angry vegan bleeder

28. vegan animal mom. rad fem, unlearning liberal bullshit. (marginalized) women first, anti-porn, anti-kink. bi pride. survivor.

[itsjustwokehomophobia-deactivat]

it’s literally so wild to me that someone just… decided… that hip dips are ugly?

like no one cared about them for so long and then some person was like ‘mkay hip dips are ugly now’ and then all those tutorials started popping up on how to get rid of them (although it’s your BONE STRUCTURE and it means that u have GOOD MUSCLE DEFINITION smh) and then there were surgeries and products to get rid of them (another example of how capitalism actively hurts women)

and?? ik it’s not the point but?? hip dips are SO CUTE i can’t believe that people think they’re ugly

[sapphic-schizo]

i swear the only thing keeping the diet and women’s fitness industries afloat are people coming up with random parts of women’s bodies to obsess over every couple of months. it’s like every summer people come up with a new trendy way to shame women for just existing, picking apart every single aspect of their appearance and finding something wrong with it. it’s exhausting. 

[bulldyke-rider-deactivated20251]

I still fucking hate mine but I’d rather die than give anybody ad revenue or my own money to learn how to “get rid of them”.

I’m generally confident, but one thing I’ve realized is important is that even if you hate one of your features, you gotta say “fuck these money hungry pricks” and like maybe you’ll still hate your body but at least you respect yourself.

[feministsdontgofarenough-deacti]

“Hip dips” is a catchy, rhyming term that is easily marketable. Naming it is part of the problem. 

[bulldyke-rider-deactivated20251]

Mhm. I have a post that’s sort of about how naming all our features leads to the judgement of them. About how having a name for every body shape, every feature, makes us more aware of them. It makes us judge ourselves, and even if that judgement is good, it’s still judgment. It always hurts someone. So even “hip dips are pretty” is something I can’t truly stand for. I want women to be able to forget they even exist.

[veganxwomyn]

Reminds me of all those times gossip rags talk about women’s KNEES and how they show signs of aging. Like fuck off, stop looking at us and mind ya business.

[veganxwomyn]

Just wondering why you say "marginalised women first"? I thought all women are marginalised? Sorry I'm genuinely confused

All women are marginalized, absolutely. But some are marginalized not ONLY because they are women, but because they’re POC, gay/bi, or disabled.

[playstation2chainz]

shocking

[hominishostilis]

*ahem*

from this post 

Woman kills man for refusing to give her beer 

Woman stabs man for refusing to have sex with her, threatens to cry rape 

Woman rips off man’s testicle because he rejected her, tried to swallow it

Woman kills man for refusing to marry her 

Woman cuts off man’s penis because of argument 

Woman shoots her husband after argument 

Woman cuts off cheating boyfriend’s penis, flushes it

Woman suspects husband of cheating, stabs him to death 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend for cheating 

Woman stabs boyfriend for cheating in Monopoly board game 

Woman shoots, kills man for ending relationship 

Woman sets husband’s genitals on fire for hugging another woman, dies 

Woman kills, dismembers husband’s body over argument 

Mother kills 18-month old twins to get back at husband she thought was cheating 

Woman kills husband after he confronts her about affair 

Woman kills cheating husband with lethal dose of heroin 

Woman runs over, kills cheating husband 

Obese woman sits on boyfriend, kills him and avoids jail time 

Woman kills boyfriend with stiletto shoe

Woman murders cheating husband with coffee mug 

Woman kills boyfriend for not buying her a gift 

Woman kills boyfriend who accused her of cheating 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend , Judge: “I hope you die in prison”

Woman shoots, kills ex-boyfriend, buries him in pile of debris 

Woman shoots boyfriend in the back of the neck, killing him 

Woman shoots boyfriend six times, kills him after argument 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over mother’s day gift 

Woman stabs boyfriend to death, also stabbed her husband to death 7 years prior

Woman pushes way into home, stabs boyfriend to death over argument 

Woman angry at boyfriend takes her anger out on his 4 year-old 

Woman stabs boyfriend to death, thought he was cheating on her 

Woman bludgeons husband to death with hammer to pay back loan 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend during argument 

