??? my gay sideblog

Violet. this blog started because I was closeted on main; that's no longer the case, but I like running a sideblog. icon from rulerofthelimbo, header art by jessdrawz!

[gaytanic-panic]

[spookberry]

lowkey kinda hate how all the pride flags are just stripes, can we get some shapes up in here pls

[schnuffel-danny]

OK bisexual (czech)

[spookberry]

Hell yeah 🤙

[the-ghost-king]

Biczechual

[danlous]

And that's when you can decide if you want it back. Or you want something else.

[sillystigmata]

The twirl is lethal.

[charl0ttan]

parents get to be an indirect cause of like most if not all of your emotional and social issues and then when you bring it up to them theyre like oopsies i forgor about all that✨

[violagender]

re lrb it's so interesting to experience like. figuring out that sometimes things bother me and being able to act on that. like oh I just lived like this (uncomfortable) at a low-grade level forever and now (independent + self-aware) I don't have to. and what this looks like is that I am now more reactive to negative stimuli, which looks like I've gotten more sensitive to things, when what's happening is that I've gotten better at acting on the sensitivity I used to push through.

[zombblehh]

Shout out to the autistic who’s abilities have regressed as they’ve gotten older.

“You didn’t used to be like this when you were a kid.” I know please don’t remind me

[theconcealedweapon]

"This never bothered you when you were a kid."

Yes it did. I just let it slide because I was taught that I'm "too sensitive" anytime something bothered me. But now I'm finally standing up for myself.

"You never struggled with this when you were a kid."

Yes I did. I just burned myself out in order to do it so I wouldn't be punished. But now I'm accepting myself enough to not force myself to do what I was never meant to do.

[countessravengrey]

"You didn't have these problems when you were younger."

Yes, I did. I just spent my child/teen years with structured institutions like school while not having to worry about whether I had a roof over my head or food to eat and spent my early adult years using up every bit of adrenaline I will ever have to ignore the fact that I've been chronically burnt out my whole life.

[grrlmusic]

Minami Gessel

[antimanifesto1973]

in the back of the club observing gender relations

[myworldofelegance]

Pal Zileri Fall 2019 Menswear

source:TheImpression.com

Photo/Imaxtree

[rabbitkinglune777]

I love drawing my ocs doing anything

[raisinchallah]

i feel like im pretentious about repression or whatever like oh they can identify and name their repressed desires thats like the boring level one repression wheres the level of repression where they cant even begin to contemplate their own desires because contemplating them is a slippery slope to actually having desires which is a slippery slope to everything

[inktwiink]

normal girls

[rawftm]

if you stick your fingers in my mouth my brain shuts off

[fashion-runways]

Anok Yai attends the 2026 Met Gala celebrating "Costume Art" at the Metropolitan Museum of Art on May 04, 2026 in New York City. pls help me get out of debt donating to: ko-fi.com/fashionrunways or dinahlance-shop.fourthwall.com

[sbnkalny]

WEARING nothin but a bug earlier it was upsetting

[witheredgraphics]

kllsym on ig