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Keeping it real

[gem-femme]

I don’t think non blacks actually realize how much my blackness affects my views on politics and everything I say about politics. That’s why y’all need to stick to arguing and shaming each other because y’all can’t even begin to understand where I’m coming from.

Democrats fuck over all marginalized people but they’re especially skilled fucking over black people and hiding it under the guise of being progressive and they do it so well that it’s pretty much impossible for y’all to even fully grasp the harm they have caused to us. Not only can y’all not fully grasp it, but they have tricked y’all into silencing any of us that try to talk about it for them. So stay in your fucking lane and stop veering into mine.

[gem-femme]

This okay to reblog. I actually really encourage non blacks to reblog this.

[toastpotent-deactivated20250619]

all r/relationships posts are either:

"My [26F] husband [43M] has suddenly started [doing blatantly abusive thing]. Am I in the wrong?"

"My [37F] husband [39M] and I have been together for 8 loving years. But three months ago, he learned about Chris Angel, and he's now decided he wants to spend his life performing motorcycle stunts in front of penguins. I don't want to crush his dreams but he's used up all of our life savings. Advice?"

"My [34M] wife [32F] has always had natural brown hair. Last week, she decided to dye it blonde. Should I file for divorce?"

[misscherrylikesthediscourse]

Giving homeless people MONEY instead of FOOD can save their lives this winter, shelters cost money, being able to sit in McDonald’s and nurse a coke for a couple hours to warm up costs money, often accessing public toilets (whether it’s to use them, wash up or just to be out of the wind) costs money. 

Just give homeless people cash, just do it, no excuses, no whining about “enabling their drug habits”, if you have money to spare, give it and possibly save someone from literally freezing to death. 

[misscherrylikesthediscourse]

Bringing this back cause this heat can kill you, giving money is always in season

[misscherrylikesthediscourse]

Giving homeless people MONEY instead of FOOD can save their lives this winter, shelters cost money, being able to sit in McDonald’s and nurse a coke for a couple hours to warm up costs money, often accessing public toilets (whether it’s to use them, wash up or just to be out of the wind) costs money. 

Just give homeless people cash, just do it, no excuses, no whining about “enabling their drug habits”, if you have money to spare, give it and possibly save someone from literally freezing to death. 

[misscherrylikesthediscourse]

Bringing this back cause this heat can kill you, giving money is always in season

[eeegdfhfghgfdg-deactivated20180]

good parents dont hit their children. good parents dont touch their children inappropriately. good parents dont scream at their children. good parents dont manipulate their children. good parents dont imprison their children at home. good parents dont threaten their children. good parents dont starve their children. good parents dont harass their children.

good parents do not abuse their children.

[all-da-fandoms]

in case you don’t know weather to reblog this:

[aninactivebloggfgfgf]

This makes me realize several uncomfortable things about my childhood.

[drakes-hoard]

Wait the screaming thing isn’t a normal thing?

[honey-sunny-bee]

Apparently not

[icecoldparadise]

Omg my poor babies, as a CHAD major let me lay it out for you.

Occasional “im human and im frustrated” yelling happens. Those are usually followed by apologies and genuine effort not to do that again.

But if your parent/guardian is always SCREAMING at you, especially as a way to control or make you feel inferior (insults, threats, things they know make you subdue and guilty) THIS IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE. if they are purposely contorting your emotions as a method to control that is abuse.

If someone hits, kicks, slaps, or beats you (not just a gentle nonsexual spank on the butt) THIS IS PHYSICAL ABUSE, ESPECIALLY IF IT LEAVES A BRUISE, CUT ABRAISION, ETC.

If adults are making you dance in a manner to be sexual, do sexual things, or watch sexual things inappropriate for your age THIS IS SEXUAL ABUSE. it is not always touching your/someone else’s private areas (which is ALSO abuse.)

If your parent or guardian is depriving you of things that are essential for life (food, water, shelter, weather appropriate clothes, hygiene, medical) and it is not just a “we are literally too broke to get these things but im really trying ” THIS IS NEGLECT AND IS ABUSE.

Talk to a teacher or trusted adult. Anyone in a human service setting (educators, administration, health, etc) especially those in a child/ adolescent arena are MANDATED REPORTERS: they MUST tell CPS there is a problem. If you are in immediate danger be explicit: they will call 911 to keep you safe.

This is SO fucking important please be safe my peeps.