Woman murders boyfriend for tweeting out his female crush 

Woman shoots and kills boyfriend, kills self while out on bail 

Woman stabs to death boyfriend over argument about an ex 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend for social media posts 

Woman shoots boyfriend in the face, fails to make it look like suicide 

Woman kills boyfriend’s puppies during phone argument

Woman shoots boyfriend in the face with rifle during argument 

Woman pushes boyfriend off fence after argument, killing him 

Woman attacks boyfriend with large knife, intent to kill 

Woman abused, threatens to kill boyfriend in sleep

Woman beats, murders boyfriend and puts him in freezer because he wanted to break up with her

Woman held gun to boyfriend’s head, murders on Christmas 

Woman with previous assault charge on another boyfriend stabs and kills different boyfriend 

Woman attempts to murder boyfriend with giant breasts 

Woman stabs boyfriend in neck, killing him after argument 

Woman chokes and stabs ex-boyfriends cat to death 

Woman starts argument with boyfriend, stabs and kills with umbrella 

Woman kills boyfriend with her car after argument 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend in his bathroom 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend with illegal handgun 

Woman sets her boyfriend on fire, killing him 

Woman shoots and kills ex-boyfriend multiple times, kills herself

Woman shoots boyfriend in the head, found out he was dating other women 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend over finances 

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend’s lizard because she thought he was flirting with other women 

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend who wanted to end their relationship and urged her to get an abortion 

Woman attempts to murder husband with poison in her vagina

Woman stabs boyfriend to death after he slaps daughter

Woman conspires to have secret lover murder her husband

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over argument on Labor Day

Woman stabs boyfriend in the chest over argument 

Woman stabs boyfriend to death after finding photos of other women on cell phone 

Woman tortured ex-boyfriend’s dog until it died after argument 

Woman stabs boyfriend in his chest and through his lung, nearly killing him 

Woman fatally stabs boyfriend during heated argument 

Woman kills her boyfriend with blunt force trauma to the head using frying pan

Woman stabs boyfriend to death for drinking her beer 

Woman strangles boyfriend to death during argument 

Woman stabs boyfriend with serrated knife over argument 

Woman shoots, murders boyfriend while she was on house arrest for another murder 11 years prior 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend then texts friend about eating the body 

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over dispute 

Woman shoots boyfriend in the head, suspecting he was cheating 

Woman shoots man in the groin after argument 

Woman fires handgun into the home of man who denied her a kiss 

Woman stabs husband to death over cheating fears 

Woman shoots, kills ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend 

Women kills husband, commits suicide 

Woman shoots and kills man over argument 

Woman kills husband with baseball bat for talking back to her 

Woman kills husband, confesses to family then shoots herself 

Woman stabs boyfriend 31 times after he said ex’s name in his sleep 

Woman shoots husband in the head, shoots herself 

Woman kills boyfriend over argument at house party 

Woman shoots boyfriend with shotgun for texting another woman 

Woman kills boyfriend because she “smelled sex on him” 

Woman runs over boyfriend, kills him

Woman stabs boyfriend in the eye for turning down threesome 

Woman stabs ex-boyfriend for refusing to stop playing the Eagles 

Woman stabs boyfriend, throws out his prosthetic legs so he can’t chase her 

Woman ties up, stabs husband 193 times, jury finds her guilty for suspicion of trying to claim life insurance 

Woman stabs fiance for refusing to take her to the liquor store 

Woman assaults and threatens boyfriend with knife for not cuddling 

Woman stabs man with ceramic squirrel for not bring home beer 

Woman stabs taxi driver after he refuses to have sex with her 

Woman stabs ex-boyfriend in his penis after discovering he had a new girlfriend

Woman stabs boyfriend twice over time he spent in bathroom 

Woman stabs boyfriend over Facebook post 

Woman stabs her boyfriend several times because his dog ate her marijuana stash 

Woman stabs boyfriend for not calling her every two hours 

Woman shoots man five times for rejecting her, kills herself 

Woman murders ex-boyfriend with liquor laced with poison, was jealous he was engaged to new woman 

