VisceralAnemoia

[visceralanemoia]

WELCOME TO THE BACKROOMS...

My name is Vis or Anemoia, and I am an adult of 25 years of age. I have AuDHD, BPD, OCD, C-PTSD, and OSDD-4. I am suspected to have a derealization disorder as well. I'm a primarily traumagenic system with endo/willogenic components, and I hate sysmeds.

I am a polyamorous gay objectum demiboy who uses he/him/his pronouns exclusively. Second person pronouns are optional for me, I get euphoria either way! My AGAB is none of your business, bioessentialists and transandrophobes can fuck off this site forever. No you/yours misia is NOT allowed here, fuck off. I am a fierce ally.

I have no DNI, I block freely. The practicality of DNIs is they genuinely don't work. Curate your own online spaces. Want to learn more about me? Check out my pronouns.cc for more information on my identities, stances, and special interests!

My Sideblogs

Need to be coined.

My Tags

#visbarks - Posts with my commentary, or original posts. May be often paired with rehowls. #rehowls - Reblogs. More to come!

Dividers credits - top/bottom, middle.

[stormxphantomsrevenge]

Why is thoosie Tiktok genuinely so dramatic and miserable sometimes 😭

Is giving rollercoasters LGBTQ identities & personifying them harmful? NO.

[elliotcornball]

no way.. the name of the woodie in the back is exactly what's happening to asshole thoosie tt💔

[stormxphantomsrevenge]

i also got a death threat for being romantically attracted to a coaster

[visceralanemoia]

I didn't get a death threat, but I still did get threatened, intimidated, chastised, and chased out of the community for it.

It's half of the reason I'm so terrified of being open about which rollercoaster I'm romantically invested in.

I'm getting better about it now, and I'm actually able to mention his name without crippling fear of being found by the individual who threatened me over it.

Taron in Phantasialand is my boyfriend.

[boyhounds]

coming from somebody w a european last name that ppl have a hard time pronouncing (even though it really isnt that hard phonetically) + also a broadcast journalism student it is really not hard to correctly pronounce somebody's name. it is the least you could do

[visceralanemoia]

Because of my autism, I struggle pronouncing words even in my own language. If I had someone who would be willing to help me learn the pronunciation, I would be happy to do so.

Often times people get impatient, and refuse to help. I've seen this on countless occasions.

This is not an excuse for anything, just expressing that for people who have learning disabilities can find it more challenging to pronounce things correctly. This does not mean they are unwilling to try, it just means they need extra support to learn how to.

[kairithemang0-fm]

Reblog if you're transmasc, support trans men, or want a chocolate chip cookie

[visceralanemoia]

Transmasc, demiboy to be exact. With a couple of xenogenders sprinkled in for funsies. Not a fan of cookies though, I will take a peanut butter and chocolate milkshake though!

Of course I support trans men, and other transmascs!

[luminarycamille]

Selene is trolling you. Before being an account claiming to be transitioned, on hrt, and transfem (whose blog is full of tMRA posts, transmysogyny, and basically saying "I'm transfem and I'm not resorting to shitting on my trans brothers!" in every other comment and post) they made posts talking about how they're afab but feel transfem specifically because their gender is "bitch" (female wolf dog) and often claim to be a trans woman in online queer spaces so that their transness is taken seriously. Deleted those posts and rebranded ever since the discourse took off again. It's an active choice to seek out tags and harass ppl.

Well well well Selene. What say you to this?

[selene1311-n]

I say that's completely made up and absolutely fucking hilarious. I have my estrogen right here with me, as well as my progesterone, shall I take a pic of it?

[visceralanemoia]

What the fuck. OP and anon, y'all really need to get the fuck off of Tumblr, because what universe are y'all in? I know it ain't reality.

Um, I have followed Selene for a while now, and no where did I see any of this transmisogyny or "tRMA" bullshit that anon so freely spews. Of COURSE on ANON, so they don't get blasted. They know they're starting shit, why else do they need to hide?

OP, I am honestly sick and tired of you, because you are a two sided flaky asshole. The amount of times I saw your posts on my FYP is actually insane, and you need to do something better with your time.

