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"it's just stress" oh thank god, it's just the silent killer that slowly kills you, perfectly harmless, no need to worry

2long2live

happy “reunited for longer than they were broken up” day

my-dailydreams

freezi-drink

Hey um??

Via ID in alt

sagetheunwise

licking you bee wanted your sweat. that second one was just a freak I think

official-bee-posts

Official freaky bee post

dankxsinatra

soymsan-entro

So my sister is on vacation and has sent me a photo of the store she was buying clothes in.

I'm going to lose it.

voidsentprinces

tiktoksthataregood-ish

casuallyodd

Both of these tags are right. I love when a cat will just put up with your silly human games. They love you and know you love them and are just happy with you.

targetedknowledge

saul-tortellini

It was like the sun came out from behind the clouds...

wtf-scientific-papers

Wang and Lai (2014)

gemstone-gynoid

justsomeguycore

lesbian scifi is so easy. here’s a woman in cargo pants and a tank top on a spaceship. are you with me

justsomeguycore

maybe it’s not even cargo pants. maybe it’s coveralls rolled to + tied around the waist. maybe she even has fuckoff boots

holespoles

Katherine Hillier

Hey quick reminder to anyone with toddlers in their lives or futures

It's not that they can't do a thing. They probably can, with enough willpower, and toddlers are about 300% willpower (they sap it from everyone around them). They will find the most fucked up way to do the thing possible and giggle the whole time.

You can't let them do the thing.

Just say that. "Nah, I can't let you do that". Run with scissors, climb the 8ft fence, lick cat food, prise off the outlet cover. All things that yes they can and will do.

Why?

1) it saves you being proven wrong immediately by a willful toddler or their school aged sibling or cousin who overheard and is like bitch hold my flower.

2) when they go to school they will be instructed to do things that are hard, and many kids will say "I caaaan't" without ever trying, and honestly they really truly can. So instead of telling them they can't do things they really truly can do, and teaching them that they can't do things, just teach them the rules of life.

3) and lastly, some asshole is gonna teach your kid the words "wanna bet" and while yes you can murder them, the police can't just let you, and so it's better to simply reduce the chances of hearing that phrase from your 2 year old about something that will literally kill them.

Tldr: your toddler can and will do many things. Try not to tell them they can't do many things. Instead focus on teaching them that you can't let them do dangerous things.

#saying I can't let you do that is a great way of teaching rules and reducing tantrums #kids take things very literally a lot of the time and innocently will try to prove that they can do it actually #by saying you can't let them. it says they might be able to but they aren't allowed to try #it also puts the deficit on yourself rather than the kid which is fair because we learn limits with age and experience #but from a sheer practicality perspective. saying you can't will turn into a challenge or a rule and you don't want either

000l

shrewreadings

like to charge, reblog to cast.

daysleftofsecondterm

980 days left

going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi

my corner store guy is a 50 year old man who's my best friend in the world and recently he was like "you're too pretty to be single I have some nephews you should meet. very handsome!" and I was like "a niece might be more up my alley" and he just got more excited and said "ah even better! I was overselling my nephews but my nieces are very beautiful"

caustic-pixie

OP the tags!!

When I had terrible periods as a young adult I was td that pregnancy and childbirth changes your periods so don't lose hope. And then I had a kid and you know what, it does change.

I now have pmdd and feel helplessly suicidal and filled with rage for up to 10 days before my period starts, at which time I now get 5 days of heavy bleeding and pain.

So sometimes it is possible for everything to get worse.