[silverstardust666]

Here I was, thinking I was well versed in what counted as abuse. Did not realise the yelling was abuse. I figured that was normal seeing as that’s what I grew up with. I mean, I knew my mom yelling at me, my siblings, and my dad (and now her fiancé) was what most likely caused me to have panic attacks around loud noise, but I just figured it was because it was a negative thing that my brain severely misinterpreted. Well then. Time to re-evaluate everything I know.

[xoxolosergirl]

Well then

[trekkienatural]

Wait is it not normal to get yelled at multiple times a week??

[jenniferrpovey]

It’s not. I honestly think a lot of parents need to take a class in effective communication.

Actually, no, all of them do, not only so they’ll yell at their kids less, but so they will recognize it when somebody else is emotionally abusing their children.

(I speak as a victim of abuse by a coach, which my parents didn’t recognize as abuse…)

[idkhowbutimgayer]

.. bro

[idontknowanymoreaaaaaa]

I have a question. What about saying certain things? Like, recently I was asking my parents some questions and they kept refusing to answer (I can give context if someone really wants it) so I walked away because I was getting so frustrated that I could feel myself about to cry (I’m a frustrated crier, and yes it makes me more frustrated) and my dad said something along the lines of “yeah why don’t you just stomp off to your room and pout”

It made me extra frustrated because I was just trying to leave the situation and it felt like he was making fun of me for it. Is this normal??

[7thedisasterdyke]

Emotional Manipulation

They are actively holding information from you and berating you for feeling emotions that are normal to feel in that situation

[knowledgeableknees]

What

[jewish-tutter]

someone explain the jewish holidays to me like i'm 5 years old

[rizaoftheowls]

Purim: They tried to kill us, we survived. Let’s tell the story, wear silly costumes, and get wasted. (Optional: have a carnival or a play!)

Passover: They enslaved us, God freed us. Remember this via a big ceremony/feast and then don’t eat bread for a week. This is a big one; you’re going to have to clean your house and host all your relatives.

Tu B'Shevat: It’s Earth Day, let’s eat some fruit.

Simchas Torah: We read the entire Torah every year, and we got to the end! Let’s have a dance party and then start all over again!

Tisha B'Av: They destroyed our temples. That sucked.

Rosh HaShanah: Happy New Year! It’s time to ask (and grant) forgiveness for the wrongs done in the past year, pledge to do better, and wish for a sweet new year. And go to synagogue for HOURS.

Yom Kippur: Rosh HaShanah’s somber counterpart. God decides on this day your fate for the next year. Repent your sins, hope for forgiveness, and fast. (And go to synagogue for HOURS.)

Yom HaShoah: Holocaust Remembrance Day.

Sukkot: Harvest festival! Sleep in a hut under the stars.

Shemini Atzeret: Man, I don’t even know?

Shavuot: God gave us the Torah! That was pretty nice of him.

Chanukah: They busted up our temple and tried to forcibly convert us. We responded with guerilla warfare. Let’s eat some fried food. Candles!

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

So basically the entire Jewish holiday calendar is giving the middle finger to death and high-fiving, with or without various combinations of prayer and foods.

[rizaoftheowls]

Yup. Or as we say, “They tried to kill us, we survived, let’s eat.”

[galaxy-of-great-possibilities]

thank you for the desc’s bcs they are beautiful and i am now educated

[above-d-clouds]

A handy table for everyone:

[cityglowing]

Y’all have no idea how happy it makes me to see my goyim followers reblogging this. Really. It means the world to me.

[bichosis]

my hot take is that people need to stop using the word neurotypical in place of ableist as much as they do because in my experience people with clinical depression and anxiety are just as likely to be ableist towards psychotics and people with "scary disorders" (not to mention their frequent ableism towards autistics and the like as well as their dismissal of the physically disabled) as neurotypicals are.

[coolestfinch]

can y’all STOP being transphobic towards nb people for 5 fucking seconds please it’s literally such an easy concept to grasp and yet y’all will do anything to convince yourselves that it’s either something it’s not, or it can’t possibly exist like please just.

