, Alcohol-Induced Amnesia, Everyone Knows Except Them, Emotional Love Confession, Demisexual Sherlock, Internalized Homophobia [John], Parentlock with Rosie, First Kiss, Drug Relapse, Infidelity, Texting, Masturbation, Oblivious John, Emotional Love Making, Angst with Happy Ending, Dreams and Nightmares) – “Do you know how long,” John panted, his cheek scraping against the wall, looking back at Sherlock through half-closed eyes, “I’ve wanted this?” Sherlock pressed himself against John’s back, biting at John’s ear. “Not nearly as long as I have,” he whispered.
The Lost Special: Family Matters (As Do Relationships) by ShirleyCarlton (M, 144,688 w., 40 Ch. || S4 Fix It Fic / Meta Fic, Unreliable Narrator, John’s Mind Bungalow, Friends to Lovers, Happy Ending, Demisexual Sherlock, Holmes Family, John Whump, Gay Mycroft, Misunderstandings, Drug Addiction, Parenting, TFP is a Nightmare, Virgin Sherlock, Slow Burn, Minor Character Death, Switchlock, John’s Past, Sherlock’s Past, Eurus, Love Confessions) –Sherrinford is not really the name of some high security prison. That was just a figment of John’s frantic coma dream. And Eurus is not actually Sherlock’s sister. That’s just something random she said to John before shooting him. Sherlock and John were never actually estranged. That was just their act to cover up what really happened to Mary – or Rosamund Moran, as her real name has turned out to be. Sherlock does have a secret sibling, though, and his name is Sherrinford. After finally eliminating Moran – though in a rather dramatically different way than they had envisioned – and exposing the truth about Eurus, John encourages Sherlock to delve into his past and to find out whether the reasons to keep Sherrinford away from Sherlock were the right ones, and to discover what really happened in 1981. Along the way, Sherlock and John gradually, finally, stop keeping each other at a distance, and eventually become a proper family of their own.
MARKED FOR LATER
The Sexual Liberation of John H. Watson by Enterthetadpole & WritingOutLoud (E, 5,468 w., 1 Ch. || Bisexual John, POV Sherlock, Slutty John, Pining, Fluff and Smut, Blow Jobs, Rimming, Anal, Demisexual Sherlock, Frustrated Sherlock) – John has recently discovered that he is bisexual. To make up for lost time, he embarks on a gay fuelled sexscapade, much to Sherlock's horror. It's not that he's unhappy with his friend, it's just that Sherlock would much rather John be bedding someone else... Part 3 of the Enterthetadpole and WritingOutLoud Pridelocked 2021 series
The Unexpected Exchange by testosterone_tea (E, 5,703 w., 1 Ch. || Christmas, Secret Santa, Vibrators, Masturbation, Love Confessions, Intercrural Sex, Bisexual John, Demisexual Sherlock, Fluff) – When Sherlock is made to participate in the Yard's Secret Santa exchange, he knew it would be a disaster. But even he didn't expect how much of a disaster it would be.
Holding Hands by loveanddeathandartandtaxes (E, 9,494 w., 7 Ch. || Escort Service, Inexperienced Sherlock, Voyeurism, Oral / Anal, Rimming, Demisexual Sherlock, Repressed Bisexual John, Friends with Benefits to Lovers, Sherlock/OMC) – "I'm not actually gay." Peter shrugged. "It's all just skin and orgasms, in the end." "I... suppose so. But - we're not like that. We're friends; we don't have sex." "You're about to watch him have sex," Peter pointed out.
Putting up Shelves by khorazir (M, 11,382 w., 1 Ch. || Post-S3, Quarantine/Lockdown, Friends to Lovers, Miscommunication, Jealous John, Inexperienced Sherlock, Banter, Bisexual John, Demisexual Sherlock, IKEA Furniture, Fluff, Misunderstandings) – Sherlock claims to be an expert at putting up shelves. John gets the totally wrong idea. DIY, awkwardness and some soul-searching ensue. And some shelves are put up ...
Assistance Required by Soft_Light (E, 12,162 w., 4 Ch. || PWP, Viagra, Sleepy Sherlock, Sleepy Cuddle, Doctor John, Hurt Sherlock, Developing Relationship, Bisexual John, Demisexual Sherlock, Virgin Sherlock, Hair Playing, What Boundaries, It’s an Experiment) – Sherlock takes Viagra for an experiment. You can probably guess a lot of what happens next.