Comedian Phil Hartman was murdered by his wife on May 27th 1998

NFL player Steve McNair was murdered by his girlfriend on July 4th, 2009

John Wayne Bobbitt had his penis cut completely off on June 23rd, 1993

Travis Alexander was murdered by Jodi Arias on June 4th, 2008

Andrew Bagby was murdered by Shirley Jane Turner on November 6th, 2001 (She later murdered their 1 year-old son on August 18th, 2003)

Brenda Spencer killed two and injured nine at Cleveland Elementary School on January 29th, 1979

Laurie Dann killed one boy and injured five others at Hubbard Woods Elementary School on May 20th, 1988

Jennifer San Marco killed eight people at Goleta postal facility on January 30th, 2006

Sylvia Seegrist killed three and injured seven during a shooting spree at a Springfield mall on October 30th, 1985

Mary Ann Holder killed five children including her own son in Pleasent Gardens, NC on November 20th, 2011

Jullian Robbins killed one and injured two at Penn State on September 17th, 1997

Heather Smith killed two then committed suicide at Spanaway Junior High School on November 26th, 1985

Latina Williams killed two others then self at Louisiana Technical College on February 8th, 2008

Amy Bishop Anderson killed three and wounded three others at the University of Alabama on February 12th, 2010

What’s most interesting though is that mainstream media doesn’t even mention female shooters when they claim to show the history of the crime — but I guess they’re going by high scores. While its true that most shooting sprees are committed by males, it is also truethat most child abuse, neglect, and murders are committed by females.

Women who killed or attempted to kill children in the news, past 30 days (US):

Florida woman shoots, kills her 2 teenage sons 

Mother throws 1 year-old daughter under truck, kills her 

California mom stabs her 3 daughters to death. all under 2 years old

Mother attempts to kill her 3 teenage children 

Mother kills her infant son by stabbing him to death 

Woman kills 2 year-old girl, attempts to kill 10 year-old boy 

Utah mom murders 6 newborns, keeps them in garage 

Mother charged with trying to suffocate daughter 

Woman charged for killing 8-month old baby 

Women who killed or attempted to kill children in the news between January and April 2014 (US):

Mother drowns both of her sons aged 3 and 6 

Mother attempts to drown her 3 children in ocean 

Utah mother shoots and kills two teen daughters, then herself 

Mother suffocates 14 month old son, fails at attempted suicide 

Woman babysitter murders 19 month old boy 

Mom kills 7 month old daughter, blames Jesus 

Woman operating illegal daycare responsible for 3 month old girl’s death, police find 14 children in her basement 

Mom strangles 3 day old baby boy, discarded body in trashcan 

Woman suffocates 2 year old girl of fiance, fakes sexual assault by unknown assailant to cover tracks 

Mother charged with killing 2 year-old daughter 

Mother of several children with history of violence murdered and buried 2 year-old daughter in shallow grave 

Mother stabs and kills her 2 children in exorcism 

Mother kills her teen son and daughter, self 

Mother confesses to killing 10 year-old son 

Mother tortures and kills 3 year-old son, burned genitals with lighter 

This is only mid-year and I didn’t even include the reports of mothers killing their children from previous years or other countries.”

The only thing “shocking” here is how far you’ve managed to cram your head up your own ass.

[notcayleb]

This post is disturbingly long.

[tired-bi-lady-deactivated201606]

REBLOG THE SHIT OF THIS. I AM SO FUCKING SICK OF PEOPLE TREATIG WOMEN LIKE INNOCENT GODDESS WHO NEVER DO ANYTHING WRONG WHILE THEY TREAT ALL MEN LIKE ANIMALS.

[vulture-jack]

I debated on whether or not to reblog this but damn those sources are a fucking feat and pretending that they dont exist erases the victims.

[hunter-sundown-deactivated20200]

once in a blue moon someone on tumblr will acknowledge anyone other than a man has done something wrong

[spongebobafettywap]

if your feminism involves overlooking crimes by women then it isn’t feminism

[bundywashere]

if your feminism involves overlooking crimes by women then it isn’t feminism

[a-lizard-in-disguise]

breaking news

all human beings have the capacity for evil regardless of gender

[swaggness]

People commit crimes….regardless of gender….

[rip-paramour]

Gender does not excuse you from the wrong you’ve done nor does it erase your ability to do wrong.

[thegodskeepwinning-deactivated2]

I just love how some of these cases are old as fuck.