- nb people can use whatever pronouns they want

- they can dress however they want

- they can date whoever they want (and their partner can be any sexuality as long as the nb person is comfortable)

- they can call themselves whatever identity they want

ITS. SO. SIMPLE.

respect all non binary people and their identities or get stabbed

[coolestfinch]

binary cis and trans people reblog this challenge

[emerald-studies]

George Floyd - change.org

George Floyd - amnesty.org

George Floyd - colorofchange.org

Get The Officers Charged

Charge All Four Officers

Breonna Taylor - moveon.org

Breonna Taylor - colorofchange.org

Breonna Taylor - justiceforbreonna.org

Breonna Taylor - change.org

Breonna Taylor - thepetitionsite.com

Ahmaud Arbery - change.org

Ahmaud Arbery - change.org 2

Ahmaud Arbery - change.org 3

Justice for Oluwatoyin Salau

Pass The Georgia Hate Crime Bill

Defund MPD

Life Sentence For Police Brutality

Regis Korchinski - change.org

Tete Gulley - change.org

Tony McDade - change.org

Tony McDade - actionnetwork.org

Tony McDade - thepetitionsite.com

Joao Pedro - change.org

Julius Jones - change.org

Belly Mujinga - change.org

Willie Simmons - change.org

Hands Up Act - change.org

National Action Against Police Brutality

Kyjuanzi Harris - change.org

Alejandro Vargas Martinez - change.org

Censorship Of Police Brutality In France

Sean Reed - change.org

Sean Reed - change.org 2

Kendrick Johnson - change.org

Tamir Rice - change.org

Tamir Rice - change.org 2

Fire Racist Criminal From The NYPD

Jamee Johnson - organizefor.org

Darius Stewart - change.org

Darius Stewart - moveon.org

Abolish Prison Labor

Free Siyanda - change.org

Chrystul Kizer - change.org

Chrystul Kizer - change.org 2

Andile Mchunu (Bobo) - change.org

Eric Riddick - change.org

Amiya Braxton - change.org

Emerald Black - change.org

Elijah Nichols - change.org

Zinedine Karabo Gioia - change.org

Angel Bumpass - change.org

Sheku Bayoh - change.org

Angel DeCarlo - change.org

Sandra Bland - change.org

Sherrie Walker - change.org

Darrien Hunt - change.org

Cornelius Fredericks - change.org

Elijah McClain - change.org

James Scurlock - change.org

Darren Rainey- change.org

http://www.pb-resources.com/

https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/

Do something!

*You don’t need to donate to change.org, donate directly to the families. Also if there’s a problem with a petition, please dm me instead of reblogging so I can fix it faster. *

[vaserd]

I don't have that much of a range for my posts but I wish the cience side of tumblr could explain to me why in certain situations I feel anxious non-stop but then in a moment I had too much anxiety that I just.. don't. It stops and I'm me, but numb or happier.

[marinavampire]

February 14th, 2020. Feminist activists protest and riot in the Nacional Palace (Mexico City, Mexico). The motive was Ingrid Escamilla’s gruesome femicide and the indiference from the government towards the femicide epidemic (10 women are killed every day in Mexico, due to gender-based violence).

💜 We want ourselves alive, free and fearless 💜

[virgomoon-deactivated20240514]

op is a pedo apologist so i’m taking some important information regarding cops and how to keep safe:

Don’t talk to cops about insignificant things, it’s a trick to get you into a talking-mode to gradually work to more sensitive questions.

Don’t talk to workers inside a police station (medics, cleaners, people bringing bitter cold coffee), assume they’re all cops.

If you absolutely must talk to a medic, deliver your essential medical information to them in one sentence and go back to ‘no comment’ after that. Do not get in a conversation.

Don’t accept a lawyer offered by the cops or a lawyer you don’t know. ONLY take the lawyer provided by the activist organization you’re part of and ask to see their ID. Do not believe people who claim they represent the same firm. If in doubt, keep your mouth shut.

Also be careful about anyone in the same arrest van / cell as you because

- cops are known to put undercovers in cells to interrogate the arrested

- everything is monitored all the time

Comfort and support your comrades, but do not share personal details or discuss anything that could be used against you.

[glamour-divine]

racist teens having their college offers taken away and racist adults getting fired from their jobs? we love to see it. face the consequences of your words and actions

[demonius-darkblade]

People forget that body cams were supposed to help hold cops accountable. In the latest senseless killing, apparently there were dozens of officers on the scene… who ALL had body cams turned off despite policy. You cannot reform the police.

[just-shower-thoughts]

Death is the same as before birth, we’ve already experienced the nothingless void of non-existence

[snorlaxatives]

@ the water that drips down my arms when i wash my face and makes a big ass mess: fuckin fight me

[beevean]

reasons I’m still on this hellsite:

1) nowhere else I could find posts this specifically relatable

[ri-toast]

It really freaks me out that people think body hair is unsanitary. Like y'all are just so brainwashed if you believe that body hair is perfectly normal and fine on men, but on women its suddenly dirty? Use your critical thinking skills for a few damn seconds, I’m begging you.