[hotboyproblems]

does it scare you that in less than 3 months it’ll be 2014

[taijuey]

medusa

[lord-kitschener]

Obviously I want you to take care of your pets and make sure they get food and fresh water on a regular basis, but cats being huge drama queens and screaming hysterically at you and acting like they’re tragic famine victims who haven’t eaten in weeks and are about to drop dead from starvation right mcfuckin now, because you’re 10 minutes late feeding them is always going to be one of the funniest things to me

[artaeum]

the cat who lives at the vet clinic i volunteer at was mad yesterday because his dinner was half an hour late due to a busy day. he proceeded to go to all the (empty dw) garbage cans and tried to knock them over and started desperately scavenging for scraps of food because obviously no one loves him or cares about him and if he must eat garbage to survive then so be it

[instructionsfordancing]

not food related, but one time my cat cried at me for 20 minutes before i worked out that the reason why she was upset was because there was a coat hanger on her favourite cushion

[lord-kitschener]

This is absolutely beautiful and changed my life, thank you so much. Please protect her from hangers at all costs

[catsuggest]

wow. am STORVING and humaines here making joke laugh at cate honger ?!

[goldenmeme]

My cat is a social eater who is not food motivated at all, so I was baffled when I first got him because he didn’t seem to care about food but he would SCREAM at me for hours when I knew his bowl was full. Any time I went to double check that he did indeed have food, he’d book it to the bowl and snarf like his life depended on it, but as soon as I walked away he’d follow me screaming again.

Eventually I figured out that he just wanted a dining companion and was screaming about how we’re a family and families eat together, god damnit! I moved his food bowl under my computer desk and it fixed the problem. But if I’m ever out for more than 12 hours I’ll come home to find him in a passive-aggressive kitty huff because dinner has been ready for hours but he’s been trying to be considerate (unlike some humans) and waiting for me to eat it. 

[leeferal]

My cats are indoor cats. Being indoor cats, they can’t go outside to hunt for food (mice, rats, birds, etc) to gift to my sister and I.

But they know that the kitchen has food. They know where the easily accessible cat food is. And obviously my sister and I are just Really Big Stupid Hairless cats.

So if my sister and I go without leaving our rooms for too long? My cats will sit outside our doors and scream for our attention, lead us to their food bowls, and then only stop the screaming and leading once they see us sit down at the table and eat something. Because they think we’re hungry.

[akuyaku-reijou]

Your cats are the sweetest beings on the Earth, it makes my heart warm knowing that they exist. They love you very much and they care so much, they want you healthy and happy and will make sure you don’t neglect yourself and oh god they are so perfect. Real pure love exists, I am happy to be alive today.

[this-is-psychosis]

Therapists aren’t people who you “pay to pretend to care about you”, therapists are people you pay to teach you how to care for yourself

[voce-morti]

Me: I am violently depressed.

Therapist: Oh! Sounds like you need to do YOGA! That will help!

Me: *signs up for yoga*

Me: *is violently depressed in Downward Dog*

[mx-mythical-deactivated20260319]

Me: I hate myself and only see my flaws

Therapist: ok lets refocus on things you like about yourself. This week i want you to try and journal about good things you’ve for yourself and others.

Me: *does the homework* yeah but i still hate myself but feel bad cause i shouldn’t

Therapist: feeling like you shouldn’t hate yourself is a step in the right direction. Mental health is complex and isn’t something that will ~magically~ improve. We have a lot of hard work head of us but I’ll be here to help you.

TL;DR stop perpetuating the idea that therapy is unhelpful because the results are not instantaneous.

[kcsplace]

FUCKING THIS.

As a psychologist the amount of bullshit on this site, the amount of fucking dangerous bullshit on this site about how therapy is neurotypical bullshit and isn’t worth it and how exercise is pointless and good diet is pointless and that therapy homework is pointless DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL

Exercise is fucking important. good diet is fucking important therapy is fucking important. WHY???

because pills alone don’t help. they improve the hormonal imbalance (as does exercise and good diet which ALSO are a form of very real self care as your physical being is sorta connected to your mental one but go fucking figure right?), but guess what? the suicidal thoughts, the thoughts of harm, the thoughts of hating yourself, they’re still there.  suicides actually increase when medicated.  why? because suddenly you have the energy to fulfill thoughts of harming yourself.  which is why you NEED therapy alongside pills.

it has taken you years, or decades to create your maladaptive thought processes and behaviours.  that shit doesn’t disappear overnight. core beliefs don’t change overnight. these are the very fucking core of your personhood, your being and personality. THAT TAKES TIME TO CHANGE

STOP ACTING LIKE THERAPY IS SHIT IF IT DOESNT WORK IN TWO SESSIONS

[potrix-the-queerschlaeger]

^This!!!!!