Hot Water Bottle by khorazir (T, 18,436 w., 1 Ch. || Post TLD / TFP Doesn’t Exist, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Misunderstandings, Communication, Demisexual Sherlock, Bisexual John, Autumn, Bed Sharing, Developing Relationship, First Kiss) – A case in one of the remotest corners of the Lake District, a storm, an inn, a broken boiler, a room with two beds but only one hot water bottle, and two men who have a lot to sort out between them – all of this makes for a night to remember.
A Thing With Peas by khorazir (M, 39,5537 w., 3 Ch. || Post-S3/Post-TLD/TFP Doesn't Exist, Fluff and Angst, Communication, Demisexual Sherlock, Asexuality, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Pining, Idiots in Love, Friends to Lovers, Developing Relationship, Implied / Referenced Drug Use, Parentlock, First Kiss) – Sherlock does the laundry. John cooks a thing with peas. They talk. Finally.
White Tulip by withoutawish (E, 40,624 w., 1 Ch. || TSo3, Copper Beeches / Solitary Cyclist Rewrite, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Hurt/Comfort, Drug Addiction (Sherlock), Angst, Suicide Attempt, Self-Harm, Mental Health Issues, Demisexual Sherlock, Bisexual John, PTSD, Pining, Metaphors, String Theory, Graphic Depictions of Violence) – Sherlock is in love with John Watson. John Watson is in love with Mary Morstan. Sherlock likes Mary Morstan just fine. Sherlock likes drugs more. And most importantly, Sherlock doesn’t like Sherlock. String theory dictates the laws of the universe. But their story isn’t one that can be boxed up neatly, tied in a heartstring bow. "After all, the axioms of homeostasis dictate that an infinity sign of negative feedback can only loop back in on itself.”
Rewind by khorazir (M, 47,553 w., 5 Ch. || Time Travel AU || Post-S4 / TFP Doesn’t Exist, Victor Trevor, Hurt/Comfort, Angst, Drug Use/Addiction, Attempted Sexual Assault, Friends to Lovers, Magical Realism, First Kiss, Demisexual Sherlock, Big Brother Mycroft, Kid Sherlock, Bullying, Inexperienced Sherlock) – When Sherlock is six years old, he finds out that strange things happen when the mole on his neck is touched under certain circumstances: it switches him back in time. Over the years, he discovers both the advantages and disadvantages of being thus granted a way to relive certain events, to reconsider decisions and remedy mistakes – until an accidental touch sends him back to Barts morgue on 29th January 2010, thus undoing eight years of acquaintance with John Watson. Is this a most unfortunate incident, a curse, even? Or is it indeed a second chance to finally shape his relationship with John the way it should have been from the beginning?
Crimson Hymns by brilliantlyburning (E, 48,982 w., 9 Ch. || Post-S3/TAB, Angst, Hurt/Comfort, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Drug Addiction, Unhealthy Coping Methods, Demisexual Sherlock, Boxing, Pining, Sensory Processing Issues, Drug Use, First Kiss / Time, BDSM, Mary is Not Good, Parentlock, Proposal, Happy Ending, Beekeeping, Violence, References to Addiction, Poetry) – He laid his head over John’s heart, eyes level with his silver-rough scar, and listened to the crimson hymns beating beneath the surface. He imagined flowers blooming in his own chest: veins weaving intricate patterns on petals of thin muscle engorged with blood, sinew for stems and tendons for roots—the flowers would be poppies, maybe (addictive) or foxglove (deadly yet useful)—twining gleaming blood-red around the porcelain bone of his ribs. In his mind’s eye the gruesome bouquet all tied together on the left side of his chest, the stems bound together in heartstrings and the flowers fed by the rhythmic contraction of ventricles. It’s yours, he imagined saying to John—from the vena cava to the mitral valve to the arteries it is yours.— Or, the Love Song of W. Sherlock S. Holmes.
Communication by ohlooktheresabee (E, 60,835 w., 7 Ch. || Friends to Lovers, Miscommunication, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Angst with Happy Ending, Vulnerable Sherlock, Undernegotiated Kink, Demisexuality, Asexual Relationship, First Kiss, Consent Issues, Panic Attacks, Anxiety, Aftercare, No Aftercare, Implied / Referenced Drug Addiction, Relationship Issues, Bad BDSM Etiquette, Dom / Sub undertones, Sexual Inexperience, Vanilla Kink, John is a Bit Not Good, Non-Sexual Intimacy, Heavy Angst, Eventual Fluff, Therapy, Love) – Sherlock and John finally make the leap from friends to lovers, but skip the discussion beforehand. That’s what makes it fun and sexy, right? WRONG. Both eager to please the other, but both making too many assumptions, Sherlock and John make a few missteps before they finally manage to reach an understanding. Or: An exploration of navigating relationships and intimacy when you're asexual, but don't know what that means... YET.