Selene is a wonderful individual as are its packmates. Everyone who believes a word anon says say I'm sorry to Selene right now.

[vampirihound]

"the no you/your movement is getting out of hand! ☝️🤓" Idk why we're calling it a movement. It's just. People asking you to talk about them in third person. Yeah it's confusing yeah it's silly yeah it doesn't make sense but truly there are also way more important things to worry about and most of the people doing it are teenagers who will probably get over it as time goes on. If they don't that's their issue. But I also think it's a you issue if you give so much of a fuck you gotta post about how terrible it is #tbh. People IRL go "oh that's weird" and move on with their day

[noyou-rmisia]

This is no you/your misia (but he has the right spirit kinda)

No you/your actually isn't a new concept! At least in the part of the country I'm in we're taught in school how to write in first, second, and third person. This includes not using any you/your in some instances! You/your might be replaced with I/we/us/one/one's/oneself

I personally am not a teenager, and I don't use you/your for reasons related to autism/ADHD and well as fighting back against racism, micoragressions, and colonization. Ideas like this fail to recognize how diverse the community is and mimics transphobic/homophobic rhetoric that it's "just a phase"! If you are interested you can read more about why I personally don't use you/your: here

Open letter to people who think no you/your is "dumb" or "ridiculous"

Why might someone not want to use you/your?

Why does anti no you/your sentiments have roots in racism and ableism?

Debunking misinformation and arguments about no you/your

What you're actually saying when you ignore someone's pronouns

Would people know I'm talking to them?

Not using you/your challenges one's brain to find new ways to refer to someone- such as using "the owner of this blog" "小鬼" "xy" "noyou-rmisia blog" "this blog/blogger". This actually ties into a post I would like to make about how language shapes our perspective. All of these are different ways of describing me that depends on how someone views me and this blog! It challenges people to think carefully about how to address someone, what they perceive about a person, how to communicate & find shared language between two individuals, and more! Meaning if a person feels seen and acknowledged by the words using to describe them, the message will be received.

I am also happy to answer any questions as well !

[visceralanemoia]

Not using you/yours isn't silly, weird, or a phase. 小鬼 explained it far better than I ever could, but they are to be respected. Like any other pronoun. Instead of brushing it off as being a thing teenagers do, perhaps reflect. Understand what the ideology that is being spit is really about. It's just repackaged transphobic rhetoric disguised as progressive exclusion.

OP of this post, I really hope that you take the time to read what 小鬼 has shared, and understand the real reasonings behind folks who don't use second person pronouns.

I am neutral on second person pronouns. Call me you/yours, or don't, I get euphoria either way. But people like 小鬼 do not. Respect xym and xyr wishes, that is the real way to being progressive.

[visceralanemoia]

Everyone get more normal about objectum NOW!!! Stop calling it a paraphilia, unless you are objectum yourself, and using it for yourself. Stop thinking it's just a fetish, stop thinking it's purely sexual, stop thinking it's psychosis induced, stop thinking objectum suddenly means no attraction to organics, stop being weird about objectums NOW!!!

Objectum can be present in any attraction and relationship type that exists. Romantic, sexual, familial, alterous, platonic, sensual, aesthetic, and more!! You don't have to be POSIC+ or animist to be objectum. You don't have to perceive your objects as sentient to be objectum. You don't need to be sexually attracted to your objects to be objectum. Just having attraction to them is enough.

Objectum is an IDENTITY, a LABEL, it's not just one thing. It's a beautiful experience, but it can be hard in a capitalistic and closed minded world.

[sophoid]

everybody report this user they doxxed a kid for being bisexual

https://www.tumblr.com/4nt1n0us

[visceralanemoia]

Yeahhh, reported. No way this individual actually created a whole blog dedicated to making another person's life miserable for simply having a preference. I don't care how old you are, doxxing someone else is never okay.

[litttleprincess-deactivated2017]

Don't ever hesitate. Reblog this. TUMBLR RULE. When you see it, REBLOG IT.

[trappedinmyoldways]

Depression Hotline: [phone]

Suicide Hotline: [phone]

LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386

Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743

Eating Disorders Hotline: [phone]

Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673

Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272

Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253

If you ever want to talk, my ask box is always open

[jaydove-writes]

Please reblog this. I don’t care what your blog’s theme or aesthetic is. This is important.