[idiotsonfb]

these are not the stories we deserve but they are the ones we need right now.

[haiku-robot]

these are not the stories we deserve but they are the ones we need right now

^Haiku^bot^0.5. I detect haikus with 5-7-5 format. Sometimes I make mistakes. | Who do I read? | Contact | Beep-boop!

[ermelina]

When your boyfriend or girlfriend asks if you are okay..

Don’t lie to them. If y'all are in love, tell them what’s bothering you. They care. It’s okay to be vulnerable with them. Don’t tell them “yes, I’m okay” and you’re not, because then you’ll be mad at them for not understanding your hurt when YOU HAVEN’T EVEN EXPLAINED IT to them. People can’t read minds. Give them the chance to listen, give them the chance to understand. Let them love you, communication is key.

[twodotsknowwhy]

Also, it’s okay to say what you are feeling, even when your feelings aren’t pretty or fair. It’s ok to say “I know it’s not fair of me, but when you did this thing, I felt x way, even though I know that’s not what you meant.”

For example, “I know you had a good reason for canceling on me, but it was still very hurtful to me, because I was looking forward to it. I know you didn’t mean it that way, but it made me feel like I’m not important to you.”

[sunspill]

opens a google document that’s enough for today

[galactickohipot]

Fashionista Link

BotW set from my twitter!

[fuzzyspork]

My Christmas tree! Every year I do a themed tree, and this year’s was fun to create! I made the rocket out of shiny poster board, the ornaments I got from the thrift store and repainted with glittery tempura paints to look like planets. The “exhaust” was created using some battery powered LED lights I already had, with polyester pillow fluff that also came from the thrift store. Total cost was about $3. I hope you all are having a lovely holiday season! 

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

TIS THE SEASON…FOR SPAAAAAAAAAACE :D

[enshi]

i love her a lot T_T

[cmirael]

fight!

[acri-aurora]

[vetjevet]

Me @ sick abled people: you need to stop being so negative about having the flu. You'll never get better with that attitude. You'll continue you to get the flu EVERY YEAR. You probably shouldn't be taking that flu medication and cough syrup either your poisoning your body you'll become immune to all medication and you'll probably get addicted. Get up off the couch get out of bed it's not doing you any good. You better get to a yoga class and try a new gluten free vegan liquid only diet and drink at least 50 bottles of water a day. Wait why are you crying about having the flu? It's not like you have cancer, geez.

[leecheedoodles]

YoOOOoo this game was so messed up yet so amazing at the same time. Probably one of the most mind blowing things I’ve seen in a while.

[mayakern]

“love on the battlefield”

a new pair of utena prints because this will always be one of my all time favorite shows

prints available at store.mayakern.com

[mayakern]

OH these prints are also eligible for the winter sale, where you can get free shipping on your order over a certain amount ($50 US, $100 CAN, $150 everywhere else!)

[p0cket-pup-deactivated20191204]

LGBTQ Pals

It’s that fantastic time of year where everyone assumes that their friends are going home for the holidays and are loved and welcomed with open arms, but I know alot of families exclude their openly LGBTQ members… so!

If you are an outcast and are unable to go home for Christmas because your family does not accept you for who you are, it’s cool, I’m volunteering as your family now.

Your dad a dick and always comments on the gender of your partner? Fuck him, I’m your dad now, and I’m so proud of you, sport.

Your aunt refuses to call you by your preferred name or use your preferred pronouns? She can eat a sock, I’m your new pot smoking gay aunt and I voted for Bernie.

Your mom always mention how hard your “choices” on how you live your life have been on her and it feels like she has lost a child? Don’t worry about her, I’m your mom now and I will give you the biggest hug you’ve ever experienced into my bossom.

And you should know I’m proud of you for living your life as your true self, no matter what anyone else things. I love you and you are amazing for everything you are!

[nonbinarysasquatch]

If there’s one thing I’ll give 2017 over 2016, it’s that it’s kind of stunning that the year is mostly over? 

2016 felt like the year that would never die. 

2017 is a hectic nightmare that never slows down enough for you to be aware of the passage of time.

[taraljc]

accurate.