Lost In A Good Book by khorazir (M, 68,552 w., 6 Ch. || Magical Realism / Discworld Elements || Post TLD, Miscommunication, L-Space, Developing Relationship, Parentlock, Demisexual Sherlock, Bisexual John, Friends to Lovers, Hurt/Comfort, Bookshop) – After chasing a criminal into a poky second-hand bookshop, John and Sherlock find themselves not only stuck in the building, but in L-space itself. With things still raw and unsettled between them after the events surrounding the Culverton Smith case, this adds another dimension to their predicament, which not only constitutes of finding a way out of the shop (while avoiding getting murdered by the criminal), but also to finally address the issues between them.
To Be Human by ohlooktheresabee (NR, 78,437 w., 13 Ch. || Post-THoB, Graphic Violence, Synesthesia, Case Fic, Serial Killers, Kidnapping, BAMF John, Sherlock is a Mess, Asexuality/Demisexuality, Torture, Protective John, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Fluff and Angst, Medical Procedures, Queerplatonic Relationships, Asperger Syndrome, Thriller, Insecure Sherlock, Touching, Caring John, Affection, Hurt Sherlock, Touch Starvation) – There is a serial killer on the loose with a penchant for collecting the brains of his victims. Sherlock, John and Scotland Yard are on the case, but something about the chosen victims has Sherlock on edge. While they piece together the clues that will lead to the killer, John begins to realize that the way his best friend thinks may sometimes be more a hindrance than a help...
This Land We Have Chosen by redscudery (E, 86,309+ w., 16/19 Ch. || WiP || Victorian Canadian Farm AU || Farmer John, Prostate Milking/Massage, Mutual Pining, Colonialism, Demisexual Sherlock, Complicated Relationships, Slow Burns, UST, Awkwardness, PTSD, Panic Attacks, Virgin Sherlock, Canadian Politics, Angst with Happy Ending) – It’s 1866. John Watson is a former army doctor who served in India. He left the service after a mysterious traumatic incident and has been farming in the backwoods of Canada. Sherlock Holmes is an avid botanist and possible hysteric who is a very loud thorn in his brother Mycroft’s side. Since Mycroft wishes to run for Parliament during the first Canadian election, he knows he needs his troublesome younger brother out of their hometown of Carleton before he can precipitate any scandal—and what better place for a botanist than a backwoods farm? Especially when it’s run by someone who just might be able to treat Sherlock’s hysteria? Part 2 of the The Backwoods of Canada series
Unrequited but Not Much Longer by Rini2012 & SHwithDefectiveTransport (M, 126,423 w., 14 Ch. || S4 Rewrite, Past Mary/John, John's In a Coma, Therapy, Homophobia, First Time, Rosie Growing Up, Mary is Good, Adoption, Slow Burn, PTSD, John's Blog, Pets, Developing Relationship, Bisexual John, Demisexual Sherlock, Virgin Sherlock) – John Watson has woken up from a coma only to find out that everything that happened in The Final Problem was part of a coma dream. Not only that, but Sherlock has child-proofed the flat and had been taking care of Rosie during the 2 month period John was unconscious. For years the two were willing to die for each other, but for both of them, it runs much deeper than friendship. Will they finally tell each other how they feel? Can they find the woman who posed as John's therapist? How will Sherlock and John raise a baby in 221B with their lifestyle?
Sherlock Holmes Live by emilycare (E, 488,496 w., 73 Ch. || Theatre AU || Immersive Theatre, Romance, Slow Burn, Fake / Pretend Relationship, Fluff, Bisexual John, Demisexual Gay Sherlock, Alternating POV, Falling in Love, Eventual Case Fic, Soft Sherlock, Panic Attacks, Hurt/Comfort, Angst with Happy Ending, Pining John) – Down on his luck John Watson answers an advert for a paid role in an experimental play. Enter William Scott with a most unusual proposition: help him test run a two person immersive experience, oh and by the way there is sex and romance involved.
Honestly, think about it, if Bruce was good at keeping the kids hidden from the public, maybe to the point that they can live somewhat normal lives and they don’t feel the overwhelming pressure of the suddenly celebrity life. Pauper to Princess transformation and people’s jealousy. He somehow managed to keep them from it all.
Maybe when they’re all grown up. Damian, as the only child with the incessant need of being publicly looked upon and announced as the new biological heir, will demand that Bruce holds a formal Galla.
