(warningg: i'm like rarely online anymore? idk life's been busy and.... i'll come back but i'm not very active atm.... but i still love y'all very very much and one day i'll be backk & throw a little party haha) (now i'm online again... i have my phases... idk guys)
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☆you can call me Aimee
☆my pronouns are she/her
Usage examples of personal pronouns and gender neutral language.
<- more detailed :)
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my interests: marauders, shadowhunters, heated rivalry and jup just random stuff, gimme stuff :)
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about mee: i'm a lesbian, a sagittarius and an infj..yayy
🎧 musicc
lana del rey <33, david bowie, queen, maisie peters, olivia rodrigo, chappell roan, lorde, conan gray, arctic monkeys, cigarettes after sex, renée rapp, girl in red, jenna raine and more
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english isn't my first language, i think i have a kinda solid level but yeahh..if i accidentally say something offensive or you don't understand me just tell me :)
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if you want to dm me absolutely just go ahead, i'm not scary i promise haha, just sometimes not online for a month sorryy
(please just don't be rude or creepy...)
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(a moodboard made by my lovely moot @cheekyboybeth - thank you soso muchh<33)
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dni (the usual but still saying it so it's clear)
- homophobes, transphobes, aphobes and in general any person who doesn't respect other peoples identity
- racists
- you don't believe in gender equality and are sexist? out.
- people who don't respect other people's boundaries and are creepy
- people who have really sexual content on their blogs or anything like that... (i don't care about a little bit but dni to absolute porn blogs and people who are creepy)
- if you are a trump and/or ice supporter get tf out (you already fall into other categories listed here but the more i say it the better)
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you've made it down here? you're a real one, thank you: here, take a star 🌟
I am a big defender of Shane not wanting to come out and one of the biggest reasons that I haven’t seen discussed much is how much worse it is to come out as a Gay Asian Bottom compared to coming out as a bisexual (white) man who is already regarded as a sex machine. Like Asian men are already overly feminized in the west. Shane’s general demeanor is subdued, he doesn’t drink or party often, and he abides by strict rules and a diet that already makes him an outsider. He doesn’t sleep around and has only has one public relationship with a woman under his belt, which ended very quickly. He’s the exact opposite of Ilya in all these ways and it puts him at a disadvantage. He has a “soft” image he spends his whole life actively opposing. His image is working against him; him being gay contributes to it and worsens it. Ilya’s image is working in his favor; being with a man is an anomaly OR further proof of his sexual prowess. And bc of Ilya’s well known history of sleeping around and generally aggressive attitude, it will be assumed he would be the top. Through a heteronormative lens, which is obviously the norm in hockey, that makes him the “man” in the relationship. If anything, his ability to “dominate” another man may bolster his image, make him even more of an “alpha male”. But being a bottom is seen as inherently demeaning and effeminate, thanks to misogyny, homophobia, and rape culture. The less bulky, quiet, shy man with a shocking lack of experience with woman is obviously the bottom (and this is even worse if they have the height and body differences canon to the books). Shane will be seen as weaker (and what could be worse than that in a contact sport like hockey). He’ll be viewed as the “woman” in the relationship, which is to say he will be viewed as inherently inferior. And draws further attention to the parts of him he’s tried to hide (aka autism symptoms) which will now be treated as further evidence of his sensitivity and otherness. Everything he does now is gay. But being with Shane is the only gay thing Ilya does. Without the threat of Russia, Shane has far more to lose from coming out imo. And his team’s reaction proves that. He deserves some grace.
i do think when ilya introduces shane and svetlana he’s so excited because yay they’re gonna talk about me and how sexy I am and good at fucking i am the entire time but WRONG they just talk about hockey all night long and shane and svetlana both have a hand on ilya touching him while the other hand is waving around when they talk and completely ignore ilya otherwise and ilya is like omg this is so boring but he actually is having the best night ever because his entire world is sitting on this couch with him nerding out over hockey and playing with his hair and fingers while they do it and he is just sitting there like 🥰