We could post 130 links of men killing women for these exact same reasons that happened in the last 3 months.

[thatkindoffeminist]

I was thinking the same! There’s a bundle of these that weren’t even in my lifetime and many more that were like 10+ years ago.

Women do shitty things and no one is gonna deny that, but trying to act like they do as much as men is fucking idiotic. Trying to act like these receipts spanning 30 years is nearly the same as the things men have done within the last year is what is really unfeminist.

[a-terf]

They put lorena bobbits husband in this list so fuck all of it. He was an abuser and he deserved it. What other self defense or crimes commited by traumatized abused women are they covering up to make women look as evil as men for this list? Fuck this post till you yell me why you think lorenna’s abusive husband didn’t deserve to have his penis cut off. Shes my hero and that does not belong on this fucking list. Hes a rapist.

[semper-fortis-ae2]

@a-terf , am asap glad you mentioned Lorena Bobbitt on the list. Fuck him, she should never had told police where it was and let him live penis-less fucking rapist trash.

[bitterbadfem-harpy]

So I went through the first 119 links:

37 broken links

Of 82 functioning links:

30 women acting in self defense against abusers

11 cases of severe mental illness

9 cases where drug/alcohol abuse were involved

3 cases of a woman killing their ex’s pet

17 instances of genuinely abusive or evil women

1 woman in 1908 whose boyfriend strung her along for two years as a live-in maid and fucknanny then refused to marry her

1 instance of a 14yo girl whose boyfriend got her pregnant then dumped her

Bobbitt deserved it.

Anyone else want to talk about all but one of these are between women and girls and people they know, whereas men just kinda indiscriminately kill whoever and whatever they please?

[deputy-shayy]

“This post is disturbingly long.“

If you made a list of all the times men assaulted or killed women for rejecting them, you wouldn’t be able to fit it on a Tumblr post.

[feminism-is-not-radical-deactiv]

1906, my great grandparents weren’t even born then 😂😂

[feministbyanyothername-deactiva]

Evil violent abusive women exsist

That doesnt mean that male violence isnt a real problem!!!

[108-stars-of-whatever]

There’s no way in hell you can compare rates of female violence to those of male violence. The difference in rates is proof of male and female socialization and the consequences thereof.

[lez0mbie]

people will use any excuse to be like “it’s not just men! ALL PEOPLE can be horrible”

[veganxwomyn]

But why talk about or analyze male violence when you can just turn everything back on women? Again??

[he-got-the-dagger-tho]

If I had a dollar for every homophobic str8 girl who did this on tiktok.. I could buy the rights to the word "twink" and forbid them from saying it ever again.

"I hardly wear make up" how very unwomanly of you 🙄🙄🙄

[radcybergoth]

“I’m just a single twink” says the fucking straight woman I’m gonna SCREAM @ gay men I’m so sorry sweeties

[arminjuice-deactivated20210413]

[disphorphia]

“iM a DuDe!!” She says while looking very obviously female, wearing heavy makeup, and having a female voice. Hmmm wonder why people are able to figure out that you’re a homophobic straight woman?? 🤔 Rally makes you think

Damn shame too I thought she was cute but ofc she thinks she’s a “simple twink uwu”. Gay men I’m so sorry y’all gotta deal with this shit

[veganxwomyn]

When you spent too much time on FFN reading yaoi, and now up is down.

[kabaks]

it’s britney bitch

[britnxyspears]

Everytime Britney does something cool I want you to remember that she literally has like no power: that she's a marginalized group herself (disabled) and was poor in her life, and exploited for wealth; her conservatorship is worth someone who abused her himself and she literally controls NOTHING. Not her money, not when she can see her kids, not her medical choices, not even marriage or like, visitors in her own home.

When Britney says stuff like this it's a huge deal and extremely brave.

[slicedmelatonin]

@dollarperfetus @transliquidsnake could you share your source for this? I’d like to read more, I’d never heard that she doesn’t control her wealth before

[britnxyspears]

She's been under a conservatorship since her 2007 breakdown. If you dont know what conservatorships are, it's basically you are placed in custody of someone as though you were a child, you don't control much of anything. Seriously, it's major but seldom talked about disability civil rights issue, not just for Britney but she's often used as a prime example of how a good intended system goes wrong.