He does, because the youngest is the one who wants it, Tim is used to the scene, and all the others are almost adults and says they can handle themselves. They wanna see what the real deal of a Wayne Galla really is.
What they don’t expect is to hear the horror stories that are Bruce’s childhood. Whispered among the crowd, told so confidently by the scum around them.
Nothing about his life was private.
How he was passed from therapist to therapist. How his rebellious attitude caused full on meltdowns and assaults, to the point that it was discussed that he was to be sent to Arkham, like his mother.
How he had been introduced to drugs, alcohol and sex way before he could even drive.
And when he could drive, he was in and caused multiple accidents.
Right before he left for his ‘world sightseeing’ he was locked in Arkham on a Baker Act. When he finally got out, was when he decided to travel the world.
Some (most) believed he would never return.
The kids knew Bruce didn’t have a good childhood, left on his own in a giant house with more dark corners than diamond chandeliers. Surrounded by a man who would only ever call himself an employee, or people who were directly after his money.
But for it to be at this level?
Broadcasted for all to see, no side of him not used as the front cover for the next week’s gossip magazine.
Maybe there had been a bigger reason than they thought to why he kept his kids so firmly out of the spotlight unless absolutely necessary.
You're just a mammal. Let yourself act like it. Your brain needs enrichment. Your body needs rest. You feel hunger and grow hair. You need to pack bond with other sentient things so you don't become unsocialized and neurotic. You are biologically inclined to seek dopamine and become sick when chronically stressed. "Hedonism" is made up to place moral value on taking pleasure in sensory experiences. I am telling you that if you don't let yourself be a fucking mammal, as you were made, you will suffer and go insane. No grindset no diets no trying to be above your drive for connection. Pursue what makes you feel good and practice radial rejection of the constructs meant to turn you into a machine. You're a mammal.
I am so serious about the way people are taught to view themselves as separate from and above any other animal being the root cause of a lot of problems. You're not better than a beast.
This post has really made the rounds so I have to say - this mentality changed me overnight. I had this realization that all of the fumbling over self love I did for years just needed... this. Once I internalized that I'm just a creature, it got so much easier to take care of myself.
I've started treating myself like I would a dog that's going to chew through the house when it's bored. I walk myself. I seek activities that make my brain feel less like depressed sludge. I ask my body what it needs; I rest, I enjoy rest. I don't see it as a waste or unproductive. I see it as allowing my body to do its job of working better. I lean into appreciating my natural features. I'm a hunk of flesh. I can be ugly. I can decide that ugly is appealing. I can not care. Whatever. I started emphasizing little things that nourish my relationship(s), shelving distractions more, so I can relish the time I have with loved ones. I specifically pursue pleasure--dopamine--not just quick hits from scrolling social media but getting off my ass. Engaging. Cooking myself nice meals and making fucking art, man. Things that make my spirit feel more alive than I have for years. I ask myself what it is I want rather than only doing what I'm supposed to be doing. And it doesn't mean shirk every responsibility, it means recognizing you're one of your fucking responsibilities. It's reordering. I realized I'm going to die happy or unhappy and either way I'm just as dead in a given amount of years, and I choose to die happy and fulfilled.
Everything else can get fucked ad infinitum.
Call me a hedonist, I'm saving my own life.
Selectively mute Bruce Wayne, whose words get stuck in his throat when he’s overwhelmed.
Selectively mute Bruce Wayne, who didn’t speak to anyone but his parents and Alfred until he was seven.
Selectively mute Bruce Wayne, who didn’t speak for two years after watching his parents die.
Selectively mute Bruce Wayne, whose silence gets mistaken for rudeness.
Tom Hiddleston & Diego Calva in The Night Manager 2x03
I know Bruce enjoys being a father, but I think there are times he can’t even look back at or imagine who he was pre-Dick Grayson. Being a father fundamentally altered Bruce Wayne.
It was so much easier for him to give his all to the city, to be Batman without hesitation. If he died, the only negative would be a Gotham without Batman, or so he felt.
I think he had to go through a mourning period of that recklessness. Being not only a father but a mentor meant he had to act and react differently.
I think this meant he wouldn’t go after any rogues unless they were actively dangerous if there were civilians to care for. He wanted to teach Dick that the people in the city would be more important than the “glory” of bringing in the bad guy.
I think this meant he used gadgets more for defense than offense, teaching Jason that you can take someone down without harming them too badly.
Maybe he changed the way he documented crimes, and missions, so Tim could see that the outcome (and therefore breaks and self care) is just as important as the painstaking process of research and investigation.
He had to remind himself when to stop, even when enraged. How else with Stephanie see that rage can’t play a part in disarming and stopping an opponent?