[causalshapeshifter]

For the love of whatever you believe in,

[visceralanemoia]

So.. about life getting better.

When exactly does it again?

[peri]

digital selfharm is real. do NOT check up on that ex-partner/ex-friend. do NOT reread those old messages/conversations that you know will hurt your feelings all over again or that will otherwise make you feel like shit. do NOT block evade to see if you’re being talked about. inhale. exhale. let it pass and you’ll be better for it.

[visceralanemoia]

Terrible for this shit, it's almost instinctual for me. I am getting therapy though, so, I'm hoping that will help..

It is way too long overdue..

[nudityandnerdery]

Beautiful, no notes. (Found it on Facebook, tracked it back to Reddit)

[transfemme-shelterdog]

PLS get therapy. in a loving way. this isnt healthy or normal.

Being trans comes with thoughts and feelings that aren't necessarily "healthy" and "normal" anon

It's called dysphoria.

[trans-masc-kirby]

@ anon - as someone who's both an actual therapist AND is trans - what pup is experiencing is definitely a pretty typical part of the trans experience

We don't need to pathologize (well not any further than what the healthcare system already does) the concept of gender dysphoria. Also it's pup's blog, so pup can choose to share those thoughts and feelings if pup so chooses

[transfemme-shelterdog]

Also, pretty sure of all the people on here, you know me almost as well as my husband does too.

[trans-masc-kirby]

I'm flattered (also you can vouch for my profession as you know me IRL) 💜

[transfemme-shelterdog]

That I can.

[selene1311-n]

idk if you don't wanna be called a TERF, then don't be a TERF.

It's a descriptive term that tells you exactly what not to be; don't be a radical feminist, and don't exclude trans people.

If you're into TME/TMA bullshit, then you're being a radical feminist, and excluding trans people; and that's literally the entire acronym so idk what to tell you.

[visceralanemoia]

Selene and their pack sharing only the best takes once again. 👏🏻

[depsidase]

[honey-moon-kitty]

Its really not hard to just. Put it in your bio

Christ, y'all want to clutch your gender binary so bad.

[visceralanemoia]

Hey, anon, it's also not hard to just... Ask people their pronouns instead of forcing them to do something that they aren't comfortable with, or don't want.

Or have you forgotten to use your language for something meaningful other than spouting absolute fucking bullshit?

[solacryptic]

I've been off of Tumblr for a good while, and coming back and then encountering recent trans discourse... like what the fuck happened?

I'd always been familiar with transfeminist and transmasc-feminist discourse but my IRL connections and even some online spaces seemed absent of the kind of animosity that Tumblr has had recently...

I do see anti-transmasculinity play out in IRL queer spaces in very subtle ways , and I've always been critical of cultural feminism (i.e. the belief that femininity represents an ontological good and masculinity ontological evil) in the larger queer community, but the amount of trans women on here that say the most vile things imaginable about trans men in the most misogynystic manners possible... and the increasing mistrust in trans women by trans men as a result, it's genuinely heartbreaking.

Like I saw a post from a trans man saying he doesn't like or trust trans women by default because we're prone to anti-transmasculinity, this kind of tension is absolutely foreign to me as someone who's been in the community for 11 years and it makes me think about how patient all the trans men I've known have been, and makes me sad because I thought we'd be better than cis folk, that we wouldn't devolve into such sectarianism.

[visceralanemoia]

I am not scared of trans women or transfems as a whole, but I am wary of many. There are a few transfems I follow who are highly against transandrophobia, and stand up for trans men and fellow transmascs. Good ones are out there, they always have been, and always will be.

I don't blanket statement anymore, because it does nothing but cause divide, hurt, and offence. Of course, I am only one transmasc out of hundreds on the internet, including Tumblr.

Irregardless, I may be wary for the fact that a lot of trans women and transfems on Tumblr are transandrophobic, but I don't fear either group as a whole. I love my trans woman sisters, and transfem sisters/siblings.

Shoutout to @transfemme-shelterdog and @selene1311-f for being in the corner of trans men and transmascs. I will always be here for my community, no matter where their origins come from.