Usually there's two people involved, the one who has the conservatorship (Britney's father currently) and a lawyer to act as like checks and balances, tries to make sure her human rights aren't being glaringly violated, or she's being exploited. Well... her Lawyer was kind of forced out so. Checks and balances are kind of diddly squat now, as they usually are. She's at the mercy of her father and is desperately trying to get rid of it.

For those who don't know, too, Britney's parents were always horrendously abusive, but most officiated information on that is on her mother's abuse, not her father. But it's been obvious for a while that he absolutely took part in exploiting her as a child.

This is what the #freebritney was about earlier in 2019.

Brit's conservatorship is kept very private which is a good and bad thing because it means people aren't going to humiliate her in the media, but also means that she's kind of on her own. Some fans go too far with the freebritney which from what I'm guessing from how her sister responds to those people, only causes more problems for her rather than helps.

The source in those screenshots is here, not my favorite source, but it explains it pretty well with the knowledge we 100% have

[invertprivileges]

#uh she's also marginalized on account of being A Woman chief

it’s like no one remembers being a child and watching 16 year old britney be interviewed on tv by men asking her if she got her period yet and is she still a virgin. misogyny…is the center of this.

[myboyfriendpetebuttigieg]

Could you fill me in on whats wrong with pornhub?

It’s full of porn.

[trannosphere]

…

[lestatasahotgirl]

WHEN WILL I BE ALLOWED TO STOP SCREAMING WHAT THE FUCK

[lesbian-lizards]

How about the LESBIAN WHO IS LITERALLY FEMALE.

[eve-made-the-right-choice]

Here, have another genderist admitting (point blank) that modern trans activism is built on sexist stereotypes.

[strawb3rry-terf-deactivated2020]

Lmaooooooooo!

[divine-matriarchy-deactivated20]

But trans activism is sooooo progressive and feminist

[werevulvi]

I’ve been told by some trans people that I’m less female than post-transition MtF’s. That’s rich. Neither gender identity, femininity, or passability triumph sex. Also femaleness doesn’t exist on a spectrum with varying degrees of it. You just either are female or you are not.

[proud-homosexual-woman-deactiva]

men are so dumb

[lesb1anne]

actually, if you think about it, stereotypes are woke ~~♡ ♡ ♡

[veganxwomyn]

I’d say “unbelievable” but this is totally believable.

[sleepcourse]

what are the components of a female brain? like what makes it different from a male brain? not trying to be disrespectful just wondering what that means lol

women are naturally more nurturing and empathetic, and, for lack of a better term, are more submissive. all signs i’ve exhibited since adolescence.

[realgender]

That just means youre a soyboy, not a woman, Alice

[veganxwomyn]

That’s it. That’s gender to TRAs.

[celtic-pyro-deactivated20230725]

Maybe building a whole subculture of seeing heterosexuality as inherently boring and bad has directly led to teenagers making up new sexualities and genders because teens naturally want to feel special and fit in? Maybe if you stopped it with the “Ew who would want to be cis/straight?” memes we wouldn’t have demigender akioseuals? Maybe don’t turn LGBT into a trend and stupid kids won’t do this stuff? Just a thought.

[lifeofcynch]

THIS.

[veganxwomyn]

Young people and full grown adults have been appropriating culture from marginalized groups for years. LGB people celebrating their diversity and pride is not the reason for this. In all reality, it’s that these kids are being raised by shitty adults who don’t teach them respect for other people. And it’s also young boys and girls - especially girls - being raised within tight confines of gender roles that make them miserable. If being “queer” is the way out of having to wear a dress to church and being barred from learning about cars, then yeah, plenty of kids will take that out. The rest are appropriating from gay culture they way they appropriate from black culture, Mexican culture, etc.

[catchymemes]

Curious Zelda

https://twitter.com/curiouszelda

https://www.instagram.com/curiouszelda/

[filmnoirsbian]

Not to be a downer but if i had to, at 12 years old, listen to my mother tell me all the different ways men would want to hurt my body, and how i might prevent that, then i really feel like teenage boys can handle a conversation with their parents that starts “let’s talk about consent”

[misshorrorotaku-deactivated2024]

So, you, at 12, had to sit through fearmongering that would lead to you being overly paranoid over something statistically less likely to happen to you than to happen to a man?