He had a hard time accepting his own verbal shutdowns until Cass. I think that would be the point he realized he suppressed so many parts of himself for the convenience of his work, and that he never gave himself the grace he deserved.
By the time Damian entered his life, I don’t think he’d recognize the agonizingly self sacrificial and careless attitude he had towards himself, and towards Batman.
Being a father saved Bruce just as much as being Batman did.
the new york times is now charging money for my favorite chocolate cake recipe so i bought a subscription and screenshotted it and canceled my subscription and now it's here for you for free
i do a mixture of red wine and fresh squeezed navel orange juice for the liquid, plus the zest of one large orange. now you make the cake
Recipe transcript:
Yield: 8 servings
ingredients
3/4c or 177 mll extra virgin olive oil, plus more for greasing the pan
1/2 cup or 118 mll Earl Grey tea, or use coffee, dry red wine, orange juice, or water
1/2 cup or 50 grams Dutch processed cocoa powder
1/2 tsp ground cinnamon
1/4 tsp fine sea salt
1 cup or 200 grams granulated sugar
3 large eggs at room temperature
2 tsp vanilla extract
1 cup plus 2 tablespoons or 135 grams all purpose flour
1/2 tsp baking soda
preparation
step 1 heat the oven to 325 degrees F. Grease a 9-inch round pan and line the bottom with parchment paper
step 2: in a medium saucepan over high heat, bring tea or other liquid to a simmer, then turn off heat. whisk in cocoa, cinnamon, and salt until smooth, then set aside to cool
step 3: in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, combine sugar, olive oil, eggs, and vanilla. beat for about 3 minutes. reduce speed and pour in cocoa mixture, scraping down the sides of the bowl. gradually beat in flour and baking soda until just incorporated.
step 4: scrape batter into prepared pan and bake until the sides are set but it's still slightly damp in the center, 35 to 45 minutes. A cake tester should come up clean but with a few sticky chocolate crumbs clinging to it. Transfer cake pan to a wire rack and let cake cool completely in pan.
Tom Hiddleston & Diego Calva in The Night Manager 2x03
I have seen multiple misconception about Knightfight, so let me correct them:
Bruce is NOT in future realities or other universes.
He is stuck in false realities created by AN ALIEN TECHNOLOGY from Apokolips, not made up by his own mind.
The Heart (the alien technology's name) based these realities on Bruce's fears and dreams, but they are NOT imagined by Bruce.
The Heart wants Bruce to fight his children to break him.
The Heart makes these realities but does not control them. Also, the people in them are based on their real counterpart, so they can behave more realistically and trick Bruce.
Because of that, Bruce has found out that TALKING to these fake versions of his children works to influence the outcome. He doesn't have to fight them, which he doesn't want to, he can just tell his kids he loves them and he cares for them and they don't fight him.
The Heart is not happy with that at all. It wants Bruce to be an abusive shitty dad, which he is not.
https://archiveofourown.org/works/7767940/chapters/201726401
Might have just finished the Scotland Series. Only took 10 years! Enjoy some serious smut and feels :D
Amazing news! It’s SO good (and 🔥)
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Res! I just stumbled this madness of Bruce's training schedule and felt the need to share it in case you haven't seen
You talk about going to the gym but can you beat this insane regimen? (Also baffling to me that wednesday is an 'off day' with just three and a half hours of 'skill training')
Hahaha, this is impressive! I can’t beat his mile times, that’s for sure. But I’ve easily spent 2+ hours in the gym 7 days a week. A lot of weightlifting / training relies on short breaks in between sets. Unless Bruce indicates otherwise, he’s still pausing for 30 sec - 5 minutes in between his sets. So a 30 minute session isn’t 30 minutes straight of lifting.
That being said, it’s entirely possible he’s super setting the whole thing, but that could lead to injuries long term. Speaking of injuries, it’s wild to me that he’s doing cardio first before insanely heavy lifts (deadlifts, etc) but I guess he is Batman…
The pommel horse and rings are also throwing me. No way I can do that 😅
The submission within MAGA to inferiority is nauseating.
~ Bruce Wayne: Murderer/Fugitive?
They are talking about guns btw, and like, Barbara is just wrong. Like, we literally had Bruce arguing with himself about how he IS scared of gun in the prologue of this mess! When that guy pointed a gun at him in his office, Bruce was scared. He is just not showing it and cannot let himself be impacted by this fear, because Gotham, and the kids that follow him around, needs him, but he is afraid of guns.
#guns
If the death of 19 first graders didn't change the GOP's mind on gun control, nothing will.