I agree, teenage boys do need MORE emphasis on consent than is already taught to them.

But women also need to stop being taught to be paranoid when men aren’t even tought that rape, assault, abuse, etc. is something that could happen to them (and is statistically far more likely to happen to them than women, as men are 80% of all violent crime victims). Women also need to be taught that men aren’t the only abusers/rapists they need to worry about. That lack of awareness brought on by that is what leads to the high rates of abuse in lesbian relationships.

[afronerdism]

90% of all adult rape victims are female and 82% of all juvenile rape victims are female in the us.

1 out of every 6 women have been the victim of complete or attempted rape while 1 out of every 33 men have been victims of attempted or complete rape.

9 out of every 10 rape victims are female

Those are only US statistics, global statistics estimate that 1 in every 3 girls and women around the world have been victims of sexual assault.

In the US 94% of all victims of domestic homicide were female murdered by male partners

There’s not a single shred of statistical evidence to suggest anywhere on earth that it is even remotely more likely for a man to be sexually assaulted than a woman.

77% of men are the victims of violent crimes…perpetuated by other men. And even in these cases this violence is carried out by strangers where as women are 3 times more likely to be violently attacked or assaulted by a man she knows than a man is to be by a woman he knows.

Sorry to engage with the troglodytes on this post Tierney but I had to come in and and clear up malicious and intentionally false misinformation.

[veganxwomyn]

hey there's a TIM in my university rpg club and everyone else is lowkey a gendershit so i can't do anything about him... what do you think i should do? i dont wanna give up this hobby but he makes me so fucking uncomfortable. should i accuse him of rape since he's gonna do that anyway sooner or later or do you have a better idea?

It’s truly tragic that TRAs think that baiting a woman they don’t like into admitting to orchestrating fake rape accusations is peak activism.

[tygressofaera]

You sent to to yourself LOL.

[zees-zoo-of-issues]

I’m gonna falsely accuse a marginalised women of rape thus not just reinforcing bigotry but also proving the MRA talking point of women using false rape accusations for personal gain. I’m somehow the victim in this case and it’s all the women’s fault.

Goddess TERF logic is beyond satire.

[veganxwomyn]

I didn’t advocate for false accusations of any kind. The fact that either of you think this was sent by a radfem is hilarious to me.

[vladtheunfollower]

Lesbian erasure

[radical-scorpia-deactivated2021]

Probably the most important thing to realize about this is that if the TRAs who did this ONLY wanted to promote trans rights, they could have put their graffiti ANYWHERE ELSE. They chose to put it on top of lesbian graffiti. Lesbian graffiti that wasn’t even political, and didn’t explicitly come from radfems. Just “lesbians unite”, “resist lesbian erasure”, and double venus symbols. They chose to erase lesbians who weren’t even coming after them. And that, right there, is the trans movement in a nutshell. If trans people are compatible with homosexuals, like TRAs claim they are, why did they feel the need to put their trans graffiti OVER lesbian graffiti? 

[riverdeities]

there’s something especially enraging about the phrase ‘stop lesbian erasure’ being painted over with the word ‘trans’

[hmsindecision]

i hope a beautiful trans woman gets you pregnant and you die in childbirth

Well this one is new! First of all:1. Anyone fantasizing about me having sex that involves a penis in any way, or me being impregnated in such a way, is fantasizing about my rape.2. Dying in childbirth is a horrid and unfortunately common way to die. I would never wish it on anyone. You wishing me a violently death to bear the product of a rape is neither clever nor funny.3. If this is your idea of allyship, then I’d like you to know that this was actually a thing that happened to lesbians in Nazi germany. Those who were considered “aryan” enough were raped and made into Nazi breeding stock until they were killed.

I can’t imagine what lack of empathy leads someone to the point where they send messages like this.

[moonlit102-deactivated20211203]

Trans activism as rape activism by males, classy. Don’t ever wonder why women and girls don’t trust or “include” you.

[houroftheantichristwolf]

This is so fucking inappropriate as Cherno Biko - a transwoman who raped and tried to forcefully impregnate a trans man (female) - spoke at the Women’s March. Y'all are so fucking disgusting and are so damn supportive of rape culture, don’t ever fucking call yourself an ally to any fucking woman anon. You are fucking unwell sending a lesbian this rape conversion fantasy. nasty MRA activist.

[veganxwomyn]

Anon is a fucking piece of shit. Crawl back under your rock and die.

[punch-your-buns-deactivated2021]

There are some things that I refuse to be "open minded" about

You will never ever convince me that pornography, prostitution, or surrogacy is ethical, consensual, beneficial, or healthy. I know too many women who have been harmed both directly and indirectly from these industries, and the harm far, far, far outweighs the benefits that some women might reap.

There is also so much evidence that these industries are destroying women's bodies, minds, sense of self worth, ability to live independently, and desire to live at all. There are so many women who have spoken out about the extreme trauma they've suffered, sometimes while cheerleading these industries, and who say that these industries cannot exist for the good and well being of women.

I would rather that the few women who "feel empowered" by renting their organs to strange men find another job that is perhaps less fulfilling, or find a new way to "feel empowered", than for any woman to be coerced into these industries for any reason.

[veganxwomyn]

hey there's a TIM in my university rpg club and everyone else is lowkey a gendershit so i can't do anything about him... what do you think i should do? i dont wanna give up this hobby but he makes me so fucking uncomfortable. should i accuse him of rape since he's gonna do that anyway sooner or later or do you have a better idea?

It’s truly tragic that TRAs think that baiting a woman they don’t like into admitting to orchestrating fake rape accusations is peak activism.

[itisthefunpolice]

Over Thinking: Monster Boys

Sometimes I tackle why women, including myself, are interested in certain things. The topic I’d like to tackle today is “monster boys” or the predominantly heterosexual trope of a male romantic/sexual partner who is in part or whole a monster or non-human creature (usually partnered with a human female). This trope is often also paired with the “woman as civilizing force” trope where a woman convinces a man to change for the better or fixes a corrupt man.

Examples of this trope include werewolf and vampire romances, like Twilight, but can extend to all kinds of media. It typically ends with either the monster becoming civil enough for the woman to control/romance or the woman being consumed or corrupted by the monster.

It’s likely this trope exists as a form of escapism from/expression of patriarchal norms. Women and girls, consciously or subconsciously, understand that men are dangerous. In these stories the danger is obvious, the male as monstrous. The heterosexual desire of women then is that despite the outward monstrous appearance these monsters are tameable, internally good or kind, and that it is she who can bring out these qualities with enough love, patience, determination, etc.

It’s easy, for me at least, to see why this narrative is desirable, women want to believe they can civilize men, that even if a man is cruel or cold or even abusive she will have the magic touch that causes him to become his trueself, the beast into a prince (or at least a less beastly beast). The implicit assumption then is that all the women before her who were hurt by the “beast” where just lacking in this magic touch or the people who warned her about how he (or men in general) are dangerous just don’t understand him and didn’t give him a chance.

That’s where the other half of this trope comes into play, women who are corrupted/consumed. Some women prefer the idea of the beast as untamable, as a destructive natural force that eventually overtakes them. This is seen as romantic or an act of ultimate love, to sacrifice yourself to the beast. Heterosexuality as a predator and prey dynamic.

This too reflects patriarchal culture. It is the idea that if you cannot tame a man it is not in actuality a failure, it is because men are inherently monsters and cannot be changed, therefore, it is useless to try and change them. The best way to express your love then is to submit yourself completely, to endure all of his monstrosity, his abuse, because that is just the nature of things, and people who fight it or believe it’s wrong don’t truely understand.

Both of these ideas are, needless to say, unrealistic. Women and men should be equal partners in their relationships and, while people do change over time, you cannot force someone to change. It is not a woman’s responsibility to “fix” or civilize men, nor do we exist to absorb their abuse, but I understand the trope comes from a place of wanting some semblance of control in a situation where the odds aren’t in your favor.

All in all, I think in general the trope promotes an unhealthy view of relationships and sets women up to fail, but I also see how it could be used to explore the power dynamics of heterosexual relationships and of patriarchal society in general.